Roleplay 角色扮演.doc

Roleplay -Child and adultcharacter: psychologist,father,mother,child(loud noise)M: Hey, David, can you turn down the CD player?C: What?M: Turn the CD player down please!C: Oh, OK, mum(Ina loud voice,make phone call)Hello, Tom, we will play basketballin thestadium tomorrow, come and joinus,you guys, wont you?M: David, Do youremember what I have told you,be quiet please!C: Oh, mum,you have interrupted me a lot. I cannot hear clearly what my friend is talking abouton the other (side). M:Oh, how dare you talk to me in this way? You are too impolite!Stop talking loudly,David!C:Oh, do not always disturb me .I have the right to do what I want!M: Do whatever you want, never!C: (slam the door)M:oh,he is becoming more and more rebellious, and he is no longer listening to me. Maybe I can consult the psychologistto get some effective help.(Mother dialsthe telephone the psychologists number.)P:Hello,this is Doctor Harry speaking, can I help you?M:yes,doctor,recently, my son David is very naughty, even rudeto me. He never listen to me and he always refuse to do the thing I ask him to do.I am puzzled because that kind of things never happened before. And now what should I do. Couldyougive me some advice?P:Yes,of coursemadam,nowadays, many parents are just too strict to their children, you know, they couldnt understand what you have told him, so that they can rarely realize the intention of their parents. If you force him to obey your order and do not give him freedom, they will feel terribly unhappy and they may lose their willingness to stay at home,some of them may become very upset andfrustrated, the otherswill easy to be irritated and lose theirtempers.M:Really? Sounds terrible! But I dont think I have ever done something horrible. I give noexcessivedemand on him .I just.P:No,you must have done some,or your boy wont be so rebellious .Have you ever asked him to do what he disliked.I bet you did.M:En,maybe,Ijust asked him to turn down the CD-player and be a bit quiet,butherefused to do that. Then I insisted,but he still ignored my order.P:See? You can not be so insistent on asking him toobey yourorder. He is young,you know, young people should not be treated as the adult, you cangiveyour requirementsin a more relaxed way,never show your bad temper to him.M:But are you sure it is a better way to treat him?P:Yes,of course, you should know that the childs happiness is very important,you should have enough patience,try to gain the trust from your children,andthen youwillhave the chance to ask him to do what you tell him.M: Gain his trust?Sounds reasonableP:you should avoid stimulate his temper;try nottoshout at him. The vulnerablechildren may never recover from the terrible traumatic experience. M:Oh,I see.P:The childrenareso weak andfragilethat he needs yourprotection.If you can not treat him with a mild temper, who will? M;One morequestion, doctor. IfI follow whatyou have told me,but he still makes no progress in hisbehavior, what shouldIdo?p:You should trust me. Iam full-experienced, and I have met so many situations like that.I have met so many parentspuzzled by the same question. So just be kindly to your child,never be too strict. Remember that!M:OK,Iwill,thank you doctor!P:You are welcome.(When David sees his mother, he turn down the radio)M:Everything is all right,it is not necessary for you to turn it down,just keep it.C:Really?M: Of course, enjoy yourself.C:Thanks mum.And one more thing,mum,I want to hold a party in our house nextSaturday,I wonder ifIcan do that.M:Oh, dont be silly,David,you get my permission.You can do what you like.C:Oh, yes!But still another requirement,it will make some of my friend feel awkward if you and Dad are at home during our party.So could you please go out and see a movie or do some shoppingnextSaturday?M:No problem, my dear. Dad andIcan do everything if it makes you satisfied.C:Oh,what you said is wonderful.F：Iwonder why you are so kindtonight?Give him suchagreat freedom!M:That is what a famouspsychologisthas told me. You should try your best toavoid being strict to David,or it will do harm to him.F:What? Are your sure? You know,our boy is too naughty,he will make all unexpected mistake without our guide.Giving him too much freedom will make his behaviorsevenworse.M:Oh,you should alwaysstandsin the same shoes with me. At first, Im also very confused with this method, but with the explanation of the expert, I think this is the only way to solve the problem.F:I have no intention to pick up aquarrelwith you, but I cannot believe our boy will benefit from this kind of education.M: ok,lets see the results later.(After the party in theSaturday, the room is in a mess.)F:David!What have you done? The room is in a completemess. The cups have been broken,the refrigeratorhas been emptied,and the floor has been stained by muddy shoes.What on earth haveyou done?C:Dad, you cannot be so strict, we just enjoyed ourselveslike what mum once said.F:But firstyou should keep our room clean and tidy,and that is the basic rule!C:Oh,dad! You are just makingme feel unhappy.F:What? unhappy？Why should you ask for happiness if you have done something terribly wrong？Your happiness isall important, but how about yourparents happiness? Why should your parents suffer constantly from fear and worrywhilethe child gaily romp about pulling the place apart?C:I suppose you should learn from my mother.F:Learn from your mother? I cant. Your mothers way of education is not suitable for you!Withgreat freedom,you will do all the things you like,but ignoring whether it is correct or not.I will ask her to abandon suchafoolishmethod at once! C:Oh, please dont, dad. I am still tooyoung.Such barbarity is not suit for me. F:You,Shutup!I Believe children are hardy creaturesand you cannot gain extreme permissiveness, but the psychologist just thinks you are vulnerable! And she makes us parents believe that we should always be kind and t