2023年6月四级真题听力原文及答案

2023年6月四级真题听力原文１１．Ｗ：Diｄyouｗａｔchthe7ｏ*cｌoｃkｐｒogｒamoｎchanneｌ2ｙesterdaｙevｅniｎg?Ｉwaｓaboｕttowatchitwhｅｎsoｍｅonecamｅtoｓeeme．M:Yeah!Itreportedsｏmemaｊorbrｅａkthrougｈiｎcancerreｓearcｈ.Pｅopleover４0wouｌdfｉｎdａpｒogramwoｒｔhwaｔｃhing.Q:WhatｄｏｗｅlearｎfｒｏｍthecoｎveｒsatiｏｎaｂoutｔheTVprogｒam？12.ﻫW:ＩwoｎａfirstprｉzeintｈeNationaｌWritｉngＣonteｓtandIgｏttｈiｓcamｅｒaasaｎａwａｒdsI

Ｍ：Ｉt'ｓagoodcaｍera!Youcantakeitwheｎyｏutravel.Ihadnoidｅayouwｅｒeａｍaｒｖｅlouswriteｒ.ﻫQ:Whaｔdowｅlearｎｆｒoｍｔhｅconｖersａtｉｏｎ?13.ﻫM:IｗｉｓhＩhadn＇ｔｔｈrｏwｎawaｙｔｈatｒeadiｎｇlist！

W:Iｔｈoｕgｈyoumiｇhｔｒegrｅｔiｔ．That＊swhyIpｉcｋｅditｕpfromｔhewastepaｐｅrbaｓkeｔandｌefｔitontｈeｄｅsk.

Q：Whaｔdoｗelｅarnｆroｍtｈecｏｎverｓatiｏn?14.

W:Arｅyｏusｔillteacｈingａｔthejｕnｉorhighsｃhｏｏl?ﻫM：NoｔsinｃeJｕne.ＭybrotｈerａnｄIopｅｎedareｓtaurａntassoonaｓｈegotoｕtoftｈearmy.ﻫＱ:Whａtｄowｅlearｎaｂoｕttｈｅmａnfromthｅconversaｔｉoｎ?15.

M:Hｉ,Ｓuｓａn！HaveyouｆiniｓｈｅdｒeaｄinｇthebookPｒｏfessｏｒJohnsoirecommｅｎded？ﻫＷ:Oh，Ｉhaｖen＇ｔｒｅａｄｉttｈroughthewａyIreadａnovｅl.Ijｕｓtrｅadafewchapteｒswhｉｃｈinteｒestedme.

Q：Wｈａtdoestｈeｗoｍaｎmeaｎ？１6.

M：Jａneｍisｓｅdtheclaｓsagaiｎ,ｄｉdｎ*ｔsｈｅ?Iwondｅｒｗhy?ﻫW:Wｅll,Iｋnewｓhehaｄbeｅnａbｓentaｌlweek.ＳoIcalｌedｈerthｉsmorｎingtoseｅifshewasｓick．Itturnedoｕtthaｔｈｅrhuｓbandwasbadlyinjuｒｅｄiｎaｃaraｃcident.

Q:WhaｔdoeｓtｈewomaｎsａｙaboutJａne？17.

W:I'ｍsｕretｈeSmithｓ＇nｅwhouseissｏmｅwherｅonthesｔreeｔ,ｂｕtIdｏｎ‘tknoweｘactｌｙｗhereｉtis.

M:ＢutＩ’mtoｌdｉt'stwobｌockｓfｒomｔheiroldhｏme.ﻫQ:Whatdoweleａrnｆｒｏmtheｃｏｎｖｅrｓation?18．ﻫW:Ｉ’vebeeｎwaiｔingherealｍoｓthaｌfanｈoｕr!Howｃomeittookyｏuｓoｌonｇ?ﻫM:Sorｒy，ｈonｅy!ＩhａdｔｏｄrivetwobloｃｋsbeforｅIsｐｏttedapｌacetoｐarｋtheｃar.ﻫＱ:Wｈatdowelearnfroｍthecoｎvｅｒsaｔioｎ?

ﻫＣonversatiｏnOne:

M:Hｅlｌo,Iｈaｖｅａreseｒｖaｔionforｔonighｔ.ﻫW：Ｙouｒname,plｅasｅ.ﻫM:Nelsｏn,CｈarlesNｅlson.ﻫW：Ｏk,Ｍｒ．Nelson．That'sarｏｏmforfivｅａnd．..ﻫM:Butｅxｃuｓeme,youmeaｎaroｏmfｏｒfiveｐoｕnds?Ididｎ'tknｏwthｅｓpecｉalwassogood.ﻫW:No，no,holｄno-acｃｏｒdiｎgtoｏurrecｏrds,aroomfor５gｕesｔswaｓbookedunderｙｏuｒname.ﻫM：Ｎｏ,no---holdｏn.Youmuｓthａｖetwogueｓtｓundeｒtｈenａme.ﻫW:Ｏk,letmecheckｔhisaｇａin.Oｈ,hｅreｗeare.

M:Yeah?

W：CharlesNeｌsoｎ,aｒoomfoｒｏｎefｏrthe19th．．.ﻫM:Wait,wait.Ｉｔ'sｆortonight，ｎｏttomoｒrowｎight.

Ｗ:Ｅm．..,Ｉdoｎ＇tthinkwehaveanｙrooｍｓｆoｒｔonｉght.Therｅ＇sacｏnferencegoingｏnintowｎand-－－ｅr,let＇sseｅ...yｅah,nｏrooｍs.ﻫM：Oｈ,comeon!Ｙoｕmuｓthavｅsometｈing,ａnything!

Ｗ:Ｗｅｌｌ,lｅt---ｌetmｅchｅｃkmycompｕterｈere..．Aｈ!ﻫM:What?

M:Ｏｈ,ｃomeｏｎ!Youmusthaｖesｏｍething,ａnythinｇ！ﻫW:Thｅreｈasｂeenacａncelｌationfoｒtｈisevｅniｎg.Aｈoneｙｍｏoｎ

sｕitｅｉsｎowavａilabｌe.ﻫM：Greａt,I＇IItaｋｅiｔ．ﻫW:But,I'IIhaｖetｏｃharｇeｙoｕ１50poｕｎdsforthenigｈｔ.ﻫM:Ｗｈat?Isｈｏuldhaveadiscountfortheｉnconveｎienｃe!

W：Wｅlｌ,tｈebｅstＩcaｎｇiveyｏuｉsａ10%ｄｉscountｐluｓａticketforａﻫfｒeeｃontinentｂｒeakｆａst．ﻫM:Ｈｅｙ,isn'tｔhｅbｒeａｋfastfｒeeanywａy?ﻫW:Ｗｅll,onｌｙonwｅｅkｅnｄｓ．ﻫM：Iwaｎttotalｋtothemａnａgeｒ.

W：Wait,wait,waiｔ.．．Ｍｒ.Nelson,IthｉnkIcａｎgiveyｏuａnadditional15%ｄiscount.．.1９.Ｗｈat＇stheman'sprobｌem?

２0．Ｗｈyｄiｄthehｏtelｃlerksａｙthｅｙｄiｄｎ'thaveａnyrooｍsｆｏrｔhatnｉght？

21．Ｗhatdｉdtheｃlerkｓayａboutｔhebｒeakfastinthehｏtｅｌ?ﻫ22.Wｈatdiｄthemanimplｙhewoulddoattheenｄoｆtheconvｅrsation？

ﻫCｏnversaｔｉonTｗｏ:

M:Saｒah，youwｏrkintheadmissiｏｎｓoffｉce,don'tyoｕ?ﻫW:Ｙes,I'nvHpvebeｅｎherｅtenyeaｒsaｓasｓｉstantｄireｃtor.ﻫM:Really?Whatdｏesthatinｖoｌｖe?ﻫW:Well,Tmｉnｃhａrgeoｆａlltheadmisｓioｎsoｆpostgraduaｔe

stｕdｅnｔsinｔhｅuniversit.ﻫM:Onlｙpｏｓtgraduates?ﻫW:Ｙes,pｏsｔgrａduatｅｓonlｙ．Ihaｖenothｉngatalｌtodowｉtｈ

ｕnderｇraduaｔeｓ．ﻫM：Dｏｙouｆiｎｄthａtyoｕgetｐａｒtiｃuｌａr-soｒｔof．..

dｉffereｎtnationalgroupｓ?Imean，dｏｙoｕgetｌaｒgenｕｍbｅrｓｆｒomＬaｔiｎAｍｅｒｉcaor.．.ﻫW：Yes.Ｗeｌl,ｏfaｌlthestｕdentｓenｒolｌeｄlaｓtｙｅar,ｎearｌｙhalfwereﻫｆrｏmｏveｒｓeaｓ.ＴｈeｙwｅrefroｍAfricancouｎtrｉes,ｔheFarEasｔ,theﻫＭiddｌeEast,andLａtinAｍｅｒica．

M:Eｍ.Buthaveyｏubeendoingjusｔthａｔfortheｌaｓt１0ｙears，oｒ,

haveｙｏudoneotｈｅrtｈiｎgs?

Ｗ：Well,I'vebeendｏingｔhesamejob.Er，befoｒｅthat,IwassecrｅｔaｒyｏftｈｅmｅdiｃａlschoolａtBirｍingham,aｎｄfurtherbacｋ，Iwｏrｋeｄｉntheloｃalgoｖerｎmeｎt.ﻫM:Oh，Isee.

W：SoTvｅdonｅdifferenttｙpesofthingｓ.

Ｍ：Yes，ｉndｅed.Hoｗｄoyouimagiｎeyourjobmightdｅveloｐinｔhefutuｒｅ？Ｃanｙouimａgiｎeｓhiftinｇiｎtoadifferentkindofrｅspｏnｓｉbｉliｔyordoingsometｈinｇ．..

W：Oh，ｙeah,ｆroｍOctoｂｅr1,I'ＩIbｅdｏinganｅnｔｉreｌydiffeｒｅntjob.

Therｅ'ｓgoｉｎgtobｅmｏrecｏmmiｔteeｗoｒk.Iｍeａｎ,moreｐｏlｉｃｙｗorｋ,aｎｄlｅssdeａlinｇwithstudenｔs,uｎｆortunately－TIIｍissmycontactwｉthstuｄeｎts.Qｕesｔionｓ23ｔo25arebasedｏnｔheconverｓａｔionyou＇vejuｓｔheａrｄ:23．Wｈatiｓtｈeｗoman'spｒeｓentｐosition?ﻫ24．Wｈaｔdoｗelearｎaboutthｅpｏｓtgraduａtesｅnｒｏlledｌａｓｔyeａrｉｎｔhｅwoman'sunｉｖｅｒｓitｙ?ﻫ25.Whatwilｌthewｏman'sｎewｊoｂbelikｅ?

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Ｑｕestions2６tｏ28aｒebasedoｎtheｐasｓａgeｙｏuhaveｊustｈeaｒd：

２６:Whａtdoesthｅspeakｅｒtｅlluｓaboutｈismｏｔher’seａrlｙchｉlｄhood?

27：Wｈaｔdoweｌeaｒｎaｂｏuｔｔhｅspeａker’sfather?

2８:Whatdoｅｓthｅspｅakerｓaｙabouthismother？Ｐassａge２

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30:WhａtｓurprisｅdDonalｄHerbｅrt’sｆamiｌｙａndｄｏctorsoneSaturday?ﻫ31：HowlongdidHeｒbｅｒtremainunconscious?ﻫ32：HoｗdidHerbｅｒｔ’ｓfａmilyｒeacｔｔoｔhepubliｃatｔenｔiｏn？Pａssａｇe3

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Wｉtｈtheｐａssagｅofｔｉｍｅ，thefaｉrhａsgｒownanｄchanｇedaloｔ.ButitisstｉｌloneoftheＩｎdiana’sceleｂratedevｅnts.PeｏplefｒoｍalｌoveｒＩnｄiａnaandfrｏmmaｎyothersｔatesattendtheｆair.ﻫTheycａｎdomanythiｎgsaｔthefaｉr.Theycａnwatｃhtheｊudginｇofthepｒiｃedcoｗs，ｐiｇsaｎｄｏｔhｅraｎimａls．Theycａnsｅesｈeepgｅttingtheirwoolcuｔandthｅycａnlearnhoｗthatwｏolｉｓmadeｉnｔｏclｏthiｎg.Ｔheycaｎｗatchcｏwｓgiviｎgｂｉrｔｈ.Infaｃt，peｏｐｌecanlearnabouｔａnimalｓtｈeywouldnｅveｒｓeeeｘcｅptoｔherfａir.Ｔhefａirｐroviｄesｔheｃhaｎceforthefarｍｉnｇｃommuｎityｔｏshowｉtsskillsaｎdfunproducts.Fｏreｘampｌｅ,ｖiｓitｏrsmiｇhtseｅthewｏrｌd’slａrgestappleｏrthetaｌleｓｔsunfloｗerpｌant.

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３4:Hoｗｄiｄｓomefarmｅrsgiveentｒanceｔｏthefairinｔｈeｅaｒly１9３0’s？ﻫ3５:WｈyarｅstatｅfairsimporｔaｎteventsｉntheAmerica?Stｕdｅnts’preｓsuｒesometｉmeｓcomｅsｆｒｏmtｈeiｒpａｒents.Mosｔpareｎtsaｒewell-ｍｅanｉｎg,bｕtsoｍｅofthｅmａren’ｔveｒyｈｅlpfｕlwｉthtｈｅｐrｏblemｓthｅirsonｓanｄdａｕｇhｔerｓｈaｖeｉｎａdjusｔingtocolｌｅｇe.Ａnｄａfewofｔhｅｍsｅemtoｇoｏuｔoｆtheiｒwａytoaddtoｔｈeｉrchildｒeｎ’ｓｄiffiｃｕlties．Foronething，pａrentsａｒｅofｔeｎｎoｔawａreoｆthekｉndsoｆpｒoｂlemｓｔｈeirchｉldrｅnfaｃe.Thｅｙdｏn’treaｌizethatthecｏmpetｉtioniskeeneｒ，thatthereｑuｉredstaｎdarｄsofworkaｒｅhigher，andthattheirchiｌdrenｍayｎotbeprepａredｆorthｅchange.ＡccuｓｔomｅｄtoseeiｎgAsaｎdＢｓonhｉghｓchoolreporｔcａrdｓ，ｔhｅymayｂeｕpｓｅtwhentｈeiｒchildｒen’sfiｒｓtsemestｅｒｃollegeｇradesａｒeｂeloｗthａtｌｅｖｅl．Attheｉｒkindｅsｔ，thｅyｍaygｅntlｙenqｕirｅwhｙJoｈnorMａｒｙiｓn’tdoingbeｔtｅｒ,wｈetherhｅｏrｓhｅisｔrｙingasｈardashｅorshｅshould，andsoon.Attheｉrworst,thｅymａyｔｈｒeａtｅntotaｋethｅirchiｌｄrenoutoｆcoｌlegｅoｒｃutoffｆunds.Ｓomeｔｉｍespaｒentsｒｅgardthｅiｒchilｄreｎａｓeｘtensiｏnsoftheｍselｖｅsａndthinkitonｌyrightandnaturａlthａttheydetermiｎewhattｈeｉrcｈildｒeｎdoｗiththｅiｒliｖeｓ.Intheirｉnvolvementandidentｉficａtionwｉｔhtheｉｒchildrｅｎ,ｔheyforgｅｔthateverｙoneisdiffｅrｅｎｔａnｄthａteachpersonmustdeveloｐinhisorｈerownｗay.Theyｆorgｅtthattheirｃhilｄrｅｎ,whoarenｏwｙoungａduｌts，mustbetheoｎｅsrｅsｐonｓibleｆｏｒwｈａttheyｄoandwhatｔhｅyar