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,Friendship,Serlin,Producer,:,thedifferenceinChinaandtheWest,Friendship,1.Chineseexceptfriendshipstobemorelasting.2.Differentfoundations(基础)forfriendship3.Westernsexpectfriendstobeindependent.(独立)4.Chineseusuallyexpectmorefromtheirfriends.,Chineseexceptfriendshipstobemorelasting.,ForChineseatruefriendshipendures（持续）throughout（所有方面）lifechanges.Chinesearefriendseveniftheyhaventspokenfor20years.Ifyousharedsomethingatonetime,thenallyourlifeyouarefriends.Thisisthebestofguanxi(关系),theWideWebthatconnectsChinesethroughtimeandspace.So,wecansayChineseinventedtheInternetlongbeforeBillGateswasborn.,InNorthAmerica,eventherelationshipinwhichpeoplefeelcloseandtelleachotherpersonalproblemsmaynotsurvivelifechangessuchasmovingtoanothercity,graduationfromauniversityormarriage.Ifthepeopledonotseeeachotherregularly,therelationshipislikelytodie.,Differentfoundationsforfriendships.,Chinesefriendsshare“thingsincommon”:atask,aclass,thehometown.Friendshipsareformed（形成）bypeoplewhoworkorgotoschooltogether.Youmayormaynotliketheperson,butifheorshecandosomethingforyoubecauseofhisposition（地位）orjob,youcanbefriends.ButinNorthAmerica,businessandfriendshiparekeptseparate（各自的）.Thefriendshipsareusuallytied（约束）tospecific（特定的）activities.Apersonmayhaveworkfriendsandleisure(休闲时)activityfriends.Alsofriendstendtohavesimilarfinancialcircumstances（经济状况）,becausefriendshipintheWestisbasedonequality.,Westernsexpectfriendstobeindependent.,Why?Itsbecausetheirfriendshipismostlyamatterof（大约）providingemotionalsupport（精神支持）andspendingtimetogether,sotheydonotfeelcomfortableinarelationshipinwhichonepersonisgivingmoreandtheotherisdependent（依赖的）onwhatisgiving.Awesternerwillrespondto（对作出回应）afriendstroublebyasking“Whatdoyouwanttodo?”Theideaistohelpthefriendtothinkouttheproblemanddiscoverthesolution（解决方法）heorshereallywantsandthentosupportthesolution.,Chinesefriendsgiveeachothermoreconcrete（实际的）help.AChinesewillusepersonalconnectionstohelpafriendgetsomethinghardtoobtain（得到）.Theygiveeachothermoneyandmighthelpeachotheroutfinancially（经济上overalongtime,Chineseusuallyexpectmorefromtheirfriends.,IntheWest,youcancertainlyaskafriendtodosomethingwithyou,butyourecognize（承认）thatyourfriendmaysayno,ifheorshegivesyouasreason.Youwouldnotexpectafriendtodrop（丢弃）everythingtorespond（回应）toanon-urgent（非迫切的）needsuchasshopping.Norwouldyouexpectafriendtorecognizeandrespondtoyourwisheswithoutstatingthem.AfriendinChinaissomeonewhooffers（主动提出）helpwithoutwaitingtobeasked.Therearefewlimitstowhatyoucanexpectfromafriend.Youcanfeelfreetotellyourfriendwhatheorshecanorshoulddoorhelporpleaseyou,Friendship,thepopularAmericansitcom,FRIENDS,RachelGreen,MonicaGeller,PhoebeBuffay,JoeyTribbiani,ChandlerBing,RossGeller,.,FriendsisanAmericansitcomwhichpremieredonNBConSeptember22,1994.TheseriesrevolvesaroundagroupoffriendsintheareaofManhattan,NewYorkCity,whooccasionallylivetogetherandsharelivingexpenses.Thefriendshipbetweenthemarestrongandtouching,TheGreenwichVillagebuildingusedasthefriendsapartmentblockinestablishingshots,TheCentralPerk,老友记是美国的情景喜剧首演于NBC于1994年9月22日，这是美国情景