给儿子的信高中英语作文.doc

给儿子的信高中英语作文 Dearseth, Youreonlythreeyearsold,andatthispointinyourlifeyoucantread,muchlessunderstandwhatimgoingtotrytotellyouinthisletter.Butivebeenthinkingalotaboutthelifethatyouhaveaheadofyou,aboutmylifesofarasireflectonwhativelearned,andaboutmyroleasadadintryingtoprepareyouforthetrialsthatyouwillfaceintheingyears. Youwontbeabletounderstandthislettertoday,butsomeday,whenyoureready,IhopeyouwillfindsomewisdomandvalueinwhatIsharewithyou. Youareyoung,andlifehasyettotakeitstollonyou,tothrowdisappointmentsandheartachesandlonelinessandstrugglesandpainintoyourpath.Youhavenotbeenworndownyetbylonghoursofthanklesswork,bytheslingsandarrowsofeverydaylife. Forthis,bethankful.Youareatawonderfulstageoflife.Youhavemanywonderfulstagesoflifestilltoe,buttheyarenotwithouttheircostsandperils. Ihopetohelpyoualongyourpathbysharingsomeofthebestofwhativelearned.Aswithanyadvice,takeitwithagrainofsalt.Whatworksformemightnotworkforyou. Lifecanbecruel Willbepeopleinyourlifewhowontbeverynice.Theyllteaseyoubecauseyouredifferent,orfornogoodreason.theymighttrytobullyyouorhurtyou. Theresnotmuchyoucandoaboutthesepeopleecepttolearntodealwiththem,andlearntochoosefriendswhoarekindtoyou,whoactuallycareaboutyou,whomakeyoufeelgoodaboutyourself.Whenyoufindfriendslikethis,holdontothem,treasurethem,spendtimewiththem,bekindtothem,lovethem. Therewillbetimeswhenyouaremetwithdisappointmentinsteadofsuccess.Lifewontalwaysturnoutthewayyouwant.Thisisjustanotherthingyoullhavetolearntodealwith.Butinsteadoflettingthesethingsgetyoudown,pushon.Acceptdisappointmentandlearntopersevere,topursueyourdreamsdespitepitfalls.Learntoturnnegativesintopositives,andyoulldomuchbetterinlife. Youwillalsofaceheartbreakandabandonmentbythoseyoulove.Ihopeyoudonthavetofacethistoomuch,butithappens.Again,notmuchyoucandobuttoheal,andtomoveonwithyourlife.Letthesepainsbeesteppingstonestobetterthingsinlife,andlearntousethemtomakeyoustronger. Butbeopentolifeanyway Yes,youllfindcrueltyandsufferinginyourjourneythroughlifebutdontletthatcloseyoutonewthings.dontretreatfromlife,donthideorwallyourselfoff.Beopentonewthings,neweperiences,newpeople. Youmightgetyourheartbroken10times,butfindthemostwonderfulwomanthe11thtime.ifyoushutyourselfofffromlove,youllmissoutonthatwoman,andthehappiesttimesofyourlife. Youmightgetteasedandbulliedandhurtbypeopleyoumeetandthenaftermeetingdozensofjerks,findatruefriend.ifyoucloseyourselfofftonewpeople,anddontopenyourhearttothem,youllavoidpainbutalsoloseoutonmeetingsomeincrediblepeople,whowillbethereduringthetoughesttimesofyourlifeandcreatesomeofthebesttimesofyourlife. Youwillfailmanytimesbutifyouallowthattostopyoufromtrying,youwillmissoutontheamazingfeelingofsuccessonceyoureachnewheightswithyouracplishments.Failureisasteppingstonetosuccess. Lifeisntapetition Youwillmeetmanypeoplewhowilltrytooutdoyou,inschool,incollege,atwork.Theylltrytohavenicercars,biggerhouses,nicerclothes,coolergadgets.Tothem,lifeisapetitiontheyhavetodobetterthantheirpeerstobehappy. Heresasecret:lifeisntapetition.Itsajourney.Ifyouspendthatjourneyalwaystryingtoimpressothers,tooutdoothers,yourewastingyourjourney.Instead,learntoenjoythejourney.Makeitajourneyofhappiness,ofconstantlearning,ofcontinualimprovement,oflove. Dontworryabouthavinganicercarorhouseoranythingmaterial,orevenabetterpayingjob.Noneofthatmattersawhit,andnoneofitwillmakeyouhappier.Youllacquirethesethingsandthenonlywantmore.Instead,learntobesatisfiedwithhavingenoughandthenusethetimeyouwouldhavewastedtryingtoearnmoneytobuythosethingsusethattimedoingthingsyoulove. Findyourpassion,andpursueitdoggedly.dontsettleforajobthatpaysthebills.Lifeistooshorttowasteonajobyouhate. Loveshouldbeyourrule Iftheresasinglewordyoushouldliveyourlifeby,itshouldbethis:love.Itmightsoundcorny,Iknowbuttrustme,theresnobetterruleinlife. Somewouldlivebytheruleofsuccess.Theirliveswillbestressful,unhappyandshallow. Otherswouldlivebytheruleofselfishnessputtingtheirneedsabovethoseofothers.Theywilllivelonelylives,andwillalsobeunhappy. Stillotherswilllivebytheruleofrighteousnesstryingtoshowtherightpath,andadmonishinganyonewhodoesntlivebythatpath.Theyareconcernedwithothers,butinanegativeway,andintheendwillonlyhavetheirownrighteousnesstolivewith,andthatsahorriblepanion. Liveyourlifebytheruleoflove.Loveyourspouse,yourchildren,yourparents,yourfriends,withallofyourheart.Givetothemwhattheyneed,andshowthemnotcrueltynordisapprovalnorcoldnessnordisappointment,butonlylove.openyoursoultothem. Lovenotonlyyourlovedones,butyourneighborsyourcoworkersstrangersyourbrothersandsistersinhumanity.Offeranyoneyoumeetasmile,akindword,akindgesture,ahelpinghand. Lovenotonlyneighborsandstrangersbutyourenemy.Thepersonwhoiscruelesttoyou,whohasbeenunkindtoyoulovehim.Heisatorturedsoul,andmostinneedofyourlove. Andmostofall,loveyourself.whileothersmaycriticizeyou,learnnottobesohardonyourself,tothinkthatyoureuglyordumborunworthyoflovebuttothinkinsteadthatyoua