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UnitlParti原文
Part1Warmingup
ATapescript:
ThePorterFamily
MrWilliamPorterisveryold.He's87.AndMrsCatherinePorteris8().MrPorterisfromWales.JohnPorterandMaryare
brotherandsisterJohnPorteris53andhe'salawyer.HiswifeSusanis48,andshe*sanarchitect.JamesPorterandJoanLee
arecousins.JamesPorteris24andJoanLeeis17.
BTapescript:
HereareafewgeneralideasIbelievehelpmakeamaniagework:
l.Goondateswitheachother.Renewromanticfeelingsbyspendingspecialtimetogether.
2.Beasspecificasyoucanwhenyoucomplain,makearequest,orofferpraise.
3.Whenstressedbyfatigueoryourowninsecurities,imagineyouandyourpartnerinafoxhole,surroundedby
danger.Insteadofstrikingoutatyourpartner,findawaytoprotectthepartnership!
4.WhenyoufeelMdistantJtalkaboutitwithyourpartner.
5.Beassuredthatpartnersinallmarriagessometimesgettired,irritable,ordistracted.Worktogethertounderstandeach
other.
6.Respecteachother.Leaveifdangerexists.Findprofessionalhelpifphysical,sexual,emotional,orverbalabuseoccurs.
7.Fightto"understand,unotto"win.n
CTapescript:
Havingbeenmarriedformorethan40years,1canattesttotruthofthefollowingstatement:Toexcelintheartof
domesticargument,onemustmastertheartoflosing
Modernpsychologistsaretakenwiththeulose-loseusolution.Butinmarriage,successresidesmorein"lose-lose"
solutions.Outofthese,bothpartiescanwin.ForintheloveconfigurationJosinggivesagiftthatalwaysreturns.
Theissuesthatpeopleargueovermostinmarriage,suchashowtospendmoney,oftenaren'ttherealones.Thekey
issueis:whoisgoingtobeincontrol?WhenIwasyounger,myneedtocontrolaroseoutoffear,alackoftrustinsecurity.
ThedayIfinallyrealizedIneedn'ttocontrol
mywife-that,indeed,1oughtnottocontrolher,thatIcouldn'tcontrolher,andthatifItryto,1woulddestroyourmarriage-
wasthedayourmarriagebegan.
Whatisitwewantmostfromamarriage?Toloveandbeloved.Tobehappyandsecure.TogrowtodiscoverAlove
relationshipisthegardeninwhichweplantcultivateandharvestthemostpreciousofcrops,ourownself,andinwhichour
spouseisprovidedthesamerichsoilinwhichtobloom.
Wecannotobtainwhatwewantunlessourpartneralsogetswhatheorshewants.Soremember:ifyouwanttofeel
lovedandrespected,giveupcontrol.
UnitlPart1答案
PartI-A
87,80,53,48,24,17
PartI-B
1.spendingspecialtimetogether.
2.specific,complain,request,praise.
3.fatigue,insecurities,foxhole,strikingout,protect.
4.distant
5.allmarriages,Worktogetherounderstand
6.Respect,danger,professional,physical,verbal
7.Understand,win
PartI-C
40,excel,domesticargument,losing
win-win,lose-lose,win,agift,returns
argueover,aren't,who,incontrol,fear,didn'tneed,oughtnotto,couldn't,triedto,destroy,maniage
love,loved,secure,discover,garden,cultivate,themostprecious,ownself,bloom.
obtain,ourpartner,lovedandrespected,control.
UnitlPart2原文
Part2
ATapescript:
ManypeopleinWesterncultureschoosetheirownwivesandhusbands.Inmanyothercultures,spousesareoften
chosenbytheparentsInChinaandJapanbeforethiscentury(20thcentury),upper-classmarriageswerean*angedbythe
oldermales.InmanyculturesintheMiddle
East,Asia,andpre-industrialEurope,theman'sfamilynegotiatednegotiateda"brideprice1'withthewoman'sfamily:the
man'sfamilywasexpectedtopayit.InHinduIndia,thebride'sfamilypaida"groom'sprice"tothefamilyoftheman.
Thesecustomsareweakening:forinstance,only9.2percentofJapanesemarriagesarenowarranged.
Whatarethecriteriaforchoosingmates?Mostmarriages-whetherarrangedbyfamiliesoroccurringfrompersonal
attractionorlove-arebasedonsimilarsocialbackgrounds.Inotherwords,themanandthewomancomefromthesame
socialclass(orelseaclassthatisonlyslightlyhigherorslightlylower).AmongmanypeopleinEgypt,keymembersofthe
man'sfamilymustgotothefamilyofthewomanandproposemarriage.Thesefamilymembersmustbeabletoshowthat
theman'sfamilyisatleastofthesamesocialclassasthewomanandthatacertainamountofmoneyexiststoallowthe
marriagetogoforward.
Havingthesameraceorthesameethnicbackgroundisthesecondmaincriterionfbrmarriagethroughouttheworld.
IntheU.S.,wheretherearemanydifferentraces,only3percentofallmarriagesarebetweenblacksandwhites,meaning
thattheracesarestilllargelyseparateinmarriage.
Inmanycountries,marriageisalsobasedonthewomanandmanhavingthesamereligion:
thisisathirdcommoncriterionforchoosingamate.Inculturesinwhichreligionisaverystrongvalue,marriageswould
oftennottakeplaceiftherewerereligiousdifferences.
BTapescript:
A:Whatdoyouthinkitisthatattractspeopletoeachother,thatmakes
peoplewanttobetogether?
B:Ithinkthatperhapsunfortunatelyintheinitialstagesit'sthephysical
appearancethatattacts.Ithinkunlessyoufindsomebodyattractive,
unlessthere*ssomethingaboutthem一itcouldonlyperhapsbethe
waytheysmileortheylaugh,oratwinkleintheireye,orthewaya
curlfallsovertheirforehead.Butsomethinglikethathastomakeyou
interestedenoughtofindoutmoreaboutthatperson,unlessthat's
thereIthinkyoujustdon'tbother.SoinitiallyphysicalattractionI
thinkisall-important.
A:Whydoyousay"unfortunately"?
B:Becauseinfactitshouldn'tbewhatsomebodylookslikethatisimportant.Youshouldbeabletolookbeyondthe
physicalappearanceandseewhatsortofapersonheorsheis,whetherthey'reselfishorselfless,whethertheyYe
kind,caring.ButIthinkinitiallyyou'renotbotheredwiththat.Thatcomesperhapslater.
A:Inpopsongsandmagazinesandnewspapersandsoon,theideaoffallinginloveisalwaysemphasized,sopeoplehave
thisideathatyouhavetofallinlove.Doyouthinkthisismisleadingforpeople?Doyouthinkpeopleexpectsomething
thatinfactdoesn'texist?
B:YesIdo,infactIthinkwecanprobablylaytheblameforthehighpercentageofdivorces-it'sathirdIthinknow,isn'tit?
Ithinkoneinthreepeoplegetdivorced.ProbablyasfarasIcanseeit,thereasonisthattheygointomaiTiageorintoa
relationshipwithaveryromanticviewoflovewhichIthinkhasbeencreatedbythepopsongs,byallthelovestories,by
theBarbaraCartlandnovels,etc.-,thatyoungpeopleread.Really,youmeetsomeone,youfallinlove,andthat*sit,
it*sthebeginning,theylivehappilyeverafter.AndIthinkthat*stheproblem,becausepeoplejustexpectthat,andit'snot
likethat.
A:Sowhatisit,doyouthink,thatreallysustainsarelationship,thatkeepsarelationshipgoing?
B:Well,1thinkyouhavetodifferentiatebetweenfallinginlovewithsomebody,whichIseeasmoresuperficial,andloving
somebody,whichIseeasadeeperemotionandonethatperhapslasts.Fallinginloveissuperficialattraction,being
attractedtosomebodyphysically,havingfuntogether,whereaslovingsomebodyIthinkisanemotionthatgrows,itcomes
withsharedexperiences,perhapsenjoyingdoingthesamethingstogether,sharedhobbies,sharedinterests‘suffering
togetheraswell,goingthroughthebadtimes,helpingeachother,supportingeachother.Ithinkallthatneedstimeto
grow,andI'dcallthatlove,andIthinkthat*swhatmakesarelationshiplast.
CTapescript;
Foryearsmenandwomenhavebeengettingmarried.Theysaytheirweddingvowswhichbringthemtogetherasone.
Theypromisetoloveandcherisheachotheruntildeathdothempart.
Whenamanandawomangetmarried,itisoneofthebiggestdecisionstheywillmakeinlife.Amanmayselectawoman
becausehe,inhisowneyes,seesherasthe1'just-right'1wifeforhim.Everymanhashisowndefinitionofwhatthe
"just-right"wifeis.Forinstance,themillionairemanandthepoormanbothmaydefinetheir"just-right'*wifeaccordingto
herphysicalqualities.
Amillionairemaydescribehis'Just-right"wifeascharming,beautiful,sexyintelligent,andwelldeveloped.Onthe
otherhand,apoormanmaydefinehis“just-right“wifeaspleasing,attractive,desirableknowledgeable,andshapely.Both
mendescribetheir"just-right1'wifebythesamephysicalqualitiesbutusedifferentwords.
Althoughsomemendefinethe“just-right”wifebyherphysicalqualities,othermendescribetheir"just-right"wifeby
herathleticqualities.Forexample,theoutdoorsmanmaydefinehisUjust-rightnwifeasawomanwholovestofish,to
camp,tohunt,andtowaterski,whereastheinsidesportsmanmaydefinehis"just-right"wifeasawomanwhoenjoys
watchingfootball,basketball,baseball,andwrestling.Bothofthesemendefinetheir"just-right,'wifebyhersportsqualities
butintwodifferentatmospheres.
Menfromallnationalitiesalsohavetheirdefinitionofthe"just-rightHwife.Forexample,theItalianmandescribeshis
womanasawomanwhostandssixfeetoneinchtallwithblondehairandblueeyes,andwhoiswelldevelopedintheupper
portionofherbody.Ontheotherhand,theFrenchmanmaydescribehisidealwomanasawomanwhostandsonlyfivefeet
threeincheswithbrownhairandgreeneyes,andwhoismoderatelybuilt.
Othernationalities,suchastheGermanman.andtheSpanishman,maydefinetheir'*just-right'*wifeasawomanwith
style.TheGermanmanmaydescribehis"just-right'*wifeasawomanwholikestodriveexpensivesportscars,awoman
whovisitsadifferentforeigncountryeverymonthandwearsonlythemostexpensivedesignerclothing.ButtheSpanish
manmaydefinehis'Just-right*'wifeasawomanwhoenjoysgivingdinnerpartieseveryweekend,wearingalotof
jewelry,anddrinkingexpensivewines.
UnitlPart2答案
PartII-A
A2
1.similarsocialbackgrounds.
2.thesameraceorsameethnicbackground.
3.thesamereligion.
A3
Japan/9.2%/an*angedmarriages
3%/betweenblacksandwhites
PartII-B
1.physicalappearance;
2.whatsomebodylookslike,.・・・・,lookbeyondthephysicalappearance
3.thehighpercentageofdivorces.
4.fallinglovewithsomebody,・・...,lovingsomebody
PartII-C
oneofthebiggestdecisionstheywillmakeinlife,
asthe"just-rightnwifeforhim,
definitionofwhatthe"just-rightnwifeis,
themillionairemanandthepoorman,
herphysicalqualities,
differentwords,
byherphysicalqualities,
byherathleticqualities,
intwodifferentatmospheres,
alsohavetheirdefinitionofthe'just-right"wife,
theGermanman*sdefinitionisdifferentfromtheSpanishman's.
UnitlPart3原文
Part3
BTapescript;
Ka-kateKe-KerryCo-CoralynJ-JillCa-Carole
Ka:Iwasonmywayhomefromjuniorhighandinordertogettomyhouseyouhavetowalkbythisbaseballdiamond.
Andtherewasagameofbaseballgoingonanditlookedkindofinteresting,soIstopped.Thereweren'tverymanypeople
watching.Andtherewasthisguyandhewasn'treallyverygood-looking,buthehadfrizzlyhairandglassesandhewas
reallyfunny.Hedidthiskindofmonologuething,whichwasgreat.AndIwenthomeandItoldmymotherIwasgoingto
marryhimaftertalkingtohimforhalfanhour.AndwhenIgottohighschool,hewaspresidentofthestudentbodyandhe
askedmeoutand...we'vegotourpictureintheyearbooktogetherholdinghands,andit'sreallynice
Ke:Well,1'darrangedtohaveadrinkwitha...friendofmine..a...awomanfriendofminewho'saplatonicfriendof
mine.Andshe...insistedonbringingthisfriendofherswhich...whoshesaidI*dliketomeetand...Ithoughtshewas
ringtofixusupandIsaid/'Pleasedon't!uUrn...butshedidbringthisfriendUrn...and...wehititoff.And...afterthe
winebarwewentto...tohaveapizzaandweallgot...hadafewmoredrinksand...theotherwomanwho...endedup
orderingapizzathathadabunchofstuffonitthatIreallylikedandshe...Iordereda
pizzathathadabunchofstuffonitthatshereallyliked,sowepickedateachother'spizzasallnightandwerealizedthat
wewere...sortofhadanidealrelationship,sothatwecouldorderreallyanypizzaonthemenuand...we'dbothbehappy.
And.anywayweendeduplivingtogetherandstillare.
Co:Urn...wemetatapatyanditwasafancy-dressparty.Afriendofmine'stwenty-firstanditwasquitebigandIwent
dressedasAliceinWonderlandand...thisperson,thisguythat...ImarriedwasdressedastheCheshireCat.Anditjust
seemedsoamazingthat,youknow,wewerebothfromthesamethingandwestartedchattingandendedupbeingtogether.
J:well1'darrangedtogotothecinemawithagroupoffriendsand...unfortunatelyImissedthetrainthatwouldhave
gotmetothecinemaontime,soallmyfriendshadgoneinandIwasleftstandingoutside-thefilmhadstarted.SoIwasn't
allowedin.And...therewasachapoutside,he*dalsomissedthefilmandwestartedtotalkand...wetalkedquiteabit
andhesaid,nLet'sgodowntheroadandseethatfilm,becausethatonehasn'tstartedattheOdeon.uSowewentdown
thereand...well,we'vebeengoingouteversince!
Ca:I...Ifirstmetmypartner...whenhewasonaboatandIwasontheriverbank,standingandlookinggenerallyintothe
distanceandhewascomingintolandwithhisboatandhethrewmearopeandsaid/Wouldyoumindcatchingthis?"and
Icaughtitandmissedandtrippedoveritandfellintheriverandhehadtodiveinandrescueme.Andthatwasit!
UnitlPart3答案
PartIII
Abaseballdiamondfrizzlyhair/glasses/funny/monologue
Awinebarpizza
Afancy-dresspartythemandressedasCheshireCat
Outsideacinemacoincidence/he'dalsomissedthefilm
Aboat/theriverbankfellinriver/hedivedinandrescuedher
UnitlPart4原文
Part4
BTapescript:
JohnBlanchardstoodtipfromthebenchstraightenedhisarmyuniform,andstudiedthecrowdofpeoplemakingtheir
waythroughGrandCentralStation.Helookedforthegirlwhoseheartheknew,butwhosefacehedidn't,thegirlwiththe
rose.HisinterestinherhadbegunthirteenmonthsbeforeinaFloridalibrary.Takingabookofftheshelfhefoundhimself
intrigued,notwiththewordsofthebook,butwiththenotespenciledinthemargin.Thesofthandwritingreflecteda
thoughtfulsoulandinsightfulmind.Inthefrontofthebook,hediscoveredthepreviousowner'sname,MissHollis
Maynell.
Withtimeandefforthelocatedheraddress.ShelivedinNewYorkCity.Hewroteheraletterintroducinghimselfand
invitinghertocorrespond.ThenextdayhewasshippedoverseasforserviceinWorldWarILDuringthenextyearandone
monththetwogrewtoknoweachotherthroughthemail.Eachletterwasaseedfallingonafertileheart.Aromancewas
budding.Blanchardrequestedaphotograph,butsherefused.Shefeltthatifhereallycared,itwouldn'tmatterwhatshe
lookedlike.WhenthedayfinallycameforhimtoreturnfromEurope,theyscheduledtheirfirstmeeting-7:00p.m.atthe
GrandCentralStationinNewYork."YouwillrecognizemeJshewroteJbytheredroseI*11bewearingonmylapel."Soat
7:00hewasinthestationlookingforagirlwhoseheartheloved,butwhosefacehe'dneverseen.I'11letMrBlanchardtell
youwhathappened.
Ayoungwomanwascomingtowardme,herfigurelongandslim.Herblondehairlaybackincurlsfromherdelicate
ears.Hereyeswereasblueflowers.Herlipsandchinhadagentlefirmness,andinherpalegreensuitshewaslikespring
timecomingalive.Istartedtowardher,entirelyforgettingtonoticethatshewasnotwearingarose.AsImoved,a
smallprovocativesmilecurvedherlips.HGoingmyway,sailor?1'shemurmured.AlmostuncontrollablyImadeonestep
closertoher,andthenIsawHollisMaynell.Shewasstandingalmostdirectlybehindthegirl.Awomanwellpast40,she
hadgrayinghairtuckedunderawornhat...Shewas.morethanplump,herthick-ankledfeetthrustintolow-heeledshoes.
Thegirlinthegreensuitwaswalkingquicklyaway.
IfeltasthoughIwassplitintotwo,sokeenwasmydesiretofollowher,andyetsodeepwasmylongingforthe
womanwhosespirithadtrulycompanionedmeandupheldmyown.Andthereshestood.Herpaleplumpfacewasgentle
andsensible,hergrayeyeshadawarmandkindlytwinkle.Ididnothesitate.Myfingersgrippedthesmallwornblue
leathercopyofthebookthatwastoidentifymetoher.Thiswouldnotbelove,butitwouldbesomething
precious.somethingperhapsevenbetterthanlove.
Isquaredmyshouldersandsalutedandheldoutthebooktothewoman,eventhoughwhileIspokeIfeltchokedbythe
bitternessofmydisappointment:"I*mLieutenantJohnBlanchard,andyoumustbeMissMaynell.Iamsogladyoucould
meetme;mayItakeyoutodinner?"Thewoman'sfacebroadenedintoatolerantsmile."Idon'tknowwhatthisis
about,sonsheanswered,"buttheyoungladyinthegreensuitwhojustwentby,shebeggedmetowearthisroseonmy
coat.Andshesaidifyouweretoaskmeouttodinner,1shouldgoandtellyouthatsheiswaitingforyouinthebig
restaurantacrossthestreet.Shesaiditwassomekindoftest'"It'snotdifficulttounderstandandadmireMissMaynell's
wisdom.
UnitlPart4答案
PartIV
Book,choked,disappointment,takeyoutodinner,tolerantsmile,wentby,rose,bigrestaurant,
test,understandandadmire
Unit2Part1原文
Parti
A
Tapescript:
1.TAURUSApril21-May21representedbyabull2.VIRGOAugust23-September23representedbyayoungwoman
3.CAPRICORNDecember22-January20representedbyagoat4.PISCESFebruary20--March20representedby
twofish5.AQUARIUSJanuary21-February19,representedbythewater-bearer6.LEOJuly23-August
22representedbyalion7.CANCERJune22-July22representedbyacrab8.ARIESMarch21-April
20representedbyaram9.GEMINIMay22-June21representedbytwins
10.SAGITTARIUSNovember23-December21representedbyacentaur(=halfhumanandhalfhorse)shootinganarrow
11.SCORPIOOctober24-November22representedbyascorpion
12.LIBRASeptember24-0ctober23representedbyapairofmeasuringscales
BTapescript:
W:Hey,Kevin.Helpmefilloutthispersonalitysurvey.It'llbefun.
M:Oh,1don'tknow.
W:Oh,comeon...OK,here'sthefirstone-whatshouldIputfor"aggressive"?
M:Uh-oh...I...I*dsay"very"
W:Very?Really?
M:Yeah,sure.Lookatthewayyoudrive!
W:Well,OK,sormaveryaggressivedriver...but...youhaveto
drivelikethatinthiscity,oryouYegonnabehit,because.
M,Uh...what'sthenextone?
W・“Selfish.”
M:Oh,notatall.
W:Really?Well.maybejustalittle....Imean,alotofpeopleare,right?Justalittlebit?Youknow,1mean,1trytothink
ofotherpeople,butsometimesIdojustthinkofmyself,Iguess.
M:OK,OK,soput"notvery.*'
W:OK.
M:Butyoucanput"extremely"forthenextone.
W:What?Oh/'kind1'?
M:Yes.Don'tyouthinkyou'reanextremelykindperson?
W:Iam?OK,ifyousayso.Oh,lookatthisnextone.
M:Oh,"patient”!
W:Yeah.
M:Hmm...Idon'tknow.Sometimesyoucanbereallypatient,butothertimesyouYenotpatientatall.Likerememberthat
timeinlineatthesupermarketwhenyougot...
W:OK,OK.Igetyourpoint:1111put"sortof.”
M:OK,that'sright.
W:Nextone..."jealous."IguessI1msortofjealous.
M:Sortof?I*dput"very."Rememberhowangryyougotwhenmyex-girlfriendcalledtheotherday?Ithoughtyou're
gonnaraisetheroof...
W:Allright,allright."Very.”
M:Oh,OK,what'sthenextone?
W:That1sall.
M:That'sall?
W:Yeah.Butnowit'syourturn.
CTapescript:
1.George
W-WomanG-George
W:Sowhatareyougoingtodoafteryougraduate,George?
G:I1mgoingtostartmyownbusiness.
W:Oh,really?Whattypeofbusiness?
G:Well,1haven'tdecidedyet,butIknowI'11besuccessfulinanythingIdo.Infact,1'mgoingtobeoneofthetopbusiness
peopleintowninlessthanfiveyears.Justwaitandsee!IhaveeverythingittakesFmsmartJcanorganizepeople.AndI*
mfullofideasthatcanmakemoney.
2.Karen
K-Karen
K:Hey!Lookatthiswalletonthesidewalk.Wow!There'slotsofmoneyinit...butnoidentification,umm...Iwonder
howIcanfindtheowner?IguessI*11takeittothepolicestationandseeifanyone*sreportedalostwallet.
3.Pam
M-ManP-Pam
M:Whatareyoudoingtonight,Pam?
P:Well,1wassupposedtomeetBillafterworkforamovie,butIdon'tfeellikegoing.IthinkI*11goshoppinginstead.
M:Won'tBillgetmad?
P:OhJ'msurehecanfindsomethingelsetodo.
M-Oh?
P:Besides,1reallyneedsomenewclothes.Ihaven'tboughtanyfornearlyamonth!
M-Huh!
Unit2Part1答案
PartI-A
1-h,2-d,3-j,4-k,5・b,6-i,
7-g,8-e,9-1,10-f,11-c,12-a
PartI-B
Very,notvery,extremely,sortof,very
PartI-C
Ambitiousandproud
Helpfulandhonest
Selfishandunreliable
Unit2Part2原文
Part2
ATapescript:
Scientistshavelearnedagreatdealaboutthepartsofbrainandtheirfunctions.Theyhavealsostudiedthe
developmentofthepersonality,forexample,howababylearnstolove.InrecentstudiesattwouniversitiesintheUnited
Statesscientistshaveinvestigatedthedevelopmentofself-esteem.
Self-esteemistherespectapersonhasforhimself,hisbeliefinhisabilityandinthevalueofwhathedoes.The
scientistsstudiedself-esteeminyoungboys.Theygavethemmanytests.Thesetestsmeasuredtheboys'abilitiesandalso
howtheyfeltabouttheirownabilities.Afterthetests,theboysweredividedintothreegroups-thosewithhigh
self-esteem,thosewithmiddleself-esteemandthosewithlowself-esteem.Thescientistscontinuedtostudytheboysinall
situations.Theystudiedthemathome,atwork,inschool,andwiththeirfriends.
Fromtheirstudies,thescientistsmadesomeobservations.Boyswithhighself-esteemwereactive.Theywereableto
expresstheirideas.Theyweresuccessfulinschoolandintheirrelationswithotherpeople.Indiscussions,theyled.They
didn'tjustlisten..Theywereinterestedinworldproblems.Theywerecreativeandbelievedthattheycouldfinishwhatever
theystarted.Theyseldombecametiredorsick.Inmanyways,theboyswithmiddleself-esteemwereliketheboyswith
highself-esteem.Theytooexpressedtheirideasfreelyandsawtheworldasagoodandhappyplace.However,theywere
notsureoftheirownvalueaspeople.Theydidtheirbestworkwhentheyweresurethatotherpeoplelikedthem.Theboys
withlowself-esteemweredifferentfromtheothertwogroups.Theyweresadmostofthetime.Theywereafraidtostart
activities.Theyfeltthatnoonelovedthem.Theycouldnotexpresstheirideas.Theywereafraidofanger.Ina
discussion.theylistened,buttheydidn'ttalk.
Thescientistsasked,"Howdosomeboysdevelophighself-esteem?""Whatisdifferentintheirlives?"Someofthe
answersweresurprising.Highself-esteemdidnotdependuponphysicalappearance,ormoney,orsizeoffamily.Itdidnot
dependuponhowmuchthemotherwasathome.Thescientistsfoundthattherewasaclosenessbetweentheboyswithhigh
self-esteemandtheirparents.Theirparentsshowedrealinterestinthem,andspenttimewiththem.Theylistenedtotheir
sonsandgavethemhelpwhentheboysaskedforit.Theyknewtheirsons'friends.Thesonsknewthattheywereimportant
totheirparents.Theseparentsdemandedgoodbehavior.Theymadedefiniterules.Theywerestrict,butnotharsh.They
correctedtheirsons*behaviorbyrewards,notbypunishment.Theynevertookawaytheirlove.Ontheotherhand,the
Parentsofboyswithlowself-esteemlettheirsonsdoalmostanything.Ifaboymadeamistake,theparentspunishedhim
harshly.Theboysbelievedthattheirparentsdidnrtlovethem.Therewerenodefiniterules.Thefamilylifeoftheboyswith
highself-esteemwasdemocratic.Theparentsmaderules,buttheyledinakindandthoughtfulway.Theyshowedrespect
fortheirchildren'sideas,evenwhentheydidnotagreewiththem.Theylettheboysgivetheiropinionsindiscussionsof
familyplans.Theseboyswereproductivecitizens.Nowthesescientistsarestudyingothergroupsofchildren.Theywantto
learnhowtohelpchildrenwithlowself-esteemfeelbetteraboutthemselves.Inthisway,thesechildrencanbecome
productivecitizenstoo.
Unit2Part2答案
PartII
Youngboys
1.Measuretheboys*abilitiesandhowtheyfeltabouttheirownabilities;
2.Threegroups—thosewithhighself-esteem/middleself-esteem/lowself-esteem
3.Inallsituation-athome/atwork/inschool/withfriends
1.Active/abletoexpressideas/successfulinschoolandinrelationswithotherpeople/creative/ledin
discussions/interestedinworldproblems/seldomtiredorsick
2.Liketheboyswithhighself-esteem/expressideasfreely/sawtheworldasagoodandhappyplace/not
sureoftheirownvalue
3.Sadmosttime/afraidtostartactivities/feltnolove/couldn'texpressideas/afraidofanger/notalkin
discussion
a.closeness
b.goodbehaviorb.almostanything
c.definite,strict,kindandthoughtfulc.nodefinite
d.rewardsd.harshpunishment
e.democratic,respected
f.importance,takenawayf.didn'tlovethem
Unit2Part3原文
Part3
ATapescript:
Whenmostpeoplearesad,theyknowthefeelingisonlytemporary.Buttherearelargenumbersofpeoplewhostaysad
foralongtime.Thesepeoplesufferfromthec
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