打断别人说话的技巧 英文.docx

What are the strategies for interruption? Evaluate their effectiveness Listening attentively to others is an essential etiquette, but sometimes we have to interrupt others speaking. Therefore, it is very important to know how to interrupt appropriately.In most cases, if the interruption isnt urgent, we can make the interruption natural. Strategy one：when the speaker pauses, you can immediately pick up the conversation with some connected topics, and after some time, you can ask the speaker what else he wants to add. And I think this strategy can help you to avoid the embarrassment. I once read something about this in someones blogs. It is happens at one meeting, and the author says the leader has given much thought to the conversation to continue this meeting without making anyone awkward. Sometimes, we have to interrupt peoples conversation to get the information we need immediately, such as asking for direction. Under this circumstance, we should bravely but politely interrupt. Strategy two: interrupt peoples conversation with “Im sorry, but may I interrupt you for a few seconds?” or “if you dont mind, may I say something here?” or “Excuse me for interrupting you.” as the beginning. This beginning will make people interrupted by you feel comfortable and then will be willing to help you. And it is a fact we all know since we are very young. Furthermore, sometimes we interrupt people not only to get information but also deliver our own information. So, strategy three: when you want to express your own opinions at the public discussion, you should politely interrupt people, which you can learn from the above, and speak your opinion loudly to let others know why you interrupt. And during the free debate, we often see this situation happens.Think seriously, you may find an interesting thing. It almost happens at every program that the compere has to interrupt the guest to make the program continue at the arranged steps. But it is very difficult to do so because most guests will feel ignored. At the news conference of Twinkling Lignts, the actor Liu hua departed angrily as a result of interruption by the host. And most hosts say they also dont have the heart to interrupt the guests speaking but they have to do that because it is their responsibility on the stage. So, how to interrupt in this situation needs the real strategy. I like to watch the Feichengwurao, and Meng fei represents as a very outstanding host at this program. If you pay careful attention to the whole links, you will find he almost have to interrupt at every link to save the time to make the whole program compact and ordered. How can he do this? There goes strategy four. Use a brief conclusion or a simple question all just with some words to interrupt and then go further directly. Your conduction will let the other know you have to go ahead, but your conclusion or question will scatter his or her attention. How