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1、1 TEDIt'sonethingtoworkup（激发）theconfidencetowritehonestlyaboutyourexperienceswithlove,butitisanotherthingtodiscoverthatyourlovelifehasmadeinternationalnews.2 Themomentyouadmittolovingsomeone,youadmittohavingalottolose.3 Soratherthanthatquestion,Iwouldproposeweasksomemoredifficultquestions,questi

2、onslike:Howdoyoudecidewhodeservesyourloveandwhodoesnot?Howdoyoustayinlovewhenthingsgetdifficult,andhowdoyouknowwhentojustcutandrun?Howdoyoulivewiththedoubtthatinevitablycreepsintoeveryrelationship,orevenharderhowdoyoulivewithyourpartner'sdoubt?Idon'tnecessarilyknowtheanswerstothesequestions,

3、butIthinkthey'reanimportantstartathavingamorethoughtfulconversationaboutwhatitmeanstolovesomeone.1Whatstruck（strike使震惊，使迷住）mewasthatI.Q.wasnottheonlydifferenceGritispassionandperseveranceforverylong-termgoals.Gritishavingstamina（恒心）.Gritisstickingwithyourfuture,dayin,dayout,notjustfortheweek,not

4、justforthemonth,butforyears,andworkingreallyhardtomakethatfutureareality.Gritislivinglifelikeit'samarathon,notasprint（短跑）（表达）Infact,inourdata,gritisusuallyunrelatedoreveninverselyrelatedtomeasuresoftalent.毅力通常与其他因素无关，甚至与才华的衡量标准背道而驰。growthmindsetWeneedtotakeourbestideas,ourstrongestintuition,andw

5、eneedtotestthem.Weneedtomeasurewhetherwehavebeensuccessful,andwehavetobewillingtofail,tobewrong,juststartoveragainwiththelessonlearned.Inotherwords,weneedtobegrittyaboutgettingourkidsgrittier.Stagefright怯场cerebralpalsy脑瘫C.P.ourobstaclescanonlydotwothings:one,stopusinourtracksortwo,forceustogetcreati

6、ve.theyforcedmetorelyonmyimaginationandtobelieveinthepossibilities,andthat'swhyibelievethatourimaginationscanbeusedastoolsforbreakingthroughborders.becauseinourminds,wecandoanythingandwecanbeanything.it'sbelievinginthosedreamscanfacingourfearsheadonthatallowsustoliveourlivesbeyondourlimitsbo

7、rdersarewheretheactualendsbutalsowheretheimaginationandthestorybegins.sothethoughtthatI'dliketochallengeyouwithtodayisthatmaybeinsteadoflookingatourchallengesandlimitationsassomethingnegativeorbad,wecanbegintolookatthemasblessings,magnificentgiftsthatcanbeusedtoigniteourimaginationsandhelpusgofu

8、rtherthanweeverknewwecouldgo.it'snotaboutbreakingdownborders,it'saboutpushingoffofthemandseeingwhatamazingplacestheymightbringusIfyourlifewereabook,andyouweretheauthor,howwouldyouwantyourstorytogo?梦想这玩意都是说出来让人笑话的，做起来让人看着疯狂的，成功后让人闭嘴的东西。Passionisyourgreatestlove.Passion,interest-it'snotthe

9、samething.You'reafraidtopursueyourpassion.You'reafraidtolookridiculous.You'reafraidtotry.You'reafraidyoumayfail.Education做自己想做的人，不要做他们想让你成为的人。不要接受他们的奴役，因为你的母亲让你来世上，给了你自由。Bewhoyouwanttobe,notwhotheywantyoutobe,don'taccepttheirenslavement,foryourmotherbirthedyoufree.Someofouroctoge

10、nariancouplescouldbickerwitheachotherdayinanddayout（天天地）,butaslongastheyfeltthattheycouldreallycountontheotherwhenthegoinggottough,thoseargumentsdidn'ttakeatoll（造成损失；产生负面影响）ontheirmemories.thoseall-too-commonfamilyfeuds（家庭不和）takeaterribletollonthepeoplewhoholdthegrudges（道路艰难，唯勇者行）英谚Whenthegoingg

11、etstough,thetoughgetgoing.SpeechI'dliketoclosewithaquote/kwot/fromMarkTwain.Morethanacenturyago,hewaslookingbackonhislife,andhewrotethis:"Thereisn'ttime,sobriefislife,forbickerings,apologies,heartburnings,callingstoaccount.Thereisonlytimeforloving,andbutaninstant,sotospeak,forthat."

12、;Thegoodlifeisbuiltwithgoodrelationships.Thankyou.AndthisisconsistentacrossFinland,theU.S.andChina,andistrueregardlessofhowmuchyouactuallyweigh.SpeechButhowdowedothat?Well,talking,onitsown,onlygetsyousofar.It'snotenoughbyitself.Ifyouactuallywanttomakeadifference,youhavetodosomething.Now,thegoodn

13、ewsisthattherearemanyprogramsoutthereavailabletodothis.Thebadnewsisthatmostofthemdon'twork.Wehavetohelpourteenagersdevelopstrategiestoovercomeimage-relatedpressuresandbuildtheirself-esteem.Itisnotokaythatwejudgethecontributionofourpoliticiansbytheirhaircutsorthesizeoftheirbreasts,ortoinferthatth

14、edeterminationorthesuccessofanOlympianisdowntohernotbeingalooker.Weneedtostartjudgingpeoplebywhattheydo,notwhattheylooklike.Andletmeaskyou,whenwasthelasttimethatyoukissedamirror?Ultimately,weneedtoworktogetherascommunities,asgovernmentsandasbusinessestoreallychangethiscultureofourssothatourkidsgrowu

15、pvaluingtheirwholeselves,valuingindividuality,diversity,inclusion.Andlet'sworktogetherascommunities,fromgrassrootstogovernments,sothatthehappylittleone-year-oldsoftodaybecometheconfidentchangemakersoftomorrow.Let'sdothis.(Applause)|TwentysomethingslikeAlexandIhadnothingbuttime.whichmeansthat

16、whateveritisyouwanttochangeaboutyourself,nowisthetimetochangeit.it'satimewhenyourordinary,day-to-daylifehasaninordinateimpactonwhoyouwillbecome"我那会在做什么？我那会在想什么？""WhatwasIdoing?WhatwasIthinking?"如何爱与被爱Ifwecanbegintomakeanefforttoloveandbelovedwithoutanyconditions,wewillbringaw

17、holenewlevelofmeaningtoourrelationshipsandtoourexperience.Picturethesun.AuthorAnthonydeMello(安东尼德梅洛)Writes,“HastheSuneversaidtotheEarth:youoweme.Lookwhathappenstoalovelikethat.Itlightsupthewholesky.'只需专注十分钟wecan'tchangeeverylittlethingsthathappenstousinlife.butwecanchangethewaythatweexperien

18、ceit.权利一直在你的手上，只是有人骗你说你没有，而且你从不怀疑。去把届丁你的找出来，认出来，然后用它去创造所有你想要的。如何成为一个更好的交谈者？Everyoneyouwillevermeetknowssomethingyoudon't.Everybodyisanexpertinsomething.做勇敢的女孩IsworeIwasgoingtowin.Now,beforeyougetthewrongidea,thisisnotatalkabouttheimportanceoffailure.Norisitaboutleaningin.ItellyoustoryabouthowIrunforcongress.ItwasthefirsttimeinmyentirelifethatIhaddonesomethingthatwastrulybrave.Inotherwords,weareraisingourgirlstobeperfectandweareraisingourboy