WhateverHappenedtoManners综合英语.ppt

Whatever Happened to Manners？,Background information Text analysis Part one ( para 1) Part two ( para 2-4) Part three ( para 5-10) Part four ( para 11) After-class reading,Manner & Manners,Manner: formal, the way in which something is done or happens manner of (doing) something It seemed rather an odd manner of deciding things. He felt some guilt over the manner of her death.,Manners: plural polite ways of behaving in social situations have good/bad manners its good/bad manners to do something perfect/impeccable manners table manners (=the polite way of eating at a table) mind your manners (=used to tell someone to behave politely) somebody has no manners (=someone often behaves in a way that is not polite) remember forget / your manners where are your manners?,Good manners,speak gently in public, say “thank you” when others do you a favor, say “excuse me” when you bother others, table manners: eat softly, quietly Help the weak, the poor, the old, the disabled, do not laugh at others, being punctual,Class manners,Class manners,Table manners,Q & A,1. Q. Is it considered rude to take a sip of your drink while still chewing? Answer: It is considered good manners to wait until you have finished chewing and have swallowed your food before taking a sip of your beverage.,2. Q：Is it proper for a woman to apply lipstick at the table after a meal? Answer: It is appropriate for a woman to excuse herself and apply lipstick in a private area such as a restroom.,3. Q. Should you dismiss yourself from the table if you need to sneeze or blow your nose? Answer: Yes, excuse yourself from the table, and at no time should you use your napkin as a handkerchief.,4. Q. Who pays the bill when dining out? Answer: When entertaining a guest, such as when out for dinner or cocktails, the person who extended the invitation (regardless of gender) is responsible for paying the bill.,5. Q: When you have some food in your mouth that you dont want to swallow, what should you do? Answer: Move the food forward with your tongue onto the fork and place it back on the side of your plate.,Bad manners,stare at others, never use polite words, bad table manners, do not respect others and their behavior, talk loudly in public, spit, litter everywhere, spy on others privacy,Bad manners?,In Shanghai,In Disney,On Campus,Picking nose in public,Writing style,Narration ( ) Description ( ) Exposition ( ) Argumentation ( ) This essay is a piece of argumentation on the necessity and significance of good manners.,1. Whats the typical feature of an argumentation? 2. How to organize an argumentation? In the beginning part the writer puts forward his viewpoint. Then he illustrates his viewpoint with specific examples he witnesses in New York.,In the last paragraph, the writer concludes that good manners are infectious and indicates his sincere wish. The text is featured by the ingenuous use of a variety of sentences as well as of proper words and phrases. Writing technique: metaphorical expressions (metaphor, simile, rhetorical question),Structural Analysis,Part 1(Para 1): Beginning Part 2(Para 2-4): One cannot be truly stylish without good manners. Part 3(Para 5-10): The writer states and expounds the great power of some typical good manners. Part 4(Para 11): Conclusion,Part 1,1. Which sentences in Part 1 imply that in a general sense, people in the present age are less friendly than people in the past? The first two sentences of the first para. 2. What impolite examples of New York people are showed?,Get away,1) succeed in leaving The meeting dragged on, and I didnt get away until seven. 2) escape, esp. from the scene of a crime; We knew it wouldnt be easy to get away from the police. get away with murder informal to not be punished for doing something wrong: Some of those children get away with murder!,对不起，我迟到了，我刚才在开会脱不开身。 Im sorry Im late; I was at a meeting and couldnt get away.,Elevator ( AmE),Lift ( Br E),escalator,wave,appreciation,pleasure you feel when you realize something is good, useful, or well done a feeling of being grateful for something someone has done an understanding of the importance or meaning of something a realistic appreciation of the situation,在音乐会上，每当一位歌手唱完一首美妙动听的歌曲时，观众边高声喝彩表示赞赏。 At the concert whenever a singer finished singing a beautiful song, the audience would burst into loud cheers to show their appreciation.,pull out,to drive onto a road from another road or from where you have stopped: Dont pull out! Theres something coming. to drive over to a different part of the road in order to get past a vehicle in front of you: I pulled out to overtake a bus. if a train pulls out, it leaves a station pull in,Part 2（ paragraph2-4）,In these three para. The writer puts forward and bears out the following viewpoint: you cannot be truly stylish without good manners; good manners are a sort of hidden beauty secret and adds pricelessly to your image. According to the author, how do good manners build your image?,No matter how nicely you dress, how beautiful you decorate your homes, or how lovely your dinner parties are, you cant be truly stylish without good manners. How do you understand that “ we cant be truly without good manners”?,If we do not show good manners, we cannot be said to be really stylish even though we wear the most stylish clothes, or decorate our homes most stylishly.,Nice dress,Beautiful decoration,Lovely dinner party,stylish,她是个穿着时髦的人，总是穿着时髦的衣服，但对饮食很少讲究。 As a stylish dresser, she is always wearing stylish clothes, but she seldom cares about what she eats or drinks. stylish in manner/ an elegantly stylish suit A fashion stylist/a first-rate hair stylist/a polished stylist （designer）,Matter/hidden beauty,But something like a simple “Thank you” can count a great deal. I regard good manners as a kind of concealed magic method or formula which makes you beautiful.,Cary Grant ( 1904-1986),British-born US film star, renowned for his performance as the handsome, suave ( gracious, smooth), and slightly bemused (confused) man-about-town in a host of film. A big star for decades, he seemed to get better with age. Notorious/ To Catch a Thief,Notorious ( & Ingrid Bergman),To catch a thief,Lauren Becall ( 1924-),US film actress noted for her husky( hoarse) voice and smoldering ( burning) screen presence. Taking dancing for 13 yrs, then model, marriage with Bogart for 12 yrs in Hollywood, Broadway for Tony award, Murder on the Orient Express, on stage and in TV with great success.,With Bogart,To have or not to have,Best selling autobiography,right,Immediately, at once They are going to close the Music Hall after Easter. In a straight line, directly After breakfast the children went right to school. Exactly, just The accident happened right to school.,gracious,behaving in a polite, kind, and generous way, especially to people of a lower rank She was gracious enough to accept his encouragement. It was gracious of you to bear us in mind. Be gracious to/towards everyone you meet. 有礼貌的，谦和的，宽厚的，体恤的,gracious (me)!/good gracious!/goodness gracious! old-fashioned used to express surprise or to emphasize yes or no having the kind of expensive style, comfort, and beauty that only rich people can afford: a gracious manor house（庄园） a magazine about gracious living,graceful,moving in a smooth and attractive way, or having an attractive shape or form: Her movements were graceful and elegant. The branches formed a graceful curve. behaving in a polite and pleasant way: Her father was a quiet man with graceful manners.,graceful,优美的，优雅得体的 She is graceful in manner/ speech. The bride was as graceful as a swam when she walked down the aisle with the bridgroom.,panache,A stylish manner to do things that causes admiration and seems to be without any difficulty With great panache he pulled the tablecloth off the table without disturbing any of the plates and glasses. They played and sang with great panache.,Part 3（ para 5-10）,The writer states and expounds the great power of some typical good manners he proposes upon those on the receiving end. Also, he reasonably explains and vividly illustrates the good effects polite manners have on our family members.,Para 5: to exemplify Thank you Para 6: advice a delayed note is better than nothing Para 7: to illustrate the power of excuse me Para 8: be helpful, be punctual Para 9-10: good manners with family members,What good manners does the writer suggest that we should display? Do you agree with the writer that good manners with our families count the most? Justify your reply.,Good manners count the most among the family members because those are the people we love the most and cherish the most. We all want our family members to feel nice and comfortable. We all tend to show our affectionate concern for our dear ones. That is natural. And naturally, good manners matter the most among family members.,do wonders for,Work wonders for Create wonders for Be quite successful in The medicine will do wonders for your depression. 护士告诉我医生奇迹般的治好了你的心脏病。 the doctors have done wonders for your hear disease.,host,Mr Brown was our host at the party. 布朗先生是我们晚会的主人。 “The host team and the guest team won each of the games, so they were even with each other.“ “客队和主队各赢一场,现在他们两队打平了。“ a host country/city 东道国,recipe,a set of instructions for cooking a particular type of food recipe for a recipe for tomato soup a recipe book be a recipe for something: to be likely to cause a particular result, often a bad one: She said that five small boys on skis was a recipe for disaster, not a holiday.,compliment,a remark that shows you admire someone or something, express your praise. Please accept these tickets with our compliments. to say something nice to someone in order to praise them compliment somebody on something Bob complimented me on my new hairstyle. The groom was so nervous he forgot to compliment the bridesmaids.,主席颁奖时赞美获奖者为人类做出了巨大贡献。 When awarding the prize, the chairman complimented the winner on his great contribution to mankind.,terrific,very good, especially in a way that makes you feel happy and excited = great: Thats a terrific idea! very good: excellent, fantastic, wonderful, great, terrific, neat（AmE） superb, amazing, outstanding, brilliant, impressive, fine, first-class, out of this world of good quality: high quality, top quality, superior, deluxe, classy morally good: decent, virtuous, respectable, honourable/honorable, upright, beyond reproach,It was a delightful or pleasant gesture that makes me feel very good and put me in an ecstatic state of mind./ It was something very nice that delight me immensely and made me feel wonderful. Mood: the state of feelings or mind at a particular time,Hes in one of his moods. 他心情不好。 a man of moods 喜怒无常的人 be in a mood 口心情不好, 在生气 be in no mood for sth.to do sth. 不想做某事, 无意做某事 be in the a mood for sth. to do sth. 想做某事; 有做某事的兴致 be in a melting mood 心肠软化, 易受感动 be in the melting mood 感动得要哭, 热泪盈眶,I bet./You bet.,used to say that you are fairly sure that something is true, something is happening etc, although you cannot prove this: I bet you she wont come. used to show that you do not believe what someone has just told you: Im definitely going to give up smoking this time. Yeah, I bet! you bet! Spoken used to emphasize that you agree with someone or are keen to do what they suggest: Going to the party on Saturday? You bet!,A carry-on bag( for passenger),barrel,a large curved container with a flat top and bottom, made of wood or metal, and used for storing beer, wine etc:,Barrel (verb),American English informal to move very fast, especially in an uncontrolled way: A vehicle barreled out of a shopping center and crashed into the side of my car.,aisle,aisle,genuine,someone who is genuine is honest and friendly and you feel you can trust them the genuine article: something that is real and is not a copy intended to deceive people a genuine feeling, desire etc is one that you really feel, not one you pretend to feel = sincere,Melt away,Cause something to disappear by melting or dissolving The sun has melt the snow away. All his support melted away when we really needed it. His anger has melted away in a second. 警察到达后，示威的人群逐渐散开。 The crowd of demonstrators melted away when the police arrived.,irritation,the feeling of being annoyed about something, especially something that happens repeatedly or for a long time: The heavy traffic is a constant source of irritation. irritation at/with something that makes you annoyed: The children are just an irritation for him when hes trying to work. a throat irritation,Rhetorical question,It need not to be answered and in a falling tone. A negative rhetorical question is close in meaning to but more powerful in tone than a positive statement. This means it does indeed melt away most-if not all, of the irritation you felt. After you hear the genuine apologize, your irritation will naturally disappear.,bellman,a wee bit: (infml.) a little bit; rather He is not feeling a wee bit drunk, though he has been drinking quite a lot of alcohol. Wee: very small - used especially in Scottish English: My wee boy is three. the wee (small) hours American English the early hours of the morning, just after 12 oclock at night,punctuality,punctual adj. 准时的；按时的 She is always punctual, but her friend is always late. punctual for the class 准时去上课 punctual in answering letter 按期回信 Punctuality n. 严守时刻, 准时,既然准时是个好习惯，我们应该shi分注意准时，努力养成这种好习惯。 Since punctuality is a good habit, we should pay much attention to it and make great efforts to cultivate this good habit.,count,vt., vi.1) 点数；数；算 to count from 1 to 100 2)计算；清点；总计达 Count these apples. 3) 认为；视为；看作 count it an honor (to do sth.) （把做某事）引以为荣 4)有价值；重要；有用 Every second counts. 每一秒钟都很重要。,cherish,珍爱；爱惜; 怀念；怀有(感情 ) He cherished the memory of his departed youth.(喻) 他缅怀他那一去不复返的青春年华。 cherish fond dreams of 做.的美梦 cherish a deep love for 热爱,routine,the usual order in which you do things, or the things you regularly do: Johns departure had upset their daily routine. my daily exercise routine Dressing is a task which we do every day as a matter of routine (done regularly and not unusual). a set of movements, jokes etc that form part of a performance: A dance routine,Take the person for granted: be so familiar with the other person ( your spouse) that you no longer appreciate his or her full value; treat the other person with little attention or concern; not recognize his or her value. We must not take our family members for granted.,Part 4,This is the concluding paragraph in which the writer advances his opinion that good manners are infectious and expresses his sincere wish that everyone would be polite and show good manners.,1. Do you believe that good manners are infectious? Exemplify your answer. If parents have good manners, their children will follow suit and behave politely. 2. Is it possible for anyone and everyone to show good manners? It takes time and calls for much education.,infectious,an infectious illness can be passed from one person to another, especially through the air you breathe: infectious diseases/Flu is highly infectious. infectious feelings or laughter spread quickly from one person to another an infectious smile/ infectious enthusiasm,Good manners are easy to catch./ Good manners can easily be passed from one person to another./ Good manners have favorable, impressive and very good influence on people. Now, how wonderful it would be if we were able to have everyone behave politely towards another.,Shudder &shake( unit one),Shudder：to shake for a short time because you are afraid or cold, or because you think something is very unpleasant Shudder at/with sth./ to do sth. But if a vehicle or machine shudders, it shakes violently.,Shake: to move suddenly from side to side or up and down, usually with a lot of force, or to make something or someone do this She shook him to wake him up. shake rattle wobble vibrate shudder judder jolt,Rattle: to shake and repeatedly hit against sth. making continuous noise. Wobble: it moves from side to side because it is not steady and or not well balanced. Vibra