新发展研究生英语1 课文翻译

新发展研究生英语1课文翻译Unit1WhyMarriagesFail（婚姻为何失败）原文Thesedayssomanymarriagesendindivorcethatourmostsacredvowsnolongerringwithtruth."Happilyeverafter"and"Tilldeathusdopart"areexpressionsthatseemonthewaytobecomingobsolete.Whyhasitbecomesohardforcouplestostaytogether?Whatgoeswrong?Whathashappenedtousthatclosetoonehalfofallmarriagesaredestinedforthedivorcecourts?Howcouldwehavecreatedasocietyinwhich42percentofourchildrenwillgrowupinsingle-parenthomes?Ifstatisticscouldonlymeasureloneliness,regret,pain,lossofself-confidence,andfearofthefuture,thenumberswouldbebeyondquantifying.Eventhougheachbrokenmarriageisunique,wecanstillfindcommonperils,commoncausesofmaritaldespair.Eachmarriagehasacrisispointandeachmarriagetestsendurance,thecapacityforbothintimacyandchange.Outsidepressuressuchasjobloss,illness,infertility,troublewithachild,careofagingparents,andalltheotherplaguesoflifehitmarriagesthewayhurricanesblastourshores.Somemarriagessurvivethesestorms,andothersdon’t.Marriagesfail,however,notsimplybecauseoftheoutsideweatherbutbecausetheinnerclimatebecomestoohotortoocold,tooturbulentortoostupefying.Whenwelookathowwechooseourpartnersandwhatexpectationsexistattheromanticbeginning,somecausesofdisasterbecomequiteclear.Weallchoosepartnerswithunconsciousaccuracy,partnerswhowillhelpusrecreatetheemotionalpatternsofourfirsthome.Dr.CarlA.Whitaker,amarriagetherapistandemeritusprofessorofpsychiatryattheUniversityofWisconsin,explains:"Fromearlychildhood,eachofuscarriesmodelsofmarriage,femininity,masculinity,motherhood,fatherhood,andalltheotherfamilyroles.Eachofusfallsinlovewithapartnerwhohasthequalitiesofourparents,whowillhelpusrediscoverthepsychologicalhappinessandpainofourpastlife.WemaythinkwehavefoundamanunlikeDad,butthenhestartsdrinkingorusingdrugs,orloseshisjobagainandagain,orsitssilentlyinfrontoftheTVlikeDaddid."译文如今，如此多的婚姻以离婚告终，以至于我们最神圣的誓言不再彰显真理。“从此幸福地生活在一起”和“至死不渝”这些表述似乎正逐渐过时。为什么夫妻相守变得如此艰难？问题出在哪里？我们究竟发生了什么，使得近一半的婚姻注定要走进离婚法庭？我们怎么会造就出一个42%的孩子将在单亲家庭中长大的社会？如果统计数据能够衡量孤独、遗憾、痛苦、自信心丧失以及对未来的恐惧，那么这些数字将无法估量。尽管每一段破碎的婚姻都是独一无二的，但我们仍然能找到共同的隐患，以及导致婚姻绝望的共同原因。每一段婚姻都有一个危机点，每一段婚姻都在考验着双方的忍耐力，考验着彼此亲密相处和适应变化的能力。失业、疾病、不孕、孩子的问题、照顾年迈的父母以及生活中所有其他的磨难，这些外部压力如同飓风袭击海岸般冲击着婚姻。有些婚姻能在这些风暴中幸存，而有些则不能。然而，婚姻失败并非仅仅因为外部环境，更因为内部氛围变得过于炽热或过于冷漠，过于动荡或过于沉闷。当我们审视自己如何选择伴侣，以及在浪漫的开端怀揣着怎样的期待时，一些灾难的根源就变得十分清晰了。我们都会下意识地精准选择伴侣——那些能帮助我们重现原生家庭情感模式的伴侣。威斯康星大学婚姻治疗师、精神病学荣誉退休教授卡尔·A·惠特克博士解释道：“从幼年时期起，我们每个人都带着婚姻、女性气质、男性气质、母性、父性以及所有其他家庭角色的模式。我们每个人都会爱上一个拥有父母特质的伴侣，他们会帮助我们重新发现过去生活中的心理愉悦与痛苦。我们可能会认为自己找到了一个不像父亲的男人，但随后他开始酗酒或吸毒，或是一次次失业，又或是像父亲那样默默地坐在电视机前。”Unit1补充内容（名言及课前活动）名言翻译1.MarriageisaninstitutioninwhichamanloseshisBachelor’sdegreeandwomangetsherMaster’s.——Socrates,Greekphilosopher译文：婚姻是一座学校，男人会失去单身汉的身份，而女人会获得征服者的地位。——苏格拉底（希腊哲学家）2.Menmarrybecausetheyaretired,womenbecausetheyarecurious,botharedisappointed.——OscarWilde,Britishwriter译文：男人结婚，因为他们厌倦了；女人结婚，因为她们好奇，结果两人都大失所望。——奥斯卡·王尔德（英国作家）Unit2TheChangeofLifestyle（生活方式的改变）原文TherearetwothingsIhavealwayswantedtodo—writeandfarm.NowIamdoingboth.Asawriter,IamnotinthesameleagueasE.B.White,andasafarmer,Iamnotinthesameclassasmyneighbors,butImanagewellenough.Afteryearsoffrustrationinthecityandsuburbs,mywifeSandyandIfinallyfoundcontentmentinthecountryhere.Itisaself-sufficientlife.Wegrowalmostallofourfruitsandvegetables.Ourownchickensprovideeggs,andwehavedozensleftovertoselleveryweek.Ourownbeesprovidehoney,andwecutourownfirewood,whichisenoughtokeepuswarmthroughthewinter.Itisalsoasatisfyinglife.Insummer,wegoboatingontheriver,havepicnicsinthewoods,andtakelongbikerides.Inwinter,wegoskiingandice-skating.Wearethrilledbytheglowofthesunset.Welovethesmelloftheearthwarmingup,andthesoundofcattlemooing.Wewatcheaglesflyoverheadanddeerplayinthecornfields.Butthisidylliclifecansometimesbequiteharsh.Justthreemonthsago,thetemperaturedroppedto30degreesbelowzeroFahrenheit,andweworkedhardfortwowholedays,haulingfirewoodalongtheriverwithasled.Inanotherthreemonths,thetemperaturewillriseto95degreesFahrenheit,andwewillhavetohoethecorn,weedthestrawberrypatch,andslaughterthepoultry.Notlongago,SandyandIhadtorenovatethebackroof.Sometimesoon,twoofourfourchildren,16-year-oldJimmyand13-year-oldEmily,willhelpmerepairthelong-neglectedoutdoortoilet,whichwasbuiltspecificallyforworkingoutside.Laterthismonth,wewillspraythefruittrees,paintthebarn,plantthevegetablegarden,andcleanthechickencoopbeforethenewchicksarrive.译文有两件事是我一直想做的——写作与务农。如今我同时做着这两件事。作为作家，我和E·B·怀特不属同一等级；作为农场主，我和乡邻也不是同一类人，但我应付得还行。在城市以及郊区历经多年的怅惘失望之后，我和妻子桑迪终于在这里的乡村寻觅到心灵的满足。这是一种自力更生的生活。我们食用的果蔬几乎都是自己种的。自家饲养的鸡提供鸡蛋，每星期还能剩余几十个出售。自家养殖的蜜蜂提供蜂蜜，我们还自己动手砍柴，足可供过冬取暖之用。这也是一种令人满足的生活。夏日里我们在河上荡舟，在林子里野餐，骑着自行车长时间漫游。冬日里我们滑雪溜冰。我们为落日的余辉而激