【双语阅读】Beingyourself

1、双语阅读Being yourselfAlways be yourself, exp ress yourself, have faith in yourself, do not go out and look for a successful p ersonality and dup licate it. Bruce Lee 总是做自己，表达自己，相信自己，而不是去寻找一种成功的性格和复制它。李小龙When I was younger and not as confident as I am today, I was no good at being the real me. I was too

2、 busy trying to live up to other peopi es exp ectations of me. I was too afraid of the criticism and negativity that comes with it. I was too afraid of being judged by society for doing what I believed in, instead of what they believed in. Or what others exp ected me to do. Im sure a lot of you can

3、relate to this. The real reason people criticize you for being yourself is because theyre afraid of doing the same thing. But regardless of the negative asp ects of doing whats right for you, here are the top 10 benefits of being yourself!我以前没有现在这么自信，也不懂得做真正的自我。那时候，我总忙 于迎合他人对我的期望，因为我特别害怕不从众后会受到批评与否

4、定。当我去做自己想做而非他人想让我去做的事情时，我很害怕别人 会对我评头论足。我相信，很多人也和曾经的我一样。别人之所以批评你做自己，归根结底是因为他们也害怕做自己。但是，我们不妨暂且把这些消极的东西搁置一边，先来看看做自己的10个好处吧!1 / 91O.People are more likely to trust you双语阅读10.别人会更愿意相信你Who are you more likely to trust? Somebody who kee ps it real with you, tells you like it is, and is straightforward, or

5、someone who cant say a few words without telling a lie? Honesty goes a long way. There arent too many honest people In todays society. And when youre straightforward, less people are likely to try and take advantage of you. But back to the po int, If you exp ect to be trusted, start being more hones

6、t. Its as pl ain and simple as that!你更愿意相信谁？是那些跟你说真话并且直言不讳的人，还是那些三 句话离不开谎言的人呢？诚实才能亘古长青。如今，社会上诚实的人 不多了。因此，如果你能直截了当，想要利用你、欺骗你的人便少 了。不过，还是先回到我们的话题。如果你想要被人信任，那么请你 把自己变得更加诚实，道理就是这么简单明了!9.You wont feel like a fraud9.你将不会觉得自己像个骗子Nobody likes feeling like a fraud. Nobody likes feeling like a faker. And nobo

7、dy enjoys feeling like a copy cat. Nobody should have to feel that way either! When youre a fraud, you have to deal with the way people are going to treat you. And lets be honest, nobodys going to take you seriously If youre trying to copy Nicki Minaj or whoever It might be. So cut it out and start

8、being honest with yourself. Unless you enjoy lying to yourself.2 / 9双语阅读没有人会喜欢当骗子，没有人会喜欢当冒牌货，也没有人会喜欢当盗 窃者，当然，更没有人必须拥有这种被欺骗的感觉！当你自欺欺人 时，人们也会戴着假面具和你交往。那么，还不如让我们遵循自己的 内心！你如果非要效仿妮琪米娜或其他人，那么只会吃力不讨好。除非你真的很享受欺骗自己，否则千万别这么做。从现在开始，忠于 你自己吧!8.Youll make better decisions8.你将会做出更明智的决定When you put yourself first y

9、oull always make better decisions when Its decision time. If youre constantly trying to copy someone, your decisions are going to be based on being like that p erson. Your decisions are going to be based off being something youre not. So Its clear to see why this would be a bad idea as far as decisi

10、on making goes. However, when youre honest with yourself and you resp ect yourself, your decisions will always make a lot more sense. Because theyll be based upon how you feel dee p down.如果你将自己置身于第一位，那么，当你需要做决定时，你一定会选 择更好的。如果你总是试图模仿他人，那么你所做的决定也只是像别 人的决定而已。这样一来，你的决定会没有你的立场。因此，只要是 这样子做的决定就必然是个糟糕的决定。然而

11、，当你忠实于自己、尊 重自己时，你所做的决定就会更有价值，因为它们是你内心深处的感 受。7.Youll gain a higher level of respect7.你将会获得更高的尊重Everybody looks up to somebody, whether theyre a celebrity, musician, business owner or pro fessional athlete. We look up to these people because we admire their sp irit, their courage, their confidence, an

12、d their level of honesty. Not to mention the fact theyre doing what they love to do, what they believe in, and they let NOTHING or NOBODY stop them. Thats po werful. You dont have to be someone else to be resp ected, doing that would be the opp osite. So be yourself, be confident, and watch how othe

13、rs warm to you and resp ect you for who you are.每个人都在仰望别人，他们也许是名人、音乐家、商业人士或者专业 运动员。我们尊敬这些人，因为我们仰慕他们的思想、他们的勇气、 他们的自信以及他们的可信度。他们正从事着他们所爱的、所信仰的 事，且没有任何事、任何人能够阻止他们，这使他们更具吸引力。你 用不着刻意去做被别人尊重的人，这样做只会适得其反。所以，还是 做自己，自信点，你会看到别人开始喜欢你，并且因为你就是你而尊 重你。6.You can ins pire others6.你能激励别人There are millions of people w

14、ho lack self confidence worldwide. Theres an endless amount of people who struggle with self confidence, being themselves and pu tting themselves out in the op en. I know from exp erience because I was one of those people. Just by being yourself and exp ressing your opini ons, you can ins pire hundr

15、eds of people who need it. You can change somebodys life just by showing them Its ok to be honest and Its ok to follow your heart. You can sp ring them into action and po ssibly change their lives forever. So be an ins piration!世界各地都有数百万缺乏自信的人，也有不计其数的人在与自信做斗争，他们正纠结于是做自己还是跟随大流。以个人经验来说，我能够明白这一点，因为我也曾是

16、其中员。但只有通过做自己、表达自己，你才能够激励成百上千需要自信的人。只有当别人看见诚实和遵 循内心都不是什么大不了的事时，你才能够改变他们。除了他们的言 行，你甚至还有可能彻底改变他们的命运。所以，请做一个能激励别 人的人吧!5.Your confidence will show5.你的自信将会展现出来Op timism is the faith that leads to achievement. Nothing can be done海without hope and confidence. Helen Keller 乐观是通往成功的真谛，缺乏希望和自信将一事无成。伦凯勒When you

17、 love who you are and have no p roblem with who you are, confidence Is guaranteed to show up. Lack of confidence shows up when youre happy with yourself, your character, and because you feel inadequate.But someone who loves who they are, and goes about this daily has an unst opp able amount of self

18、confidence. And thats attractive which ever way you slice the cake!当你爱真正的自己，且觉得自己现在一切都好时，你就有自信了。正 是因为你觉得自己不够好，所以才对自身和性格感到不满足，进而缺 乏自信。但那些爱自己的人，在日常生活中会有源源不断的自信心。这样一来，不管你用什么方式展现自己，你都会非常有魅力!4.Nobody can hold anything against you4.没有人可以反驳你If you know youre sp eaking your truth and nothing but your truth,

19、 nobody can hold that against you. Its not po ssible. People will only hold something against you If you give them reason to, or If theres blatant proof. Be yourself, kee p it real, sp eak your truth, then nobody will be able to hold anything against you. No matter what!如果你说的是真话，那么，没有人能反驳你，也根本不可能想要反

20、驳 你。只有当你给他们的理由或证据太过苍白无力时，他们才会跟你辩 驳。请做自己，信守真诚，坚持说真话，那么不管发生什么事情，都 不会有人跟你唱反调!3.You wont have anything to p rove3.你将不需要证明任何东西If you have to p rove your honesty to somebody, chances are youve already lost the battle. When you have to p rove something It usually means youre not cap able of doing it. When

21、you know who you are and what you stand for, trying to Imp ress others Is irrelevant. Leave the p roving to those who feelIts necessary.如果你必须向某人证明你的诚信，那么，你可能已经失去别人对你的 信任了；如果你必须要证明一些东西，那么，这也就意味着你难以成 事了。当你清楚你是谁以及你代表着什么的时候，你才不会把别人看 得那么重要，而证明，就留给那些觉得有必要的人吧!2.Youll attract the right friends2.你将会吸引志趣相投的朋友

22、If you go through your whole life feeling like a faker, being a faker, and living a lie, your friends will reflect that. Like they say, you are what youre around and theres a lot of truth to that. If you want to have honest friends who arent afraid to kee p it real, maybe you need to work on yourself first.Only then will you attract the right friends. If youre already honest as it is, but your friends are the opp osite, maybe you need to meet some new people.如果你觉得自己这辈子都像个骗子一样谎话连篇，那么，你的朋友也