研究生综合英语：His politeness is her powerlessness课件

1、His Politeness Is Her Powerlessness,LOREM IPSUM DOLOR,1,学习交流PPT,1,INTRODUCTION,2,学习交流PPT,When they talk.,When a GUY talks to a GIRL,WhAT THE guy MEANT,WhAT THE girl UNDERSTOOD,When a girl talks to a guy,When THE girl REALLY MEANT,WHAT THE guy UNDERSTOOD,3,学习交流PPT,Background Information,Deborah Tanne

2、n,Occupation: Academic and professor of linguistics,Published: 20 books and over 100 articles,This pasage is from the book You Just Dont Understand,4,学习交流PPT,2,Why are womens way of talking misinterpreted?,5,学习交流PPT,Differences between male and female,Women: avoid appearing“superiority.”Men: appeari

3、ng “superior”.,Women: build relationships.Men: give information,solve problems,show expertise.,Women: want to reach consensus and consult. Men: want to get straight and choose without consulting.,6,学习交流PPT,Interview a couple,What is the meaning of being very polite,The man said: Subservience,The wom

4、an said: Sensitivity .,7,学习交流PPT,3,Does Indirectnessreflect powerlessness?,8,学习交流PPT,Indirect = Powerlessness,indirect,powerlessness,|,？,9,学习交流PPT,Direct = Natural,indirect,powerlessness,=,？,10,学习交流PPT,Right = Gene,Point3,Point 2,11,学习交流PPT,TWO SITUATIONS,Situation 1 A wealthy couple and their maids

5、,Situation 2 Parents and their children,12,学习交流PPT,Situation 1,It is cold here.,It is dinner time.,Having dinner served.,Raising the temperature.,13,学习交流PPT,Situation 2,when we are misbehaving. Then parents show up.,14,学习交流PPT,4,indirectness in different cultures,15,学习交流PPT,FOUR CULTURES,MADAGASCAR,

6、THE USA,JAPAN,GREEK,16,学习交流PPT,Greek: indirectness was appropriate,Would you like to go to the party? It means she wanted to go!,17,学习交流PPT,Japan: indirectness is an art,1.Determine 2.Accept 3.Several repeated exchange 4.Answered in politely,18,学习交流PPT,America: directness is a value,It is different from Japanese culture.,19,学习交流PPT,MADAGASCAR: Indirectness = high statuese,Women：Women: direct style is clumsy and crude Men: indirect style is regard as better,20,学习交流PPT,5,Summarize,By 王振鹏,21,学习交流PPT,Structure & Mai