家长是否应该帮助孩子走向独立

1、家长是否应该帮助孩子走向独立有些家长替孩子包揽一切为了帮孩子自立，家长应该In our modern and contemporary society, whether parents should offer a helping hand to making their children independence has become a hot button. In other words, we cannot afford to lose sight of the trend that the kids independence has become a social focus, wh

2、ich triggers wide concerns across the nation, especially the parents. This tide does exist in our society.In our society, a sizable portion of parents, especially the young parents, spoil their kids from all aspects. Spefically speaking, they help their children pile and clear up their school bags,

3、wash their clothes, even socks. Besides, they also talk to their children “if only you succeed in your study, please leave anything to me”.This prevalent tide sparks our deep thought. From my viewpoint, in an effort to reverse and eliminate this unfavorable trend mentioned above, considering the ser

4、iousness of this headache, Parents are supposed to teach their kids how to cope with a variety of complex siuations. In addition, parents also should take every opportunity to equip themselves with advanced educative knowledge and keep pace with the times and communicate with other parents who enjoy

5、s a wealth of educative experiences. In a word, We all hope that these children have less reliance on their parents and become independent economically and mentally.朋友We all know a story similar to this: Two Men and a Bear. In the forest, when a bear attacked them, the thinner man quickly climbed up

6、 to the top of a tree and forgot his promise to the fatter guy, who could not climb the tree, about helping each other when in danger. Luckily, the fatter man saved himself. The fatter mat was very disappointed, and when they got together again, he said to the thinner man, "You are not my real

7、friend. Only a friend in need is a friend indeed". This is a very familiar story. It illustrates to us what a friend should be like. It is, however, just a story. I would like to tell you something about myself, my true feel-ings. When I was in Senior One, I had great difficulty in learning sci

8、ence subjects. I was unable to understand the teacher and 1 could not do the exercises or the homework. I believed that I was stupid and could not learn anything. The sky was gray and the grass was yellow those days. Everything was a mess in my brain. My classmate, a good student, whom I only consid

9、ered as one of the classmates before, came to me with a smile. She told me that if I needed help, she would like to help me. As she was also very busy with her studies,I asked myself, "Could she help me? "Sev-eral days later, I knew the answer. Yes, she could. She did as much as she could.

10、 She made time every day to help me solve the problems and showed me many good ways to study science. Her patience and earnest nature touched me deeply. I worked very hard and my progress was reflected in my examination result. I appreciated her help very much and wanted to thank her. When I looked

11、at her, once again she smiled at me with an encouraging and congratulatory look. At that moment I understood that a true friend should be like this. Nowadays, it seems that there are many ways of expressing friendship. Our lives are generally better. People now have more time to consider and be more

12、 concerned about their lives. Money, which is considered by many to be of prime importance, makes it difficult to find true friendship. Is friendship only greeting each other on meeting? Is friendship only drinking and eating together? Is friendship only lending money to each other? No, a friend Sho

13、uld be a person you trust and understand. A friend should be a person who tastes happiness and bitterness with you. A friend should be a person who can give you confidence and encouragement. Though everything has changed, and friendship has scores of definitions, I still believe, and I will believe

14、forever that "A Friend in Need is a Friend Indeed". 选择合适的职业很重要。2你自己的择业原则是什么。3什么是你理想的职业。    It is very important to choose a right career. A right choice usually leads to success and happiness, while a wrong one often brings about failure and disappointment. Therefore, we mus

15、t get ourselves well prepared so that a right choice can be made when needed.    If I am to choose a career, my principles are as follows. First of all, it should be a real service to my fellowmen and not merely enable me to earn a living. Seondly, it should offer scope for creativity

16、 and imagination because I want to live a rich or meaningful life. Finally, it should provide me with opportunities and challenges, engaging my in terest and allowing me to develop my abilities.    There are many professions for me to choose from: teaching, newspaper work, research on

17、 social science and so on. Among them, the work of a reporter may suit me most, because it is an exciting job and is full of challengesBe ready for what you will doGood  evening,dear friends,  My name is Jiajunlei,Im from computer department,and my major is information management and

18、information sisterm.Im very honored to stand here sharing my opinion about preparation.  As is known to us all,every student in our university have to give a lesson instead of our English teacher since 2009.For this thing,my other fou roommates and I spent two weeks preparing for it.Compared wi

19、th other students,I think we paid more time and attention on it.It proved that works paid off.After class,our teacher spoke highly of us,whats more,we gained respect from our classmates.  As the old saying goes,success belongs to who makes preparations.It is the same with our life.Only if we ma

20、ke preparations before we do one thing,can we do it well.In one word,we ought to make preparations before we do ong thing.As a university student,I think it is of great importance for us to be ready for what we will do.Do you agree with me?Thats all,thank you for your listening!Happiness is the most

21、 precious thing in the world, which can be obtained in different ways. From my point of view, being in a good mood anytime and anywhere is the first thing for those who want to be happy. There is an old saying going like this, "happy is he who is content." I can't agree with it any mor

22、e. I still remember a story my mother told me when I was a child. A millionaire tried every means to seek after pleasure but to feel unhappy. It's not unique, but has its counterpart that poor men to whose name not having a thing always feel happy. Why are they so different? The answer is that t

23、he rich is being thinking how he can gain more while the poor is satisfied with what he owns at hand-health, freedom, love and so on. Furthermore, love makes great difference to happiness. If you have love in your heart, you will have happiness in your life. Love consists of two parts, one is to lov

24、e others, and the other is to be loved by others. Lei Feng set a good example for all of us. He served the people wholeheartedly until the last minute of his life. He regarded serving the people as the happiest thing. There are numbers of similar inspirational stories to be found. In addition, being

25、 loved by others can also lead you to happiness. Courage from your parents when frustrated, care from your lover when ill, help from your friends when in trouble all of these will make you the happiest person in the world. The last but not least is to act happily. Putting on a happy face and thinkin

26、g interesting things are helpful to trigger happy feelings. Wile happiness is precious, it is easy to get要包含以下内容 1.过去，拥有大学文凭就意味着可以找到一个好工作 2.这种情况已经发生了很大变化 3.如何面对这一深刻的变化About a decade ago, university students could find satisfactory and enviable jobs after their graduation. But now, things are differe

27、nt. Today's university students usually have much pressure in finding fairly good jobs. They always say disappointedly that graduation means joblessness. Why nowadays university students have so much pressure in finding jobs? In my opinion, this kind of pressure is mainly caused by three reasons

28、. Firstly, the government is enrolling more and more university students year by year. And the growth of the students' number has surpassed that of the need of the society. So, when so many students graduate at a time, the chance of finding jobs becomes tiny. Secondly, today's university stu

29、dents, most of them are the "only-child", who are more mentally frail. Since they are indulged greatly at home and haven't been trained to do things on their own, once it is their turn to go out of the campus and find jobs by themselves and decide what kind of jobs to choose, they feel

30、 bewildered and don't know what to do. If their first try fails, they will be frustrated and think that it is really hard to find jobs. Thirdly, some university students are not qualified for good and challenging jobs. After entering the university, they don't study as hard as they did in high schools. T