unitcrossgendercommunication实用教案

1、Unit Goals123To learn effective cross-gender communication principleTo understand the differences between male and female in communicationTo learn useful words and expressions about cross-gender communication and improve language skills第1页/共21页第一页，共22页。 When women are depressed， they either eat or g

2、o shopping； men invade another country. 女人郁闷(ymn)了就大吃一顿或者大买特买；男人郁闷(ymn)了就侵略别的国家。 -Elayne Boosler When men and women agree, it is only in their conclusion; their reasons are always different. -George Santayana第2页/共21页第二页，共22页。CGCCross-gender communication is a form of intercultural communication. It

3、occurs when there is a communication between people from different sex.第3页/共21页第三页，共22页。What are the differences between sex and gender? Sex refers to the biological differences between males and females. its static and cant be changed. Katoey/Shemale 泰国人妖 第4页/共21页第四页，共22页。第5页/共21页第五页，共22页。 Gender c

4、oncerns the psychological, social and cultural differences between males and females. Its more dynamic and can be constructed in the life. 它属于文化范畴，是人们以生理为基础(jch)，受心理、社会、文化影响的社会化结果。它是通过交际习得。 Boylish, tomboy假小子, sissy娘娘腔, gay, lesbian 第6页/共21页第六页，共22页。第7页/共21页第七页，共22页。sex and gendersexgender masculine

5、masculineF Feminineminine eMaleMalemanmanFemale Female womanwoman第8页/共21页第八页，共22页。Text A Gender Differences in Communication Our style of communication depends on many things: where we are from, how and where we were brought up, what education we received and how old we are. It can also depend on ou

6、r gender. 第9页/共21页第九页，共22页。 The interaction between man and woman would be like communication between people from different planets. Men are from Mars，Women are from Venus. -John Gray第10页/共21页第十页，共22页。The styles men and women use to communicate have been described as debatevs.relatereportrapportcomp

7、etitivecooperativevs.vs.第11页/共21页第十一页，共22页。 Men: direct 1. often seek straightforward solutions to problems and useful advice. 2. compete to prove themselves better informed about current affairs, travel, sport, etc. Women: indirect 1. try to establish and reinforce intimacy relationships by discuss

8、ing problems and showing concern and empathy. 2. talk to each other they reveal a lot about their private lives.第12页/共21页第十二页，共22页。Speech patternsFacial expressionBehavior 第13页/共21页第十三页，共22页。Men Women They take up more physical space when sitting or standing, with arms and legs stretched out away fr

9、om their body.They take up less physical space, sitting with arms and legs toward their body.They gesture away from the body.They gesture forward the body.They are not as sensitive to the communication cues of others.They have greater sensitivity and acuity toward other peoples nonverbal communicati

10、on cues.Body language第14页/共21页第十四页，共22页。Men Women They tend to cock their head to the side and look at the other person from an angle when listening.They tend to look at the other person directly facing them with their head and eyes facing forward when listening.They provide fewer facial expressions

11、 in feedback and fewer reactions.They provide more facial expressions and more reactions.They tend to display frowning and squinting when listening.They display smiling and head-nodding when listening.They stare more in negative interaction. They lower their eyes more to avert gaze in negative inter

12、action.Facial expression第15页/共21页第十五页，共22页。Men Women They speak in a louder voice.They speak in a softer voice.They use loudness to emphasize points.They use pitch and inflection to emphasize points.They use more monotonous in speech. They use approximately 3 tones when talking. They sound more emot

13、ional in speech. They use approximately 5 tones when talking. They interrupt others more and allow fewer interruptions. They interrupt others less and allow more interruptions. They disclose less personal information about themselves.They disclose more personal information about themselves.Speech pa

14、tterns第16页/共21页第十六页，共22页。Men Women They try to solve problems and troubles.They try to match troubles by relating similar negative experiences.They have a more analytical approach to problems.They have a more emotional approach to problems.They are less likely to ask for help. They try to figure thi

15、ngs out on their own.They are more likely to ask for help and accept it.They are more task-oriented( i.e. “what is everyone going to do?”)They are more maintenance-oriented( i.e. “ Is everyone all right?”)More information will be found on pp8082 Behavior第17页/共21页第十七页，共22页。 Now please do the solo wor

16、k on page 83, and then give me the answers.exercise第18页/共21页第十八页，共22页。Text B Six Principles for Effective Cross-gender Communication.Suspend Judgment 中止、延迟判断 Recognize the validity of different communication styles 识别不同的沟通方式的有效性Provide translation cues 提供翻译提示、暗号Seek translation cues寻求翻译提示Enlarge your own communication style扩大自己(z