【素养阅读】有效沟通

素养阅读系列课件课标话题--《情感社会》篇有效沟通读有所获练有所得思有所悟视野拓展Ifthereisaconflict(矛盾),thinkcarefullybeforeyouspeak.Arguing(争论),blaming(责备)othersandname-callingjustmakeaconflictworse.Politecommunication(交流)isthesharingoffeelings,thoughts,orinformation.I-messagesarethebestwaystotellsomeonehowyoufeelorwhatyouthink.Youbeginwith“I”andthentalkaboutyourself.Listeningisalsoanimportantpartofappropriate(合适的)communication.Youshouldalwayslistenpolitelytothepersonyouarespeakingwith.Sometimeswhenyoulisten,you读有所获练有所得思有所悟视野拓展learnthatyoumadeamistake.Theappropriatewaytohandle(处理)thatistosaythatyouaresorry.Afteryousayyou’resorry,trytomakethesituationbetter.Ifyoubreaksomething,fixitifyoucan.Ifyouforgettodosomething,tryagain.Withalittlepractice,youcanlearntousegoodcommunicationskillseveryday.读有所获练有所得思有所悟视野拓展1Whichofthefollowingdoesnotmakeaconflictworse?A.Arguing.B.Name-calling.C.Blamingothers.D.Politecommunication.答案：D细节理解题。根据第一段可知，争吵、骂人和备别人都会使矛盾严重，有礼貌的交流会使矛盾缓解。因此选择D项。答案解析读有所获练有所得思有所悟视野拓展2Whatisthebestwaytotellsomeonehowyoufeelorwhatyouthink?A.Takingaction.B.SayingI-messages.C.Talkingslowly.D.Chattingonline.答案：B细节理解题。根据第二段可知，I-messages是告诉别人你的感觉和想法的最好方式。因此B项正确。答案解析读有所获练有所得思有所悟视野拓展3Whatistheappropriatewaytohandleamistake?A.Blamingothers.B.Forgettingit.C.Sayingsorrytoothers.D.Listeningpolitelytoothers.答案：C细节理解题。根据第三段可知，跟别人说抱歉是弥补自己错误的正确方式，因此C项正确。答案解析读有所获练有所得思有所悟视野拓展4WhichofthefollowingisNOTtrue?A.Youshouldlistenpolitelytootherpeople.B.Politecommunicationisthesharingoffeelings.C.Listeningisn’tapartofgoodcommunication.D.Youcanlearntousegoodcommunicationskillseveryday.答案：C细节理解题。根据第二段可知，倾听是交流的一个重要方面。所以C项表述错误，因此选择C项。答案解析读有所获练有所得思有所悟视野拓展Whatdoyouusuallydowhenyouareinaconflict?WhenIhaveconflictswithmyfriends,Iusuallytrytocommunicatewiththem.Iwouldlistenpolitelytothem,andexplaintothem.Inaword,Iwouldtrymybesttoendtheconflicts.读有所获练有所得思有所悟视野拓展关于言行举止的谚语Amanofsensetalkslittleandlistensmuch.有识之士