宝宝“坏毛病”爸妈怎应对？

1、宝宝“坏毛病”爸妈怎应对?在宝宝的成长过程中,孩子特有的一些行为令初为父母的犯难,他们或反应过度,或手足无措。比如对于孩子吮手指、满地滚爬、挑食偏食、说脏话这些行为让不少的家长感到头疼。虽然,有的“坏毛病”随着孩子年龄增加,有一些会慢慢消失,但是在这期间,家长又不能放任其发展,此时,爸爸妈妈应该如何去应对孩子的这些行为呢?吃手指宝宝成长过程中有一个阶段是特别喜欢把手伸进嘴巴里的,或者看见什么就往嘴巴里送。对此,很多妈妈感到特别头疼。其实,这是宝宝学着用嘴巴来感知事物的时期,父母需要做的,就是把宝宝长长的指甲剪短、磨平,把宝宝的小手洗干净,看见他抓一些脏的东西往嘴巴里送的时候,就帮他换一些干净的

2、物品。等孩子再大一点,这种吃手指或者是看见什么就往嘴巴里送的“坏毛病”慢慢就会消失了。广东省妇幼保健院儿童保健科副主任医师柯海劲指出,也有一部分孩子吃手指是因为心理需求。因为父母没时间陪孩子,忽略了孩子的正常心理需求,由于缺乏亲子之间的互动,孩子便只能通过其他方式来代替对母亲的依赖,如吮手指、咬指甲、吮奶嘴等。久而久之,便养成了这种不良习惯,形成了一种不正常的依赖心理。像这种情况,父母就应该多给孩子一点关心,通过亲子间的互动游戏,让孩子转移注意力。值得提醒的是,对孩子吃手指等习惯,家长千万不要通过“打手、大声批评”来粗暴制止,以免加重孩子的心理压力,使得咬手指的现象更加严重。满地爬一般来说,宝

3、宝长到八九个月的时候,已经学会爬行了,这个时候,宝宝的活动范围就变大了,喜欢满屋子到处爬,身上的衣服常常弄脏,在地上捡到什么都往嘴里送。所以,父母的视线也要一刻也不能离开宝宝,担心他碰到或磕到,因而常常会感觉宝宝太调皮,从而限制宝宝爬行。柯海劲说,爬行是宝宝开始主动接触和认识事物的一种方式,首先爬行能够很好地锻炼宝宝的动作协调能力,不会爬行或爬得不好的宝宝,以后的平衡能力及动作协调能力也会相对差一些。所以,孩子喜欢在地上爬倒不是什么坏事。此时,爸爸妈妈应该要做的,不是限制孩子的爬行,而是在家里腾出一块空地,把地板拖干净,或者铺上干净的垫子,放一些玩具在宝宝面前,让他可以追逐着玩具尽情地向前爬行

4、。当然,为了安全起见,最好让宝宝在爬行过程中不超出父母的视线范围,同时,把一些可能对宝宝的安全造成威胁的物品收好。等宝宝学会走路后,也就慢慢不喜欢在地上爬行了。挑食偏食当前,我国儿童因偏食、挑食等不良饮食习惯导致的营养问题比较常见,孩子在生长发育过程中,不是高而瘦的豆芽菜体形,就是胖墩儿。那么,怎么去纠正孩子挑食偏食的坏习惯呢?首先,父母应该先了解孩子为什么不爱吃某种食物。孩子不爱吃某种食物,有生理性的原因,如有些孩子不爱喝牛奶,可能是因为孩子牛奶蛋白过敏,孩子在喝了牛奶后会出现腹胀、腹泻等不良反应,因此他们就不喜欢喝了。另一方面,儿童对某种食物偏爱或者厌恶,也有可能是父母一手造成的,比如父母

5、不爱吃的,孩子也跟着不爱吃,或者孩子比较喜欢吃某种东西,父母就老给他吃。孩子不爱吃的,就不敢再给他吃,从小顺着孩子的需求,久而久之,就养成了一种挑食的不良习惯了,而这种习惯一旦养成就很难改变了。因此,对于孩子挑食,主要采用心理纠正的方法,通过父母的语言或者示范来纠正,切不可强迫进食,以免产生逆反心理。比如,当孩子不喜欢吃某一种菜的时候,烹饪的方式可以稍微改变一下,做得花样多,色香味俱全,孩子也会愿意尝试。当孩子不挑食时,父母也要趁机加以表扬,以巩固孩子下次继续吃这道菜的行为。说脏话很多父母会发现,孩子会说话之后,有时会吐出一些脏话来。柯海劲说,孩子说脏话有时只是为了好玩,想吸引大人的关注。因此

6、,家长可以通过冷处理的处理方法,如假装没听见,不理睬他,通过这种冷处理的方法,让宝宝感到,说脏话并不能引起大人的注意,说脏话并不好玩,慢慢地,他觉得无趣后自然就会慢慢减少说脏话的次数了。如果宝宝已经有一定理解能力了,父母就可以通过讲故事的方法告诉他,说脏话是一种让人讨厌的行为,慢慢地他就会改掉这种毛病了。另外,宝宝之所以学会说脏话,很多都是从身边接触的人那里模仿来的或者从电视节目中学来的,因此,家长应该避免在孩子面前说脏话,选择电视节目也要有所考虑。Eat your fingersGuangdong health care of women and children health care d

7、ivision of doctor of vice director of KeHaiJin, points out that there are some of the children to eat finger because of psychological needs. Because their parents have no time to accompany children, ignores the childrens normal psychological needs, because of the lack of interaction between kiss the

8、 son, the child was only through other ways to replace dependence on mother, such as finger sucking, nail biting, suck the nipple, etc. Over time, it has developed this kind of bad habits, and formed a kind of dependence on abnormal psychology. Like this kind of situation, parents should give their

9、children more care, through the interactive game between parent, let children divert attention.Worth to remind is, the children eat finger habits, such as parents dont rough stop by thugs, loud criticism, so as not to increase the childs psychological pressure, making bite fingers phenomenon is more

10、 serious.Climb over the groundIn general, the baby grow to eight or nine months, has learned to crawl, at this time, babys range is bigger, like climbing, about the room clothes dirty, often pick up to send everything on the earth. So, the line of sight of parents also cant leave the baby, is worrie

11、d about his encounter or into the, so often feel the baby is too naughty, thereby limiting the baby crawl.KeHaiJin said, crawling is the baby began to take the initiative to contact and a way of recognizing things, first crawl is able to train babys movement coordination, not crawl or climb well bab

12、y, balance and coordination of action after will be relatively less. So, the child likes to climb on the ground is not a bad thing.At this point, the father mother should have to do, not limit children crawling, but make a clearing in the home, the floor is clean, or clean the cushion on the shop, p

13、ut a few toys in front of the baby, let he can chase toy crept forward.To be on the safe side, of course, it is better to let the baby in the process of crawling not beyond the line of sight range of parents, at the same time, some items could pose a threat to the safety of the baby away. After the

14、baby learning to walk, will slowly dont like crawling on the ground.Picky eatingAt present, our country children because of partial eclipse, picky about food, such as poor eating habits lead to nutritional problems are common, children in the process of growth and development, is not high and thin b

15、ean sprouts, shape is PanDunEr. So, how to correct the child bad habit of picky eating?First of all, parents should understand why children do not love to eat some food. Children do not love to eat some food, have physiological reasons, such as some children do not love to drink milk, milk protein a

16、llergy, may be because the children children after drinking the milk appear abdominal distention, diarrhea and other adverse reactions, so they dont like to drink. On the other hand, the children have a food preferences or disgust, it is possible that parents infliction, parents do not love to eat,

17、for example, children followed do not love to eat, or children prefer to eat something, parents and old to give him to eat.Children do not love to eat, you cant give him to eat, grew up along the childs needs, over time, it formed the bad habit of a fussy eater, and this habit once formed, it is dif

18、ficult to change.Therefore, for the fussy children, mainly adopt the method of psychological correction, through the language of the parents or demonstration to correct, must not force fed, lest produce rebellious attitude. For example, when children dont like to eat a certain kind of food, cooking

19、methods can change a little, do more kinds, delicious, children will also be willing to try. When a child is not picky about food, parents also want to take you, to reinforce the behavior of the children continue to eat this dish next time.swearingMany parents will find that their children will talk later, sometimes spit out some words. KeHaiJin said children swear sometimes just for fun, to attract adults attention. Therefore, parents can through the cold treatment processing methods, such as pretended not to hear, dont ignore him,