Lesson1EQ：IQ (4).ppt

Unit13People,Warm-up:,beard,blond,long,serious,sunglasses,teenager,thin,uniform,curly(卷的)，gymshoes(运动鞋)，middleheight,leatherjacket(皮夹克)，angry,Examples:,Shesgotlongblondhairandsheswearingglasses.Heswearingawhitecap.Helooksveryhappy.Sheswearingalightgreendress.,EQ:IQ,Reading,洛阳市第三中学王二雪,Task1:WhatdoyouknowaboutEQandIQ?Giveusasmuchinformationasyoucan.,EQ:EmotionalQuotient(情商)IQ:IntelligenceQuotient(智商),Task2:MakesurewhetherthefollowingquestionsarerelatedtoIQorEQ.,Q1:WhenIresolvetoachievesomething,Irunintoobstaclesthatkeepmefromreachingmygoals.RegularlyOftenSometimesRarelyAlmostnever,a=0,b=0,c=1,d=3,d=5,Q2:Pleaseenterthemissingfigure:1,8,27,(),Q3:Pleaseinsertthemissingcharactertoformtwowords:SLOIDE.Q4:Pleasefindthefigurecontinuingtheseries:,Key:b,Key:64,w,Q6:DrinkingandDrivingcausesmanyaccidents.a.Manhasbecomemoreindustrious(勤勉的).b.Peopleworkfasterinordertoavoidunemployment.c.Chairshaveashorterlifecycle.d.Workershavemoresparetime.e.ProductivityhasincreasedKey:e,Q5:Whatistheresultofplusallfiguresfrom0to25?,Key:325,Q7:WhatMOSTmotivates(激励)yourightnow?,a.Praiseb.Challengec.Moneyd.Fame(名声)e.Solvingproblemsf.Helpingothersg.Threath.Curiosity（好奇心）,ThedefinitionofEQ,情商（EQ）又称情绪智力，是近年来心理学家们提出的与智力和智商相对应的概念。它主要是指人在情绪、情感、意志、耐受挫折等方面的品质。据情商：为什么情商比智商更重要(丹尼尔戈尔曼“情商之父”),萨洛维(PeterSalovey)及其合作伙伴约翰梅耶(JohnMayer)已对情绪智力给出了详细的定义，情绪智力扩展为5个主要领域：了解自身情绪;管理情绪;自我激励;识别他人情绪;处理人际关系。,ThedefinitionofIQ,智商(IQ)就是智力商数。智力通常叫智慧，也叫智能。是人们认识客观事物并运用知识解决实际问题的能力。智力包括多个方面，如观察力、记忆力、想象力、分析判断能力、思维能力、应变能力等。智力的高低通常用智力商数来表示，是用以标示智力发展水平。,EQ:IQ,FiveelementsofEQ:self-awareness自我意识Motivation自我激励self-regulation自我调节Empathy移情，共感，即识别他人情绪Adeptnessinrelationships:人际关系,Afigureusedtoindicatethelevelofapersonsintelligenceaboveorbelowthatofanaverageintellect(IQ100).IntelligenceQuotientsarebasedonresponsestoIntelligenceTests,Readthearticleandanswerthequestions:,1.Whatdoestherecentresearchsayaboutapersonssuccessandhis/herIQ?SuccessisnotsimplytheresultofahighIQ.,2.HowdoesProfessorSaloveydescribeEQandIQ?,Atwork,itisIQthatgetsyouhired,butitisEQthatgetsyoupromoted.,3.WhydosomesmartstudentsendupfailingexamsaccordingtoProf.Salovey?,PerhapstheirfailureisbecauseoftheirlowEQ.,4.CanapersonsEQbeimproved?WhatabouthisIQ?Canyougivesomeexamples?,IQtellsyouhowsmart/intelligentyouarewhileEQtellsyouhowwellyouuseyoursmartness/intelligence.,5.Whatsthemeaningof“peopleskills”?Isitimportanttoimprovethemifyouwanttobesuccessfulinlife?Why/whynot?,“Peopleskills”meansways/abilitiesofdoingthings.Itisveryimportanttogetthemimproved.Betterskillshelpyoudothingsmoreeasilyandmakeyousuccessful.,Task3:Discussion,Group1:Whichdoyouthinkismoreimportant,IQorEQ,onyourwaytosuccess?Why?Group2:ListsomesignsofhighEQ.Group3:WhatcanwedotoimproveourownIQandEQ?Group4:DoyouthinkEQandIQtestsshouldbeapartofjobrecruitment（求职应聘）?Why?,SignsofHighEQApersonwithHighEQ:,ExpresseshisfeelingsclearlyanddirectlywiththreewordsentencesbeginningwithIfeel.Doesnotdisguise（掩饰）thoughtsasfeelingsbytheuseofIfeellike.andIfeelthat.sentences.Isnotafraidtoexpressherfeelings.Isnotdominatedbynegativeemotionssuchas:Fear,Worry,Guilt,Shame,Embarrassment,Obligation(义务),Disappointment,Hopelessness,Powerlessness（无能为力）,Dependency（依赖性，从属）,Discouragement（气馁）Isabletoreadnon-verbal（非语言的）communication.,SignsofHighEQApersonwithHighEQ:Letshisfeelingsleadhimtohealthychoicesandhappiness.Balancesfeelingswithreason,logic,andreality.Actsoutofdesire,notbecauseofduty,guilt,forceorobligation.行为出于自愿，而不是义务、内疚、强制或责任Isindependent,self-reliantandmorallyautonomous.Isintrinsically（内在的，本质的）motivated.自我激励Isnotmotivatedbypower,wealth,status,fame,orapproval（认可）.,SignsofHighEQApersonwithHighEQ:Tendstofeeloptimistic,butisalsorealistic,andcanfeelpessimisticattimes.Isinterestedinotherpeoplesfeelings.Iscomfortabletalkingaboutfeelings.,EQ标准,高情商尊重所有人的人权和人格尊严。不将自己的价值观强加于他人。对自己有清醒的认识，能承受压力。自信而不自满。人际关系良好，和朋友或同事能友好相处。善于处理生活中遇到的各方面的问题。认真对待每一件事情。较高情商是负责任的“好”公民。自尊。有独立人格，但在一些情况下易受别人焦虑情绪的感染。比较自信而不自满。较好的人际关系。能应对大多数的问题，不会有太大的心理压力。较低情商易受他人