中美对待赞美的不同之处PPT课件

.,1,ThedifferencesofcomplimentbetweenChinaandUSA,Part1.thedifferentfunctionsofcompliment,Part2.thedifferentcomplimentgiving,Part3.thedifferentcomplimentresponse,.,2,Part1,Functionsofcompliment,SimpleVSComplex,.,3,Inmostofthetime,wegetcomplimentsandgivecompliments.Interestingly,differentcountrieshavedifferentkindsofwaystopraiseothers.,NowletushavealookatthedifferentfunctionsofcomplimentsbetweenChinaandUSA.,.,4,InChina,Tomakeothersfeelgoodforthetraditionalpursuitofharmonious.ToshowonesappreciationonsomethingTotrytomakeuseofcertainpeople,.,5,ChinesecomplimentsdontemphasizeonnegotiatingsolidaritywhileAmericanreallydo.Researchshowsthatonly5%ofChinesebelievethatcomplimentsarenecessaryinachievingabalancedrelationship.,.,6,IntheUS,Toexpressgoodwill,solidarityandencouragement.Moreover,Americansarealsogoodatgreetingpeople,expressingthanksandgettingoverembarrassmentthroughcompliments.,.,7,Case1,greetingpeople(Abossmeetshisyoungfemaleemployeeinthemorning.)A:Well,youlookgoodtoday.Youhavesuchniceclothes.B:Thankyou.Ihavehadthisforawhile.,.,8,Case2,expressingthanksA:ThanksfortheChristmaspresentyousentme.ItssoniceandjustwhatIneeded.B:Imgladyoulikeit.,.,9,Case3,gettingoverembarrassment.(Twofriendsdecidetomakeupafteraquarrel.Onecomestotheapartmentoftheother.)A:Hi,Gali.Howareyou?B:OK.Howareyou?A:Imfine.(pause)B:Oh,thisvaseisreallypretty.Whendidyougetit?,.,10,Atypicalexample,A:AmericanB:ChineseA:Ireallylikeyourscarf!B:Oohno,itsnothing.A:No,Ireallylikeit.B:Itsnotnewbut.A:Istilllikeitanyway.B:(smiles)A:Uhareyougoingtoaclass?,.,11,analyze,Inthisconversation,bothspeakerscarryoutthetalkingfromtheirownculture.Thenitleadstoacommunicativeculturalgap.Sowhydidithappen?,.,12,complimentgiving,Part2,DirectVSIndirect,.,13,Inthemostoftime,Americansdirectlygivecomplimentstoothers.Eg.1.Wow!Greatjob!2.Thefoodyoucookisreallydelicious!Chinesespeakersaremorelikelytouseindirectlywaytoexpresstheircompliments.Eg.干的不错！Notbad!（干的很好）我以前就听我妈妈说过，你很会煮饭。（你做的饭很好吃）,Whatwillwegetfromthedifferentexamples?,.,14,Highcontext&Lowcontext,EdwardTwitchellHall,Jr.(May16,1914July20,2009)wasananthropologist(人类学家）andcross-culturalresearcher,Hallfirstcreatedtheconceptsofhighandlowcontextcultureinhis1976bookBeyondCulture.,WhatisthemeaningofHighcontext&Lowcontext?,.,15,Highcontext(HC）-高语境,Itreferstoaculturestendencytousehighcontextmessagesoverlowcontextmessagesinroutinecommunication.,Inahighcontextculture,manythingsareleftunsaid.Tochoosethewordsbecomeanimportantsteptocommunicatesuccessfully.Becauseafewofwordscanshowacomplexmessagesveryeffectively.,SomecountrieswhichhavetheHCculture：China,India,Korea,Japan,Thailand,Italy.etc.,.,16,Lowcontext(LC)-低语境,Inalowercontextculture,thecommunicatorneedstobemuchmoreexplicitandthevalueofasinglewordislessimportant.,Lowcontextculturesmakemuchlessextensiveuseofsuchsimilarexperiencesandexpectationstocommunicate.Instead,muchmoreisexplainedthroughwordsorverbalization（冗长的话）,insteadofthecomplexwords.,SomecountrieswhichhaveLCculture:Germany,USA,UK,Australia,etc.,.,17,HCandLCaretwodifferentkindsofcommunicationculture.Boththeyareinfluencedbythelocalculturewhichshowtheexcellentanddeepculture.Therefore,wecannottreattheminprejudice.,PS:对待朋友，我们需要真诚的lowcontextculture，维护友情，需要和谐的highcontextculture-abloginW,.,18,Part3,complimentresponse,DenyVSAccept,.,19,complimentresponse,Americansasexpressingopenlyanddirectlytheirappreciationandacceptanceofthecompliment.Ontheotherhand,Chineseculturallyusethe“deny”responseto“pushaway”praiseasawaytocommunicatemodestly.,.,20,Actually,“deny”inChinaresponsetoothersasoneofthemostobviousculturenormswhicharedifferentwithAmericans.Onthecontrary,Americansarepositivetocomplimentsandmakethemdeservethecompliments.,.,21,Letusseeavividdialoguefromdifferentcultures,.,22,Examples,China:男：啊！你看起来很漂亮啊！年轻了啊！女：（脸红了，手足无措）什么啊！别拿我开玩笑了！男：我木有啊！我说的是真话啊！女：（有点相信了，但又不敢说这是事实）别笑我了，大家都几十岁的人了！男：你别那么低调嘛！漂亮就是漂亮咯！这有什么！女：懒得理你啦！男：,.,23,America,(Astrangerinarestaurantnexttotheladysittinginthenexttable):-Stranger:Ihavebeenwatchingyouallthroughlunch.Youhaveabeautifulsmileandithighsuptheroom!-Thelady:oh,thanks！ButIalsothinkitisnotonlymysmilethatisbeautifulyouknow!-S:Yeah!Ofcourse!Youareperfect!-L:thankyou!,.,24,Differentculturesmaymakesomeunnecessarymistakeswhenacommunicationisgoing,Thenwhatcanwedototrytoavoidtheunnecessarymistakes?,.,25,Maybethefollowingthreewaysarehelpful,Bepositivetocompliments.Thinksomereasonswhichwillmakeyoufeelthatyouaredeservethecompliments.Ifyouwanttodenyonescompliment,becautious.Donotdenyonespraiseinahurry.Thatmayincuroffensivefeelingsofothers.Trythisanswer“Ireallyappreciateyourcompliments.”or“thanks.“Itwillhelpyoutaketheleastriskofoffendingothers.,.,26,ThedifferencesofcomplimentbetweenChinaandUSA,Part1.thedifferentfunctionsofcompliment,Part2.thedifferentcomplimentgiving,Part3.thedifferentcomplimentresponse,conclusion,.,27,SummarizebrieflyChinese: