stepbystep3000第二册1到5答案解析和原文

1、Unit1PartI-A87,80,53,48,24,17Script:ThePorterFamilyMrWilliamPorterisveryold.Heis87.AndMrsCatherinePorteris80.MrPorterisfromWales.JohnPorterandMaryarebrotherandsister.JohnPorteris53andheisalawyer.HiswifeSusanis48,andsheisanarchitect.JamesPorterandJoanLeearecousins.JamesPorteris24andJoanLeeis17.1. Par

2、tI-Bspendingspecialtimetogether.2. specific,complainrequest,praise.3. fatigue,insecurities,foxhole,strikingout,protect.distantallmarriages,WorktogetherounderstandRespect,danger,professional,physical,verbalUnderstand,winPartI-C40,excel,domesticargument,losingwin-win,lose-lose,win,agift,returnsargueov

3、er,aren't,who,incontrol,fear,didn'tneed,oughtnotto,couldn't,triedto,destroy,marriagelove,loved,secure,discover,garden,cultivate,themostprecious,ownself,bloom.obtain,ourpartner,lovedandrespected,control.1. PartII-AA2similarsocialbackgrounds.2. thesameraceorsameethnicbackground.3. thesamer

4、eligion.A3Japan/9.2%/arrangedmarriages3%/betweenblacksandwhitesManypeopleinWesterncultureschoosetheirownwivesandhusbands.Inmanyothercountries,spouseareoftenchosenbytheparents.InChinaandJapanbeforethiscentury(20thcentury),upper-classmarriageswerearrangedbytheoldermales.InmanyculturesintheMiddleEast,A

5、sia,andpre-industrialEurope,theman'sfamilynegotiateda"brideprice"withthewoman'sfamily;theman'sfamilywasexpectedtopayit.InHinduIndia,thebride'sfamilypaida"groom'sprice"tothefamilyoftheman.Thesecustomsareweakening;forintance,only9.2percentofJapanesemarriagesaren

6、owarranged.Whatarethecriteriaforchoosingmates?Mostmarriages-whetherarrangedbyfamiliesoroccurringfrompersonalattractionorlove-arebasedonsimilarsocialbackgrounds.Inotherwords,themanandthewomancomefromthesamesocialclass(orelseaclassthatisonlyslightlyhigherorslightlower).AmongmanypeopleinEgypt,keymember

7、softheman'sfamilymustgotothefamilyofthewomanandproposemarriage.Thesefamilymembersmustbeabletoshowthattheman'sfamilyisatleastofthesamesocialclassasthewomanandthatacertainamountofmoneyexiststoallowthemarriagetogoforward.Havingthesameraceorthesameethnicbackgroundisthesecondmaincriterionformarri

8、agethroughouttheworld.IntheU.S,.Wheretherearemanydifferentraces,only3percentofallmarriagesarebetweenblacksandwhites,meaningthattheracesarestilllargelyseparateinmarriage.Inmanycountries,marriageisalsobasedonthewomanandmanhavingthesamereligion;thisisathirdcommoncriterionforchoosingamate.Incultureinwhi

9、chreligionisverystrongvalue,marriageswouldoftennottakeplaceiftherewerereligiousdifferences.1. PartII-Bphysicalappearanee;whatsomebodylookslike,.,lookbeyondthephysicalappearaneethehighpercentageofdivorces.fallinglovewithsomebody,.，lovingsomebodyScript:Whatdoyouthinkitisthatattractspeopletoeachother,t

10、hatmakespeoplewanttobetogether?Ithinkthatperhapsunfortunatelyintheinitialstagesit'sthephysicalappearaneethatattracts.Ithinkuniessyoufindsomebodyattractive,uniessthere'ssomethingaboutthem-itcouldonlyperhapsbethewaytheysmileortheylaugh,oratwinkleintheireye,orthewayofacurlfallsovertheirforehead

11、.Butsomethinglikethathastomakeyouinterestedenoughtofindoutmoreaboutthatperson,uniessthat'sthereIthinkyoujustdon'tbother.SoinitiallyphysicalattractionIthinkisallimportant.Whydoyousay"unfortunately"?Becauseinfactitshouldn'tbewhatsomebodylookslikethatisimportant.Youshouldbeabletol

12、ookbeyondhephysicalappearaneeandseewhatsortofapersonheorsheis,whethertheyareselfishorselfless,whethertheyarekind,earing.ButIthinkinitiallyyouarenotbotheredwiththat.Thatcomeperhapslater.Inpopsongsandmagazinesandnewspapersandsonon,theideaoffallingloveinsalwaysemphasized,sopeoplehavethisideathatyouhave

13、tofallinlove.Doyouthinkthisismisleadingforpeople?Doyouthinkpeopleexpectsomethingthatinfactdoesn'texist?Yes,Ido.InfactIthinkwecanprobablylaytheblameforthehighpercentageofdivorce-it'sathirdIthinknow,isn'tit?Ithinkoneinthreepeoplegetdivorced.ProbablyasfarasIcanseeit,thereasonisthattheygoint

14、omarriageorintoarelationshipwithaveryromanticviewoflovewhichIthinkhasbeencreatedbythepopsongs,byallthelovestores,bytheBarbaraCartlandnovels,etc.,thatyoungpeopleread.Really,youmeetsomeone,youfallinlove,andthat'sit.,it'sthebeginning,theylivehappilyevenafter.AndIthinkthat'stheproblem,becaus

15、epeoplejustexpectthat,andit'snotlikethat.Sowhatisit,doyouthink,thatreallysustainsarelationship,thatkeepsarelationshipgoing?Well,Ithinkyouhavetodifferentiatebetweenfallinginlovewithsomebody,whichIseeasmoresuperficial,andlovingsomebody,whichIseeasadeeperemotionandonethatperhapslasts.Fallinginlovei

16、ssuperficialattraction,beingattractedtosomebodyphysically,havingfuntogether,whereaslovingsomebodyIthinkisanemotionthatgrows,itcomeswithsharedexperiences,perhapsenjoyingdoingthesamethingstogether,sharedhobbies,sharedinterests,sufferingtogetheraswell,goingthroughthebadtimes,helpingeachother,supporting

17、eachother.Ithinkallthatneedstimetogrow,andI'dcallthatlove,andIthinkthat'swhatmakesarelationshiplast.PartII-Coneofthebiggestdecisionstheywillmakeinlife,asthe"just-right"wifeforhim,definitionofwhatthe"just-right"wifeis,themillionairemanandthepoorman,herphysicalqualities,dif

18、ferentwords,byherphysicalqualities,intwodifferentatmospheres,alsohavetheirdefinitionofthe"just-right"wife,theGermanman'sdefinitionisdifferentfromtheSpanishman's.Script:PartIIIAbaseballdiamondfrizzlyhair/glasses/funny/monologueAwinebarpizzaAfancy-dresspartythemandressedasCheshireCat

19、Outsideacinemacoincidenee/he'dalsomissedthefilmAboat/theriverbankfellinriver/hedivedinandrescuedherScript:Kate:Iwasonmywayhomefromjuniorhighandinordertogettomyhouseyouhavetowalkbythisbaseballdiamond.Andtherewasagameofbaseballgoingonanditlookedkindofinteresting,soIstopped.Thereweren'tverymany

20、peoplewatching.Andtherewasthisguyandhewasn'treallyverygood-looking,buthehadfrizzlyhairandglassesandhewasreallyfunny.Hedidthiskindofmonologuething,whichwargreat.AndIwenthomeandItoldmymotherIwasgoingtomarryhimaftertalkingtohimforhalfanhour.AndwhenIgottohighschool,hewaspresidentofthestudentbodyandh

21、easkedmeoutand.we'vegotourpictureintheyearbooktogetherholdinghands,andit'sreallynice.Ke:Well,rdarrangedtohaveadrinkwithafriendofmine,awomarfriendofminewho'saplatonicfriendofmine.AndsheinsistedonbringingthisfriendofherswhoshesaidrdliketomeetandIthoughtshewastryingtofixusupandIsaid,"P

22、leasedon't!"Butshedidbringthisfriendandwehititoff.Andafterthewinebarwewenttohaveapizzaandweallhadafewmoredrinksandtheotherwomanwhoendeduporderingapizzathathadabunchofstuffonitthatshereallyliked,sowepickedateachother'spizzasallnightandwerealizedthatweweresortofhadanidealrelationship,soth

23、atwecouldorderreallyanypizzaonthemenuandwe'dbothbehappy.Andanywayweendeduplivingtogetherandstillare.Coralyn:Wemetatapartyanditwasfancy-dressparty.Afriendofmine'stwenty-firstanditwasquitebigandIwentdressedasAliceinWonderlandandthisperson,thisguythatImarriedwasdressedastheCheshireCat.Anditjust

24、seemedsoamazingthat,youknow,wewerebothfromthesamethingandwestartedchattingandendedupbeingtogether.Jill:I'darrangedtogotothecinemawithagroupoffriendsandunfortunatelyImissedthetrainthatwouldhavegotmetostandingoutside-thefilmhadstarted.SoIwasn'tallowedin.Andtherewasachapoutside,he'dalsomiss

25、edthefilmandwestartedtotalkandwetalkedquiteabitandhesaid,"Let'sgodowntheroadandseethatfilm,becausethatonehasn'tstartedattheOdeon."Sowewentdownthereandwe'vebeengoingouteversince!Carole:IfirstmetmypartnerwhenhewasonaboatandIwasontheriverbank,standingandlookinggenerallyintothedist

26、aneeandhewascomingintolandwithhisboatandhethrewmearopeandsaid,"Wouldyoumindcatchingthis?"andIcaughtitandmissedandtrippedoveritandfellintheriverandhehadtodiveinandrescueme.Andthatwasit!PartIVBook,choked,disappointment,takeyoutodinner,tolerantsmile,wentby,rose,bigrestaurant,test,understandan

27、dadmireScript:JohnBlanchardstoodupfromthebench,straightenedhisarmyuniform,andstudiedthecrowdofpeoplemakingtheirwaythroughGrandCentralStation.Helookedforthegirlwhoseheartheknew,butwhosefacehedidn't,thegirlwiththerose.HisinterestinherhadbegunthirteenmonthsbeforeinFloridalibrary.Takingabookoffthesh

28、elfhefoundhimselfintrigued,notwiththewordsofthebook,butwiththenotespenciledinthemargin.Thesofthandwritingreflectedathoughtfulsoulandinsightfulmind.Inthefrontofthebook,hediscoveredthepreviousowner'sname,MissHollisMaynell.Withtimeandefforthelocatedheraddress.ShelivedinNewYorkCity.Hewroteheraletter

29、introducinghimselfandinvitinghertocorrespond.ThenextdayhewasshippedoverseasforserviceinWorldWarthroughthemail.Eachletterwasaseedfallingonafertileheart.Aromaneewasbudding.Blanchardrequestedaphotograph,butsherefused.Shefeltthatifhereallycared,itwouldn'tmatterwhatshelookedlike.Whenthedayfinallycome

30、forhimtoreturnfromEurope,theyscheduledtheirfirstmeeting-7:00p.m.AttheGrandHotelStationinNewYork."Youwillrecognizeme,"shewrote,"bytheredroserilbewearingonmylapel."Soat7:00hewasinthestationlookingforagirlwhoseheartheloved,butwhosefacehe'dneverseen.I'IIletMrBlanchardtellyouw

31、hathappened.Ayoungwomanwascomingtowardme,herfigurelongandslim.Herblondehairlaybackincurlsfromherdelicateears.Hereyeswereasblueflowers.Herlipsandchinhadagentlefirmness,andinherpalegreensuitshewaslikespringtimecomingalive.Istartedtowardher,entirelyforgettingtonoticethatshewasnotwearingarose.AsImoved,a

32、small,provocativesmilecurvedherlips."Goingmyway,sailor?"shemurmured.AlmostuncontrollablyImadeonestepclosertoher,andthenIsawHolllisMaynell.Shewasstandingalmostdirectlybehindthegirl.Awomanwellpast40,shehadgrayinghairtuckedunderawornhat.Shewasmorethanplump,herthick-ankledfeetthrustintolow-hee

33、ledshoes.Thegirlinthegreensuitwaswakingquicklyaway.IfeltasthoughtIwassplitintotwo,sokeenwasmydesiretofollowher,andyetsodeepwasmylongingforthewomanwhosespirithadtrulycompanionedmeandupheldmyown.Andthereshestood.Herpaleplumpfacewasgentleandsensible,hergrayeyeshadawarmandkindlytwinkle.Ididnothesitate.M

34、yfingersgrippedthesmallwornblueleathercopyofthebookthatwastoidentifymetoher.Thiswouldnotbelove,butitwouldbesomethingprecious,somethingperhapsevenbetterthanlove.Unit2ShapingandreshapingpersonalityPartI-A1-h,2-d,3-j,4-k,5-b,6-i,7-g,8-e,9-l,10-f,11-c,12-aTapescript:1. TaurusApril21-May12,isrepresentedb

35、yabull.2. Virgoisrepresentedbyayoungwoman.3. Capricornbyagoat.4. Piscesbytwofish.5. Aquariusbythewater-bearer.6. LeobyalionCancerbyacrabAriesbyaramGeminibytwinsSagitarusbyacentaurshooinganarrowScorpiobyascorptionLibrabyapairofmeasuringscales.PartI-BVery,notvery,extremely,sortof,veryTapescript:W:Hey,

36、Kevin.Helpmefilloutthispersonalitysurvey.It'llbefun.M:Oh,Idon'tknow.W:Oh,comeon.Ok,here'sthefirstone-whatshouldIputfor"aggressive"?M:Oh,I.I'dsay"very".W:Very?Really?M:Yeah,sure.Lookatthewayyoudrive!W:Well,Ok,sormaveryaggressivedriver.But.Youhavetodrivelikethatinth

37、iscity,oryou'regonnabehit,because.M:Uh,.What'sthenextone?W:"Selfish".M:Oh,notatall.W:Really?Well.Maybejustalittle.Imean,alotofpeopleare,right?Justalittlebit?Youknow,Imean,ItrytothinkofotherbutsometimesIdojustthinkofmyself,Iguess.M:Ok,Ok,soput"notvery."W:OK.M:Butyoucanput&

38、quot;extremely"forthenextone.W:What?Oh,"kind"?M:Yes.Don'tyouthinkyouareanextremelykindperson?W:Iam?Ok,ifyousayso.Oh,looktthisnextone.W:Yeah.M:Hmm.Idon'tknow.Sometimesyoucanbereallypatient,butothertimesyouarenotpatientatall.Likerememberthattimeinlineatthesupermarketwhenyougot.W

39、:Ok,ok,Igetyourpoint.门Iput"sortof"/.M:Ok,that'sright.W:Nextone."jealous".IguessIamsortofjealous.people,whenmyM:Sortof?rdput"very".Rememberhowangryyougotex-girlfriendcalledtheotherday?Irememberyouaregonnaraisetheroof.W:Allright,allright,"Very".PartI-CAmbiti

40、ousandproudHelpfulandhonestSelfishandunreliableTapescript:GeorgeW:Sowhatareyougoingtodoafteryougraduates,George?G:rmgoingtostartmyownbusiness.W:Oh,really?Whattypeofbusiness?G:Well,Ihaven'tdecidedyet,butIknowrilbesuccessfulinanythingIdo.Infact,Iamgoingtobeoneofthetopbusinesspeopleintowninlessthan

41、fiveyears.Justwaitandsee!Ihaveeverythingittakes-Iamsmart,Icanorganizepeople.AndIamfullofideasthatcanmakemoney.KarenK:Hey!Lookatthiswalletonthesidewalk.Wow!There'slotofmoneyinit.Butnoidentification.Mmm.1wonderhowIcanfindtheowner?IguessIwilltakeittothepolicestationandseeifanyonehasreportedalostwal

42、let.PamM:Whatareyoudoingtonight,Pam?P:Well,IwassupposedtomeetBillafterworkforamovie,butIdon'tfeellikegoing.IthinkIwillgoshoppinginstead.M:Won'tBillgetmad?P:Oh,Iamsurehecanfindsomethingelsetodo.M:Oh?P:Besides,Ireallyneedsomenewclothes.Ihaven'tboughtanyfornearlyamonth!M:Huh!PartIIYoungboys

43、Measuretheboys'abilitiesandhowtheyfeltabouttheirownabilities;Threegroups-thosewithhighself-esteem/middleself-esteem/lowself-esteemInallsituation-athome/atwork/inschool/withfriendsActive/abletoexpressideas/successfulinschoolandinrelationswithotherpeople/creative/ledindiscussions/interestedinworld

44、problems/seldomtiredorsickLiketheboyswithhighself-esteem/expressideasfreely/sawtheworldasagoodandhappyplace/notsureoftheirownvalueSadmosttime/afraidtostartactivities/feltnolove/couldn'texpressideas/afraidofanger/notalkindiscussionclosenessgoodbehaviorb.almostanythingdefinite,strict,kindandthough

45、tfulc.nodefiniterewardsd.harshpunishmentdemocratic,respectedimportanee,takenawayf.didn'tlovethemTapescript:Scientistshavelearnedagreatdealaboutthepartsofbrainandtheirfunctions.Theyhavealsostudiedthedevelopmentofthepersonality,forexample,howababylearnstolove.InrecentstudiesattwouniversitiesintheU

46、nitedStates,scientistshaveinvestigatedthedevelopmentofself-esteem.Self-esteemistherespectapersonhasforhimself,hisbeliefinhisabilityandinthevalueofwhathedoes.Thescientistsstudiedself-esteeminyoungboys.Theygavethemmanytests.Thesetestmeasuredtheboys'abilitiesandalsohowtheyfeltabouttheirownabilities

47、.Afterthetests,theboysweredividedintothreegroups-thosewithhigh-esteem,thosewithmiddle-esteemandthosewithloveself-esteem.Thescientistcontinuedtostudytheboysinallsituations.Theystudiedthemathome,atwork,inschool,andwiththeirfriends.Fromtheirstudies,thescientistsmadesomeobservations.Boyswithhighself-est

48、eemwereactive.Theywereabletoexpresstheirideas.Theyweresuccessfulinschoolandintheirrelationswithotherpeople.Indiscussions,theyled.Theydidn'tjustlisten.Theywereinterestedinworldproblems.Theywerecreativeandbelievedthattheycouldfinishwhatevertheystarted.Theyseldombecametiredorsick.Inmanyways,theboys

49、withmiddleself-esteemwereliketheboyswithhighself-esteem.Theytooexpressedtheirideasfreelyandsawtheworldasagoodandhappyplace.However,theywerenotsureoftheirownvalueaspeople.Theydidtheirbestworkwhentheyweresurethatotherpeoplelikedthem.Theboyswithlowself-esteemweredifferentfromtheothertwogroups.Theyweres

50、admostofthemtime.Theywereafraidtostartactivities.Theyfeltthatnoonelovedthem.Theycouldnotexpresstheirideas.Theywereafraidofanger.Inadiscussion,theylistened,buttheydidn'ttalk.Thescientistsasked,"Howdosomeboysdevelophighself-esteem?":"Whatisdifferentintheirlives?"Someoftheanswer

51、sweresurprising.Highself-esteemdidnotdependuponphysicalappearanee,ormoney,orsizeoffamily.Itdidnotdependuponhowmuchthemotherwasathome.Thescientistsfoundthattherewasaclosenessbetweentheboyswithhighself-esteemandtheirparents.Theirparentsshowedrealinterestinthem,andspendtimewithtime.Theylistenedtotheirs

52、onsandgavethemhelpwhentheboysaskedforit.Theyknewtheirsons'friends.Thesonknewthattheywereimportanttotheirparents.Theseparentsdemandedgoodbehavior.Theymaddefiniterules.Theywerestrict,butnotharsh.feelbetteraboutthemselves.Inthisway,thesechildrencanbecomeproductivecitizenstoo.PartIII-ASad,temporary,

53、long,sufferfrommental,Anyone,ten,developing,80percent,drugs,effective,carefullyWithout,activity,minor,walking,30,four,improve,physical,traditional,hour,talking,doctors,Discussion,ways,problemsEducation,understand.PartIII-B1Joyous,warm,lovingManifestangerventangeronsomebodyDumpangerTapescriptSpeaker1

54、Iactuallyveryrarelygetanger.vequitealongtetherwhenitcomestoanger,whichdoesn'tmean,Ireallydon'tbelievermsuppressinganyangeratall,butitmanifestitselfinaverysarcasticwaywithme.Likeifforexample,ifI'mbuyingarailwayticketorsomethingandtheguybehindthecounterisverysurlyandyounowrefusestotreatmel

55、ikeahumanbeing,Iwon'tgetangrywithhimbutrilgetverysarcasticwithhimandtrytomakeveryverycleverremarks.Andthatformeseversitspurpose.Idofeelcleansedafterasituationlikethat.OfcourseIdosometimes,ifit'sabsolutelynecessaryIdogetveryangry,ifrmtakenthatfar.ButIcertainlydon'tsuppressanyanger.Speaker

56、2Well,myangeristiedupwithmysleeplessnights.Imean,ifIdonnotsleepwell,Iwakeupinthemorning,Iamangry.Iuseanyexcusetoventmyangeronanybody.IfIsleepwell,theneverythingisfine.rmajoyous,warm,lovingperson.Sleeplessnights,I'mfullofangerandmyangerdoesnotebbawayuniessIuseathingorsomebodytoventitupon.Asweakas

57、thatmaysound,that'showIwork.Andit'sterriblesortofadmissiontomaketoeverybodyhere.Ifrmlookingforexcusesforhavingwokenupinaparticularlybadway,inaway,angerissomethingthatIhavetogetout.Idonotcarryitaroundbyweeping,andlikecrying.Ibelieveindumpingit.PartIII-B1PunchbagswithpicturesoftheirbossLaughin

58、gatit.Tapescript:A:Apparently,Idon'tknowifthisistrue,butinJapan,iffactoryworkersgetabituptightorangry,theycangooutintothegymorsomethingwhichisusuallyattachedtothefactoryandtherearepunchbagswithpicturesoftheirboss.Andtheycangoandtheycanspendtwentyminutespunchinghelloutofthispunchbag.Andtheygoback

59、toworkandtheyfeelgreat.B:Oh,Godyes,well,thatbringsusontolaughingthen.Thatmademelaugh.C:Wellthat'sonewayofdealingwithangeraswell,Isuppose,ifyoucanactuallyremoveyourselffromthesituationandjustlaughatit.Ithinklaughterisoneofthemostwonderfulreleases,andIthinkthatit'sactuallybeenprovedthatyouknow

60、thatchemicalthatisreleasedwhenyoulaughislife-enhancingandlifeelongatingtoo,youknow.Itpromotesahealthy,ahealthierbeing.PartIVClassifyingandorganizingideasAbility,thefactsorideas,arerelatedtooneanotherRoman,Arabic,letters,standardform,decreasingimportanee,capitalletters,smallletters,Totheleft,totheright,equal,thesamedistanee,easytosee,theideasbeforeandafterit.NopunetuationOutlining,practice.1. Unit3AllcansucceedPartI-Ainyourimagination2. thinkintothefuture,possibilities,apositiveway,thestartingpointexpecttowin3. fulfillthevisionopportunity1. recognize,grab,arisktakerPartI-Borganizati