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幸福的定义是什么?What is definition of happiness? 托尔斯泰曾这么说过：幸福的家庭往往都一样，而不幸的家庭却各有各的不幸！ 幸福的意义，我们却怎么定义着？ Tolstoy ever said: It is same for happy family, but have different adversity for unfortunate family! How to definite the meaning of happiness? 小的时候，过年能穿新衣服，收到长辈的红包，觉得是一种幸福 In the childhood, we can put on new clothes and receive a cash gift from eldership in the Chinese New Year. It is a kind of happiness 读书的时候，考试拿满分，得到爸妈及老师的奖励，觉得是一种幸福 In the school, gained the full mark and encouraged from parents and teachers after exam, It is a kind of happiness 毕业的时候，收到高校的通知单，觉得是一种幸福 When graduation, received the requisition from college, it is a kind of happiness 长大工作了，拥有一份好工作，深受公司领导的器重与栽培，是一种幸福 When grown up, having a good job, getting regard highly and growth from leader, it is a kind of happiness. 当婚立嫁的时候，找到自己真爱的伴侣，过着幸福快乐的生活，更是一种幸福 When we are married, meeting your true love and live happily, it is a kind of happiness. 其实，幸福有很多种，只要你想幸福，你就可以幸福；只要你认为自己是幸福的，你就一定是幸福的。幸福到底是什么呢？请你来诠释! In fact, there are many kinds of happiness. If you want to be happy, you will be happy. As long as you think you are happy, then you must be happy. Please clearly explain whats happiness at all?happiness is very small,if you have a big heart,happiness will move on without youhappiness is very huge,if you have a small heart,happiness will be the heavy burden on your shoulderto mehappiness is cool breeze in the sunshine summer,sunshine in the cold winterhappiness is a strangers smile,the encouragement in a friends eyehappiness is when i mention my parent casually,suddenly i find that i owe them too muchhappiness is when i am missing a certain people,i know he is missing me somewherehappiness is that i would like to open my arms to any challenge,as i consider them as the source of happinesshappiness is tiny salt in every delicious dishes,if your heart is careless,you will never find ithappiness is the whole world,if your mind is narrow,you will find it is too heavy for you to carryBreakup fee, will you accept it?如今的社会，虽然没有钱作为基础的爱情已经很少了。但我依然相信爱还是有力量的。有钱难买真心，有钱难买真感情的事实，还是站得住脚的。In the reality society, though the love without money is rarely. But I still believe that love is still in power. The truth that “You can not buy real heart with money, you can not buy true love with money” is still tenable!男欢女爱，自愿自挨。Love and be loved are free will.从恋爱的第一天起，没有人能保证会坚持到底。男女之间的爱情，说坚强其实也很脆弱。说分手就分手了，有人因为心变了，有人因为金钱，有为因为事业。总之理由烦多。From the first day of falling in love, no one can be sure that the love will last forever. The love between the young men and the young women are strong and also weak. It can be breakup with only words. Some reasons are because they change their minds. Some reasons are because of money or career In one word, there are so many reasons cause they breakup each other.那么一方提出分手，另一方就有理由要索取分手费吗？So, one partner ask for breakup, then another partner can have the reason to ask for breakup fee? 个人其极反对这种做法，不管你是男是女，如果你因为被甩了，而要求分手费，那幺，这样就让别人认为你一开始就是贪图对方的钱。你认为这样就可以弥补你的失恋的痛苦吗？其实，只会越痛苦。而且，别人更看不起你！你不仅失去了爱人，还失去了你做人的底限自尊。虽然你得到了钱，你会花得心安理得吗？ 没有感觉到有一丝丝是出卖灵魂而得到回报吗？I, myself extremely disobey such this practice. No matter you are women or men, you ask for the breakup fee simply because you were left alone. So, people will think you just covet for money from the beginning. Do you think the breakup fee can make up for your pain from losing love? In fact it can only add more pain to you and you will be looked down. You not only lose your lover and also lose your limited as a human-Self pride. Although you get money, will you spend it by nature feeling? You even dont have any feeling that you sell your soul to get money? 当然，有些情况，该争取的也不能手软，比如说你怀孕了，男友对你不负责，或是一方骗了你的财产，又或是你受到了虐待等。 你完全有理由，有权力要求提出赔偿或控告。这不叫分手费，这是合理的赔偿。这是对他的惩罚。Of course, you should ask for compensation in some cases, like you get pregnant and the boyfriends is not responsible to you. Or your partner defrauded your property and or you were abused by your partner. You completely have right to ask for compensation or sue. Its not for breakup fee, its reasonable compensation, its punishment to your partner. 或许，这世界上，很多人会面对如此的三种爱情： 有钱没爱的爱情，没钱有爱的爱情，有钱又有爱的爱情。信很多人会选择最后一个，但你却不知，往往这是最危险的选择，因为你太贪心。如果哪一天，你受伤了，你将会是最痛苦的人。Maybe, in the world, many people will face to these three choices: The love with money but no affection, the love with affection but without money and the love with money also with affection. I believe that many people will chose the last one, but you may not know its the most dangerous choice. Cause you are too greedy. If in the case you get hurt, you will be the most painful person树活一层皮，人争一口气。Trees live layer of skin, people competing for one breath虽然我们穷的什么都没有了，我们还有尊严。Although we have nothing left, but we have dignity!分手费，让它去死吧，它只会玷污了神圣的爱情。Breakup fee, lets it go to hell, it can only sully the great love. -Wow, that is a very sensitive topic. 哇唔，真是个敏感的话题。i believe that its very shame-making and embarrassed for most of people who was failure in love to talk about this topic.我相信对大多数那些在爱情失败的人来说去谈论这个话题是非常难为情和尴尬的。so many people want to avoid their losing love,because that part of memory was hurted .so they always doesnt mention it.很多人都逃避他们失败的爱情，因为那段记忆使他们伤心。所以他们不愿提起。people always said forgot grief ,stand up again and refresh your life.人们总是说忘记伤痛，站起来重新开始新的生活。some people said, we should accept the part fee, may be ,most of wowen think that we give our best youth to you,now that we are break up, i had never get anything from you .so,they think definitely accept it without any reason.有些人会接受这比分手费，也许大多数的女性认为我把我的最美好的青春都给了你，既然分手了，我从你那没得到任何东西，所以拿分手费是理所应当的没有任何原因.may be the other people said we lost our dignity and backbone if we accept it. they think if accept the part fee that is kind of disgrace for love. 也许其他的人会说如果我接受了分手费那么我们就失去了尊严和骨气。他们认为接受分手费是对爱情的一种侮辱。for me, if we were really falled in love with each other before. there is no need to talk about part fee anymore.在我看来，如果我们以前彼此真的相互爱过对方。那么再没有必要去计较分手费。The true love doesnt equal moeny, cause we were really given for each other.真正的爱情是不能拿钱来衡量的，因为我们彼此都付出过。why not let this part of love become the best memory in our life .为什么不能让这段感情成为我们人生的一个美好的回忆。may be somebody says it seem its very diffcult to make it become a good memory, because we were really hurted. how can we make it become good memory.也许有些人会说，似乎很难让它成为一个美好的回忆，因为我们真的受伤了，我们怎么让它成为一个美好的回忆。as we know,during the fall in love time, it has happiness and sadness , as this kind of hapiness and sadness enhance our emotion for each other.我们都知道，在恋爱的时候，有快乐和痛苦，正是因为这些快乐和痛苦增加了我们彼此的感情。so, if we are break up suddenly, more or less , its not accustomed and its very diffcult to accept it.所以，如果突然分手，多少有点不习惯而且很难去接受。so,we need more and more time to forget he or she.所以，我们需要更多的时间去忘掉他或她。To contrary, if wen are not really loved each other, it didnt give any hurt to you. accept it and go your way.相反的，如果你们没有真爱过，你也没受到任何伤害，那么拿着钱走人。-In modern society, money seems to have connection with peoples life of every aspect. 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