10分钟脱口秀【当代人婚恋观】.doc

生活面面观谁来为当下的婚恋观埋单主持人：张馨之嘉宾1：马月君嘉宾2：张依俐主持人：观众朋友们大家上午好，欢迎大家收看本期的生活面面观，我是你们的主持人张馨之。今天我们要和大家探讨的话题是“谁来为当下的婚恋观埋单？”。Good morning , everyone . Welcome to todays Life Aspects, Im your hostess 张馨之 . Today we are going to talk something about Who should pay for the present values of love and marriage.全球化是时下一个热议的话题，随着全球化的引进以及在中国的发展，麦当劳，肯德基，LV，香奈儿等国际产品在我们的生活里随处可见。随着时间的推移，我们的生活中不仅充满了全球化的事物，全球化呢，也日益扩展到了我们的思想中。像往常一样，今天，我们也请来了两位特约嘉宾，和我们一起来探讨这个话题。他们是中国传媒大学的两位学生，马月君和张依俐。我们欢迎。Globalization is a hot topic nowadays , and with its introduction into China and developed for such a long time , McDonalds, KFC, LV, Chanel and other international products can be seen everywhere in our lives . With time goes by , not only globalization influenced our life , but also expanded into our minds . Today ,we invite two guests from Communication University of China in Nanjing to discuss this topic with us . They are 马月君and张依俐 . Lets warmly welcome them to the stage .主持人：不知道你们记不得啊，在数十年前，有这样一种相亲方式，男女双方怀揣锦囊，依照设计好的道具和暗号与另外一位陌生异性在公共场合接头成功后，按照两人锦囊的内容组合成的就餐地点，赶去和另外两对同龄人共进晚餐。I dont know whether you remember or not . In a few decades ago, there was a way for Blind date . It is called 6-people dinner . Both men and women carries a small pocket with tips in it . They would met with another stranger to the opposite sex in public in accordance the designed props and the signal , after the successful joint , they would rush to the diner place with two other couples of peers according to the contents of the two tips in their pockets combined .马月君：恩，还有一个是8分钟约会。就是指起源美国的一种速配交友的方式，即一对一入座之后每位男士和一位陌生女士单独交谈8分钟，之后就起身到另外一桌和另外一位陌生女士交谈，直到8分钟后再换一个，直到见完第8位女士。Yes , there is another called 8-minutes date . It means a Match Works which origins from the United States . After one to one seat , each individual man and lady who was a stranger would have an 8 minutes talk . Then , the man would get up to another table and talk to another lady who was a stranger too . 8 minutes later ,he would change his seat again . Until the end of all the 8 women .主持人：是的。随着全球化的日益渗透，我们中国的电视观众在电视机上也看到了诸如此类的电视节目：有山东卫视的爱情来敲门，浙江卫视的为爱向前冲，江苏卫视的非诚勿扰，还有湖南卫视的我们约会吧等等。Yeah , you are right . With the increasing penetration of globalization, our Chinese viewers also saw on this kind of programs on the television . Such as Loves Knocking of Shandong TV , Move for Love of Zhejiang TV , You Are the Oneof Jiangsu TV , Lets Date of Hunan TV and so on .张依俐：是的，每天打开电视机，相亲节目都随处可见。而且形式都差不多。还有很多作秀的成分。Yes ! When I turn on the TV every day , this kind of date-shows are everywhere with the similar forms . And there are so many showing elements .主持人：看来你不是很喜欢这种相亲类节目。可是现在这种节目已经渐渐成为电视综艺新的亮点。有数据表明，2010年伊始，电视荧屏上迅速刮起了一股“相亲热潮”，每周收看各大卫视的相亲类节目甚至已经成为一些单身男女的必修课。然而随着近来一些电视相亲节目、情感故事节目的热播，这些节目在高收视的同时也受到了很多观众的批评和质疑。很多节目为抢“眼球”而炮制的越来越出位的话题，以及不加合理引导的价值误区，已引起无数质疑的声音。那您二位对这个怎么看？Wow , it seems that you do not like this kind of date-shows . But now this kind of program has gradually become a new bright spot of variety shows on television . Data show that at the beginning of 2010 , alove fever quick spread on the TV screens . It has already become a required course for single men and women to watch the date-shows on some major TVs . However, as some recent television emotional-story programs and date-shows broadcasting on television , these programs gained high ratings, and also be criticized and questioned by many viewers . To arouse peoples interests , many programs created topics ventured beyond audiences frontier , and without a reasonable guide of values, the programs had caused many questioning voice . How do you two think about it ?马月君：我觉得参加这类型的节目挺好的，不仅有机会见到更多的男士，方便自己做出选择，幸运的话还能够遇到自己的另一半呢！我们都知道的湖南卫视的汪涵和杨乐乐不就是在相亲节目上认识的吗？人家现在不也很幸福吗？I think that participate in this type of program is very good . Not only it is convenient to make my own choices , for we have more opportunities to meet with other men , but also to meet the other half if you are lucky enough ! We all know that Wang Han and Yang Lele in Hunan TV . They were met in a date-show ,and they are happy now .张依俐：但是这种在相亲节目上认识并且结婚的伴侣在全国这么多的夫妻中比例有多大？只有极少的一部分。是的，我们不能否认在这中节目上能够遇到自己另一半的概率，但是你能把你全部的希望都寄托在相亲节目上吗？放眼望去，还是在真实的生活中寻找自己伴侣的情况比较多，这也是最传统的中国婚恋观恋爱，然后结婚。而不是闪婚。But the proportion of those who met on the date-show and then married was only a few part of the whole married couples all around China .We can not deny the possibility of meeting their other half on this kind of shows , but do you really relay your hope on such kind of TV programs to find another half? It is a traditional value of love and marriage that youths should met and find their partner in real life .主持人：你们平时都看这种节目吗？Do you watch such kind of TV programs ?马月君：看啊！每期都看呢！Yes ! For every period .张依俐：还好吧，实在没看的节目的时候就看看。Only when I have nothing to do except watching such kind of programs .主持人：那既然你们都看这种情感类的节目，那你们看这种节目的时候心态是怎样的呢？Since you have see this type of programs , what were you thinking about when you were watching ?马月君：羡慕他们参加节目的男男女女，看着他们配对成功我就特别高兴，为他们高兴。如果他们配对不成功的话我就觉得挺遗憾的。我甚至还想过自己也去报名参加呢！I admire those men and women who participate in the programs . And when they were matched as I thought , I felt so excited as if I were her . But if they didnt follow my expects , I felt so upset . I have even thought of been engaged and participating as they were .张依俐：我就是看看热闹。你也知道，在这种节目上常常有一些惊人的话爆出来，什么“宁愿坐在宝马车里哭，也不愿意坐在自行车后面笑”什么的。我觉得参加这种节目的更多人是假的，是为了帮栏目赚回收视率的！要么就是伪造一个身份，骗个女朋友回家。我记得我看过一期节目是一个“钻石王老五”去征婚。可是你也不想想。这种人怎么可能去征婚节目去找自己的伴侣。他们身边又不缺女人。所以啊，对方的身份真假都有待考证呢！更别说是不是和他去恋爱了。Well , I was just a looker-on . We all know that there are always had some shocking words bursted out during the process . Such as I would rather cry in a BMW, than smile on the seat of a bike . Their ulter motive is either to gain higher ratings , or use a fake identity to get a girlfriend . I remembered that there was a moneybag in a period , but have you ever think about it ? If he was really rich as he said , why would he go to such program to find a girlfriend ? I dont think theres no female around him . Imaging that you facing a man who has a fake identity ,do you have the courage to fall in love with him ?主持人：恩，确实有道理。刚才张依俐说到一点就是关于这类型节目造假。那在2010年6月上旬，国家广电总局连续下发了两份通知，直指当前婚恋交友类电视节目和情感故事类电视节目中存在的“弄虚作假、低俗炒作、混淆是非、误导观众”等问题。这两份通知公布后，立即引起了全社会的广泛关注。随之而来的职责是主流媒体应该担当起什么样的社会责任？应该坚守什么样的价值观？而现今社会，人们的婚恋观更成为人们关注的焦点。Well , it really make sense . Just now , 张依俐 mentioned the fraud of this kind of programs . And the State Administration of Radio Film and Television (SARFT) issued two notifications consecutively , pointed out that the theme of some of the current programs including making friends , and emotional-stories have some problems of fraud, vulgar speculation, confuse right and wrong and mislead the spectators and so on . After the publication of these two notice, it immediately aroused a wide attention of the whole society. Following questions about what kind of social responsibility the mainstream media should play and what values should adhere to have come up to us .张依俐：我觉得这种类型的节目就是赢得了骂名，失了荣誉，相亲是为了步入婚姻，婚姻是人生大事，怎么能如此儿戏，是应该好好整顿管理了。I think this type of program has won infamy and lost honor . A blind date is aimed at getting a marriage , and a marriage is a life event .How can such a trifling matter happened on marriage ? It should be managed in good order .主持人：伴随着“试婚”“闪婚”一族的出现，很多人都开始困惑，这个世界是怎么了？是人们的思想太开放了，还是当今人的婚恋观发生了改变。那么二位，我想请问你们一个比较私人的问题，你们现在有男朋友吗？Many people begin to confused by the appearance of trial marriage, flash marriage , what was going on in the world ? Are peoples minds too open ? Or is there a change on the values of love and marriage ? Well , Id like to ask you two a little private question . Do you have a boyfriend ?马月君：有啊。Yes .张依俐：有。Yes, I do .主持人：那方便和我们大家透露一下，你们是怎么认识的吗？Is it convince to tell us how did you get know each other ? 马月君：我和他是出去旅游的时候认识的，感觉还挺好的，就在一起了啊。We met during a short trip , and fell good about each other , then we fell in love .张依俐：我和他是高中同学，后来我们考到一个城市来的。我们高中的时候就在一起，一直到现在。已经5年了吧。Em . We are schoolmates in senior school and then we rolled in a same city . We were together that time . And it is 5 years till now .主持人：哇！很久了呢！那你们会结婚吗？Wow , such a long-lasting friendship . Would you get married in the future ?张依俐：会吧，毕业了就会结婚。Yeah , maybe after we graduated .主持人：祝贺你！那你呢？Best wishes ! And you ?马月君：不知道，现在哪知道啊。恋爱是恋爱，结婚是结婚，不一样的。I don;t know . And how could I know ! Love is just love , and marriage is just marriage . Its different .主持人：恩，那你们能说一说你们各自的婚恋观吗？Can you tell us your own values of love and marriage ?张依俐：我觉得我还是比较传统的一个人，思想也比较传统，我就觉得自己的另一半应该是我很熟悉的，建立在这样基础上的两个人才有可能走入婚姻的殿堂并且有一段幸福，持久的婚姻。I hold the traditional values of love and marriage . He would be familiar to me and depend on this common situation , we may step into marriage and live a happy, long-lasting life .马月君：我觉得幸福就好。认识多久不是我是否选择他作为结婚对象的理由。只要有感觉，我觉得就是闪婚我也愿意。Happiness is enough to me . The reason why I choose him does not depended on how long we know about each other . I would like to have a flash marriage with him if I really have feeling on him .主持人：看来你们二位的婚恋观是不太一样的啊。那你们觉得当今社会这种婚恋观是由什么原因造成的？So you two hold the opposite values , yes ? While what do you think of todays different values about love and marriage ?张依俐：我觉得一些主流媒体对此应该担负有很大一部分责任。这已经不是简单的一个针对相亲节目的低俗化的整顿问题，而是一个在社会转型期面临着各种思潮的交集汇合、各种议论、或者是在新媒体技术之下各种融合渠道的一个对民意的反馈的交织，或者是一种争议，那么在这个时候，主流媒体，尤其是电台、电视台应该站出来，应该弘扬主流价值观。I think some of the mainstream media should shoulder a large part of responsibility . This is not a simple rectifying problem pointed to the date-shows . But a combination or a discussion of various trends of thoughts in the social transition , a integration or a dispute on a variety of feedback from the public opinions through the new media technology . While , some of the mainstream media should stand out to spread the right values , e