中国日报 3月第3周 热词汇总.doc

Wechat: Amant_xiaodaizi中国日报一周热词2016 年 3 月 21/26 日新的一周，不知道你的心情是如何的？有人说，这个世界上最宽广的是人的心，可是也有人 认为最难猜的也是人的心。1 基情：man/girl crush2 好好先生：people pleaser3 隐秘自恋者:convert narcissist4 照窗族：window looker5 耳机强迫症：headphone OCD6 喊话模式：yelluclar7 广告恐惧症：agoraphobia- 8 -Man crush is a strong emotion a straight man shows when he respects, admires and idolizes another man, totally non-sexual.Man crush（男人间的欣赏）描述的是一个直男对另一个男人怀有尊敬、仰慕以及崇拜情绪 时表现出来的那种强烈感情，而这一切与性无关。美国俚语词典将 have a crush on someone 定义为“对某人着迷，尤其是对于年龄较大、 更老练的人”：To be infatuated or enchanted with someone, esp to be secretly in love with someone older and more worldly than oneself，但这种着迷的状态发生在男人身上，就成 了 man crush。美国新闻博客网站郝芬顿邮报这样解释：A man crush is something that a straight male has for someone who is usually a public figure, a recognizable name, a celebrity.Man crush 指的是直男对其他人的仰慕，通常是对公众人物、名流或者明星。 这种感情在女孩之间也存在，叫做 girl crush。好人综合征，又称“讨好他人”综合征，是指那些对别人特别亲切和善、特别好说话、有求必 应、想方设法帮助别人、毫不利己专门利人、并以此为荣的一类人的一种心理疾病。即使有 些事他们不知该怎么解决，或者一窍不通，他们还是会毫不犹豫地答应别人的请求。如果你在工作、亲密关系或其他方面有过相似的心情，觉得人生总是陷入在一种“讨好模式”， 那么，你可能也是一个好好先生/小姐(people-pleaser)。Youve probably suspected for a while that youre a People Pleaser. Every time you go out with that friend you no longer really want to keep in touch with. Or every time you agree to babysit your cousins dog (even though youre not much of a fur-lover yourself). Or whatever this scenario involves for you.你可能曾经怀疑过自己是不是好好先生。比如在每次你和不再想联系的一位友人约会时，又 或者你答应一位表亲帮他/她照顾狗狗时（虽然你自己并不是一位爱狗人士），你总是陷入 要当好好先生的境地。You say “yes” to make other people happy.你答应对方，取悦别人。5 Signs Youre a People Pleaser以下是你成为好好先生的五个标志：One: You have a hard time saying no to others.感到无法拒绝别人。Two: You dont want to let anyone down. (oh my goodness, the guilt!)不想让任何人失望。（我的天哪，内疚！） Three: Youre afraid of making people feel bad. 害怕让他人感到难过。Four: You prioritise other peoples needs over your own.优先考虑别人的事情。Five: You lose time working on other peoples agendas.因为他人的安排耽误时间。他们的确是不爱自夸的，但他们的自我评价其实非常高。他们相信自己与众不同，他们对于 这一点如此之确信，以至于不需要向外界寻求什么验证因而他们不会夸夸其谈。这些人 就有可能是我们所说的“隐秘的自恋者”。Wechat: Amant_xiaodaizi“隐秘自恋者”这一概念的提出始于 20 世纪 30 年代，科学美国人上发表了一篇关于“安 静的自恋者”的文章。20 世纪 90 年代，加州伯克利大学的 Paul Wink 进一步提出，自恋者应该分为两种类型：自 大暴露狂（Grandiosity-Exhibitonism）和脆弱敏感型（Vulnerability-Sensitivity）。As it turns out, there are some striking similarities between the popular understanding of introversion and a psychological characteristic called covert narcissism.其实，人们对于内向和隐秘自恋型心理特征的理解有些惊人地相似。Maybe you know someone like this: They tend to believe theyre being underestimated or overlooked, like their amazing qualities are forever going unnoticed by everyone else.They often take things too personally, especially criticism, and sometimes feel a little resentful when other people bother them with their problems.也许你认识这样的人：他们总认为自己被看轻了，或者被忽视了，比如他们的一些令人惊叹 的品质总是不被人注意。他们过于较真，尤其对批评很在意，当其他人因为自己的问题打扰 他们时，他们还有些小愤怒。这些人就是我们所说的“隐秘的自恋者”（covert narcissist）。 下面来看看“隐秘的自恋者”的几个特征：I easily become wrapped up in my own interests and forget the existence of others.很容易就陷入自己的个人爱好，忘记了他人的存在。I feel that I am temperamentally different from most people.感到自己在气质上与众不同。When I enter a room, I often become self-conscious and feel that the eyes of others are upon me.当我进入一间房间时，会感到不自在，觉得其他人的目光都落到我身上。喜欢照镜子的人，只要看到有玻璃能照到自己的样子，就会忍不住过去照一照。于是，商店 的橱窗、停靠路边的汽车窗玻璃都成了假想的镜子。A window looker refers to someone who compulsively looks into windows of buildings, stores or parked cars to check out their hair, their teeth, and everything about their appearance. People who usually behave like this are either having a strong sense of inferiority or having too much self-confidence.Window looker 指看到建筑物、商店或者停泊车辆的窗玻璃就忍不住想要照一照，检查一下 自己的发型、牙齿，或者整个外表状况，我们可以称之为“照窗族”。经常有这种行为的人要 不是特别缺乏自信，要不就是太自恋。For example:Dave, dont be such a window looker. Your hair looks the same as the last time you checked, 30 seconds ago.戴夫，别照了。你的头发跟 30 秒前刚刚看过的时候一样，没啥变化。戴耳机听歌的时候，你是不是会看清楚两只耳机上的 L 和 R，然后分别把它们塞进对应的左 右两边耳朵里呢？嗯，小编就是这样的！据说，这也是强迫症的一种呢！Headphone OCD is a condition where you want the two earphones on a headset on the correct ears, that is, the left side is on left ear and right side is on right ear. If you put them in the wrong ears, you would feel very uneasy and would stop what your doing at hand to make them right.Headphone OCD（耳机强迫症）指用耳机时总想着要把 L 一边放到左耳里，R 一边放到右 耳里。如果不小心放错了边儿，你就会觉得特别不舒服，然后停下手里的活儿把它们给调换 过来。The OCD refers to obsessivecompulsive disorder, which is a mental disorder where people feel the need to check things repeatedly, perform certain routines repeatedly, or have certain thoughts repeatedly. People are unable to control either the thoughts or the activities. Common activities include hand washing, counting of things, and checking to see if a door is locked.OCD 是“强迫症”的简称，这其实是一种心理障碍，患有此症的人喜欢反复检查一些事情， 反复做一些常规的举动，或者反复出现某些想法。这些想法或者行为都是人为无法控制的。 常见的强迫症行为包括：洗手，数东西，检查门是否锁好。For example:How can I get rid of my headphone OCD! What does it matter if I put L side in my right ear!我怎么才能改掉我的耳机强迫症呢！就算把左边的耳机戴到右耳上又有什么关系呢！“未见其人，先闻其声”说的是某些人的声音很有辨识度，而且声音比较响亮，人还没来呢， 声音就先到了。我们生活中有时候也会遇到这样的人，打电话的声音那叫一个嘹亮，恨不得 周边一公里的人都能听到。Yellular is the loudness one adopts in response to a bad cell-phone connection, in the misguided hope that talking louder will improve the connection.Yellular 指手机信号不好的时候提高音量讲话的状态，好像那样大声讲话手机信号就能变好 一样。我们可以称为“喊话模式”。这个 yellular 其实就是 ye（ll 喊叫）和 cellular 的合成词，我们的手机正式叫法是 cellular phone（蜂窝电话），简称 cell phone。Sometimes, some people just cannot help yelling whenever they are on the phone, it seems that their voice is not transmitted through phone signal but via a speaker.有时候，有些人只要一打电话就会开启大嗓门模式，就好像他们并不是靠手机信号来传输自 己的声音，而是在通过大喇叭传话一样。For example:Im so embarrassed. I went totally yellular at a restaurant last night. I was talking to my dad on the phone, but he just couldnt hear me no matter how loudly I spoke on this side.昨天晚上我在饭馆打电话时直接进入“喊叫模式”，可尴尬了。我当时在跟我爸爸打电话，我 在这边很大声说话，他也听不