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2025-2026年高考上海市英语最新书面表达题:概要写作分类强化
专项练习【含答案
一、语篇主题(本大题共28小题)
1.Directions:Readthefollowingpassage.Summarizethemainideaandthemainpoint(s)ofthepassageinno
merethan60words.Useyourownwordsasfaraspossible.
TheFutureofJournalism
Juuiiialismliaschangedaluluveitheyears.Itusedlubecleaiwhoajournalistwas—iheyhadadegree,
workedforanewspaper,TV,orradio,andspenttheirdaysreportingandwriting.Butnow,thedistinctionbetween
professionaljournalistsandthegeneralpublichasbecomelessdefined.Today,anyonewithasmartphonecanbea
journalist.Ifyou'reatthesceneofanewsevent,youcanrecorditandshareitinstantlyonline.There?snoneedto
waitfbraprofessionaljournalisttointerviewyouwhenyoucantellthestoryyourself.
Withtheriseofsocialmediaplatforms,moreandmorepeoplearcbecoming“citizenjournalists'*.These
platformsallowanyonetoreportonevents,sharetheiropinions,andevenbreaknewsbeforetraditionalmedia
outlets.Thishasledtotheemergenceofmanyindependentnewssitesandblogsthatgiveavoicetopeoplewho
werepreviouslyunheard.Forexample,inSouthKorea,asitecalledOhmynewshas26,000citizenreporterswho
sharenewsandstorieseveryday.
However,whenthistrendofcitizenjournalismbegan,traditionalmediadidn'ttakeitseriously.Established
newsorganizationsweredoubtfulofamateurjournalistswholackedprofessionaltraining.However,thisperception
ischanging.Majornewsoutletsarcstartingtohireindividualsfromthesenewmediasources,recognizingthat
citizenjournalistscanofferfreshperspectivesthatconnectwiththepublic.
Ofcourse,theriseofparticipatoryjournalismhasalsobroughtchallenges.Somecriticsarguethatnews
sharedonsocialmediacanbemisleadingorevenfalse.Therearcconcernsaboutufakcnews“spreadingquickly
withoutbeingproperlychecked.Forinstance,duringthe2011Londonunrest,socialmediawasusedtospreadfalse
information,leadingtoconfusionandpanic.
It,sclearthatjournalismisevolving.Asmorepeoplebecomeinvolvedinreportingandsharingnews,it's
importantfbreveryonetodevelopstrongcriticalthinkingskills.Beingabletoquestionandcheckinformationis
merecrucialthanever.Aninformedandthoughtfulpublicisessentialforahealthysociety.
2.Directions:Readthefollowingpassage.Summarizethemainideaandthemainpoint(s)ofthepassageinno
merethan60words.Useyourownwordsasfaraspossible.
TheTroubleofOver-pathologizingtoSchools
Inthepast,youngpeopledidn'tdiscusstheirmentalhealth.Butnowadays,itfeelslikethereisamental
healthawarenesscampaignalmosteveryweek.However,thissocietalpushtotalkaboutmentalhealthmightnot
behelpingeveryone.Infact,itcouldbemakingthingsworse.
Thesecampaignsencouragepeopletointerpretessentiallyallnegativethoughtsandfeelingsassymptomsof
adisorderoraproblem,consequentlymakingthemfeelunnecessarilyweakandleadingthemtoviewthemselves
ashavingadisorderwhen(heydon'l.Thiskindofover-pathologizingmayleadtofurtherproblemsinschools.An
increasingnumberofyoungpeoplearesayingthattheydon'Iwanttodosomethingbylabelingthemselvesas
havinganxiety.
Sometimes,themostappropriateresponseistomakeadjustmentsforthatperson.Forexample,they
shouldn'tbeaskedquestionsinclass,ortheyshouldifthavetositexamsinabighall.Butthisgenuine,useful
principlehasbeenblownoutofproportion.Insomecases,studentsinschoolsareautomaticallybeinggiven
excessivefreedomorprivilegeswithnointentiontoeverreviewthem.
Thetroubleisthattheworstthingyoucandointermsofmanaginganxietyinthelongrunistoallowpeople
toavoidthethingsthatscarethem.Actually,themostusefultherapeuticapproachistosupportthem,stepbystep,
infacingtheirfears.If,withsupport,theygraduallydothethingsthatmakethemanxious,theylearntwothings:
first,thatitisn'tasbadastheythoughtitwouldbe,andsecond,thatevenifitisbad,theycancope.
Sothereneedstobeabetterunderstandingofwhoreallyneedsone-to-onesupportandwhocanbesupported
simplybyteachersbeinghelpful,ratherthanapplyingaone-size-fits-allapproachtoadjustments.
3.Directions:Readthefollowingpassage.Summarizethemainideaandthemainpoint(s)ofthepassageinno
morethan60words.Useyourownwordsasfaraspossible.
Fromvacationtowork:Tipsforaseamlessworktransition
Returningtoworkafteravacationcanfeellikeadauntingtask.Whetheryou'vespentaweekexploringParis
orenjoyedarelaxingstaycation,transitioningbacktoyourdailyroutinemayseemoverwhelming.Experiencing
theback-to-workbluesisentirelynormal.Fromstrugglingtofocustofeelingslightlydown,thefollowingtipscan
helpyoucasebackintoyourroutineandregainmomentum:
Thedaybeforereturningtowork,takesometimetoprepareforasmoothfirstday.Avoidschedulingmorning
meetingstoallowyourselfampletimetocatchuponpendingtasks,identifykeyprioritiesandsettimelimitsfor
eachtaskinyourcalendar.Toensureyoustartyourdayenergized,getagoodnighl'ssleep.Additionally,consider
arrivingattheofficeearlytoorganizeyourworkspaceandsetapositivetonefor(heday.
Anotherhabittoconsiderisminimizingdistractions,particularlyfromyourphone.Tostayfocused,mute
notifications,blockdistractingapps,orkeepyourphoneinaseparateroomordrawerwhileworking.Toavoid
feelingoverwhelmed,focusonaddressingthemosturgentandimportanttasksfirst.Noteveryemailrequiresan
immediateresponse-tacklethosethatdemandimmediateattentionandaddresstherestlater.
Insteadofisolatingyourself,connectwithcoworkerstoliftyourspiritsandstayengaged.Socialinteractions
atworkcanenhanceyourmoodandevenimproveyourhealth.Useyourfirstweekbacktocatchupwithcolleagues
overlunchorcoffee.Sharingvacationstoriesnotonlystrengthensworkplacerelationshipsbutmightalsoinspire
ideastoryournextgetaway.
Adjustingafteravacationtakestime,sobepatientwithyourself.Rememberthatfeelingoutofsyncis
temporary,andyou'llsoonregainyourrhythm.Celebratesmallprogressandrecognizethatevenaslowstartcan
lead(osignificantachievements.Returningtoworkafteravacationmightinitiallyfeelchallenging,butwith
thoughtfulpreparationandpositivehabits,youcanturntheexperienceintoanopportunityforgrowth.
4.Directions:Readthefollowingpassage.Summarizeinnomorethan60wordsthemainideaofthepassage
andhowitisillustrated.Useyourownwordsasfaraspossible.
Watchoutforbluelight!
Howmanydigitaldevicesdoyouusethroughouttheday?Ifyou'relikemostpeople,youprobablyspend
hoursonyourcomputer,cellphoneor(ablet.Thesedevicesareconvenientandentertaining,buttheyallgiveoff
bluelight.Thequestionis:Shouldyoubeconcerned?
AccordingtoWebMD,thereisnocurrentproofthatregularexposuretobluelightleadstolong-termdamage
toyoureyes.Yetseveralotherstudiesseemtodemonstrateaconnectionbetweenbluelightandeyedamage.Due
tothesedifferentopinions,itisessentialthatpeoplestudymoretodetermineifbluelightisbadfbrone'shealth.
Sunlightcontainsdifferentcolorsoflight,eachwithdifferentwavelengthsandenergylevels.Blue
wavelengthsaregoodfbrpeopleduringdaylighthoursbecausetheycanboostone'sattention,reaction(imesand
mood.Buttheconcernisthatblue'swavelengthisveryclosetothatofultraviolet(UV)(紫外线的)light.
Researchhaslongshown(ha(ultraviolet(UV)rayscancauseeyedamage.Somestudiessuggesta
tioublesonieconnectionbetweeneyetissuedamageandblue-lightwavelengthsrangingbetween415and455
nanometers(纳米).Mostdigitaldeviceshavewavelengthsthatmeasurebetween400and490nanometerssothat
manythinkthatthisfact,alone,establishesacauseforconcern.
Bluelightisalsobelievedtoaffectyoursleepcycle.Ilhelpstomanageyourwake-and-sleeppatternsby
providingenergykeepingyouawakeduringtheday.Nevertheless,thesameenergybecomesanissueatnightasit
misleadsyourbodyintobelievingit'sstilldaytime,leavingyouincapableofattainingarestfulnight'ssleep.
Tolessenthepotentialrisks,severalpracticalstrategiescanbeemployed.Simpleactionslikereducingthescreen
brightnessandusingblue-light-blockingapplicationscaneffectivelydecreaseyourexposuretobluelight.
However,themosteffectiveapproachistoavoidusingdigitaldevicesforafewhoursbeforegoingto
bed.
5.Directions:Readthefollowingpassage.Summarizethemainideaandthemainpointsofthepassageinno
more(han60words.Useyourownwordsastaraspossible.
Inschoolsandathome,mos:ofushavebeenscoldedorevengotpunishedfordaydreaming.Themajority
ofpeoplesaythatbydaydreamingwewasteourtimeandenergyonsomethingunproductive.Butmanymedical
studieshaveshownsomethingdifferent.They'vestressedthefactthatdaydreamingworkswondersonour
imagination,creativityandsituation-handlingtechniques.Infact,manyproblemscanbeeasilysolvedifwe
daydream.
Thetopmostbenefitofdaydreamingisthatyourmoodgelstherightimprovement.Byseparatingyourself
fromtheworldaroundyou,youtendtoenjoythelonelinessinyourmindandgetpeacefromdaydreamingasyou
thinkaboutsomethingthatcalmsyoursenses.Whenyoustartimaginingthings,youwillforgetallthestressand
tension.Instead,youwillgethappinessfromitandthishappinesswillturnintoasourceofenergythathelpsyou
workinagoodmood.
Manypsychologistshavesa:dthatpeoplewhodaydreamtendtohaveasharpermemory.It'strue.When
you'redaydreaming,you'lltendtogetcarriedawaytoimaginevarioussituations,eitherrealorunreal.Youlendto
actdifferentlyindifferentsituationstryingtosatisfyyourmindbydoingwhatyouwantinyourdreams.Whenyour
mindgetssatisfied,you'reinabetterpositiontoconcentratemoreonyourwork.Sincedaydreamingactivatesthe
nervesofyourbrain,youtendtohavehigherattentivenessandyourabilitytorememberthingswilldevelop.
Whenyoudaydream,youautomaticallyimagineyourselfasyourheartsaysandtherefore,yougettoknow
yourselfbetter.Youalsostartrealizingthemistakesyou'vemadeinlifeandtiyingyourbesttoavoidrepeatingthem.
Suchimaginationtechniqueshelpyoutoconnectyourselfwithyoursoul.
6.Directions:Read(hefollowingpassage.Summarizethemainideaandthemainpoint(s)ofthepassageinno
merethan60words.Useyourownwordsasfaraspossible.
Nowadays,il'seasierthanevertohelpfamily,friends,andevenstrangersinlimesofneed.Il'salsoeasyto
looktheotherway.
Inanewstudy,Boyer,aprofessoratWashingtonUniversity,testedsubjectswithavarietyofimaginarynews
storiesdescribingcasesofmisfortune,suchassomeoneinacaraccidentwhiletextinganddrivingandsomeone
attackedbyabearwhilehiking.Participantsthoughtthestorieswerereal,buteachscenewascarefullydesignedto
testaperson'sempathyandwillingnesstohelp.Afterreadingeachstory,testsubjectswereaskedtoratethe
characterofthevictimandtheirresponsibilityforthemishap(不幸).Insomeexperiments,participantswereoffered
achancetodonatetheirtotalpaymentforparticipatinginthestudy,upto60cents,tohelpthevictim.Inothers,
theywereaskediftheywouldbewillingtohelpthepersonwiththeirownmoney.
Resultssuggestedagenerallackofgenerosity.Forexample,participantsinoneexperimentofferedtodonate
anaverageofabout15centstothevictim,lessthanathirdofthemaximumamountpossible.Acloserlookatthe
dataacrossmultipleexperimentsrevealedatrend:themorecharacterfaultsparticipantssawinavictim,theless
willingtheyweretodonate."They'resayingthatthevictimdoesn'tdeservehelp,^^Boyersays.
Thefindinggoesagainstalong-heldassumptionabouthumannature.Inthe1960s,psychologistssuggested
peoplewerereluctanttohelpvictimsofmisfortunebasedonafundamentalbeliefthattheworldwasfairandbad
thingsonlyhappenedtobadpeople.
ButBoyersaystheideaofajustworldisbothuncommonandunfounded.uInmostplaces,peoplethinkthe
worldisdeeplyunfair/'Boyersaid.
Insteadofmakingablanketassumptionthatallvictimssomehowdeservetheirmisfortune,peoplegooutof
theirwaytofindfaultineachvictimonacase-by-casebasis,Boyersays."IfItellyouapersonwasburnedina
kitchenfire,you'llbesympatheticatfirst,butit'sverylikelyyouorsomeoneelsewillatsomepointsuggesthe
musthavebeendoingsomethingstupid.It'saclassicexampleofblamingthevictim,Mhesays
7.Directions:Readthefollowingpassage.Summarizethemainideaandthemainpoinl(s)ofthepassageinno
morethan60words.Useyourownwordsasfaraspossible.
BecominganAttractiveEmployee
The2008financialcrisiscreatedanunstablejobmarket.Fast-fonvardtothepresent,andtheeconomyhas
notfullyrecovered.Thus,itsofvitalimportanceforjobseekerstocarefullystrategizetheirapproachtojob
application.Andil'sespeciallyimportantforthosenewtotheworkforce.Theyshouldlookatmakingthemselves
asattractiveaspossibletoemployers.
Foryoungpeople,informationtechnologyskillswillplayanincreasingroleinthefuture.Asthegeneration
tohavegrownupintheInformationAge,theyarequiteconfidentwhenitcomestoshowingofftheirinterestsand
skillsinthisfield.Thismakesthemanaturalfitforcompaniesseekingexpertise(专业技能)intechnology,
marketingandnetworking.Theyshouldemphasizetheseskillswhenapplyingforjobsthatrequiretheabilityto
multitask.
Anotherattractivequalityisexperience.Itisimportantthatanapplicant'sresumelistanyactivitiesthat
involvedteamworkandgoal-drivenresponsibilities.Membershipinasportsorsocialclubandparticipationasa
volunteeraregoodexamplesofthis.Theseactivitiesinvolvegoalmanagementandplanningalongwiththeability
tofbcuswhilecompetingonatea:n.Whenhiringcommitteesseethis,theyseeacandidatewhoiscapableof
workinginavarietyofenvironmems.
Finally,anattractivequalitywhenjob-huntingisagreatattitudetowardapotentialjob.Youngjobseekers
areknowntobeoverconfidentbecausetheyhavebeenpraisedforeverythingtheyhavedone.Buttheymustrealize
thattheemploymentmarketisabouthowanemployeewillbeagoodfitforacompany,nottheotherwayaround.
Infact,inaninterview,animportantquestiontoaskis:"Whatwouldbeexpectedofmeasanemployee?"In
tocay'stoughjobmarket,youngjobseekersneedtoprovideapotentialemployerwithgoodreasonstohirethem.
8.Directions:Readthefollowingpassage.Summarizethemainideaand(hemainpoint(s)ofthepassageinno
morethan60words.Useyourownwordsasfaraspossible.
BeyondtheCanvas:ExploringArfsImpactonBrainFunction
Youprobablyknowlotsofthingsthataregoodforyourbrain.Readingandworkingpuzzles,fbrinstance.
Gettingenoughexerciseandsleep.Eatinghealthyfoods.Nowhere'ssomethingelsetoaddtothelist:arts.Engaging
inartsactivities,suchasplayingmusic,drawing,dancing,orevenappreciatingart,cansignificantlybenefityour
brain.
Activitiesthattapintothesebraintaskscouldboostskillsthatareusefulinothersituations,too.JessicaBone,
anexpertinhealthstatistics,recentlyco-wroteareportthatreviewedstudiesontheartsandwell-being.OveralL
takingpartinartsactivitiescanreducesignsofdepressionandboostmotivationinkidsandteens,shefinds.She
alsofoundresearch(hatlinkedengaginginartthroughclubsorotheractivitieswithfewernegativebehaviors,such
asskippingschoolandsubstanceabuse.
Butartmayevenleadtochangesinyourbrain.Thebrain'sprefrontalcortex(前额叶)contrclsthingslike
decision-making,planningandpayingattention.Ithelpsyoucontrolimpulses,organizeyourtimeandthink
creativelyaboutproblems.Together,allofthesetasksfallintoacategoryknownasexecutivefunction.Trainingin
artsmayaffecthowthebrainhandlesthesetasks.AssalHabibi,aneuroscientist,studiesthebrainattheUniversity
ofSouthernCalifornia.Herworkfocusesonhowmusicaffects(hebrain.Kidsinmusicprogramstendlomanage
executive-functiontasksbetterthankidswhoaren'tinvolvedinmusic,hergrouphasshown.Theyarebetterat
takingturns,payingattentiontoothersandlisteningbeforetheyspeak.
Doyourpoitraitsofpeoplelooklikestickfiguies?Doyoursongsmakeyouifriendseiubauassed?Noneof
thatmatterswhenitcomestolearning,Habibisays.Youdon'thavetobetrainedortalented,shesays,tomakeor
enjoyart.Justincludeitinyoureverydaylife.Sovisitmuseums.Gotoconcerts.Watchplays.Allofthesemayhelp
boostbrainpowerinbeneficialways.Letyourinnerartistshine.
9.阅读下面短文,依据其内容写一篇60词左右的内容概要。
Assummerapproaches,America'snationalparksexpecthugecrowds.Lastsummer,332irillionpeople
visitedAmerica's63nationalparks.Basedonyearlyupwardtendencies,thenumbersfbrthissummerarceven
higher.Thepopularityofparkvacaiionsisnoaccident.Therushtoescapetothesebeautifulplacesechoes(呼应)
alonghistoryofAmericansturningtonaturefbrrelieffromanxiety.
Inthe1870s.theUnitedStateswasinthemidstofthemostamazingchanges.Pushedbyhugedevelopments
intechnology,industry,andtravel,moreAmericansmadetheirwayiocities,seekingwork,educationandmeeting
withnewpeople,ideas,andpossibilities.Suddenandrapidchangenotjustfiredupexcitementabout:hcfuturebut
stirreddeepanxietiesandcausedhard-to-cxplainmedicalissues,suchasaches,painsandtiredness.
Inresponse,arangeofpopularmedicaltreatmentsappearedWhatdidcatchonwasthe“Westcure''.On
doctor'sorders,patientswenttothewesternwildernesswherethenaturalenvironmentwouldinspirethemindand
refreshthebody.Recommendationsfocusedonphysicalexercise,includinghikingandhorsebackriding.
Bytheendofthe19thcentury,cityplanners,imaginingmorehealthful,walkable,livablecityenvironments,
alsoincludedgreenspacesforcityresidentstoenjoyforfree.Fromsmallpicnicareasandplaygroundstocityparks,
AmericancitiesbeganprovidingWestcurebenefitstoeveryone.
Today,withsomuchtoworryabout,itisimportanitorememberhownationalandslateparkshavelong
playedahealing(治愈的)roleinAmericansociety.AsweheadofftoAmerica'sparkdestinations—ourfavorite
“mentalhealthescapes“一maythishistorystrengthentheneedtopreserve,protect,andinvest(投资)inthem.
留意:请在答题纸的相应位置作答。
10.Directions:Readthefollowingpassage.Summarizeihemainideaandthemainpointsof(hepassageinno
morethan60words.Useyourownwordsasfaraspossible.
Here'sWhyPlanningaTripCanHelpYourMentalHealth
There'ssomegoodnewsfbrglobe-trotters(环球旅行者):Accordingtoresearchers,lookingaheadtoyour
nextadventurecouldbenefityourmentalhealth,evenifyou'renotsurewhenthatadventurewillbe.
Somepsychologistsbelieveinthementalbenefitsofvacationingsomewherenew.Forexample,travelcan
enhanceempathy,attention,energy,andfocus.Otherresearchsuggeststhattheactofadaptingtoforeigncultures
mayalsofacilitatecreativity.Butwhatabouttheactofplanningatrip?Canwegetamentalhealthboostfromtravel
beforeweevenleavehome?
Planningandanticipatingatripcanbealmostasenjoyableasgoingonthetripitselfandthere'sresearchto
backitup.A2014CornellUniversitystudydelved(探究、探究)intohowtheanticipationofanexperience(like
atrip)canincreaseaperson'shappinesssubstantially—muchmoresothantheanticipationofbuyingmaterial
goods.Anearlierstudy,publishedbytheUniversityofSurreyin2002,foundthatpeopleareattheirhappiestwhen
theyhaveavacationplanned.
MatthewKillingsworth,nowaseniorfellowattheWhartonSchoolattheUniversityofPennsylvania,says
trip-planningencouragesanoptimisticoutlook."Ashumans,wespendalotofourmentalliveslivinginthefuture,M
saysKillingsworth,whoseworkcentersonunderstandingthenatureandcausesofhumanhappiness.440urfiiture-
mindednesscanbeasourceofjoyifweknowgoodthingsarecoming,andtravelisanespeciallygoodthingto
havetolookforwardto.”
11.Directions:Readthefollowingpassage.Summarizethemainideaandthemainpoint(s)ofthepassageinno
marethan60words.Useyourownwordsasmuchaspossible.
China'sfooddeliveryserviceshavewitnessedextraordinarygrowth,increasingbyanimpressive371%from
7015tnlime2026.In2015,thenationonlyhad113.6millionlitersoffooddeliveryservices.RyJune2026,this
numberhadsoaredto534.88million.Thishighlightstherapidembraceofdeliveryplatformsacrossthecountry.
Thedemographiclandscape(人口统计形势)ofChina'sonlinefooddeliveryuserbasehasundergone
significantchanges.In2015,white-collarworkerscomprised63%ofusers,whilestudentsaccountedfor30.5%.
By2019,adramatictransformatior.hadoccurred.White-collarworkersnowmakeup83%ofusersandstudents
only10%.Furthermore,womenconstitute51%offooddeliveryappusers.About85%ofusersfallwithinthe18(o
40agerange.
FooddeliveryservicesinChinahavesurpassed(超过)thoseinWesterncountriesinpopularity.Several
reasonscanexplainthisphenomenon.Chineseconsumersarenotablyprice-sensitive.InChina,fooddeliverycosts
arcsignificantlylower.Theyarconly10to20%ofU.S.prices.Thisisduetointensecompetitionamongproviders
likeEle.mcandMcituan.Thesecompaniesarcinfiercepricewarsandoffergenerousdiscountsandcoupons(优
待券)tocustomers.Thismakesonlinefoodordersmoreaffordablethandiningout.
Moreover,China'sdemandingworkcultureandtheemergingphenomenonofulazycancer''havefiirther
contributedtothesurgeinfooddeliveryusage.YoungpeopleinChinareflectawide-spreadsenseofdislikeof
cooking.AsurveyconductedinMarch2020revealed(hatabout67%ofthe7,220Chinesefooddeliveryusers
surveyedcitedlazinessasthereasonfororderinginsteadofdiningout.
Inconclusion,thefooddeliveryindustryinChinashowsthechangesofconsumerneeds.Thisrapidgrowth
notonlyreflectstheconvcnicncc-drivcndemandsofmodernlifebutalsoshowcasestheinnovationofthefood
servicesector.Assuch,fooddeliveryissuretoremainanimportantaspectofChinesedininghabits.Itwillshape
thefuturelandscapeofdiningexperiencesandsatisfactionforyearstocome.
12.Directions:Readthefollowingpassage.Summarize(hemainideaandthemainpoint(s)of(hepassageinno
morethan60words.Useyourownwordsasfaraspossible.
WhenQuestionsTurnSelf-Centered
Docsthissituationsoundfamiliar?Afriendapproachesandasks,“Hey,whatarcyouuptothisweekend?”
Youtellheryou'renotsure,butnothingbig.Shereplieswithherownvividplan.'Tmgoingtomylakehouse,and
we'rehavingamassivebonf^re.^^
Whatseemedlikeagenuineexpressionofinterestinyousuddenlyshiftsandbecomesachanceforyour
friendioshowofCcomplainorsimplyshareaboutherself.Icallthisstrategy"boomerasking,andithappens
constantly.Likethecirclingbendofaboomerang(回旋镖),boomeraskersaskaquestion,lettheirconversation
partnersanswerandthenimmediatelybringthefocusoftheconversationbacktothemselves.
Formanypeople,self-disclosuresimplyfeelsgreat.StilLmostofusaresensitivetothefactthatwecan't
justwalkaroundshowingoffandcomplainingandtalkingaboutourselvesallthetime.So,wcattempttosolvethis
problemwithsomeindirecthabits.Buiamongalltheseeminglyskillfulandobviouswaysweatieinpttomaskour
self-centeredness,boomcraskingmighibe(heworst—becauseitlakesawaytheamazingbenefitsthatcomefrom
askingquestions.
Askingsincerequestions,listeningtoothers'answersandfollowinguponthoseanswersmaydetheeasiest
andmostpowerfulpathwaytosharedunderstandingandinterpersonalconnection.Boomeraskingruinsthemagic,
however.Failingtofollowuponyourpartner'sanswer,andansweringthequestionyourselfinstead,makesothers
feellikeyoudon'tcareaboutthem—andprobablydidn'tcareaboutthemwhenyouaskedthequestiontobegin
with.
Sodon'tboomcrask!Whilesharingaboutyourselffeelsgoodandcanbringuscloser,whenanotherperson
sharestheirperspective,focusonthem.Wcshouldallaimtobemoreinterestedinourpartnersbeforewegoback
toprovinghowinterestingweareourselves.
13.Directions:Readthefollowingpassage.Summarize(hemainideaandthemainpoint(s)ofthepassageinno
morethan60words.Useyourownwordsasfaraspossible.
Buildbetterboundaries
Doingagooddeedlikehelpingyourfriendwiththeirhomeworkorsharingasnackcanmakeyoufeelhappy.
Studiesshowthatkindnessisgoodfbryourwellbeing.However,ifyouoftenagreetothingsyoudon'twanttodo,
orfeelguiltysayingno,youcouldbefallingintoapcoplc-plcasirgtrap.It'snotalwayseasytotellwhenthis
happensbutoneclueisthatit'sdifficulttoscop.Pleasingotherpeoplemayfeelgoodforashortwhilebutihefeeling
doesn'tlast.Thisiswhyit'sagoodideatosetlimitsonwhatyou'lldofbrothers.Thesearecalled"boundaries”.
Spendingtoomuchenergyonsomeoneelsecanstopyoudoingthingsyouwantorneedtodo.Researchhas
foundthattryingtopleaseotherscanleaveusfeelingstressedanduncomfortable.W
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