2011年完美爱情10大攻略.doc

2011年完美爱情10大攻略1. if youre single, resolve to do something new. instead of thinking about internet, speed dating or buying a hot new outfit get out there and do it! 1.假如你还是单身，那么快去尝试一些新东西吧。不要再宅在家里搞网络了，去制备一身新衣服赶快出门结识异性吧！2. need some guidance on your love life? booking a session with a dating or relationship coach could be just the boost and direction that you need. 2. 需要给你的爱情生活一点指导？那么现在就预约一个恋爱关系教练，从他那里学习一些和爱人相处的艺术很有必要噢。 3. take the opportunity to clear out your underwear drawer and consign all greying, baggy bras and pants to the bin. high street stores do fabulous underwear these days - invest in something sexy! 3. 趁着这个机会好好清理一下你的内衣抽屉。把那些宽松的bra和内衣都扔掉，试着投资一下性感，对，你知道我说的什么，改变一下自己。让你们的生活变得更附有情趣。 4. pep up things in the bedroom, by spicing things up a little 4. 在卧室增加一些装饰品，或者情趣类的小玩意。 5. remind yourself that dating is about having fun. if youre stuck in a rut ask yourself is it worth it? and if you need to move on, remember that practice makes perfect. 5. 对自己说，约会是为了寻找更多的乐趣。而不要仅仅停留在为什么这样做，这样做值得吗之类的问题上。 6. being interested in activities outside of work/looking for a partner is what makes you interesting. taking your foot off the gas in trying to find a partner and doing other stuff that you enjoy is often a fast track to finding someone special. 6. 为你的爱情积极投身于某个兴趣活动之中。和他/她一起互动、探索，记住共同完成一件有意义的事情，是最值得纪念的。 7. resolve to be firm but fair - letting someone down with a polite but clear message that youre not a match made in heaven, is better than being stuck on a second or third date because you dont want to upset them. 7. 对待感情同样有原则-也许偶尔让对方失望也不赖嘛！由于你礼貌的拒绝很清楚的告诉他你们并不非生来合适，这样总好过你因为不想拒绝对方在第二次或者第三次约会时感情就遇到瓶颈。 8. next time your partner says whats up? resolve not to say nothing. learn to speak your mind firmly but tactfully and improve those important communication skills. 8. 当你爱人问起到底发生了什么事,请不要直接说不.请学会一些沟通技巧，会让你们的交谈更加顺畅。 9. resolve to improve your flirting skills. flirting gets a lot of bad press, but done well to someone you fancy its the most direct yet subtle message you can give and makes the other person feel great! 9. 改善你的调情技巧，差劲的调情技巧只会让事情变得更糟哦但如果用好了却会事半功倍，这种直接的表达方式最容易让对方感到踏实和幸福。 10. be open minded about your potential partner. dont be too picky with a long shopping list nor too random in your choices. both are fruitless - restrict yo