Unit1KnowingMeKnowingYouUnderstandingideas课件高中英语外研版

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必修第三册Unit1Knowingme,knowingyouUnderstandingideaspersonalitiesopinionsmisunderstandingscommunicationstylesHappyrelationshipsConflictswithotherpeoplecanhappenbecauseofthedifferencesin...

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agonyofinterpersonalconflictsgreatphysicalormentalpainBen

Ben

AgonyAunt

AgonyAuntgivesyouadvicetohelpyousolveconflictsandgetridofagony.Ben

Prediction:Whatisthepassageabout?DearAgonyAunt,DearBen,BenAgonyAuntWhatproblemsisBenfacingnow?Ben’sproblemsIwasdisappointedwithmyteammatebecauseIfelt1______________________byhim.Itoldmybestfriendthatmyteammatewastoblame,justto2_________________.Mybestfriend3_________________________________.Idon’tknowwhattodo.theteamwereletdown

letoffsteamwentandtoldeveryoneelsewhatI’dsaidCompletethesentenceswithexpressionsfromthepassage.WhatWhatproblemsisBenfacingnow?AWhyWhydoesBenhaveconflictswiththem?BReadtheletterandfindsentencesfromittoanswerthequestions.1.WhydidBenfeeltheteamwereletdownbytheirpointguard?2.WhyisBenangrywithhisfriend?DearAgonyAunt,I’minatotalmesshere

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hopeyoucanhelpmeout!I’m17,andamemberofourschoolbasketballteam.

I’mcrazyaboutbasketball,

andprettygoodatittoo,

whichisprobablywhyIwassomadwhenwelostourlastmatch.

Weplayedwell,

butIfelttheteamwereletdownbyonemember,

ourpointguard.

Thepointguardisakeyplayer,butitwaslikehewasn’tevenonthecourt!Disappointedbyhisbehaviour,

Isaidallthistomybestfriend.

Iwasjustlettingoffsteamreally,

becauseIwassoangry,

butthenmyfriendwentandtoldeveryoneelsewhatI’dsaid.Thisissototallyawkward.

I’mreallyangrywithmyfriend

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whatshouldIsaytohim?AndshouldIsayanythingatalltomyteammate?Embarrassedandashamed,

Ican’tconcentrateonanything.

Pleasehelp!Ben1234WhatWhatproblemsisBenfacingnow?AHowHowcanBensolvetheseproblems?CWhyWhydoesBenhaveconflictswiththem?BReadparagraphs1to3andunderlinesomekeywordstosummarizethemainideaofeachparagraph.ThereisanoldAmericansaying,“Looselipssinkships.”Thismeansthatifyouspeaktoomuchaboutsomething,especiallytopeoplewhoyoudon’tknowsowell,

it’llcauseallkindsoftrouble.Thesituationhereissomuchworsebecausethe“looselips”wereyourbestfriend’s.

Treatedthisway,

you’resuretofeelhurt-weshouldalwaysbeabletotrustthoseclosesttous,andithurtsevenmorewhenwefindwecan’t.ButIhavetosaythatit’spartlyyourfault,isn’t

it?Youadmitthatyouwere“lettingoffsteam”.

Itisunderstandableinthatsituation,butweshouldalwaysthinkbeforewespeak.123ThereisanoldAmericansaying,“Looselipssinkships.”ButIhavetosaythatit’spartlyyour

fault,isn’tit?Thesituationhereissomuchworsebecausethe“looselips”wereyourbestfriend’s.Para.1

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AgoldenruleSpecificanalysisPersonalreasonsPara.3

AgonyAunt

helpsBen

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hisproblems.analyzeYoushould4__________________________.Youneedtoworktogether,andthatmeans5________________________________and6__________________.Tellyourbestfriendyou’reangrywithhimfor7_______________and8_______________________.Don’t9________________whenyou’reangry.Alwaysremember:10____________________.AgonyAunt’ssuggestionsapologisetoyourteammatecommunicatingwitheachotherclearlyresolvingconflictsrepeatingwhatyousaidmakingthesituationworsesaytoomuchthinkfirst,speaklaterReadparagraphs4to6andcompletethesentenceswithexpressionsfromthepassage.agoldenrulespecificanalysispersonalreasonsAnalysissuggestion2suggestion1suggestion3SolutionsencouragementbestwishesSummaryAgonyAunt’sStrategiesforGivingAdviceAdviceempathy己所不欲，勿施于人。——《论语·颜渊》Treatothersthewayyouwouldliketobetreated.

GoldenrulesRespectisatwo-waystreet.Ifyouwanttoreceiverespectfromothers,youmustshowrespecttowardsthemaswell.AssessmentoftheletterItemsScore1TheanalysisofLucy’sproblemsisveryclearwitha

goldenrule,specificanalysisandpersonalrea