unit-8-gender-differences-textA.ppt

Hisstoryishistory Buther Whatjobsaremoresuitableformenthanforwomen Whatjobsaremoresuitableforwomenthanformen GenderDifferences WhatWomenDon tUnderstandAboutGuys Oneeveningwhentheyweredrivinghome athoughtoccurredtoElaine Roger doyourealizethatwe vebeenseeingeachotherforexactlysixmonths sheasked Gosh Alreadysixmonths Rogerwassurprisedtohearwhatshesaid Hearingthat Elainebegantowonderifitbotheredhimthatshesaidthat MaybehisfeelingisthatI mtryingtopushhimintosomekindofobligation Well I mnotsosureIwantthiskindofrelationship Areweheadingtowardmarriage Towardchildren Towardalifetimetogether DoIreallyevenknowthisperson Shewaslostinthought Rogerbegantothinkofsomethingelse ItwasadayinFebruarywhenwestartedgoingout rightafterIhadthecaratthedealer s letmecheckthemeter Whoa Iamlongoverdueforanoilchangehere He supsetaboutourrelationship Icanseethatonhisface Elainewasverydisappointedto findout howRogerfelt I mgoingtohavethemlookatthetransmissionagain Idon tcarewhatthoseguyswillsay Andthey dbetternottrytoblameitoncoldweatherthistime Ipaidthoseguyssixhundreddollars Rogerthought Silencefilledthecar Afterawhile Elainefeltabitbetter He sangry butIshouldn tblamehim Icouldbeangry too Ifeltsoguiltymakinghimfeelsobad shethought AndRogerwasstillonhisowntrainofthinking They llprobablysayit sa90 daywarranty That sthey regonnasay Finally Elainethought MaybeI mtooidealistic waitingforaknighttocomeridinguponhiswhitehorsewhenI msittingnexttoaverygoodpersonwho sinpainbecauseofmyself centered school girlfantasy Roger Elainesaidaloud What Rogerasked I msuchafool Elainesaid Imean Iknowthere snoknightandthere snohorse What There snohorse Rogerwaspuzzled YouthinkI mafool don tyou Elaineaskedwithoutexplaining No Rogerreplied Elainegazeddeeplyintohiseyes causinghimtobecomeverynervousaboutwhatshemightsaynext Atlastshesaid Thankyou Roger Thankyou heresponded Rogerhasaguybrain whichisnotcomfortablewithsuchconceptsaslove needandtrust Iftheguybrainhastoformanopinionaboutanotherperson itpreferstobaseitonfacts Womenhavetroubleacceptingthis Whattheystronglybelieveisthatguysmustspendacertainamountoftimethinkingabouttherelationship Theyarewrong 437words WhatWomenDon tUnderstandAboutGuys Oneeveningwhentheyweredrivinghome athoughtoccurredtoElaine Roger doyourealizethatwe vebeenseeingeachotherforexactlysixmonths sheasked Gosh Alreadysixmonths Rogerwassurprisedtohearwhatshesaid Hearingthat Elainebegantowonderifitbotheredhimthatshesaidthat MaybehisfeelingisthatI mtryingtopushhimintosomekindofobligation Well I mnotsosureIwantthiskindofrelationship Areweheadingtowardmarriage Towardchildren Towardalifetimetogether DoIreallyevenknowthisperson Shewaslostinthought Rogerbegantothinkofsomethingelse ItwasadayinFebruarywhenwestartedgoingout rightafterIhadthecaratthedealer s letmecheckthemeter Whoa Iamlongoverdueforanoilchangehere He supsetaboutourrelationship Icanseethatonhisface Elainewasverydisappointedto findout howRogerfelt I mgoingtohavethemlookatthetransmissionagain Idon tcarewhatthoseguyswillsay Andthey dbetternottrytoblameitoncoldweatherthistime Ipaidthoseguyssixhundreddollars Rogerthought Silencefilledthecar Afterawhile Elainefeltabitbetter He sangry butIshouldn tblamehim Icouldbeangry too Ifeltsoguiltymakinghimfeelsobad shethought AndRogerwasstillonhisowntrainofthinking They llprobablysayit sa90 daywarranty That sthey regonnasay Finally Elainethought MaybeI mtooidealistic waitingforaknighttocomeridinguponhiswhitehorsewhenI msittingnexttoaverygoodpersonwho sinpainbecauseofmyself centered school girlfantasy Roger Elainesaidaloud What Rogerasked I msuchafool Elainesaid Imean Iknowthere snoknightandthere snohorse What There snohorse Rogerwaspuzzled YouthinkI mafool don tyou Elaineaskedwithoutexplaining No Rogerreplied Elainegazeddeeplyintohiseyes causinghimtobecomeverynervousaboutwhatshemightsaynext Atlastshesaid Thankyou Roger Thankyou heresponded Rogerhasaguybrain whichisnotcomfortablewithsuchconceptsaslove needandtrust Iftheguybrainhastoformanopinionaboutanotherperson itpreferstobaseitonfacts Womenhavetroubleacceptingthis Whattheystronglybelieveisthatguysmustspendacertainamountoftimethinkingabouttherelationship Theyarewrong 437words PartDivisionoftheText Part1 1 2 ElainementionedtoRogerthattheirrelationshiphadlastedforsixmonths Part2 3 9 ElaineandRogerstartedthinkingaboutdifferentmatters Elainewasoccupiedwithideasrelatedtotheirrelationship whileRogerwasworryingabouthiscar Part3 10 17 Elainebrokethesilence butRogercouldn tunderstandwhatshesaid Part4 18 ThereasonwhywomenlikeElainedon tunderstandguyslikeRoger menpreferfactstoabstractconcepts Keywords sixmonths Lostinthought fool Differentbrains Retell Groupwork Whatadvantagesanddisadvantagesdomenandwomeneachhave Seeyounexttime Andthey dbetternottrytoblameitoncoldweatherthistime 译文 他们这次最好不要怪到冷天气的头上 Theyoughtnottosaytheproblemisbecauseofthecoldweather 注意hadbetterdosth 结构中动词前没有不定式的符号to 另一个表示 最好做某事 的短语是mightaswell 但两者用法不同 hadbetterdosth 多用于上级对下级 长辈对晚辈提出建议 或用于表示较强的语气 相较而言 mightaswell是一个比较客气的表达 可以用于礼貌平等地提出建议 如 Hermothersaidtoher You dbettergetbackbefore12o clock 她母亲对她说 你最好十二点以前回来 Whengoingtoschool youmightaswelldressyourschooluniformbecausetheteacherasksusto 上学的时候你最好穿上校服 因为老师要求我们这样做 MaybeI mtooidealistic waitingforaknighttocomeridinguponhiswhitehorse whenI msittingnexttoaverygoodpersonwho sinpainbecauseofmyself centered school girlfantasy 译文 也许我过于理想化了 等待什么白马上的骑士 而令坐在我身边的这个好男人因为我的自我中心和幼稚幻想而PerhapsIamtoounrealistic forIamstillexpectingaknightonawhitechargertoappearinfrontofme AverygoodmanisrightherewithmebutIamhurtinghimwithmyselfishandna veimaginations 这个长句总的结构是一个主句加when引导的时间状语从句 主句中waitingfor 是一个现在分词短语作伴随状语的结构 时间状语从句中又有一个定语从句 修饰person becauseof和because用法不同 前者是介词短语 后接名词 后者是连词 后接句子 如 Iamsohappybecauseoftheresultofthestory 这个故事的结尾让我很开心 Iamsohappybecausetheresultofthestoryisagoodone 我很开心 因为这个故事有个好的结局 thoughtn 念头 想法 思想 thought表示 想法 主意 看法 等时是可数名词 但表示 思考 思想 等时是不可数名词 表示 打算 担忧 时既可用作可数名词 也可作不可数名词 如 Athoughtcomes occurstomeaboutthenewhouse 可数 Greekthoughtisnottaughtasmuchinmodernschools 不可数 现代学校不怎么讲授希腊思想 Heinsistshehasnothought thoughtsofrunningforoffice 不可数 可数 他坚持说自己没打算竞选公职 lostinthought 陷入沉思 thoughtfuladj 考虑周到的 认真思考的thoughtfullyadv 有所思地 周到地thoughtlessadj 粗心的 考虑不周的think v 想 思考 认为 Idon tthinkyouareright occuroccur的分词 名词形式拼写中要双写r occurring occurred occurrencehappen occur takeplacehappen是普通常用词 用于任何事先无计划或明显原因的事情的发生 Irememberanincidentthathappenedinmychildhood 我记得小时候发生过的一件事 takeplace指事先安排 计划的事情发生 Whenistheexamgoingtotakeplace 考试什么时候举行 occur指发生时 有无计划都行 且更侧重于在眼前或意识中的出现 Suchevents whentheyoccur fascinatethepolice 这种事件的发生会引起警方浓厚的兴趣 occur除 发生 的意义外 还有 存在 出现 的意思 相当于exist befound 这是happen和takeplace没有的 如 ThissmalltreealsooccursincentralandsouthernIndia 这种小树在印度的中部和南部也有 occurrencen 发生 出现 发生的事情occurtosb 不用被动语态 想法或主意 被想起 被想到Itdidn teveroccurtohertodoubtwhathesaid 她根本没有想到要质疑他所说的话 ItsuddenlyoccurredtoherthatJoewasafraidofsnakes 她突然想起乔害怕蛇 exactlyadv 准确地 确切地 恰恰 正好exactadj 准确的 确切的 严格的exact precise accurateexact指与事实 相关标准或真相的非常严格的一致 asuittailoredtoexactmeasurements严格按照量好的尺寸缝制的西服套装theexactopposite截然不同 恰恰相反notexactly不完全是 不完全对 botherv 费力 常用在否定句或疑问句中 费心 打扰 使苦恼Doesn tthenoisebotheryouwhenyouaretryingtosleep 当你想睡觉的时候那嘈杂声不打扰你吗 n 麻烦 困难 麻烦的事 讨厌的人IhopeGeorgewasn ttoomuchofabother 我希望乔治不是太令人讨厌 表示 费力 费心做某事 有以下一些搭配 bothertodosth botheraboutdoingsth botherwithsth botherdoingsth bother disturb troublebother指使人烦恼 紧张不安或感到不耐烦 Thatmistakeinthenewspaperbothersme 报纸上那个错误让我觉得不舒服 disturb较正式 指扰乱 使人不能平静 或妨碍人的工作或思维的正常秩序 程度较深 Hewasn tdisturbedbythewickedwords 他没受那些恶言恶语的干扰 trouble指给人带来不便 或在身心上造成痛苦 Don ttroubletoseemeout 不必麻烦送我出去了 bothersomeadj 令人烦恼的 麻烦的 obligationobligation n 法律或道义上的义务 责任 underanobligationtodosth 有责任做某事haveanobligationtosb 对某人负有责任theobligationtodosth 做某事的义务meet honor fulfillanobligation履行责任oblige v 约束 迫使 束缚 Thepoliceobligedhimtoleave obligatory adj 强制性的 Attendanceattonight smeetingisobligatory relationshiprelationshipbetween and 与 的相互关系relatev 联系起来 有关联relatedadj 有联系的 有亲戚关系的relationn 常用复数 关系 人或事间的 联系 亲戚relativeadj n 比较的 相对的 亲戚relativelyadv 相比较而言地bein havearelationship在恋爱 有恋爱关系IwasalreadyinarelationshipwhenImetBen 我遇见本时已经有恋人了 relationship relationrelationship用法更广 包括了relation的许多涵义 所以很多情况下两词可以互换 但只有relationship可以指强烈的感情关系 以下是关于relation的一些常用词组 international publicrelations国际 公共关系in withrelationto与 有关 涉及 headn 头部 头脑 首领v 朝 行进 领导 居 首位 给 加标题headfor towards through朝 行进 穿越headachen 头痛headingn 标题 题目headlinen 报纸文章的 大字标题headoverheels完全地 彻底地Wemetin2003andfellheadoverhealsinlove 我们2003年相遇 然后就开始神魂颠倒地热恋 haveabig swollenhead骄傲自大 自负likebanging hittingyourheadagainstabrickwall如同以头碰壁 徒劳无功 枉费心机fromheadtotoe全身上下 从头到脚beheaded headingforsth 即将 Itseemsthattherebelsareheadingforvictory 叛乱分子看来要胜利了 headsortails 丢硬币猜 正面还是反面I lltossacoin andyouchooseheadsortails 我掷硬币 你选正反 marriagemarriedadj 已婚的 有配偶的marryv 与某人 结婚 娶 嫁 为 主持婚礼 证婚bymarriage通过姻亲关系I mrelatedtoBillbymarriage heisarelativeofmyhusband wife 我和比尔有姻亲关系 getmarried结婚bemarriedwithsb 与某人结婚bemarriedtosth 对某事专心致志 献身于某事younggo getterswhoaremarriedtotheirjobs积极进取 全身心投入工作的年轻人与婚姻有关的一些词汇 bride新娘bridegroom groom新郎bridesmaid女傧相bestman男傧相pageboy小男傧相flowergirl女花童fianc e未婚妻fianc 未婚夫wedding婚礼reception婚宴engagement订婚honeymoon蜜月 blamevt 归罪于 归咎于 责备 责怪n 责备 应受谴责的行为blamesth onsb sth 把 归咎于 Youcan tblameallyourproblemsonothers misunderstanding 你不能把你所有的问题归咎于别人的误解 blamesb sth forsth 因为 责怪 Organizersblametheweatherforlowturnout 组织者把到场人数少归咎于天气 betoblame forsth 应 对 承担责任Thehospitalhaslaunchedaninquirytofindoutwhowastoblameforthemistake 医院开始调查谁应对这个过失承担责任 blamelessadj 无可责备的 不负有责任的blameworthyadj 该受责备的 guiltybeguiltyabout对 感到内疚IstillfeelguiltyaboutthethingsIsaidtomymother 我还在为我对妈妈说的话感到内疚 findsb guilty notguiltyofsth 判决某人罪名成立 不成立Guil