本科毕业论文-日本の茶道が繁栄する経緯と未来

毕业论文日本茶道繁栄経緯未来氏名陈玲学籍番号2010012867指導教官王吉祥年度2014/2015年度日本茶道繁栄海外原因要旨日本茶道繁栄傾向考。茶道日本伝統文化、日本国内、海外認。今、日本文化理解上不可欠言過言。近年、日本茶道繁栄。世界、影響与。日本茶道現状理解深目標、日本茶道未来推定本文目標。摘要考虑到日本茶道越来越兴盛。茶道作为日本传统文化，不仅在国内，在国外也被认可。说日本茶道是了解日本文化不可缺少的部分一点也不过分。近年，日本茶道越来越兴盛。在世界的影响也越来越大。以深刻理解日本茶道的现状为目标，推测日本茶道的未来是本文的目标。关键词日本茶道兴盛国外原因目次11日本茶道起源12日本茶道歴史23日本茶道真盛時期56参考文献8日本茶道繁栄経緯未来日本、茶道、华道、香道、歌道、弓道、剣道多道。中最知茶道。茶道（茶湯）、700年及長歴史有芸術、日本伝統文化。茶、日本人最親深飲物、日常茶飯事言葉示、茶、日本人日常生活欠大占。茶道、日本人生活深根、芸術確立。茶道日本伝統文化、日本国内、海外認。今、日本文化理解上不可欠言過言。近年、日本茶道繁栄。世界、影響与。本課題日本茶道題材繁栄傾向現象、日本茶道繁栄条件取上、歴史変遷表日本茶道繁栄必然性代表作出茶道捕、分析。考察、日本茶道現状理解深目標、日本茶道未来推定本文目標。茶道繁栄何説明、今日本茶道現状調。日本茶道海外認現象上、茶道文化発展、時代背景、代表者、代表作品項目分調査行。調査、変化及動向分析、総結。、日本茶道著作、書籍、学術論文及上数多掲載文章、今分野先行者研究結果基、本人調査加、日本社会背景、文化日本人思想、心理分析、日本茶道繁栄現象裏原因考察。1日本茶道起源日本茶道繁栄。世界、影響与。茶誰日本伝、日本自生茶木、研究、確結論出。稲作仏教大陸文化共、複合的日本伝来、茶敵環境地根、多茶産地生思。茶飲習慣茶製法平安时代遣唐使。当時中国茶现代乌龙茶似状半発酵茶考。茶色现代日本人茶色。当時日本人、茶嗜好品薬、必要量煎饮考。、当時根付吃茶廃。中国唐渡僧最澄、空海茶種持帰比叡山山麓植。当時唐蒸茶葉臼、団子削湯溶飲。日本茶起源、奈良平安時代、遣唐使留学僧中国茶持帰、日本原産自生茶説。茶大元成唐陸羽（年年）書茶経言。本、茶製法、飲方、歴史詳書、茶言書物。茶飲習慣茶製法平安時代遣唐使。当時茶現代烏龍茶似半発酵茶。当時日本人、茶嗜好品薬、必要量煎飲考。、当時根付喫茶廃。日本茶道起源日本茶道繁栄基礎打立。2日本茶道歴史当时中国茶现代乌龙茶似状半発酵茶考。茶色现代日本人茶色。当时日本人、茶嗜好品薬、必要量煎饮考。、当时根付吃茶廃。12世紀終、中国禅宗学僧、栄西抹茶種共茶湯道具、礼式日本持帰、高山寺開祖明恵上人分与。高山寺育木京都栂尾植、宇治各地広。茶礼式日本人合定。、栂尾、宇治茶発祥地。日本禅宗伝栄西道元薬持込抹茶、禅宗広共精神修养的要素强広。茶栽培普及茶饮习惯一般普及。足利幕府奨励受、宇治茶名声広。将軍足利義満、宇治七茗園呼優茶園宇治里作。足利義政、銀閣寺建茶事盛行。、村田珠光、茶飲、高価道具楽茶湯、精神的高与。饮水产地当闘水游戯、闘茶、饮茶铭柄当一种博打流行。、本场中国茶器唐物、大金使搜集、使用盛大茶会催大名间流行（唐物数寄呼）。対、村田珠光茶会博打饮酒禁止、亭主客精神交流重视茶会方说。茶源流。織田信長豊田秀吉戦乱間茶愛、豊田秀吉、時代北野大茶会催千利休共茶大衆化図。利休茶武士阶层広、蒲生氏郷、细川三斎、牧村兵部、瀬田扫部、古田织部、芝山监物、高山右近利休七哲呼弟子生。茶発展、小堀远州、片桐石州、织田有楽流派大名现。现代特武家茶道、或大名茶呼区别场合。宇治永谷宋円蒸揉、乾製法創案。今日煎茶製法始手製法呼宇治製法。現在各地伝承手技術宇治製法流。茶碾茶（抹茶）。庶民、抹茶残茶、茶葉干、日乾番茶飲。京都茶抹茶。新製法煎茶色香、味良江戸各地非常評判高、大持。一般庶民茶以降。江戸時代茶生産大進展時代。後、宇治玉露創製。、時代、将軍飲茶宇治江戸運、童謡歌茶道中。当時大名行列道譲。江戸时代初期茶汤人口、主大名豪商中心限、江戸中期町人阶级経済的勃兴飞跃的増加。町人阶级主新茶汤参入者迎入、元町方出自三千家中心千家系流派。时、大量门弟、现在伝统芸能一般见组织形态家元制度确立。、表千家七代如心斎、裏千家八代又玄斎、如心斎高弟、江戸千家初代川上不白、大势门弟対処新稽古方法、七事式考案。努力茶汤、庄屋、名主商人习事日本全国広普及。、同时茶汤大众化拍车、游芸化进弊害。侘寂対理解次第変质、美石灯笼完璧打欠、割接茶碗珍重、大众理解难振舞、庶民间茶人変人隠语事态招（禅极端化共通过度精神主义、粋自分夸示、本来茶道外行为）。他方游芸化倾向対、本来茶道目的人际现心美强调。际大徳寺派临済宗寺院大役割果、利休流茶道根本和敬清寂标语过程生出。各流派点前形态茶会様式体系化言様式整备加、人事本质言茶道本来精神见直、现在茶道呼茶汤完成。江戸末期、武家教养作法固抹茶茶汤嫌、気軽楽茶求声町众出。同时期、単嗜好品化煎茶现状忧、煎茶道求声。声上形、江戸时代中期黄檗宗万福寺元僧売茶翁（高游外）行煎茶改煎茶作法定煎茶道。煎茶道汉诗文人文化中心広様式确立。煎茶好著名人江戸初期石川丈山、中期上田秋成、后期頼山阳名挙中国伝茶湯、日本独自発展遂、日本風土日本人心情合伝統文化茶道。茶道、時代共形変化見、精神変、千休利没後年経。、海外紹介普及盛行。明治时代、封建制度崩壊、诸藩庇护各流派财政的困难陥。中、裏千家十三代円能斎鉄中一时东京居移茶道再兴努。茶道、本来茶别女子教养要素获得、今美着物姿华茶会当前。同时期鸟尾得庵、田中仙樵、多流仪茶人达旧幕时代伝承一堂集研究、成果一般人発表日本茶道再创出。戦后海外茶道広、茶道大众化世界的。茶発展促隆盛茶道歴史。3日本茶道真盛時期江戸末期、茶山間部生産、明治初期士族授産事業契機、牧之原台地平坦土地集団茶園形成。、茶園開拓士族次第離散、代農民茶園継承始。、茶輸出価格下落、茶園造成莫大費用原因。集団茶園形成、単茶園形成、流通発展、茶商、仲買人、茶問屋育成、各種機械発明、茶業中心関連産業成立影響与。高林謙三茶葉揉葉機発明、機械化急速進時期、省力化品質安定化寄与。近年、制御、未熟錬者茶時代。現在、手揉文化保存観光用主。日本茶文化全民文化内容備。日本人茶道崇、多有名家元生、茶道民衆中大影響及、社会性、民衆性広深程度達。日本茶道典型性有言。今、世界、影響与。製法見日本茶分類日本茶多蒸製不発酵緑茶。同不発酵緑茶、栽培製法違、下記分類。玉露新芽伸頃茶園覆日光遮、中摘茶葉原料作。旨味、高級茶代表。茶玉露完全覆、茶葉摘採一週間前藁寒冷紗茶園覆旨味成分多育。煎茶日本生産茶約、煎茶。茶葉蒸揉乾燥作。茶出蒸時間長深蒸煎茶、年頃。日本茶種類多。玉露茶煎茶日本茶。日本茶世界名声聞。今、日本茶道世界各国人受入。茶道人間1種精神文明、高度評価受。、日本茶道世界鹏云斋一番重要人。茶道成熟茶道精神茶道達成世界最盛期。終私稲作仏教大陸文化共、複合的日本伝来、茶敵環境地根、多茶産地生思。日本茶道起源日本茶道繁栄基礎打立。茶発展促隆盛茶道歴史。茶道成熟茶道精神茶道達成世界最盛期。近年、日本茶道繁栄傾向考。茶道日本伝統文化、日本国内、海外認。今、日本文化理解上不可欠言過言。近年、日本茶道繁栄。世界、影響与。日本茶道、古代中国関文学作品少、近代茶道研究茶道研究人日本少。近代国家進、文化普及、本他、新宣伝道具生。時代、茶道知。、今日本茶道研究多。日本茶道独自体系作上、厳格形式持。総体的言、茶持心清、心休、知高精義日本茶道中国茶芸双方取入、双方健康増進言。学者、日本茶道中国茶芸同起源有考。日本茶道和、敬、清、寂茶禅一位表明、人平和共存、互敬互愛、廉潔朴実、修身養性勧。日本茶道紹介見、日常茶飯事茶、生活密接関係。茶、文化、歴史的奥深。知知興味沸。、機会、私茶方面研究考。論文、不足、皆様指導思。参考文献1梁朵，茶道成都时代出版社2周平季林根黄典文郑文秀，日本風俗民情録东方出版中心19893江静吴玲，茶道杭州出版社20034韩维柱武慧敏闫金钟，南开大学出版社20075刘丽芸黄成洲，新编日本概况外语教学与研究出版社20086林瑞萱，中日韩英四国茶道中华书局20087关剑平，世界茶文化安徽教育出版社20118池建新王越，日本国家概况东南大学出版社2012謝辞本論文完成運、先生多忙中、貴重指導頂、心感謝意表次第。、論文最初階段進行終始熱心励方、心礼申上、終思。请您删除一下内容，O_O谢谢MANYPEOPLEHAVETHESAMEMIXEDFEELINGSWHENPLANNINGATRIPDURINGGOLDENWEEKWITHHEAPSOFTIME,THESEVENDAYCHINESE请您删除一下内容，O_O谢谢NATIONALDAYHOLIDAYCOULDBETHEBESTOCCASIONTOENJOYADESTINATIONHOWEVER,ITCANALSOBETHEEASIESTWAYTORUINHOWYOUFEELABOUTAPLACEANDYOUMAYBECOMEMOREFATIGUEDAFTERTHEHOLIDAY,DUETOBATTLINGTHELARGECROWDSDURINGPEAKSEASON,ADREAMABOUTAPLACECANTURNTONIGHTMAREWITHOUTCAREFULPLANNING,ESPECIALLYIFYOUTRAVELWITHCHILDRENANDOLDERPEOPLEASMOSTCHINESEPEOPLEWILLTAKETHEHOLIDAYTOVISITDOMESTICTOURISTDESTINATIONS,CROWDSANDBUSYTRAFFICAREINEVITABLEATMOSTPLACESALSOTOBEEXPECTEDAREINCREASINGTRANSPORTANDACCOMMODATIONPRICES,WITHTHEPOSSIBILITYTHATTHEREWILLBENOROOMSAVAILABLEITISALSOCOMMONTHATYOULLWAITINTHELINEFORONEHOURTOGETATICKET,ANDANOTHERTWOHOURSATTHESITE,TOONLYSEEATINYBITOFTHEPLACEDUETOTHECROWDSLASTYEAR,428MILLIONTOURISTSTRAVELEDINCHINAOVERTHEWEEKLONGHOLIDAYINOCTOBERTRAVELINGDURINGTHISPERIODISAMATTERTHATNEEDSTHOROUGHPREPARATIONIFYOUARESHORTONTIMETOPLANTHEUPCOMING“GOLDENWEEK“ITMAYNOTBEABADIDEATOAVOIDSOMEOFTHEMOSTCROWDEDPLACESFORNOWTHEREISALWAYSAPLACESOFASCINATINGTHATEVERYONEYEARNSFORARXANISAPLACELIKETHISTHEBEAUTYOFARXANISEVERLASTINGREGARDLESSOFTHECHANGINGOFFOURSEASONSBESTOWEDBYNATURE,ITSSPECTACULARSEASONALLANDSCAPEANDMOUNTAINSAREJUSTBEYONDWORDARXANISACRUCIALDESTINATIONFORTHERECOMMENDEDTRAVELLINGROUTE,“CHINAINNERMONGOLIAARXANHAILARMANZHOULI“ITISALSOTHEJOINTOFTHEFOURPRAIRIESACROSSTHESINOMONGOLIANBORDER,WHEREPEOPLEGRAVITATETOWARDSTHEEXOTICATMOSPHEREMIXEDWITHCHINESE,RUSSIAN,ANDMONGO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