Unit-2-高级英语阅读资料课件

阅读教程READINGCOURSE2新交际英语COMMUNICATIVEENGLISHFORCHINESELEARNERS

高等学校英语类专业国标规划教材阅读教程新交际英语高等学校英语类专业国标规划教材Unit2

DealingwithpeopleUnit2

DealingwithpeopleContentContentTextOrganizationBeforeignorantblamersAfterempathogeniccommunicatorsLISTENTextOrganizationBeforeAfterLI1234Review&CheckTeaching

ProceduresSummaryContents5TeachingObjectives

Assignments1234Review&CheckTeachingPr3fallout:tohaveanargumentandstopbeingfriendlytrifling:smallandunimportant

deliberately:inanintentionalmanner,onpurpose

bitter:angryandfiercetolerant:showingrespectfortherightsoropinionsofothersVocabularyLead-inActivity3fallout:tohaveanargument4QuestionsWhatarethemost

commonreasonsfor

roommateconflicts?Whatbenefitscanaharmoniousdormitorybringtoallthemembers?Howtoresolveroommateconflictsinabetterway?Lead-inActivity4QuestionsWhatarethemostcoVocabularyWorkshopp241.hemorrhagev.（病理）出血2.culprit=criminal犯人；元凶3.spontaneously自发地4.sullen阴沉的；不高兴的5.tickedoff使恼火；使恼怒ticksb.off=annoysb.6.sabotagev.妨害，蓄意破坏

7.rift裂缝，分歧，不和8.antipathy反感VocabularyWorkshopp241.hemoMotto:Courageisdaringtodowhatisrightinspiteoftheweaknessofourflesh.真正的勇敢意味着,即使身处险境也勇于匡扶正义.Motto:CourageisdaringtodoPartBTheEmpathyJoltReading&StudyingPartBTheEmpathyJoltRempathy:同理心;移情作用;共情移情culturalempathy文化移情;文化同感;文化认同empatheticadj.移情作用的；同感的（等于empathic）empathic移情作用的；神入的empathizevt.移情；神会jolt:/dʒəʊlt/v.(使)震动，(使)摇晃，(使)颠簸v.使〔某人〕吃惊togivesomeoneasuddenshockorsurprisen.震惊withajoltjolt震动，晃动可能来自中古英语jollen,击，打，连续猛击。引申词义震动，晃动。empathy:同理心;移情作用;共情移情TheEmpathyJolt震撼人心的移情沟通法TheEmpathyJolt震撼人心的移情沟通法LanguagepointsP26earlyinmycareergrowtiredoflisteningto...memberswhorefusetoeachother...“hesaid/shesaid”wars:thezero-sumgamesinfantiledebatesachieveatemporarytrucePara.1.LanguagepointsP26earlyinmLanguagepointsfeellikedoingsth.putatemorarybandageonagaping,hemorragingwoundPara.1.vvvvvvvvvvvv创可贴裂着口的流着血的LanguagepointsfeellikedoLanguagepointsculpritn.ignorantblamersThesewerethepeople

whotreatcommunicationasabloodsport,rantingrelentlesslyaboutanotherperson'sfailingwithoutgivingasecond'sthoughttohowtheattackedpartyfelt.我给这类争执的当事人取了个名字，称之为“无知的指责者”。这些人把与人交流当成一项血腥的战斗，毫不留情地指责他人的过错，从不考虑对方的感受。Para.2定语从句现在分词作伴随状语withdoing伴随状语

Languagepointsculpritn.ParLanguagepoints译文：我给这类争执的当事人取了个名字，称之为“无知的指责者”。这些人把与人交流当成一项血腥的战斗，毫不留情地指责他人的过错，从不考虑对方的感受。Para.2Languagepoints译文：Para.2Languagepoints...lethisprojectsrunoverthetimebudgetv.=planactlikehe'ssohighandmightyisnotateamplayer不是个好队友；不懂得如何与人合作Para.3Languagepoints...lethispLanguagepointspresumptuoustheypresumedtotell...whatthescorewas.notleastbit:notatall一点都没有becuriousabout对...好奇/感兴趣

Inthemindof...,thegoalwas/wasn'tto....Para.4adj.壮观的，惊人的;引人注目的LanguagepointspresumptuousPnot...but...shareinformation分享信息exposeeveryflawoftheotherperson揭露/暴光/指出对方的每一个错误sitback坐回来/坐下来

Para.4not...but...Para.4LanguagepointsPara.5Attemptingto.....rarelywaseffective.试图做某事多半是没用的。rarely:表否定，“稀有地，少有地”动名词作主语。

adv.无意间地，自发地Ispontaneouslyhappeneduponaninterventionthatchangedeverything.

有一天，我无意间发现了一种干预方法，而这种方法改变了一切。偶然发现n.干预；介入；干涉LanguagepointsPara.5AttemptLanguagepoints

Ithappenedwhen...Harryrefusedtodo...help...orcooperateinalmostanyway.Harry拒绝做作业，也不帮着做家务，什么都不听。time-outs隔离法/面壁思过takingawaytheInternet断网sendinghimtohisroom禁足/关禁闭havelittletonoeffect不起作用sullenadj.绷着脸不高兴的,沉闷的Para.6LanguagepointsIthappeLanguagepoints

Assoonastheysatdown....Iasked....Joanlaunchedintoalistof...Robertsatdownquietlyinaway......thatcommunicatedthatheagreedwith...,butalsounderstood...Para.7sthtickyouoff=sth.annoyyou使恼火/恼怒

LanguagepointsAssoonastLanguagepointsMeanwhile,HarrysatwithhisarmscrossedandbaseballcappulleddownPara.7with的用法1.with/without-名/代词+形容词；2.with/without-名/代词+副词；3.with/without-名/代词+介词短语；4.with/without-名/代词+动词不定式；5.with/without-名/代词+现在/过去分词。在句子中with结构多数充当状语，表示行为方式，伴随情况、时间、原因或条件；也可做定语。 LanguagepointsMeanwhile,PaLanguagepoints

Harrysatwithhisarmscrossedandbaseballcappulled

down...signalingthat...Para.7

thelastplacehewantedtobewasinthisroom.好像在说，此时此刻他最不想呆的地方就是这里.n.信号；暗号；导火线vt.标志；用信号通知；表示adj.显著的；作为信号的signalLanguagepointsHarrysatPaLanguagepointsengagevt.使参加withoutalienatingJoanPara.8alienatevt.使疏远;使孤立engagein从事于（参加）Languagepointsengagevt.使Languagepointsfirmlyandassertively语气坚定withoutanyhostilityorfrustation不带任何敌意,也不灰心丧气Para.9LanguagepointsfirmlyandHowmanytimeswerethefollowing

questionrepeatedbytheauthor?IfIweretoaskHarry/Robert/Joan(whyhethinksthismeetingisjustgoingtobeawasteoftimeandmoney,)whatwouldhe/she/theysay?RepeatedSixtimes:Para.9;Para.14;Para.16;Para.19;Para.22;Para.25HowmanytimeswerethefollowLanguagepoints

plaintsagainstHarrynotyetexpressed一幅苦水还没倒完的样子Para.10表示抱怨的事情很多，想洗衣清单一样长LanguagepointswithherlputyourselfinHarry'sshoes

Para.11Languagepoints这个观点Coloin也赞同putyourselfinothers'shoes设身处地替别人着想Whyhethinksthismeetingisawastetimeandwon'taccomplishanythingputyourselfinHarry'sshoesAtthatmomentRobertgavemeapuzzledbutcuriouslookandbehattedsonloosenedhiscrossedarmsliftedhischinoffhischestslightlyindicatingthat...分词伴随状语I'dcaughthisinterest.引起他的兴趣/注意。Para.12Languagepointscatchone'sinterest/attentionAtthatmomentPara.12Languagethinkforamoment想了一下allthat'sgoingtohappenisthat...mom'sgoingtolecturemedad'sgoingtojustgoalongwithitandprobablynotsayanythinglectureV.训斥；告诫;说教goalongwith赞同；附合；陪同Para.13Languagepointsthat'sjustwhathappensathomethinkforamoment想了一下Para.13emphasizethesignificanceof...强调...的重要意义shiftfromattackingtounderstanding从攻击对方转变为理解对方Para.14Languagepointsemphasizethesignificanceofcan'tstandit不能忍受tuneitout==turnoff,shutoff关掉

getawayassoonaspossible尽快逃走rivetonthisdialogue==focusonthisdialogue注意力集中在谈话上

Paras.15--19Languagepointsrivetn铆钉；v.(目光，注意力）集中于can'tstandit不能忍受Paras.15--1atthispoint这时sabotage/ˈsæbətɑːʒ/v.妨害；蓄意破坏n.蓄意毁坏；刻意阻碍Para.20-21Languagepoints努力争取；加油

atthispoint这时Para.20-21LanguJwouldsayIsabotageher蓄意削弱她的威信byagreeingonthesurfacewithher表面同意她butcommunicatingtoHarrythat但是却向Harry表示Iagreewithhimabouthowoverthetopshecanget

我同意他:她怎能如此过分呢Para.21Languagepoints

howthetopshecangetover

JwouldsayPara.21LanguagepoPara.22AndifIaskedJoanhowthatmadeherfeel,whatwoulsshesay?allalone孤立无援witheveryonefightingherandnobodyhelpingherPara.22-23Languagepoints

Para.22Para.22-23Languagepoiatthatpoint这时Ihatebeingsuchabitch...fallthroughthecracks陷入困境;掉向深渊;崩溃allalone孤立无援witheveryonefightingherandnobodyhelpingherPara.24Languagepoints

crackdown镇压；取缔；劈啪击下crackn.裂缝裂纹atthatpoint这时Para.24Languagatthispoint这时IcouldfinallymakeoutHarry'seyesheuncrossedhisarms交叉的双手放下来

Para.25Languagepointsatthispoint这时Para.25LanguageHowmanytimeswerethefollowing

questionrepeatedbytheauthor?IfIweretoaskyourmomanddadwhetherthey'remoredisappointedandfrustratedwithyouorworriedaboutyou,whatwouldtheysay?RepeatedSixtimes:Para.9;Para.14;

Para.16;Para.19;Para.22;Para.25Para.25Howmanytimeswerethefollowrepliedwithasenseofrevelation一种启示感(明白了什么)

Para.26LanguagepointsrepliedPara.26LanguagepointsI'dturnedouttobealoserandhaveashittylifebutthey'resocontrolling

Para.28Languagepointsshitty

/'ʃɪti/adj.较差的;劣等的bullshitn.胡说;废话nonsensev.讲废话controllingadj.控制欲强的担心我变成一个没用的人，生活一团糟……但他们管得也太严了，我都快喘不过气来了。”他说道。I'dturnedouttobealoseraIknowtheirstylesucksbutstaywiththefirstthing

Para.29Languagepointssuckvi.吸吮；糟糕IknowtheirstylesucksPara.2Because...theylovemeasifrealizingthisforthefirsttime似乎第一次意识到这点inalongwhile长时间以来

Para.30LanguagepointsBecause...theylovemePara.3that'sallittooktherestofthesessioninacooperativeandcollaborativefashion,freeofviciousattacksandunderhandedshotsandunvoicedrage

Para.31Languagepointsadj.合作的;协作的freeof免于；不受影响n.fashion方式恶毒的语言攻击不光明的投球：含沙射影的指责无声的愤怒adj.合作的n.session会议期间；这里指谈话期间that'sallittookPara.31LanguTheFranklinsactuallytalkedwith...insteadoftearingateachother而不是象疯狗一样互相撕咬likerabiddogs.

Para.31Languagepointsadj.激烈的;狂暴的;偏激的TheFranklinsactuallytalkedAfterthatbreakthrough突破Istartedusingthistechniquetobridgecommunicationgapsand搭建沟通的桥梁repairrifts修复破裂的关系Icallthisapproachempathogeniccommunication移情沟通法empathogenic=empathetic.,empathic

Para.32Languagepointsn.裂缝；冰山的裂缝译文：取得这一突破后，我开始使用这种方法来为人们搭建沟通的桥梁，修复破裂的关系。我将此方法命名为“移情沟通法”，因为它能消除人们心中的厌恶和仇恨，唤起人与人之间情感的共鸣。Afterthatbreakthrough突破Parainstantlyfosterempathyamongpeoplewho'vepreviouslyonlyknowantipathy/ænˈtɪpəθi/oreven

outrighthatred

Para.32Languagepointsantipathy/ænˈtɪpəθi/n.反感;厌恶;憎恶;不相容outright/ˈaʊtˌraɪt/adj.完全的，彻底的；直率的；全部的adv.全部地；率直地；立即，当场hatred/ˈheɪtrɪd/n.憎恨;怨恨;敌意译文：取得这一突破后，我开始使用这种方法来为人们搭建沟通的桥梁，修复破裂的关系。我将此方法命名为“移情沟通法”，因为它能消除人们心中的厌恶和仇恨，唤起人与人之间情感的共鸣。instantlyPara.32LanguagepointPara.32LanguagepointsPara.32LanguagepointsWordstudy:synonyms同义词p33同义词：Wordstudy:synonyms同义词p33同义长句分析：Analysisoflongsentences1.Thebigbenefitwillnotonlybeinthehousingofthisenormousandrapidlygrowinganountofdata,butwillalsobeintheabilitytorunrealtimedataanalyticstoextractactionableandongoingknowledge.(38words)2017年12月的六级阅读真题文章的背景是：随着科技的发展，我们的家庭中将会出现很多的智能家居产品，他们将给我们的生活带来更多的便利。长句分析：Analysisoflongsentencemainstructure:句子主体Thebigbenefitwillnotonlybe...butwillalsobe...这个很大的好处不仅在于...，也在于...。mainstructure:句子主体Thebigben去掉修饰成分：Thebigbenefitwillnotonlybeinthehousing

ofthisenormousandrapidlygrowinganountofdata

butwillalsobeintheability

torunrealtimedataanalyticstoextractactionableandongoingknowledge.of引导的后置定语，修饰“housing”动词不定式定语，修饰“housing”原文理解：这个很大的好处不仅在于...，也在于...。这个很大的好处不仅是拥有越多数据的住房，而且具有通过实时数据分析，得到可控的，持续信息的能力。去掉修饰成分：Thebigbenefitwillnot长句分析：Analysisoflongsentences1.Thebigbenefitwillnotonlybeinthehousingofthisenormousandrapidlygrowinganountofdata,butwillalsobeintheabilitytorunrealtimedataanalyticstoextractactionableandongoingknowledge.这个很大的好处不仅是拥有越多数据的住房，而且具有通过实时数据分析，得到可控的，持续信息的能力。这些信息就是括号中描述的内容。译文：长句分析：Analysisoflongsentence2.Unfortunately,thatcomfortcanhindertheverylearningthatcanexpandyourcompanyandyourcareer.(16words)长句分析：Analysisoflongsentences2015年12月的四级阅读真题。文章背景讨论的问题是：身边的人和你的想法一致，是不是一件好事。2.Unfortunately,thatcomfortmainstructure:句子主体Unfortunately,thatcomfortcanhinderthevery

learning

thatcanexpandyourcompanyandyourcareer.译文理解:那种舒适可能阻碍学习...thatcomfortcanhinderlearningmainstructure:句子主体Unfortunate1)unfortunately是副词，修饰整个句子：这句话表达的是整个事情是不幸的。2)very是个形容词，修饰learning.这里very并不表示“非常”,而是强调,理解为:正是那种学习.3)that引导形容词从句，也修饰learning.

是什么样的学习呢？就是“可以帮助你扩张公司和职业生涯的学习”1)unfortunately是副词，修饰整个句子：2.

Unfortunately,thatcomfortcanhinder

thevery

learningthatcanexpandyourcompanyandyourcareer.

不幸的是，那种舒适可能会阻碍公司和事业的发展。不幸的是阻碍扩张译文：2.Unfortunately,thatcomfortAssignments作业Assignments作业3.“Thefactthatparticipantswerewillingtosubstitutepartofafooditemforthemereprospectofarelativelysmallmonetaryawardisinteresting,”saysReimann.(27words)长句分析：Analysisoflongsentences2016年12月的四级阅读真题文章的背景是：3.“Thefactthatparticipant4.Transformingdownareassothattheyincorporatemodernhousingandimprovedwalkabilitytolocalrestaurants,retail,andentertainment---especiallywhencombinedwithimprovedinfrastructureforcyclistsandpublictransit---makesthemappealtoamoreaffluentdemographic.(37words)长句分析：Analysisoflongsentences2017年12月的六级阅读真题文章的背景是：4.TransformingdownareassotUnit-2-高级英语阅读资料课件阅读教程READINGCOURSE2新交际英语COMMUNICATIVEENGLISHFORCHINESELEARNERS

高等学校英语类专业国标规划教材阅读教程新交际英语高等学校英语类专业国标规划教材Unit2

DealingwithpeopleUnit2

DealingwithpeopleContentContentTextOrganizationBeforeignorantblamersAfterempathogeniccommunicatorsLISTENTextOrganizationBeforeAfterLI1234Review&CheckTeaching

ProceduresSummaryContents5TeachingObjectives

Assignments1234Review&CheckTeachingPr3fallout:tohaveanargumentandstopbeingfriendlytrifling:smallandunimportant

deliberately:inanintentionalmanner,onpurpose

bitter:angryandfiercetolerant:showingrespectfortherightsoropinionsofothersVocabularyLead-inActivity3fallout:tohaveanargument4QuestionsWhatarethemost

commonreasonsfor

roommateconflicts?Whatbenefitscanaharmoniousdormitorybringtoallthemembers?Howtoresolveroommateconflictsinabetterway?Lead-inActivity4QuestionsWhatarethemostcoVocabularyWorkshopp241.hemorrhagev.（病理）出血2.culprit=criminal犯人；元凶3.spontaneously自发地4.sullen阴沉的；不高兴的5.tickedoff使恼火；使恼怒ticksb.off=annoysb.6.sabotagev.妨害，蓄意破坏

7.rift裂缝，分歧，不和8.antipathy反感VocabularyWorkshopp241.hemoMotto:Courageisdaringtodowhatisrightinspiteoftheweaknessofourflesh.真正的勇敢意味着,即使身处险境也勇于匡扶正义.Motto:CourageisdaringtodoPartBTheEmpathyJoltReading&StudyingPartBTheEmpathyJoltRempathy:同理心;移情作用;共情移情culturalempathy文化移情;文化同感;文化认同empatheticadj.移情作用的；同感的（等于empathic）empathic移情作用的；神入的empathizevt.移情；神会jolt:/dʒəʊlt/v.(使)震动，(使)摇晃，(使)颠簸v.使〔某人〕吃惊togivesomeoneasuddenshockorsurprisen.震惊withajoltjolt震动，晃动可能来自中古英语jollen,击，打，连续猛击。引申词义震动，晃动。empathy:同理心;移情作用;共情移情TheEmpathyJolt震撼人心的移情沟通法TheEmpathyJolt震撼人心的移情沟通法LanguagepointsP26earlyinmycareergrowtiredoflisteningto...memberswhorefusetoeachother...“hesaid/shesaid”wars:thezero-sumgamesinfantiledebatesachieveatemporarytrucePara.1.LanguagepointsP26earlyinmLanguagepointsfeellikedoingsth.putatemorarybandageonagaping,hemorragingwoundPara.1.vvvvvvvvvvvv创可贴裂着口的流着血的LanguagepointsfeellikedoLanguagepointsculpritn.ignorantblamersThesewerethepeople

whotreatcommunicationasabloodsport,rantingrelentlesslyaboutanotherperson'sfailingwithoutgivingasecond'sthoughttohowtheattackedpartyfelt.我给这类争执的当事人取了个名字，称之为“无知的指责者”。这些人把与人交流当成一项血腥的战斗，毫不留情地指责他人的过错，从不考虑对方的感受。Para.2定语从句现在分词作伴随状语withdoing伴随状语

Languagepointsculpritn.ParLanguagepoints译文：我给这类争执的当事人取了个名字，称之为“无知的指责者”。这些人把与人交流当成一项血腥的战斗，毫不留情地指责他人的过错，从不考虑对方的感受。Para.2Languagepoints译文：Para.2Languagepoints...lethisprojectsrunoverthetimebudgetv.=planactlikehe'ssohighandmightyisnotateamplayer不是个好队友；不懂得如何与人合作Para.3Languagepoints...lethispLanguagepointspresumptuoustheypresumedtotell...whatthescorewas.notleastbit:notatall一点都没有becuriousabout对...好奇/感兴趣

Inthemindof...,thegoalwas/wasn'tto....Para.4adj.壮观的，惊人的;引人注目的LanguagepointspresumptuousPnot...but...shareinformation分享信息exposeeveryflawoftheotherperson揭露/暴光/指出对方的每一个错误sitback坐回来/坐下来

Para.4not...but...Para.4LanguagepointsPara.5Attemptingto.....rarelywaseffective.试图做某事多半是没用的。rarely:表否定，“稀有地，少有地”动名词作主语。

adv.无意间地，自发地Ispontaneouslyhappeneduponaninterventionthatchangedeverything.

有一天，我无意间发现了一种干预方法，而这种方法改变了一切。偶然发现n.干预；介入；干涉LanguagepointsPara.5AttemptLanguagepoints

Ithappenedwhen...Harryrefusedtodo...help...orcooperateinalmostanyway.Harry拒绝做作业，也不帮着做家务，什么都不听。time-outs隔离法/面壁思过takingawaytheInternet断网sendinghimtohisroom禁足/关禁闭havelittletonoeffect不起作用sullenadj.绷着脸不高兴的,沉闷的Para.6LanguagepointsIthappeLanguagepoints

Assoonastheysatdown....Iasked....Joanlaunchedintoalistof...Robertsatdownquietlyinaway......thatcommunicatedthatheagreedwith...,butalsounderstood...Para.7sthtickyouoff=sth.annoyyou使恼火/恼怒

LanguagepointsAssoonastLanguagepointsMeanwhile,HarrysatwithhisarmscrossedandbaseballcappulleddownPara.7with的用法1.with/without-名/代词+形容词；2.with/without-名/代词+副词；3.with/without-名/代词+介词短语；4.with/without-名/代词+动词不定式；5.with/without-名/代词+现在/过去分词。在句子中with结构多数充当状语，表示行为方式，伴随情况、时间、原因或条件；也可做定语。 LanguagepointsMeanwhile,PaLanguagepoints

Harrysatwithhisarmscrossedandbaseballcappulled

down...signalingthat...Para.7

thelastplacehewantedtobewasinthisroom.好像在说，此时此刻他最不想呆的地方就是这里.n.信号；暗号；导火线vt.标志；用信号通知；表示adj.显著的；作为信号的signalLanguagepointsHarrysatPaLanguagepointsengagevt.使参加withoutalienatingJoanPara.8alienatevt.使疏远;使孤立engagein从事于（参加）Languagepointsengagevt.使Languagepointsfirmlyandassertively语气坚定withoutanyhostilityorfrustation不带任何敌意,也不灰心丧气Para.9LanguagepointsfirmlyandHowmanytimeswerethefollowing

questionrepeatedbytheauthor?IfIweretoaskHarry/Robert/Joan(whyhethinksthismeetingisjustgoingtobeawasteoftimeandmoney,)whatwouldhe/she/theysay?RepeatedSixtimes:Para.9;Para.14;Para.16;Para.19;Para.22;Para.25HowmanytimeswerethefollowLanguagepoints

plaintsagainstHarrynotyetexpressed一幅苦水还没倒完的样子Para.10表示抱怨的事情很多，想洗衣清单一样长LanguagepointswithherlputyourselfinHarry'sshoes

Para.11Languagepoints这个观点Coloin也赞同putyourselfinothers'shoes设身处地替别人着想Whyhethinksthismeetingisawastetimeandwon'taccomplishanythingputyourselfinHarry'sshoesAtthatmomentRobertgavemeapuzzledbutcuriouslookandbehattedsonloosenedhiscrossedarmsliftedhischinoffhischestslightlyindicatingthat...分词伴随状语I'dcaughthisinterest.引起他的兴趣/注意。Para.12Languagepointscatchone'sinterest/attentionAtthatmomentPara.12Languagethinkforamoment想了一下allthat'sgoingtohappenisthat...mom'sgoingtolecturemedad'sgoingtojustgoalongwithitandprobablynotsayanythinglectureV.训斥；告诫;说教goalongwith赞同；附合；陪同Para.13Languagepointsthat'sjustwhathappensathomethinkforamoment想了一下Para.13emphasizethesignificanceof...强调...的重要意义shiftfromattackingtounderstanding从攻击对方转变为理解对方Para.14Languagepointsemphasizethesignificanceofcan'tstandit不能忍受tuneitout==turnoff,shutoff关掉

getawayassoonaspossible尽快逃走rivetonthisdialogue==focusonthisdialogue注意力集中在谈话上

Paras.15--19Languagepointsrivetn铆钉；v.(目光，注意力）集中于can'tstandit不能忍受Paras.15--1atthispoint这时sabotage/ˈsæbətɑːʒ/v.妨害；蓄意破坏n.蓄意毁坏；刻意阻碍Para.20-21Languagepoints努力争取；加油

atthispoint这时Para.20-21LanguJwouldsayIsabotageher蓄意削弱她的威信byagreeingonthesurfacewithher表面同意她butcommunicatingtoHarrythat但是却向Harry表示Iagreewithhimabouthowoverthetopshecanget

我同意他:她怎能如此过分呢Para.21Languagepoints

howthetopshecangetover

JwouldsayPara.21LanguagepoPara.22AndifIaskedJoanhowthatmadeherfeel,whatwoulsshesay?allalone孤立无援witheveryonefightingherandnobodyhelpingherPara.22-23Languagepoints

Para.22Para.22-23Languagepoiatthatpoint这时Ihatebeingsuchabitch...fallthroughthecracks陷入困境;掉向深渊;崩溃allalone孤立无援witheveryonefightingherandnobodyhelpingherPara.24Languagepoints

crackdown镇压；取缔；劈啪击下crackn.裂缝裂纹atthatpoint这时Para.24Languagatthispoint这时IcouldfinallymakeoutHarry'seyesheuncrossedhisarms交叉的双手放下来

Para.25Languagepointsatthispoint这时Para.25LanguageHowmanytimeswerethefollowing

questionrepeatedbytheauthor?IfIweretoaskyourmomanddadwhetherthey'remoredisappointedandfrustratedwithyouorworriedaboutyou,whatwouldtheysay?RepeatedSixtimes:Para.9;Para.14;

Para.16;Para.19;Para.22;Para.25Para.25Howmanytimeswerethefollowrepliedwithasenseofrevelation一种启示感(明白了什么)

Para.26LanguagepointsrepliedPara.26LanguagepointsI'dturnedouttobealoserandhaveashittylifebutthey'resocontrolling

Para.28Languagepointsshitty

/'ʃɪti/adj.较差的;劣等的bullshitn.胡说;废话nonsensev.讲废话controllingadj.控制欲强的担心我变成一个没用的人，生活一团糟……但他们管得也太严了，我都快喘不过气来了。”他说道。I'dturnedouttobealoseraIknowtheirstylesucksbutstaywiththefirstthing

Para.29Languagepointssuckvi.吸吮；糟糕IknowtheirstylesucksPara.2Because...theylovemeasifrealizingthisforthefirsttime似乎第一次意识到这点inalongwhile长时间以来

Para.30LanguagepointsBecause...theylovemePara.3that'sallittooktherestofthesessioninacooperativeandcollaborativefashion,freeofviciousattacksandunderhandedshotsandunvoicedrage

Para.31Languagepointsadj.合作的;协作的freeof免于；不受影响n.fashion方式恶毒的语言攻击不光明的投球：含沙射影的指责无声的愤怒adj.合作的n.session会议期间；这里指谈话期间that'sallittookPara.31LanguTheFranklinsactuallytalkedwith...insteadoftearingateachother而不是象疯狗一样互相撕咬likerabiddogs.

Para.31Languagepointsadj.激烈的;狂暴的;偏激的TheFranklinsactuallytalkedAfterthatbreakthrough突破Istartedusingthistechniquetobridgecommunicationgapsand搭建沟通的桥梁repairrifts修复破裂的关系Icallthisapproachempathogeniccommunication移情沟通法empathogenic=empathetic.,empathic

Para.32Languagepointsn.裂缝；冰山的裂缝译文：取得这一突破后，我开始使用这种方法来为人们搭建沟通的桥梁，修复破裂的关系。我将此方法命名为“移情沟通法”，因为它能消除人们心中的厌恶和仇恨，唤起人与人之间情感的共鸣。Afterthatbreakthrough突破Parainstantlyfosterempathyamongpeoplewho'vepreviouslyonlyknowantipathy/ænˈtɪpəθi/oreven

outrighthatred

Para.32Languagepointsantipathy/ænˈtɪpəθi/n.反感;厌恶;憎恶;不相容outright/ˈaʊtˌraɪt/adj.完全的，彻底的；直率的；全部的adv.全部地；率直地；立即，当场hatred/ˈheɪtrɪd/n.憎恨;怨恨;敌意译文：取得这一突破后，我开始使用这种方法来为人们搭建沟通的桥梁，修复破裂的关系。我将此方法命名为“移情沟通法”，因为它能消除人们心中的厌恶和仇恨，唤起人与人之间情感的共鸣。instantlyPara.32LanguagepointPara.32LanguagepointsPara.32LanguagepointsWordstudy:synonyms同义词p33同义词：Wordstudy:synonyms同义词p33同义长句分析：Analysisoflongsentences1.Thebigbenefitwillnotonlybeinthehousingofthisenormousandrapidlygrowinganountofdata,butwillalsobeintheabilitytorunrealtimedata