U4+L12+第二课时助学稿.doc

Unit 4 Dealing with problems 效率_Lesson 12 Generation Gap第二课时A mothers love never changes.母爱从未改变。【目标】本节课结束时，学生能够：.使用I argue with my parents about句型描述自己与父母存在的代沟问题。. 通过角色扮演自己及父母遇到的问题，了解父母和子女所存在的代沟。. 探讨父母和子女考虑问题所处的不同角度，学会通过沟通合理解决问题达到彼此理解。【课堂学习】IWarm up l Do your parents love you? Do you love your parents?l What would you do when you disagree with parents?_l What do you often argue about with your parents?I argue with my parents about_II. Role-play Role-play a conversation between you and your parents to show your problem. Pronunciation发音12345Vocabulary词汇12345Accuracy准确12345Fluency流利12345Communication交流12345PairNameGood sentencesScoreIII. Free talkDo you think you are right to be upset with your parents? Explain!_Why are your mom/dad so strict with you?_What kind of things they care about you?_Dear mum:You always say that my phone bill is too high. Thats because I have lots of friends and we like to talk on the phone. And Ill try to spend less time talking on the phone and come back early on weekends. I know you care about me. If you dont act like my boss, Ill accept your advice easily. Love you, mum. JessicaIV. Learn to deal with the problem.Example: Write a letter to your parents to deal with your problem. A. Tell your parents what you care about and why. B. Try to reach an agreement. （达成统一意见）C. Show love and respect to them. HomeworkFurther ReadingThe Generation Gap/gaokao/201403/277441.shtmlNowadays, many young people are complaining that their parents can not understand them very well. They say that their parents take care of every aspect of their lives, leaving them unable to have their private space. Yet, parents are worried that their children dont show any respect to them and never give them any trust.Consequently, a household phrase is spreading. It is the Generation Gap. By using this phrase, both the young and the old have found a good explanation for their misunderstanding of each other, yet they dont bother to take any measures to cover the distance between them.In my opinion, I think we should first admit that there are indeed some differences between parents and children. Then, we should try to take some time to communicate with each other frequently. Not only the parents, but also the kids should be equal when exchanging their views. Only by their joint efforts, can the parents and children bridge the generation gap between them.misunderstandingmisndstndin. 误会，误解explanation.eksplneinn. 解释，说明jointdintadj. 联合的，共同的，合资的，连带的botherbv. 使恼怒，使不安，烦扰，费心communicatekmju:nikeitv. 交流，传达，沟通consequentlyknsikwntliadv. 所以，因此phrasefreizn. 短语，习语，个人风格，乐句STOP BLAMING YOUR PARENTS. GIVE IT UP. STOP. LET IT GO!/You parents OWE you nothing today. They gave you the most amazing gift of birth and life. They dont OWE you respect, apologies or money. But now, today, you are responsible for what you choose to do. You are responsible today as to whether you hold onto the anger or let it go. You might say “But my mother or father is wrong!” and you might be quite correct. However, you cannot change them. The only power you have is over yourself.Accept what they were, are and are not. They are doing the best they can with the resources they have.If you think that forgiving them is condoning what they did or didnt do, then you are missing the point -You are actually forgiving and freeing yourself - If you are holding onto anger or resentment towards your parents in any way, you are killing yourself.Your freedom lies in taking responsibility. Then you are truly born.Some simple keys to remember regarding your parents:Accept who they are and who they are not:Stop fighting reality. They are what they are. Realize that they are also souls on the journey of life:They are doing the best they can. They, like us, are imperfect human beings, learning lessons of karma in the school called Life. Take responsibility:Take your power back. Deal with your unresolved feelings. Focusing on your parents distracts you from facing yourself. Let it go. Forgive them and yourself:Set them free and in doing so you set yours