BeingHonestandopen

1、Being Honest and OpenNew College English IV Unit 04OutlineqLanguage learningqCheck of the exercisesqOral discussionqListeningqSongNew College English IV Unit 04intelligent assure consist of enrich tough clarify inevitable external apply hard, difficult; strongcant be prevented from happeningcleverou

2、tsiderequest officiallybe made up ofmake sure or certainmake clear, explainimprove; make rich sell out to convenience stand firmly for ones convictions be honest and open about who you really are there is no middle point 贪财图利贪财图利坚定自己的信念坚定自己的信念 诚实坦白地表现自我诚实坦白地表现自我两者之间没有折中可言两者之间没有折中可言 提高自己的内涵和素质提高自己的内涵

3、和素质 正视现实正视现实 用成熟的心态去迎接用成熟的心态去迎接 生活的挑战生活的挑战 enhance ones inner value and personal growth face the reality be mature in ones responses to lifes challenges 原句原句: :A good test for this value is to apply what I call the “Integrity Triangle”, which consists of three key principles. (L. 9) 2) A good test f

4、or doing sth. is to do sth. else.句型提炼句型提炼(划线部分也可用以下短语：划线部分也可用以下短语： The key / secret / trick / The best course to 或或 The guarantee / the art / bottom line / the best way / purpose of 等等)Expressions & Patterns应用：应用：a. a. 生活生活之道就是懂得之道就是懂得何时该抓紧和何时该抓紧和何时该放手。何时该放手。The art of living is to know when to

5、hold fast and when to let go.应用：应用：b. b. 人生人生成功的秘诀就是成功的秘诀就是有所不为而后可有所不为而后可以有所为。以有所为。The secret to success in life is to leave some things undone in order to do other things.原句原句: :Integrity means you do what you do because its right and not just fashionable or politically correct. (L. 44)。 4) Sth. /

6、Doing sth means / suggests / signifies that (从句从句)句型提炼句型提炼应用：应用：a. a. 一连串的一连串的恐怖袭击表明人类要恐怖袭击表明人类要实现全球的和平还有实现全球的和平还有漫长的路要走。漫长的路要走。A chain of terrorist attacks suggests that mankind will have a long way to go to achieve a global peace.下一页下一页上一页上一页应用：应用：b. b. 生活生活环境的变革也环境的变革也意味着我们要意味着我们要革除陈规陋习。革除陈规陋习。Th

7、e reform in living environments also means that we should do away with our outmoded customs and practices.下一页下一页上一页上一页 tell the truth do not liedo not cheat on examskeep your promiseWhat Is Honesty?Words Related to Honestystraightforward self-respect integrity open moral responsible warm-heartedsinc

8、ere virtue frank helpful reliable trustful Know any sayings about honesty ? Honesty is the best policy. One word of truth outweighs the whole world. One falsehood spoils a thousand truths. Truth exists; only lies are invented. Any fool can tell the truth, but it requires a man of some sense to know

9、how to lie well. Truth fears no questions.A lie told often enough becomes the truth. LeninThe first and last thing required of genius is the love of truth. Goethe Truth is beautiful, without doubt; but so are lies. Ralph Waldo EmersonTo Lie Or Not To Lie?Directions: Discuss the following cases in gr

10、oups and see what you would probably say in each of the situations and why. 1) Your friend invites you to see a movie that doesnt interest you. 2) You are a doctor and one of your patients is dying of cancer. 3) You are late for work because you overslept. Your boss asks you where you were.Sometimes

11、 people have to lie for good purposes, which are called white lies.Tips for cases in which white lies are usually made: to tell a dying patient he is hopeful to comfort a heartbroken person to avoid hurting others dignity TipsListening 1Exercise 1-1 Exercise 1-2Tapescript 1v Very often，newborn babie

12、s are not beautiful. They are wrinkled or bald, or they have angry expressions on their faces that seem to say，“Go away! I hate everybody.” But to a parent， that bald， wrinkled， mean faced baby is the most beautiful and perfect child in the world. When that proud father or mother asks you， “ Well，wh

13、at do you thinkisnt she beautiful?” What are you going to say? Is this the time for the truth? Of course not!v You look that proud father in the eye and say， “Yes, she is! Shes a real beauty . Shes one in a million. Shes going to be a movie star! I can tell! Shes as pretty as a picture.”Tapescript 2

14、v This is what we call in English a white lie. White lies dont hurt people; they arent cruel or angry words. People use them to make a difficult situation a little easier. When people refuse dates，forget their homework，or taste something new that they dont especially like while eating at a friends h

15、ouse， they tell a white lie. They are trying to be kind. They dont want to hurt someones fee lings. It is important to be honest. But many people feel that being kind and considerate is sometimes more important.Exercise Tapescript 1 What exactly is a lie? Is it anything we say that we know is untrue

16、? Or is it something more than that? For example， suppose a friend wants to borrow some money from you and you say， “I wish I could help you but Im short of cash right n o w.” In fact， you are not short of cash， but your friend is in the habit of forgetting to pay his debts and you dont want to hurt

17、 his feelings by reminding him of this. Does this quality as a lie?v Tapescript 2 A scientific study of lying shows women are better liars than men， particularly when telling a “white lie”. When a women at a party tells another woman thats he likes her dress， she really thinks it looks terrible. How

18、ever， this is only one side of the story. Other research shows that men are more likely to tell more serious lies. They tend to make promises which they have no intention of fulfilling. This is the kind of lie politicians and businessmen are particularly skilled at. They hope to profit from these li

19、es in some way.v Tapescript 3 Research has also been done into the way peoples behavior changes in a number of small， apparently unimportant ways when they lie. It has been found that， if they sit down， they tend to move about in their chair more than usual. It seems as if they were saying to themse

20、lves “I wish I were somewhere else now.” It has also been observed that in extreme situations， people perspire more than usual and they blink more often.v HonestyIf you search for tenderness, it isnt hard to _. You can have the love you need to live.If you look for _, you might just as well be _.It always seems to be so hard to give.Honesty is such a _ word,every one is so _.Honesty is _ ever heard and _ what I need from you.find blind truthfulness lonely untrue mostly hardly I can always find someone to say they _.If I we