毕业论文-浅论骆驼祥子的悲情人生.doc

河北广播电视大学“人才培养模式改革和开放教育试点”汉语言文学专业 毕业论文论文题目 浅论骆驼祥子的悲情人生学生姓名 学 号 1213001270168 指导教师 年 级 2012秋 分校/学院 安新电大 提交日期 2014年10月8日 河北广播电视大学浅论骆驼祥子的悲情人生【内容摘要】老舍在长篇小说骆驼祥子中塑造的人力车夫骆驼祥子的形象,是对车夫性格的深刻的描绘。它以人物自身的性格矛盾,揭示了来自乡村的破产农民面对腐朽社会的压迫盘剥,在日益贫困的同时也扭曲了质朴的人生,激化了小生产者对“私有”的追逐,从而加速了他们悲剧的结局。祥子是一个从农村来到城市的足壮、诚实的小伙子，当他认定“拉车是件更容易挣钱的事”的时候，他就一心想买上自己的车，以成为高等车夫，并成就自己的事业。 凭着勤劳和坚韧，他用三年的时间省吃俭用，终于实现了这个理想，成为了自食其力的上等车夫。然而，社会并没有特别惠顾这个来自农村的小伙，当时中国军阀混战的社会环境，容不得他有丝毫的个人幻想，不到半年，他就在兵荒马乱种被逃兵掳走，失去了洋车，只牵回了三匹骆驼。这一切告诉我们，祥子所失去的不仅仅是车子、积蓄，更重要的是劳动者所具有的美德，以及不断求进取的生活态度。祥子“没了心，他的心被人家摘了去”祥子的悲剧之悲正在于这里。老舍试图用祥子的悲剧激起人们的悲愤，唤起人民的斗志。祥子的悲剧是强者沉沦的悲剧，是性格和命运的悲剧。长篇的悲剧描写，客观上能使人们认识到：不推翻这黑暗的旧社会，劳动人民就不能解放，同时我们也应得出这样的结论：我们不但应该改造客观世界，也应该改造主观世界，只有这样，才能最终结束悲剧。【关键词】祥子、悲剧、事业、爱情、性格、命运目 录一、事业上的悲剧性2二、爱情的悲剧性4三、性格的悲剧行5四、社会的悲剧性6前言老舍在长篇小说骆驼祥子中塑造的人力车夫骆驼祥子的形象,是对车夫性格的深刻的描绘。它以人物自身的性格矛盾,揭示了来自乡村的破产农民面对腐朽社会的压迫盘剥,在日益贫困的同时也扭曲了质朴的人生,激化了小生产者对“私有”的追逐,从而加速了他们悲剧的结局。小说在效果上,明确地使读者意识到在生产关系大变革中,徘徊在原有的衢巷内,而不肯置身新的生产关系中的人,虽说他不是剥削者，不是众矢之的,但也走的是一条历史的悲剧之路。一、事业的悲剧性 祥子是一个从农村来到城市的足壮、诚实的小伙子，当他认定“拉车是件更容易挣钱的事”的时候，他就一心想买上自己的车，以成为高等车夫，并成就自己的事业。 凭着勤劳和坚韧，他用三年的时间省吃俭用，终于实现了这个理想，成为了自食其力的上等车夫。然而，社会并没有特别惠顾这个来自农村的小伙，当时中国军阀混战的社会环境，容不得他有丝毫的个人幻想，不到半年，他就在兵荒马乱种被逃兵掳走，失去了洋车，只牵回了三匹骆驼。我们不能不说祥子的事业在刚起步阶段就夭折了。 然而，祥子没有灰心，他依旧倔强地从头开始，更加努力地着手攒钱。可这次还没有等他再买上车，所有的积蓄又被侦探敲诈洗劫一空，买车的梦想再次成为泡影。此时，祥子茫然极了，他感觉到似乎连窗外的雪花都为之变成了灰白色了。第二次准备事业的道路又变得遥不可及了。 当他又一次拉上自己的车的时候，是以与虎妞成就畸形的婚姻为代价的。虎妞用低廉的价格从邻居二强子手上买了二手车，因此，祥子又拥有了自己的车了。但是，好景不长，虎妞死于难产，祥子再一次将车卖掉，为虎妞置办身后事，落得人车两空的惨境。从此，祥子的事业就一蹶不振，他再也没能拉上自己的车，而他当初想成就高等车夫的梦想也没能实现。 为了事业，祥子必须从生活中扣出每一点钱，他舍下面子和下等车夫强座，没命的拉车，连一口好茶不愿喝。虽然像他这样的高等车夫喝点好茶是再平常不过的事，他把自己当作铁打的，拼命攒钱，事情却常常不如人愿，所有的意外都与愿望悖道相驰。祥子“三起三落”的事业经历，似乎让我们看到了旧社会的大兵，特务，车厂老板及各种黑暗势力结成一张庞大的网，网住了祥子，使他的事业止步不前，甚至倒退。祥子性格的最大特点，又是导致这场悲剧的主观原因，是他想通过个人奋斗改变自己的社会地位和生活命运的强烈愿望和迫切要求，既然他所受的是来自整个社会的沉重压迫，孤立的零散的个人奋斗自然难以取得成功，即便有了自己的车子并且始终保持者，又何尝能够摆脱那些压制而真正成为独立自主，幸福生活的劳动者？这种不切实际的打算，使他从一开始就陷入盲目性，一切真诚的努力都是毫无疑义的，等待着他的只能是失败和悲剧。作家对祥子性格的描绘并未到此为止，还向深层做了细致的挖掘。他写到祥子对于自己的这种努力也不断有过反思和疑问，因此第一次丢车后，尽管他仍然努力拉车攒钱，可是干着干着，他便想起那回事，一想起来，他心里就觉得发堵，不由得想到，要强又怎样哪？即使马上再弄来一辆，焉知不再遇上那样的事呢？可见他已经预感到前途的黯淡，并向自己提出了反问，但他随即做出的回答仍然是“即使今天买上，明天就丢了，他也得去买。这是他的志愿，希望，甚至是宗教。不拉自己的车，他简直象是白活。他的最可靠的希望是买车，非买上车不能对得起自己，设若一旦忘了这事，他便忘了自己，他觉得自己只是个会跑路的牲畜，没一点起色与人味”。结论是无论付出多么大的代价，“有了车便可顶一切”，作为个体劳动者，他们只有在这种追求中才多少感觉到自己的价值和生活意义。在祥子这里，车子已经和他的生命融为一体，虽然他早把自己的这种努力比作“误入了罗圈胡同，绕了个圈又回到原处。”但他还是这样奔跑着，先是充满了希望的奔跑着，在这里，清醒和糊涂，自觉和盲目，几乎成了同一回事，如果把他们区别开来都没有什么意义了二、爱情的悲剧性 祥子来自乡间，虽然，他一向没有想到娶亲的事，可是心中并非没有这个算计，他想：倘若自己有了车，生活舒服了一些，而且愿意娶亲的话，他必定到乡下娶个年轻力壮的，吃得苦的，能洗能作的姑娘。可是事不由他，虎妞，一个他想都没想到的人儿，竟然闯入了祥子的世界。 虎妞是一个“野腔无调惯了”的女性，她在认清父亲要死死的把她留在身边，要毁掉她的一辈子的时候，她开始了有意识的反抗。她看上了老实、勤俭、强壮的祥子，于是便处处设计把自己嫁出去，嫁给祥子。于是她总是对祥子特别的关心和爱护，在祥子没第一份包月的活儿以后，备了好酒好菜招待祥子，还给自己化了妆。终于祥子在酒精的作用和虎妞引诱下和虎妞发生了关系。 祥子不明白自己是怎么回事？也不明白虎妞是怎么回事？因为她早已不是处女了，祥子若要娶亲，一定娶个一清二白的姑娘，可是现在，他想起虎妞，若把她当个朋友看，她确是不错，当个姑娘，乃至妻子，她就不行了。虎妞对于祥子的爱情实在是一场灾难。祥子并不爱她，可是虎妞采取了十分卑鄙的手段使祥子上了钩。前次祥子从杨先生家辞职回来的晚上，虎妞把祥子叫到房里，请他吃酒吃鸡，当祥子吃得醉昏昏的时候，虎妞把祥子留在房里，与他发生了关系。第二天，祥子非常后悔，他认为只有自己买上车娶上老婆才是光明正大的事。他恨虎妞，想与他一刀两断，他到处找包月车拉，目的就是要逃避虎妞对他的所谓爱情。但是虎妞抓祥子就好象猫抓老鼠一样，使祥子逃不出她的情网。虎妞却着实想要和祥子结合，她想要的就一定能得到。为此，她处心积虑，假借怀孕来牵制祥子，她为了能使自己顺利地嫁出去，特意在刘四生日那天安排祥子去拜寿，并且想让刘四认祥子做干儿子，可是失败了，反被刘四赶出了家门。搬出去以后，虎妞仗着自己有几个钱在手，就处处压着祥子，在家里充当一个“老虎婆娘”，祥子完全生活在她的控制之下，生活没有了自由，更何来的理想爱情。在婚后的生活中，虎妞以绝对优势的经济地位赢得了“领导权”，结果使祥子在家中存在强烈的失重感、压迫感以及无时无刻不在的自卑感，以至于不幸同样不可避免。祥子迫于无奈，只得忍气吞声。可是祥子在心底讨厌着虎妞，他时时刻刻都在想着要离开她。虎妞走进了祥子的生活，从而严重地干涉了他的生活理想。当祥子到曹先生家拉包月时，一天晚上，虎妞去找祥子说“我有了”她指指自己的肚子。并跟祥子出主意，要他在年二十七刘四爷的七十寿辰那天，买点东西去讨好刘四爷，然后就提出结婚之事。祥子虽然没有当面拒绝她，但在心里说，他坚决不向老头子去磕头。他想逃到天津，上海去，但又没有这个本事，他想来想去，觉得一个车夫的命运只是两个字：倒霉，连娘儿们也会欺负他。正在思想斗争十分复杂的时候，孙侦探的敲诈这一致命打击又落到他的头上。他认了命，他只好回到人和车厂去，去见那个塔似的虎姑娘。可是，祥子苦闷，他的生活发生了变化，他慢慢的变得消沉。虽然到虎妞难产而死的时候，祥子也没有离开她，可是感情与生活的差异，特别是虎妞的自以为是的性格也必然导致他们婚姻的失败，他们的婚姻注定是个悲剧。 如果说对于虎妞的婚姻，祥子是不情愿的，是被迫的，那么，对于福子，就一定是自愿的，而且是理想的。在祥子的眼里，福子是美丽的，年轻的，要强的，勤俭的。倘若，他想再娶，她是个适合的人。 但是，祥子并没有抓住机会，由于种种原因，当他最后回去寻找福子时，得到的却是她死去的消息。也许，福子的离去是她个人的解放，可这却是祥子爱情的终结点。这一切告诉我们，祥子所失去的不仅仅是车子、积蓄，更重要的是劳动者所具有的美德，以及不断求进取的生活态度。祥子“没了心，他的心被人家摘了去”祥子的悲剧之悲正在于这里。老舍试图用祥子的悲剧激起人们的悲愤，唤起人民的斗志。三、性格的悲剧性 祥子是个性格鲜明的普通车夫，他刚来到城里时，满身散发着乡间人民的质朴和诚实。在他身上具有劳动人民许多优良的品质：善良、纯朴、热爱劳动等等。 在初期，强烈的求生欲望，顽强的奋斗精神，是祥子性格的主旋律。他几乎将自己所有的时间都投入到拉车中。 祥子性格中还含有反抗及独立自主的一面。祥子平常好像能忍受一切委屈，但他的性格中的反抗要求也有所体现。祥子做事认真负责，讲究信用和义气。他拉车出了事，自己被摔得很重，但他首先想到是车上的曹先生。曹先生被摔伤了，他感到很内疚，并提出了以自己的钱赔偿损失，他认为曹先生是好人，所以，当曹先生因特务追捕避居在外时，他承受着自己被劫夺的痛苦，而一心想着怎样不辜负人家的嘱托看好曹宅；同时，祥子极富同情心，当他看到比自己更加困难的老马、小马两人在寒夜饿得发昏时，便毫不犹豫地给他们买来羊肉包子；对备受生活折磨的不幸的小福子，他也尽量地给予同情和帮助。这些，都显示了祥子作为一个劳动者的美好心灵。祥子作为一般的城市个体劳动者，农村生活在他的性格以至于他的形象各个方面留下了众多鲜明的印记，无论他的健壮，勤快，朴实，还是他的狭窄，保守，即从外形，生活习惯，心理状态，精神气质无不带着浓厚的泥土气息，显示出来自乡间的特点，有典型的农村习惯和农民意识。他不同于一般车夫，没有入车行的辙，还是因为他保持着在乡间形成的拘谨，忠厚的心态和气质。从外表到内心都曾经是骆驼般坚韧的祥子，心灵深处却又始终都有一种说不出的孤独感和软弱感，当他因为走投无路而感到苦恼和恐惧时，更让他难过的是，没地方诉说委屈。这不能只从他是个体劳动者的一般原则加以说明，诚然有狭窄短视，但作为劳动者，毕竟还是善良的，乐于助人的，尤其是对于自己相似的，劳动者，不幸者。问题的关键不在于祥子一方面已经完全失去了与农村的联系而且早也不愿与之发生任何关系了，一方面又没扎根于城市生活，甚至还不知道与新的生活环境建立应有的联系，求得别人的关心和帮助。这样他才会感到如此孤独，无能为力，不知所措，才特别脆弱，经不起打击和挫折.四、社会的悲剧性 人在社会中生活，受着社会的制约，他的道路，是由他所处的社会环境，他所属的社会地位，他与社会的各种联系决定的。祥子的形象，是在当时那个黑暗社会的画面上，在他与各种社会力量的复杂关系中凸显出来的。他的悲剧主要是他所生活的那个社会的产物。对于祥子的打击，首先来自反动派。第一辆车被北洋军阀的逃兵夺走，准备买第二辆车的积蓄又被国民党的特务孙侦探敲诈去。这些描写都很简短，事情也发生的突然，带有很大的偶然性，但是和一切真正伟大的现实作品一样，通过这些表现出来的，却是事态发展的必然趋势。城外打仗的消息已经流传了十来天，为了贪图几个钱，祥子大着胆子拉车去西郊，刚出城门，就被逃兵连人带车都抢走了。作品写出了那是一个军阀混战的年代，打仗不断的骚扰着人们的生活，威胁着人们的安全。作品又提到逃兵如果被村中的人们捉住，至少是活埋，从人们对逃兵的深恶痛绝，透露出这些军队曾经如何残酷的蹂躏过人民，在这样动荡不安，反动军队给人民带来深重灾难的年代里，祥子的这场厄运，不过是连年战乱给人造成的浩劫中的一个小小插曲而已。本来，孙侦探跟踪的是祥子的主人曹先生，与祥子毫无关系，敲诈祥子更不在他们的计划之内，可是既然碰到了，“就是祥子遇到了点上，活该！”祥子的社会地位，决定了任何打击都可能而且可以任意地落到他的头上，他们来的越是偶然，越能反映这样打击的必然。骆驼祥子的创作，以撼动人心的艺术力量塑造了祥子的典型形象，写出了城市个体劳动者的悲剧史，在这个充满悲剧意义的车夫的故事中，读者得到的是穿透心灵的震撼和通向现实的反思。祥子的悲剧首先指向那个强大的、罪恶的、病态的社会，是具有深广的历史和社会冲突的产物。祥子的悲剧也是其自身固有缺陷、劣性（不合群、自私、狭隘、脆弱、屈服等）的极度膨胀的结果。这是对那个不合理的制度、畸形的文明、社会的深刻控诉，也是对一个个人主义奋斗者沉沦于逆境悲怆的哀叹。祥子的悲剧是强者沉沦的悲剧，是性格和命运的悲剧。长篇的悲剧描写，客观上能使人们认识到：不推翻这黑暗的旧社会，劳动人民就不能解放，同时我们也应得出这样的结论：我们不但应该改造客观世界，也应该改造主观世界，只有这样，才能最终结束悲剧。祥子的悲剧形象，不仅在当时能够引起读者的反省，就是到了今天，小说中所揭露的那些小生产者的意识还依然相当普遍地残存于人民群众的头脑里，这无疑影响和妨碍了整个社会的发展与进步，也值得我们深思。因此，当今时代，我们再读老舍的骆驼祥子，仍然能够从主人公的悲剧中，得到启迪，受到教育.【参考文献】1 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With heaps of time, the seven-day Chinese请您删除一下内容，O(_)O谢谢！National Day holiday could be the best occasion to enjoy a destination. However, it can also be the easiest way to ruin how you feel about a place and you may become more fatigued after the holiday, due to battling the large crowds. During peak season, a dream about a place can turn to nightmare without careful planning, especially if you travel with children and older people. As most Chinese people will take the holiday to visit domestic tourist destinations, crowds and busy traffic are inevitable at most places. Also to be expected are increasing transport and accommodation prices, with the possibility that there will be no rooms available. It is also common that youllwait in the line for one hour to get a ticket, and another two hours at the site, to only see a tiny bit of the place due to the crowds. Last year, 428 million tourists traveled in China over the week-long holiday in October. Traveling during this period is a matter that needs thorough preparation. If you are short on time to plan the upcoming Golden Week it may not be a bad idea to avoid some of the most crowded places for now. There is always a place so fascinating that everyone yearns for. Arxan is a place like this. The beauty of Arxan is everlasting regardless of the changing of four seasons. Bestowed by nature, its spectacular seasonal landscape and mountains are just beyond word. Arxan is a crucial destination for the recommended travelling route, China Inner Mongolia Arxan Hailar Manzhouli. It is also the joint of the four prairies across the Sino-Mongolian border, where people gravitate towards the exotic atmosphere mixed with Chinese, Russian, and Mongolia elements. As a historic site for the Yitian Battle, Arxan still embodies the spirit of Genghis Khan. Walking into Arxan, you will be amazed by a kaleidoscope of gorgeous colors all the year round - the Spring azaleas blooming red in the snow, the Summer sea wavering blue in the breeze, the Autumn leaves painted in yellow covering volcanic traces, and the Winter woods shining white on the vast alpine snowscape. Hinggan League Arxan city is situated in the far eastern area of Inner Mongolia Autonomous Region. Its full name Haren Arxan means hot holy water in the Mongolian language. Arxan is a tourism city in the northern frontier with a blend of large forest, grand prairies, vast snowfield, heaven lake cluster, thermium, as well as volcanic cluster. It is a rare and unique ecotourism base filled with healthy sunshine, clean air and unspoiled green. Nestled close to the countrys largest virgin forest, and known for its spring and ecological environment, Arxan is marveled at by many tourists as the purest land on earth. You cannot miss out the Autumn of Arxan. It is definitely the best with brightly-colored scenery full of emotions. Autumn in the northern part of the country comes earlier than the South. A September rain followed by the footprints of Autumn brings more colors to the once emerald green mountain and blooming grassland. Shutterbugs flock to see for themselves the marvel of splendid colors around the mountains and waters, many of whom have travel a long distance and even camp here only to capture a moment of the nature wonder. The silver birch turns golden, while the larch is still proudly green. You will find yourself drowned in the intoxicating red of the wild fruits as well as the glamour of flowers in full blown. And your heart will be lingering on the woods as its time for the wild fruits to ripe. The picturesque Arxan in Autumn is indeed a fairyland only exists in a dream that satisfies all your fantasies. If itrains heavily on Saturday night, some elderly Chinese will say it is because Zhinu, or the Weaving Maid, is crying on the day she met her husband Niulang, or the Cowherd, on the Milky Way. Most Chinese remember being told this romantic tragedy when they were children on Qixi, or the Seventh Night Festival, which falls on the seventh day of the seventh lunar month, which is usually in early August. This year it falls on Saturday, August 2. Folklore Story As the story goes, once there was a cowherd, Niulang, who lived with his elder brother and sister-in-law. But she disliked and abused him, and the boy was forced to leave home with only an old cow for company. The cow, however, was a former god who had violated imperial rules and was sent to earth in bovine form. One day the cow led Niulang to a lake where fairies took a bath on earth. Among them was Zhinu, the most beautiful fairy and a skilled seamstress. The two fell in love at first sight and were soon married. They had a son and daughter and their happy life was held up as an example for hundreds of years in China. Yet in the eyes of the Jade Emperor, the Supreme Deity in Taoism, marriage between a mortal and fairy was strictly forbidden. He ordered the heaven troop to catch Zhinu back. Niulang grew desperate when he discovered Zhinu had been taken back to heaven. Driven by Niulangs misery, the cow told him to turn its hide into a pair of shoes after it died. The magic shoes whisked Niulang, who carried his two children in baskets strung from a shoulder pole, off on a chase after the empress. The pursuit enraged the empress, who took her hairpin and slashed it across the sky creating the Milky Way which separated husband from wife. But all was not lost as magpies, moved by their love and devotion, formed a bridge across the Milky Way to reunite the family. Even the Jade Emperor was touched, and allowed Niulang and Zhinu to meet once a year on the seventh night of the seventh month. This is how Qixi came to be. The festival can be traced back to the Han Dynasty (206 BC-AD 220). Traditionally, people would look up at the sky and find a bright star in the constellation Aquila as well as the star Vega, which are identified as Niulang and Zhinu. The two stars shine on opposite sides of the Milky Way. Customs In bygone days, Qixi was not only a special day for lovers, but also for girls. It is also known as the Begging for Skills Festival or Daughters Festival. In this day, girls will throw a sewing needle into a bowl full of water on the night of Qixi as a test of embroidery skills. If the needle floats on top of the water instead of sinking, it proves the girl is a skilled embroiders. Single women also pray for finding a good husband in the future. And the newly married women pray to become pregnant quickly. Tradition transformed The love story of Niulang and Zhinu, and the Qixi Festival have been handed down for generations. Yet these ancient traditions and customs are slowly dying out. Many modern Chinese, particularly youngsters, seem to know more about St Valentines Day on February 14, characterized by bouquets of roses, chocolates and romantic candlelight dinners, than they do about their home-grown day for lovers. Even Qixi is nowadays referred to as the Chinese Valentines Day. More and more young Chinese people begin to celebrate this day in a very similar way as that in western countries. Fewer people than ever will gaze at the heavens on Saturday to pick out the two stars shining bright on either side of the Milky Way, that is, if people even know on which day Qixi falls. There are ready reminders dotted about, in the form of big ads saying Sales on Chinese Valentines Day! in shops, hotels and restaurants. But few young women will mark the festival with their boyfriends, or take part in traditional activities to pray for cleverness. A large-scale of exhibition on the Silk Road opened to the public in the National Museum on Thursday. The exhibition displays more than 400 treasures from Shaanxi province, Gansu province and 14 other regions. It is largest scale exhibition that shows the history of the Silk Road in recent years. AsAPECis going on in Beijing, the exhibit aims to show the world this brilliant section of history. The Silk Road is a series of trade and cultural transmission routes that were central to cultural interaction through regions of the Asian continent. It connected the West and East by linking traders, merchants, pilgrims, monks, soldiers, nomads, and urban dwellers from China and India to the Mediterranean Sea during various periods of time. I met my dear hubby in 2009 the second year I was in my school and it was the first year when he came here. We became colleagues. And there was nothing special happening during that year. He was just a kind and humble brother graduated from the same college as me. But we did not know each other till he became my colleague and his office desk was just in front of me. There was only a glass between us. So actually we could see each other when we both look up. But it is not the main reason that really draws us close. How we become close to each other was something seems quite natural. We went out to play badminton with other colleagues and we sometimes chatted for a while. He is a man of few words but somehow sometimes will say something really humorous. Then one day, to my great surprise, I found a pot of beautiful flower on my desk. It was just the flower I had talked about with my colleague the other day, and I thought it was her who put the flower there. But the truth is not. It was the humble guy sitting in front of me. He just simply said ,”well, I caught sight of this flower and thought that its beautiful and you may like it”. I wonder why I was moved because of these simple words and present. Maybe it is the sincerity and the true self that impress me. I thanked him and some colleagues walked past my desk would appreciate the beautiful flower and they noticed that something romance happened there. Then later on, there were some little surprises once in a while. Once, there was something wrong with my drawer and I had complained about it unconsciously. And he fixed it for me. Then the other day, he placed several pink diamond roses beside the flower with a piece of paper saying” I love you more than I can say! Diamond stands for marriage, rose stand for love. I hope you are mine, become my wife. You are the only girl who I really want to spend the rest of my life to stand by.” Although there were some grammar errors but I got what he meant. He meant so clear and so direct. And actually, I accepted him some days earlier. I was just waiting for him to break the ice. So finally, the common interests and the common understanding brought us together. Some people say the relationship and the feeling will change after getting hitched. You will find that love is no longer strong and there is always lack of passion and whats worse you may find out many bad habits of your partner, which never appear when you are first in love before the marriage. It seems that many faults turn up after you truly livi