Unit 3 Getting Along with Others 人际关系应英文写作课件-2022-2023学年高中英语（牛津译林版2020必修第一册）

OninterpersonalrelationshipHowtowritealetterofadviceaboutmaintainingfriendshipTheIGNOREDmoment“I’msoashamedtotellothersaboutthisthingfortheymightthinkthatIamnothingbutbeingdramatic(夸张).Thisseemingincident,however,hasupsetmedeeplyforalongtime.Aweekago,Iupdatedmymoment(朋友圈)tocelebratethe5thyear'sfriendshipwithKatie.Ihadthoughtthatshewouldlikemymomentandcommentwithlove.However,ThegiftthatIreceivedwasherindifference(冷漠).Shelikedthemomentsbeforeandafterit,butignoredmyspecialmoment,WHY?Idon'tunderstand.WhenIaskedherfeelingsaboutmymomentlater,shesaiditwasfunnythoughtlessly(草率的).AtthatmomentIcouldfeelasuddensurgeofangerandshedidn’tdeservemysincerefriendship.Ihaveavoidedherforafewdaysbutsheactednormallyevenwithoutrealizingwhatshedidwrongly.I’mreallyatalosswhattodo.TherealproblemReadandDiscussWhatwillyourespondtohelpher?01Analyzeandplan02RESPONSES：“Idon’tthinkyourfriendiswrong.Instead,Ithinkyouaretooselfish.Everyonehastheirownpersonalities.Maybeyourfriendwastooshytodoasyoudid,soitisunderstandablethatshedidn’tlikeyourmoment.Inaword,you’dbetterrespectothers’choices,ratherthanputyourownthoughtsonthem.Ifyouarestilluncomfortableaboutthisincident,thereisnopointingincontinuingthisrelationship.“Inmyopinion,havingafranktalktoherbeforegivinguponherisagoodidea.Youshouldknowaboutthereasonforthisincident.Youhavebeenfriendsfor5years,whichisalongtime.Don’tletangertakeover,butthinkitthrough.Afterall,itisdifficulttofindatruefriend.1018124Rconsiderate

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RpositiveI'msorrytoknowyou'rehavingsuchabadtimeatthemoment.Iquiteunderstandhowyouarefeelingnowandthereisnoneedtoworryaboutitsomuch.Ihopethefollowingsuggestionswillbeofhelptoyou.Firstofall,frommyownexperiencenothingisbetterthanface-to-facecommunication,whichcaneffectivelysolveyourproblem.Chancesarethatshemissedyourmomentunintentionallybutwhenyouaskedheraboutit,inordernottoupsetyou,shemadeupacomment.Keepinmindthattruefriendswon’tgiveuponeachotherandeffectivecommunicationwillonlybringyoutwocloser.Iwillbemorethanhappytoseeimprovementsinyourfriendship.Everythingwillturnoutallrightintheendandyoutwowillsurelyfixthesmallproblem.Firstofall,frommyownexperiencenothingisbetterthanface-to-facecommunication,whichcaneffectivelysolveyourproblem.Chancesarethatshemissedyourmomentunintentionallybutwhenyouaskedheraboutit,inordernottoupsetyou,shemadeupacomment.Keepinmindthattruefriendswon’tgiveuponeachotherandeffectivecommunicationwillonlybringyoutwocloser.you.StructureExpressingyourunderstandingSuggestingsolutionsStatingtheresultyouwishtosee“ThebeginningI'msorrytoknowthatyou'rehavingsuchabadtimeatthemoment.Iquiteunderstandhowyouarefeelingnowandthereisnoneedtoworryaboutitsomuch.Ihopethefollowingsuggestionswillbeofhelptoyou.ThebodyFirstofall,frommyownexperiencenothingisbetterthanface-to-facecommunication,whichcaneffectivelysolveyourproblem.Chancesarethatshemissedyourmomentunintentionallybutwhenyouaskedheraboutit,inordernottoupsetyou,shemadeupacomment.Keepinmindthattruefriendswon’tgiveuponeachotherandeffectivecommunicationwillonlybringyoutwocloser.Iwillbemorethanhappytoseeimprovementsinyourfriendship.Everythingwillturnoutallrightintheendandyoutwowillsurelyfixthesmallproblem.TheendingThestructureofaletterofadviceAletterofadvice“DearXX：(expressingunderstanding)_____________________________________________.(findingtheproblemandsuggestingsolutions)_______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________.(statingtheresultyouwishtosee)__________________________________________________________________________________________________________.XXYours.Aletterofadvice“DearXX：I'msorrytoknowthatyou'rehavingsuchabadtimeatthemoment.Iquiteunderstandhowyouarefeelingnowandthereisnoneedtoworryaboutitsomuch.Ihopethefollowingsuggestionswillbeofhelptoyou.Firstofall,frommyownexperiencenothingisbetterthanface-to-facecommunication,whichcaneffectivelysolveyourproblem.Chancesarethatshemissedyourmomentunintentionallybutwhenyouaskedheraboutit,inordernottoupsetyou,shemadeupacomment.Keepinmindthattruefriendswon’tgiveuponeachotherandeffectivecommunicationwillonlybringyoutwocloser.Iwillbemorethanhappytoseeimprovementsinyourfriendship.Everythingwillturnoutallrightintheendandyoutwowillsurelyfixthesmallproblem.Yours.XXWriteadraftandevaluate03Aletterofadvice“假设你是李华，最近收到了笔友Mike的来信，内容如下：DearLiHuaRecentlyTom,mybestfriendsincewhenwewereinjuniorhighschool,hasbeenavoidingmeonpurpose.Idon’tknowwhy.Ihavetriedtotalkwithhimseveraltimes,butinvain.Idon’twanttolosehim.WhatshouldIdo?Yours,Mike请你给他写一封100词左右的回信，内容包括如下要点：1表示同情；2给出建议；3表达希望(problem)CheckingyourwritingItisimportanttocheckyourwritingafteryoufinish.Youshouldespeciallycheckifthereareanymistakesintermsof:□Punctuation □Spelling □Grammar□Choiceofwords □Style □StructureSelf-reviewWhatmistakesdoyoufindinyourwriting?Howcanyoucorrectthem?PeerreviewWhatcommentsdoesyourpartnergiveonyourwriting?Howcanyouimproveyourwriting?假设你是李华，最近收到了笔友Mike的来信，内容如下：DearLiHuaRecentlyTom,mybestfriendsincewhenwewereinjuniorhighschool,hasbeenavoidingmeonpurpose.Idon’tknowwhy.Ihavetriedtotalkwithhimseveraltimes,butinvain.Idon’twanttolosehim.WhatshouldIdo?yours,Mike请你给他写一封100词左右的回信，内容包括如下要点：表示同情；2给出建议；3表达希望I'msorrytolearnthatyouarebeingtroubledbyyourfriend'sattemptstokeepawayfromyou.Thanksforyourtrustinme.AsuddenabsenceofclosenesswithfriendsdoesdiscouragepeopleandIwellunderstandit.Asforsolutionstoyourdilemma,hereI'dliketosharewithyoumyideas.突然与朋友不亲近确实会让人气馁，我很理解这一点。假设你是李华，最近收到了笔友Mike的来信，内容如下：DearLiHuaRecentlyTom,mybestfriendsincewhenwewereinjuniorhighschool,hasbeenavoidingmeonpurpose.Idon’tknowwhy.Ihavetriedtotalkwithhimseveraltimes,butinvain.Idon’twanttolosehim.WhatshouldIdo?yours,Mike请你给他写一封100词左右的回信，内容包括如下要点：表示同情；2给出建议；3表达希望I'msorrytolearnthatyouarebeingtroubledbyyourfriend'sattemptstokeepawayfromyou.Thanksforyourtrustinme.AsuddenabsenceofclosenesswithfriendsdoesdiscouragepeopleandIwellunderstandit.Asforsolutionstoyourdilemma,hereI'dliketosharewithyoumyideas.突然与朋友不亲近确实会让人气馁，我很理解这一点。假设你是李华，最近收到了笔友Mike的来信，内容如下：DearLiHuaRecentlyTom,mybestfriendsincewhenwewereinjuniorhighschool,hasbeenavoidingmeonpurpose.Idon’tknowwhy.Ihavetriedtotalkwithhimseveraltimes,butinvain.Idon’twanttolosehim.WhatshouldIdo?yours,Mike请你给他写一封100词左右的回信，内容包括如下要点：表示同情；2给出建议；3表达希望DearMike:I'msorrytolearnthatyouarebeingtroubledbyyourfriend'sattemptstokeepawayfromyou.Thanksforyourtrustinme.AsuddenabsenceofclosenesswithfriendsdoesdiscouragepeopleandIwellunderstandit.Asforsolutionstoyourdilemma,hereI'dliketosharewithyoumyideas.Alltoooften,onewouldnevertrytoavoidhisfriendfornoreason.Tomymind,misunderstandingsmightaccountforyourfriendsshunning(回避).It'slikelythatyoudidsomethingunintentionallyandhurthimwithoutnoticingit.Thus,it'smyadvicethatyouturntohisparents,teachers,andhisotherfriends,towhomhemightrevealhisdiscontentment(不满意)withyou.Yourfriendisboundtoforgiveyouwithmisunderstandingsremovedandasincereapologymade.

Idohopemysuggestionsaboveusefulandyoutwocanbeclosefriendsagain,regainyourfriendshipsoon.Lookingforwardtoyourreply.Yours,LiHuaHowtomaintainagoodfriendship?HowtomaintainagoodfriendshipThereareseveralimportantelementsnecessarytomaintainagoodfriendship.

1.Listen.

Theabilitytoreallylistentoanotherisacoreofgoodfriendship.