如何给人一个好的第一印象)

1、 BE should. 狂躁、木然、老成、夸张狂躁、木然、老成、夸张NONONOIts very bad !A 20 centuries of conduct and actions of new talented person, we should.作为一个20世纪的新型人才，我们应该。PerformanceSincerity, amity, in proper form, big degree.真诚，友好，得体，大度.表现出What is the first impression?The first impression:In with the stranger the associati

2、on of the process, income arrive of relevant the other party of first the impression be called the first impression.The first impression not always exactitude, but always the most fresh and clear and the most firm of, and decision later both parties association of process. 第一印象：在与陌生人交往的过程中，所得到的有关对方的

3、最初印象称为第一印象。第一印象并非总是正确，但却总是最鲜明、最牢固的，并且决定着以后双方交往的过程。 The first impression include manner of speaking, looks, dress, bearing, expression.etc., know to say to the feeling all new of information, it stimulate sense organs also more mightiness, there is a kind of new experience, this like on a piece of bl

4、ank sheet of paper, a color which put on top be always very clear and similar. Therefore, the first time meet of impression, have the function of mental state settle power in laterly the association. “第一印象”包括谈吐、相貌、服饰、举止、神态等，对于感知者来说都是新的信息，它对感官的刺激也比较强烈，有一种新鲜感，这就如同在一张白纸上，第一笔抹上的色彩总是十分清晰一样。因此，初次见面的印象，在以后

5、交往中起了“心理定势”的作用。So, how is seek job, association, be in love wait for someone a border situation to leave a good impression to the person?The following what time the opinion can provide you with the reference:那么，如何在求职、交往、恋爱等人际场合给人留下良好印象呢？以下几点意见可供你参考：1- Please looking at the other party 请看着对方请看着对方 If

6、someone lead the Jian to you to the someone, the vision which is hesitating everywhere before pleasing assurance you can quick focuse in that persons body, otherwise, the other party will feel you absent-minded, felling oneself have no drive value.Please dont stare at eyes of the other party, perhap

7、s you feel so is to mean you very a respect him, but the orthoptic vision will let the person have already been compelled the felling for see, whole body uneasiness.Also dont the top and bottom conjecture the other party and this is very ill-mannered.As long as make the look in the eyes keep the upp

8、er eyelid in the other party of height line.如果有人把你引荐给某人，请保证你之前在四处观望的目光能够迅速聚焦在那人的身上，不然的话，对方会觉得你心不在焉，感觉自己并没有被重视。请不要盯着对方的眼睛，也许你觉得这样是表示你很尊重他，但直视的目光会让人有被逼视的感觉，浑身不自在。也不要上下打量对方，这是很不礼貌的。只要把眼神的高度保持在对方的上眼皮处就行。2- Earnest listen to introduce myself of the other party 认真听对方的自我介绍认真听对方的自我介绍 When the other party fr

9、om report family of time, please remember his surname, if have a job, also pleasing dont neglect, easy to can callas fitting title him.If the other party contain very heavy accent, you at that time have never listen to clear, never literally guess.Such as the other party Xing4 Chen2, but the place a

10、ccent let you listen to be like, you can so ask him:BE a pass ear?The other party then would answer you:, Is not, is an ear east Chen.Certainly if the other party be the person which have much of reputation, you so ask to still sweep the other party face very much of, meet this kind of circumstance

11、to still privately ask a side a person more appropriate. 当对方自报家门的时候，请记住他的姓氏，如果有职务，也请不要忽略，便于可以用恰当的称谓来称呼他。假如对方有很重的口音，你一时没有听清楚，千万不要随便猜测。如对方姓陈，但是地方口音让你听着像郑，你可以这样问他：“是关耳郑吗？”对方便会回答你：“哦，不是，是耳东陈。”当然如果对方是很有声望的人物，你这样问还是很扫对方颜面的，遇到这种情况还是私下问问旁人比较妥当。3- 要有良好的精神状态要有良好的精神状态。 Have to there is good mental state Proud

12、the spirit feature of Yang will feel the person vibrant with self-confidence, will let with you association of person felling arrive you be a worthwhile Wei at the heavy responsibility of credibility of person.If the spirit be lax, will leave the impression of I am untidy and rickety to depend for p

13、erson, nature cant win other people, either of respect friendly feeling.The clothes of exactitude will also give the vitality absolute being add not a few cent, dont pursue strange costume, that will become a laughingstock.The clothes are uncertain to want famous brand, but absolute want to have a l

14、iking for to the clearness and match a body, image qualities according to oneself, these all will is for you of the first impression add cent of important point. 昂扬的精神面貌会令人感觉充满活力和自信，会让与你交往的人感觉到你是一个很值得委于重任的可靠的人。如果精神松散，会给人留下“邋遢、不牢靠”的印象，自然也就不会赢得别人的尊重和好感。正确的衣着也会给精气神加不少分，不要追求奇装异服，那只会贻笑大方。衣服不一定要名牌，但绝对要看上去

15、清爽、合体、符合自身的形象气质，这些都将是为你的第一印象加分的要点。4- The attitude of Ping-ho 平和的态度平和的态度 The facial expression of inhospitality will give the person refuse it at a long distance outside of felling, enthusiasm will be stick up the label of attentive dedicate Mei too much, discreet in speech and manner will let the pe

16、rson feel you be very difficult become intimate with, too and at will and unavoidably let the person feel you not self-respect.So the most fitting attitude be a Ping-ho, let the person feel to get along with you very comfortable, will not too manily have scruples about. 冷漠的表情会给人拒之于千里之外的感觉，太过于热情会被贴上“

17、殷勤献媚”的标签，不苟言笑会让人觉得你很难亲近，太过随意又难免让人觉得你不自重。所以最恰当的态度就是平和，让人觉得和你相处非常舒服，不会有太多的顾忌。 5- Fitting body action 恰当的肢体动作恰当的肢体动作 If the other party age, job be smaller than you, you can clap his shoulder and signal hint him need not too cautious.At appropriate of time usage appropriate of body action, can draw near both parties of distance.But if abuse body action, will recruit persons bad impression.The person who for example have like Be talk and tapping the arm of the other p