Unit1KnowingmeknowingyouUnderstandingideas课件-高中英语外研版

Unit1Knowingme,

knowingyouWhichisthemostdifficultproblemtoovercomeandwhy?badperformanceinasubjectpressuretolookgoodconflictwithclassmatesdifficultiesfittinginwithothersReadthefirstletterandanswerthefollowingQs.1.Whoiswritingthisletter?2.Whatproblem(s)didthewritermeet?Ahighschoolstudent&schoolbasketballteammember.Whatproblem(s)didthewritermeet?subjectpressureconflictdifficultiesfittingin1.Whoiswritingthisletter?Completethesentenceswithexpressionsfromthepassage.IwasdisappointedwithmyteammatebecauseIfelt__________________________byhim.Itoldmybestfriendthatmyteammatewastoblame,just_______________________.Mybestfriend_____________________________________.

Idon’tknowwhattodo.theteamwereletdownlettingoffsteamreallywentandtoldeveryoneelsewhatI’dsaid.disappointedangryangry,embarrassed,ashamedmadBen’sproblemBen’semotionHecomplainedtohisbestfriendinanger.1.2.3.Benlosttherecentbasketballmatchandwasdissatisfiedwithhispointguard’spoorperformanceSummarizetheproblemsBenmet.Thisissototallyawkward.I’mreallyangrywithmyfriend—whatshouldIsaytohim?AndshouldIsayanythingatalltomyteammate?Embarrassedandashamed,Ican’tconcentrateonanything.Pleasehelp!Buthisfriendshadhiswordsspreadtoeveryoneelse.DoyouthinkBenhasdealtwiththesituationsroperly?WhodidBenturntoforhelpwhenyoufaceaproblem?AgonyAuntisapersonwhowritesinanewspaperormagazinegivingadviceinreplytopeople'slettersabouttheirpersonalproblems.Inthereply,theywouldputthemselvesinthehelp-seeker’sshoes.Throughanalyze,thekeyissuewillbepointedoutandsuggestionswillbeofferedtosolvetheproblem(s).Thus,agonywillberelieved.Whatkindofopiniondoestheaunthold?Accordingtotheaunt,whydidBenfeelhurt?Istheboycompletelyinnocent?ExpressviewpointshowempathyandunderstandingAnalyzetheexactproblemThinkbeforeWeSpeakYoushould__________________________.Youneedtoworktogetherandthatmeans______________________________and_______________Tellyourbestfriendyou’reangrywithhimfor_____________________________and________________________________,butthatyouwanttomoveon.Don’t______________whenyou’reangry.Alwaysremember:_____________________.apologizetoyourteammaterepeatingwhatyousaidsaytoomuchcommunicatingwitheachotherclearlyresolvingconflictsmakingthesituationworsethinkfirst,speaklaterAgonyAunt’ssuggestionsFirst,apologisetoyourteammate.Tellhimdirectlyandhonestlythatyouweretalkingwithoutthinking.Then,talktoyourfriend.Tellyourfriendyou’reangrybutyouwanttomoveon.Thirdly,andperhapsmostimportantly,thinkaboutyourownbehaviour.thinkfirst,speaklater.IfyouwereBen,howwouldyouapologizetoyourteammateorwhatwouldyousaytoyourfriend?Usethreesentencestoexpressyourself.Choosethebestsummaryoftheletters.Benwasinanawkwardsituation,andAgonyAuntgavehimsuggestionsastohowtodealwithhisproblems.Benwasangrythathisteamwasletdownbysomemembers,andAgonyAunttoldhimtotakeiteasy.Bendidn’tplaywellinthematch,andAgonyAuntadvisedhimtoapologizetohisteammate.Bensaidsomethingbadabouthisbestfriend,andAgonyAunttoldhimtoapologizetohisfriend.DecidewhetherthefollowingstatementsareTrue(T)orFalse(F).(

)1.Benwassomadwhenhisteamlosttheirlastmatchbecausetheirpointguardwasn’tonthecourt.(

)2.Benwasdisappointedbythepointguard’sbehaviour.

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)3.Benfeltembarrassedandashamedforhisbestfriend.

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)4.“Looselipssinkships”isanidiomwhichisusedtowarnsomeonewhomayspeakcarelesslyaboutprivateorsecretiveinformation.

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)5.AgonyAuntgaveBensomeadvice:apologisetohisteammate,talktohisfriendandthinkabouthisownbehaviour.FTFTTChoosetherightitemfromtheboxandmakethesummarycomplete.Ben,a17-year-oldboy,wrotetoAgonyAunt,who1.

________________troubledreaderswiththeirworries.Ben,whoplaysinhisschoolbasketballteam,lostthelastmatch.Hefeltthathisteamwere2.

________________bytheirpointguard’spoorperformance.byaccident,takeadeepbreath,Looselipssinkships,letdown,helpsout,pullingtheirweight,letoffsteamhelpsout

letdownSo,he3.

________________sharinghisangerwithhisfriend,buthisfriendwentandtoldthewholeteamwhathehadsaidandembarrassedhim.AgonyAunthasgivenhimareply,sayingthathissituationwas“4.

___________________,”whichmeansthatspeakingtoomuchcancauseallkindsoftrouble5.

________________.She’sadvisedhimnottosaytoomuchwhenheisangry,6.

________________instead.Ifhisteammatesstillaren’t7.

__________________,thenheshouldraisehisconcernswithhisteamcoach.byaccident,takeadeepbreath,Looselipssinkships,le