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正方陈述:自从人类出现在这个星球上以后,爱就是一个不断纠缠的话题,没人能清晰的认识到什么是爱,但是无一另外当一个人爱上另外一个人的时候他是从内心的最深处爱并不是浮于表面。我们常说“一见倾心”就是说从一见面开始就从心底爱上了一个人。爱这种感情是最复杂的,复杂到无法用语言来描述,能表现出来的仅仅是冰山一角。不论是哪种爱假如不是内心最深处的感情流露都不能算是真正的爱。所以我方观点就是抛去爱的表现方式,爱是真正要用心体会的。闫1:Since humans appear in this planet, love is a constant topic in our lives, but no one can clear understand what is love, and no additional, when a man falls in love with another person, his love is from the bottom of his heart, and not floating on the surface. We often say that love at first sight means that two people fall in love with each other from a Gently glimpse. Love is too complex to describe with words. What we can show is just the tip of the iceberg. Only the innermost emotions reveal can be considered true love. SO our point of view is love looks with the mind , not eyes. 反方陈述:在我看来,眼睛在发现爱,寻找爱的过程中起到重要作用。我们感受别人的爱不正是根据眼睛所看到的行动和现象吗。事实上,我们古人早已有这样的想法。正如中国的成语“一见钟情”“眉目传情”,不都是用眼睛发现或表达爱吗。其实外国人也有相同的想法。像我们熟知的电影泰坦尼克中的男女主人公杰克和罗斯不就是相互见面之后就彼此相爱了吗,这不就是通过眼睛找到的爱情吗,而且爱的还是那么深那么伟大。所以我方的观点是眼睛对爱情是重要的。陈1:Cons statement: In my opinion, the eyes play an important role in the process of searching love, finding love. Dont we feel someone elses love with the action and the phenomenon that the eye saw? In fact, the ancients had such thoughts already. As the Chinese saying love at first sight and “ogle”, these are all using eyes to found or express love . In fact, foreigners also have the same idea. Like the person Jack and Rose in the well-known movies Titanic, they fall in love with each other at first seeing , isnt this find love through the eyes, and the love is so deep and great. So our view is that Love looks with eyes.正1:爱不是用眼睛看的,而是要用心去体会的。这句话差不多都要成为真理了,虽然不会有人证明它。但是从小到大家人和老师们一直灌输我们这个理念,每个人或多或少都会受到影响,爱存在于人世间的每一个角落,如果仅仅使用眼睛看而不是用心体会,我估计穷我们一生想体验完整的爱,难度会非常大。常1:pros: love looks not with the eyes, but with the mind. This sentence is almost to become the truth, will not prove it. With our growing up, families and teachers has been to instill this philosophy, everyone will be affected more or less, Love exists in every corner of the human world, if you only use the eyes rather than the heart, I think that if we want to experience the full love during our lives, the difficult will be very high.反1:真理也不一定总是对的,比如哥白尼的日心说当初很长一段时间被大家认为是真理,可是到最后不是还是被后人证明是错误的吗。现实生活中有许多例子可以说明爱是用眼睛来看的。比如,大家来看网络红人凤姐的这张照片,你们认为他们能走到一起吗?我认为不可能,并且我认为大多数的人都不看好他们,要不凤姐现在早就结婚,并且之前也不会被美国驱逐出境了。罗1:Cons: The truth is not always right, such as Copernicuss heliocentric theory had a very long period of time that it is considered to be the truth, but at last it was later proved to be wrong. There are many examples tells that Love looks with the eyes in our real life. For example, lets look at this photo of the network Reds Sister Feng, do you think they can get together? I consider it is impossible, and I think most people are not optimistic about them, or maybe Sister Feng has already get married now, and she would not be deported by the United States for her comments.正2:很有可能,因为爱是在交往过程中逐渐发展起来的。例如,我们知道前些年道德观察上所报道的那个20岁小伙子爱上70岁老太太这一事件,如果像你们说的爱是用眼睛来看的,那么小伙子是断然不可能爱上老太太的,他会爱上老太太完全是在长时间的心与心的交流中互相产生的感情,这很能说明我们生活中的爱是用心来体会的。秋1:pros: Most possible, because love is gradually developed in the communication process. For example, we know that the incident reported by moral observation about a 20-year-old young man fall in love with a 70-year-old lady a few years ago, if love like you say with your eyes, then the young man is absolutely impossible to fall in love with the old lady, He fell in love with the old lady entirely depends on the feelings of each other in a long heart to heart exchange, this fully explains the love of our lives looks with the mind. 反2:但是,这个故事没有结束,据说老太太整容了,如果仅仅是思想上的交流,那她还有必要整容吗?这不也是老太太意识到外表在爱情中起到的作用是巨大的吗,如果爱仅仅需要的是用心感悟,他完全没有必要去整容的嘛。现实中美容市场欣欣向荣,化妆品行业的规模越来越大,他们的市场不就是那些想把自己打扮的漂亮的女人嘛,“女为悦己者容”,就是他们意识到在爱情中,爱首先是眼睛看着舒服,然后才存在心灵上的沟通,这也能说明爱是通过眼睛来看的。王1:Cons: But its not the end of the story, it is said that the old lady takes cosmetic surgery later. Is not this old lady realized that looks good in love is great? if it is only the intellectual exchange that, does she has the necessary to take cosmetic surgery ? There is no need to take this cosmetic thing. Cosmetic market is thriving, and cosmetics industry is in a large scale of increasing. Their market is the lady who is want to be well dress, the woman dressed herself for the people who appreciate them, that is because they realize that before the existence of spiritual communication, the first and foremost in love is one must be looked comfortable. And this can also explain the love is seen through the eyes.正3:反方认为爱是由眼睛来看的,我们不这么认为,我们每天都与异性有眼神上的接触,但是为什么不会因为这样而爱上对方呢?因为眼睛不能替代思维做出最终决定。闫2:pros: The opposite think that love looks with the eyes, we do not think so. In this world lots of people are single, if people fall in love with eyess contact now there will rarely be single and the world is full of love and beauty. Its also because the final decision is made by mind instead of eyes.反3:出于我们的国情与我们的班情,我就不多做解释了,你懂得,哈哈。我们谈谈另一个话题吧。比如现在最火爆的生活服务类节目非诚勿扰,每个人在台上的时间就是那么仅仅几分钟的时间,试想下在这么段的时间内,哪可能是通过心与心的交流而产生的爱情啊,难道他们不是通过眼睛来选择爱的吗?陈2:Cons: For our nations conditions and our class situation, I wont give more explainations, you understand, ha ha. Lets talk about another topic. Such as the recent most popular living service program You Are the One, the time of everyone on the stage is only a few minutes, imagine that in such a short time, it is impossible to exchange the heart-to-heart love, do not they through the eye to choose which one to love ?正4:首先反方不要偷换话题。我们所说爱情不是浮于表面,是一种深入内心的情感。但是反方否定了自方爱是通过眼睛来看的,但是随后引例说明非诚勿扰中人们正是通过眼睛来选择爱情的,这是相互矛盾的。就非诚勿扰而言,人们第一次相见并进入爱河的概率并不大。因为几千人中能相爱的不足十分之一。这就说明爱情的过程中以眼睛来判断的事情少而以理智来判断的事情多。况且牵手成功了并不代表他们最终能走到一起,这种仅仅凭借眼睛看到外表而牵手成功,我们都知道通过这种通过看外表建立起来的爱情到最后能结婚的真是少之又少。常2:Pros: First of all the opposite dont tick the topic. We say love is not float on the surface. It is a kind of emotions from our heart. But the opposite denied your view of love looks with the eyes. Then the show of feichengwurao from jiangsu tv is used as a example to explain that some people through the eyes to choose love, this is contradictory, as to the show, the probability of people first met and into love is rare. Because thousands of people can love each other less than one tenth. which suggests that using reason to judge things more than to judge things with eyes in the process of love. Besides in hand success doesnt mean they can eventually come together. This love we all know that only through eyes to see the appearance and at last get married is hardly to see.反4:你来听一下这句话,“找女朋友首先得看外表,因为你将有足够的时间去了解她的内在”,你感觉这句话说得对吗?你难道可以一辈子和你看一眼就不舒服的人生活一辈子么?罗2:Cons: Let me give you a sentence, When you try to find a girlfriend ,you need to take the appearance first, because you will have enough time to understand her inner, do you feel that this sentence is right? Will you have the whole life with the person that you looks uncomfortable at first in the future?正5:的确,首先我们并不是说爱就是思维上的结果而要要抛开感官上的结果,这种一见钟情而产生的爱只能说明眼睛是产生爱的一种因素,因为只有用心的交流,用心去体会的爱情才是真正的爱情,并且,到最后产生爱情,结婚的都是经过用心的体会和大脑的思考之后才下定决心和另一半一起走下去的。例如爱神丘比特在射出爱之箭的时候是蒙上双眼的,说明人与人之间的爱不是通过眼睛来观看,而是通过内心来交流的,思维上的决定最后使人们相爱。秋2:Pros: Indeed, first of all, we do not say that love is the result of thought to aside the results of sensory, this love at first sight can only prove the eyes are a factor to produce love, because only the love with the heart to heart and communicate with the heart can be thought the truth love, And, to produce the love and get married passed through the experience of the heart and the thinking of the brain before they determined they will live together with the other forever. For example when Cupid shoot the love arrow his eyes was blind, this explain interpersonal love not through the eyes to see, but through the heart to communicate, the final decision by the mind make people fall in love with each other. 其次你们所说的“找女朋友首先得看外表,因为你将有足够的时间去了解她的内在”,我想问一下假如你花了那一眼的时间看上了一个女孩子,然后又用了一辈子的时间去了解她的内在,不论你最后的决定是什么都证明你在看上那个女孩子的时候你的爱是掺杂了杂质的,你们的爱并不纯净。再者所谓的看一眼就不舒服应该是第一印象吧,这世界上有很多的恋人第一面就是在所谓的不舒服的情况下开始的,最后经过磨难才走在了一起,所以不和看一眼就不舒服的人生活一辈子不是一个正确的命题。闫3:Secondly, you said, when you look for the girlfriend must depend on the first appearance, because you will have enough time to understand her inner, I want to ask if you spent time of one sight on falling love a girl, and then used your lifetime to understand her inner, No matter what is your final decision, all that prove your love with the girl is blended with impurities. Moreover the so-called at a glance uncomfortable should be the first impression? In modern society there are a lot of lovers begin their love at a glance uncomfortable, finally they get together after suffering. So dont get together with a glance uncomfortable people is not a correct thesis. 反5:不一定。我们都知道四大名著红楼梦里面贾宝玉和林黛玉,他们彼此之间当初仅用几个眼神交流最终构造了一段刻骨铭心的爱情故事。还有现代社会比较热的恋爱观,女的期望高富帅,男的渴望美白富,这些不都得通过眼睛来看到的吗,这是用心体会不到的。王2:Cons: Not exactly. We all know one of the Chinese four famous novel A Dream of Red Mansions which Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu, had only a few eye contact between them that lead to a memorable love story ultimately. And also the hottest love attitude in the modern society, the females high expectations of the rich handsome male , and the males high desire of the white rich female ,all of these depends on the eye, not the mind. 正6:首先寻找高帅富、美白富这本身就是一种错误的恋爱观,这是这个畸形社会的丑陋一面的反映,不能当作一种爱情观和人生观。闫4: First looking for the High Shuai Fu and Bai Fu mei is itself a kind of the wrong statistic, which is the deformity of the social side of the ugly reflected, not as a love view and outlook on life.其次,贾宝玉和林黛玉之间本来就是虚拟的人物和故事,一见钟情并不少见但是还是要有思维的决定才能最后决定相互之间是否相爱。通过眼睛看表面而结婚的,如果不用心去爱,最后又都会走向分离,这也是现代社会离婚率高的原因之一。Second, it is fictional character and stories between jia baoyu and Lin daiyu, love at first sight is not rare but still need mind to finally decided whether love each other. Only looking the surface and married, if you dont carefully manage your love with your heart, then will be to separation, this also is one of the reasons for high divorce rate in modern society.再者,想必大家也知道美女与野兽的故事吧。如果按照对方的观点,爱是用眼睛来看的,那么当英俊潇洒的王子变成野兽之后美女是不可能爱他的,但是美女依然对野兽不离不弃,因为他们之间的爱是用心结成的。按照对方的观点,这种伟大的爱是不会实现的。Again, I think you also know that the beauty and beasts story. So when the handsome prince became into a beast, the beauty is not possible to keep loving him according your view, but the beauty still sticking, because the love between them is up of the heart. Therefore according to Cons view, the great love between the beauty and beast is not realizable.反6:但是他们这是有条件的爱,因为当时王子变成野兽是因为救美女而造成的结果,美女也可能是出于同情,也有可能是出于报答王子的恩德而没有离开王子,这就不是爱了,是感动与怜悯。陈3:Cons: But they are conditional love, because the result of the prince into a beast is caused by the rescue of the beauty, and the beauty may also be out of sympathy, or there may be because of the repay for the prince kindness that she did not leave the Prince, it is not love, it is compassion or moving.常3:正7:我们知道小王子里面小狐狸说过的的话:本质的东西用眼睛是看不见的,要用心。 爱情也是这样,最纯洁的只能用心感悟。We know what the little fox in the little prince said: essential thing is invisible with eyes, with your heart. So as to love, the most pure can only practice with empathy.所以用心体会的爱情才是最伟大最感人的。让我们来分享一下感动中国十大人物-罗映珍 700个日夜唤醒沉睡爱人的视频。So with the experience is the greatest and the most touching love. Now lets share a video about LuoYingZhen , who is One of the ten characters touched in China, used 700 day and nights wakening her sleeping lover.这个例子能够充分地说明爱是用心去体会的,而且这也是得到社会的认可的爱。如果在一起的一对人他们之间的爱情不是纯洁的那么他们的一生在一起都不会快乐。This example fully explain the love is diligently to experience with heart , and which love is also get recognized by society. So if A couple together is not a pure between their love then they will not be happy.反7:可是现实生活中,我们很少能见到一个成功人士带着自己不漂亮的老婆出席一些社交场合,这是为什么呢。可能大家都认为正方的观点是对的,但是事实是检验真理的唯一标准,我们看看我们现实的生活,每个人都没有按照正方的观点去做,而是选择漂亮的或者最起码是不丑的来作为自己的伴侣。如果说没按正方的观点去做的话就是错的,那为什么我们大家都意识到自己错了还在错的路上越走越远并且不加以改正呢?到底是现实胁迫了我们还是我们胁迫了现实呢?所以我们有理由相信:在大家在选择伴侣的时候眼睛在起着最重要的作用。罗3:Cons: But in real life, we have rarely seen a successful man attend some social occasions with his less beautiful wife, why? Everyone may think that the others viewpoint is right, but the fact is the only criterion for testing truth. We have a look in our real life, everyone is not in accordance with the their viewpoint to do, but choose the beautiful or at least not the ugly, as your partner. If that we do not follow their points to do is wrong, I want to know that why people do it by our wrong point after realizing it wrong; why people may get happiness by the wrong road and be afraid of correct; so what is the real reason? The real society forced us or we forced the real, I do not know. But I know just one thing is that our eyes play the most important role when we are choosing our partner. (please listen carefully ,I stress “the most important”)秋3:正8:首先出现这种情况还是畸形社会下的产物,而且有另一种可能:在一些场合带着自己的妻子出现的话会给那个妻子更多的压力,更多的人是因为处于保护才不带妻子出席的。First this kind of circumstances appear is the product of the society, and there is also an another possibility: in some cases if a man attend an important party without his wife in fact in order to protect his wife because which party may make her suffer more pressure.同时按照你们的观点,如果将来等你们自己的妻子不貌美的时候,是否就证明你们推崇的眼睛选择的爱已经不存在了,你们当初的选择就是错误的,你们用那么长的时间证明了你们做了一个不那么明智的决定,最后你不爱她了,就会跟她离婚,是这个意思吗?And according to your point of view, when your wife get older and older slowly so that she is not beautiful any more ,whether you will prove that love looks with eyes is not exist, if so that ,you had the choice is wrong, you use so long time finally proved you made an unwise decision, you dont love her, and you will divorce with her, is that what you mean?反8:不是的,一位大家曾经说过,刚结婚的家庭是建立在爱情的基础上的,等到双方都老了的时候,经过这么多年在一起共同的生活,那个时候维系这个家庭的已经不是爱情了,更多的是相互之间的亲情,就像你的父母对你的感情一样。王3:Cons: No, that is not our view. A master once said, new family is built on the basis of love, when the both change to become the old lady and the old man after such many years, the real reason for maintaining the family is not love but the family itself, just like your parents with you.正9:爱情不论在什么时候都是存在的,维系一个家庭用的是亲情,但是那对夫妻之间爱情永远存在,这毋庸置疑。同时亲情不也是一种爱吗?既然说到了亲情,那咱们就谈一下我们伟大的母爱吧,众所周知,母爱只能通过我们的心来感受,不是通过你眼睛看到的给予你丰富的物质就是爱,不给予丰富的物质就不是爱了。常4:No matter what time love is in exist . Maybe sustaining a family with affection, but no doubt, love exists between the couple forever, at the same time is family love also a kind of love, isnt it? And since said to the family love, lets talk about our great mother love, as it is known to all, the maternal love can only through our heart to feel, not through your eyes see that you given a rich material is love, If instead, is not love.反9:但是母爱的种种信息不也是通过眼睛看到才能感受到的吗?而且,就像我们没有办法选择我们的出身一样,我们的父母也没有办法选择他们的孩子。还有像丑小鸭的故事,我们都知道,它刚出生的时候兄弟姐妹们嫌弃他,它的母亲也在嫌弃它,不爱它,最后它不是因为这个才离开大家的吗。这种“爱”不也是只通过眼睛就看到了吗?陈4:Cons: But we feeling our great mothers love is also through the eyes. What else, we have no choice to decide our background, at the same time, our parents do so with. Take an example, the ugly duck story, as we know, his brothers and sisters, even his mother do not like him, no love to him, at last he leave them. So it is a good example to explain that love need eyes to feel, not hearts.正10:你们说的都是很少数的例子,大千世界,形形色色的人们都有,很难说没有几个与真理相反的情况,大部分的父母都是发自内心的来爱孩子的,或许你们说的情况可能存在,但是这一点点因素对真理的形成产生不了威胁的,而且这也只能说明眼睛是心灵的窗户,并不能说明爱是用眼睛来看的,没有眼睛人类的感觉可能要降低不少,或者对外界的事物不会形成直观的看法。闫5:What you said is very few examples , in this huge planet every people is different , its hard to say no case is on the contrary to the truth. Most of parents love their children with hearts, Maybe what you said could exist. But these little factors could not be the threat to the truth, and this is only shows that the eyes are the windows of the soul, not to show love is seen by eyes.Without eyes humans feelings may reduce much or cant form intuitive views for the outside of things.但是在许多的情况下盲人对爱的感觉可能比正常的人类还要强烈,有一对情侣就是这样。一个女子因为意外失去了双眼,但是男朋友并没有因为这样就抛弃了她,而是说出了一句我们大部分人都知道的话:从此以后我就是你的眼睛。这一对男女在外人看来是无比幸福的,就在他们自己看来他们的爱情是独一无二的,没人能够撼动他们的爱。常5:But in many cases the blind man to the feeling of love is likely more strongly than normal human and stronger, a couple have a situation like this, A girl accidently lost her eyes, Even so her boyfriend not abandoned her but say a touched word :from now on I will be your eyes. In others eyes this couple are happier than normal couples, and they think their love as unique, no one can break.反方总结:“爱不是用眼睛看的,而是要用心去体会的”这个真理可能现在大家都是这么认为的,我心里也是这么认为的。但是我们不是一个人在生活,我们是生活在社会之中,每个人都不可能做离群之马,有的时候我们希望现实生活像真理中描述的那样美好,但是现实绑架了我们,潮流所趋,我们需要去面对认为不对但是还得认同的现实。活在想象中,我们认同你们的观点,但是活在当下,我们坚持我们的观点,以一人之力狂澜社会趋势之大局,我们无能为力。罗4:Cons conclusion: Love looks not with the eyes, but with the mind . it
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