分手信读后感

1 / 12 分手信读后感 Love means that you care for another person s happiness more than your own,no matter how choices you face might be. I wanted them to be happy,I wanted her to be happy. These sentence are impress me a lot,It is John who showed me what is true love. John lives in a single parent his childhood,he is a mistaken boy who don t know what is true graduated from High school,he is no longer continued to go to smoke,cut classes,fought,and drunk in the a word,he did lots of bad he changed many works,and girlfriends,but no one fits he joined the he got got began to read,Surfing in the sea is his of this hobby,he met the most important girl who is named fell in love for me,it is not 2 / 12 after I read more than thirty pages, they finally get they had only two weeks good John had to back to the promised that he would be released from military after one communicated by looked forward to see each other said that she always fell asleep with retiring approached,the war was had to back to the can t imagine how disappointed they felt in that know we can write and talk on the phone now and we could see each other when you come home on it won t be the won t be able to see your silly won t be able to lie on the beach together and stare at won t be able to sit across from each other and talk and share I won t feel your arm around me,like I do now. Time and distant 3 / 12 can change ,love is September 11th is army s duty to sacrifice was unhappiness ran faster than they expected thing I were John,I would stayed at army I believed that true love can afford to as a girl,I think there is nothing wrong with Savannah .The old saying is woman can not afford to wait. Peaceful life is Savannah s she chose to Tim who is a warm man always behind m admire his kindness and his love to was not ask anything about what happened when Savannah was in an indecent man s Savannah s most difficult time,Tim is the only person that Savannah can didn t say anything just fetch Savannah to her in that time I think Savannah s chosen is right. The most dramatic thing is that Tim was had never changed his love to Savannah. When John s father went to drop in wanted to know how is Savannah s life going?The most touching moment was they stare at each other .Lots of things invaded their a sentence said I designed lots of ways to meet This is the only way I didn t imagined. John said if I were you I would wait. But it is too that moment,I didn t say who didn t catch the 4 / 12 true s fate that sent Savannah away from John. Watching her I felt a sudden pain in my because she was married to Tim,and not at the thought of seeing them both came from watching Savannah as I was driving on her porch,crying into her hands. I believe that they still love each other in that as time went by,they cant each most simple greeting Hey,John ? Yeah? We can t imagine what they were thinking after long time no see. he sold his father s coins and send money to coins are invaluable,and it was the only thing John s father left for is such a poor John I can see how powerful love it is not only own,but also make her think Savannah is has two men love her she is also unfortunately .It s hard for her to is like would devote all their life to her in your life is just take a lesson to you,then they we should thanks all the people in our life whatever they brought to Savannah is just a passer-by in John s our daily life,We meet many many kinds of bring happiness to us and someone bring sadness to should know thank all of the help of Savannah s help,misunderstanding to his can t think the true lover needn t together with each 5 / 12 other all the leave is John didn t sent money to Tim,he can wait for him he would get he didn t do don t know why true love always can t together But doing the right thing wasn t easy These days I lead my life feeling that something is missing that I somehow need to make my life know that my feeling about Savannah will never I will always wonder the choice I made. This sentence showed that John still Love Savannah can t be our daily life,We also meet lots of know every step is so important that can determine our we choose,Don t betray our John wondered the choice he he save Tim s he didn t do that,we cant say he is is selfless in was the only thing he can do to Savannah. I think in university,true love is inspire each other to be talk on the phone all the go to see a movie or go to should improve our ability and learn more ,I can t say if I were John or if I were Savannah what I will everyone has their own be a person who know what is Love is be a kind to all the people in our life whatever pain or happiness they brought to us. the Silent Love 6 / 12 Dear John is one of the representative books written by the famous American author whose name is Nicholas Sparks, and this novel has be en adapted to a film. The novel?s main line is the love between the hero John and the heroine Savannah, going with its happening and missing. As another invisible line in novel, John?s father?s figure is changing and developing crisscross in John?s eyes. And it?s all about love. What I will discuss is John?s father?s love to his son. John?s father is an old man with autism that nobody had realize before. As John is growing up, the estrangement between them is getting deeper. It?s not long after John had entered puberty that John?s relationship with his father has accumulated into contradiction. Gradually, John, used to rely on his father, have an aversion to this wordless father?s love after being an adult. It firstly comes from the difference between them, Where he was passive and introspective, I was always in motion and hated to be alone.He had poor posture and tended to shuffle when he walked; I bounced from here to there.Our physical 7 / 12 features were completely different, too . Then, their different personality bring out their disharmonious communication. In John?s eyes, John never knows his father and he thinks his father had not cared for him so much, other fathers are always more caring for their children. What?s more, John?s vanity in puberty lead him keeping at a distance with both his father and even-aged companion gradually. The communication between them also becomes so tough. In John?s heart, it?s a relative who has genetic connection with him but he is not willing to accept. John?s father is a local postman, going to and getting off work on time everyday. There is not any other hobby except coins, as if living one person?s life. All his life is single and boring. So you can see the coin is one important thing in this novel. Before John?s grandfather?s death, John?s father had formed the habit of collecting coins with his father. Like John?s grandfather, his father is economical all his life. What is given clear indication in testament is that the house should be sold and then put money into collecting coins. Even though in inflation period or in John?s 8 / 12 puberty, he still perseveres in collecting coins, living a simple life. And I think, coins symbolize the emotion between his father and him. John?s father chose coins but not comfortable life like his father finally. In other words, it means a long trek and high pay. In his life, he is loath to part with or leave central heating. John can get only one pair of new shoes every year. And in John?s memory, his father has never bought new garment. At first, coins paly a internuncial role in the set membership. It is because of father?s indulgence in coins that his family?s situation has become so difficult. John also thinks that his father?s love for coins has replaced the love to him. It not only aggravates the contradiction between them, but also makes John firm in joining the army. But in John?s father?s eyes, it is coin that makes him practice his interests and realize his pursue in life, stand for the selfless love to John. After joining the army, John haven?t lived with his father for a long time. Therefore, their communication is so lacking. Romantically, John meet Savannah during his furlough. In this novel, Savannah 9 / 12 is not only John?s lover but also the bridge connecting John with John?s father. Savannah thinks, it?s extraordinary for a person with autism to work normally, set a familiar pattern to live independently and bring up John by himself. It?s because of Savannah?s help and acceptance to John?s father that John could rethink him. His father?s behavior, cowardice, selfishness and stubbornness become reasonable in John?s mind finally. There are something hidden in this obtuse body: one is the deep love to his son, another is an unsound people?s desire and struggle for a sound life. When most sound people complain about their unfair fate, there always exists a few people accepting and facing their unfair reality, proving themselves silently. Once on the bus, I occasionally saw an old man working hard for this city under the flyover, looking poor. Time has left layers of wrinkles on his face and the burning sun makes his skin dark. It really stroke my heart . The man is old enough to live out their life in retirement, but he still work on the bottom of society for his family. All we can see, on the way to 10 / 12 the urbanization, so many old people sacrifice their sunset in life while many sons and daughters are not responsible to support the whole family. The city will be empty without the love between parents and children. The innocent love between John and Savannah touched everyone, and the father?s role also moved every reader under writer?s skillfully arrangement. As a member of special community that have some common encounters with Forrest Gump, he has powerful vitality. Though he is a