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1、Stop Spoiling Your ChildrenD2.To study the article 3.Practice4.Summary4.Summary N H C EN H C E1.Ask a question返回返回The status of the spoilThe cause of the spoilThe influence of the spoilHow to change a fond?I often find so many toys in the childrens bedrooms (我经常发现孩子房间里的玩具太多我经常发现孩子房间里的玩具太多了）了）For exa

2、mple ,the following pictures or the phenomenon 词词译译 单词详解单词详解图释图释N H C EN H C EBackspoilvt1.give a child everything they want, or let them do whatever they want, often with the result that they behave badly 溺爱溺爱;宠坏宠坏 词词译译 单词详解单词详解图释图释N H C EN H C EBackovernightad. 1.for or during the night在夜里在夜里; 2.s

3、uddenly 突然间突然间;一下子一下子 词词译译 单词详解单词详解图释图释N H C EN H C EBackassignvt.1.give money,equipment,etc,to.sb.to use给予给予分配分配 词词译译 单词详解单词详解图释图释N H C EN H C EBacklavatoryn.a toilet 厕所厕所 词词译译 单词详解单词详解图释图释N H C EN H C EBackkitn.a set of tools,equipment,etc.for a particular purpose 一套工具一套工具 词词译译 单词详解单词详解图释图释N H C E

4、N H C EBackbarelyad.only with great difficulty or effort; almost not 勉强地勉强地;几乎不几乎不 词词译译 单词详解单词详解图释图释N H C EN H C EBackclosetn.a cupboard built into the wall of a room 壁橱壁橱Im making a point the tendency to give children too many toys and clothes the effects of thiscan actually be somewhat harmful to

5、children.It is harmful我的观点我的观点它的后果它的后果1. Excessive codding can cause children live on incompetence过分的溺爱会造成孩子生活上的无能过分的溺爱会造成孩子生活上的无能2. Now there are a lot of little emperors,the future will become the neets现在有很多小皇帝，将来就会成为现在有很多小皇帝，将来就会成为“啃老族啃老族” 词词译译 单词详解单词详解图释图释key N H C EN H C EBacktendencyn.a strong

6、 chance that sth.will happen in a particular way 趋向趋向.倾向倾向 词词译译 单词详解单词详解图释图释keykey N H C EN H C EBackgenerosityn.the quality of being generous 慷慨慷慨;大度大度 词词译译 单词详解单词详解图释图释key N H C EN H C EBacksomewhatad.to some degree 稍微稍微;有些有些 词词译译 单词详解单词详解图释图释key N H C EN H C EBackharmfula.causing or likely to cau

7、se harm 有害的有害的;造成损害造成损害Why do parents give their children too much? 父母亲为什么要给孩子买那么多东西？父母亲为什么要给孩子买那么多东西？In fact there are many resons 事实上，它是有很多原因的事实上，它是有很多原因的返回返回Para4 to para6Para4 to para6The reason of spoiling childrenOne fairly common reason Parents spend little time in comparing their children. H

8、aving a sense of guilt. Showing their children with material possessions Other reasons:One : For parents, there is something they had while growing up, along with those things they pined for but did not get.They want their children to have these things.Parents provide too much. Two :Children want to

9、ys. for fear that their children will infer they are unloved or will be made fun of if they dont obtain the same toys as their friends have.Parents are afraid to say no to their children. Three :Spoiling a child also happens when parents are unable to stand up their childrens unreasonable demands. s

10、aying no giving inA wave of regret for regret and resent having been so strict ment over having or ungenerous. Been 溺爱在中国流行的三大原因 1.首先是时代背景首先是时代背景改革前的几十年时间里，我们一直生活在物质生活条件非常匮乏的条件下，而且每个家庭一般都有多个兄弟姐妹，我们不仅分到的物质关爱很少，就算精神关爱也偏少,现在，我们身为父母了，却生活在一个物质条件相对非常丰盛的时期，父母经常感叹：“我那个年代，什么都没得到过，我一定不能让我的孩子再重复我那种生活。” 我们就一股脑地

11、、近乎失去理智地去溺爱孩子，其实是在通过孩子去实现我们过去未曾实现的愿望。2.其次是文化背景其次是文化背景荣伟玲说，我们的文化是，自爱有罪，应该爱别人。但是，人天性首先是自爱的，我们被教导不自爱，其实是违反了人性。在这种教导下，我们压抑了自爱，但被压抑的自爱需要表达出来，而孩子无疑是最适合的表达对象。这样一来，我们在爱孩子的时候，容易比那些尊重自爱文化中的人失去分寸。 3.隔代抚养隔代抚养 (一)责任感的缺位 ，(二)对死亡的恐惧.在隔代抚养中，做祖父辈的特别怕孙子辈的出什么安全问题，他们特别在意安全 (三)争宠.在以前的家庭中，因为孩子多，一般是孩子要竞争长辈的爱 (四)“内在的小孩”的投射

12、.人老了，自己也会变成小孩。 (五)补偿心理.在教育儿女的时候，老人们曾经苛刻过，因为要负教育的责任。 (六)传宗接代的冲动 词词译译 单词详解单词详解图释图释N H C EN H C EBackaccommodationn.an agreement between people who have different views or opinions 和解和解;调和调和 词词译译 单词详解单词详解图释图释N H C EN H C EBackcompensatev.give sb.sth to remove the bad effect of sth.补偿补偿;弥补弥补 词词译译 单词详解单词

13、详解图释图释N H C EN H C EBackfluctuate vi.keep changing;becom hegher and lower irregularly 波动波动;起伏起伏 词词译译 单词详解单词详解图释图释N H C EN H C EBackinfervt.reach an opinion from facts 推知推知;推断推断 词词译译 单词详解单词详解图释图释N H C EN H C EBackgenerousa.willing to give money,spend time,etc in order to help people 慷慨的慷慨的;大方的大方的 词词译

14、译 单词详解单词详解图释图释N H C EN H C EBackungenerous a. not generous 不慷慨的不慷慨的 词词译译 单词详解单词详解图释图释N H C EN H C EBackresentmerntn. anger and dislike;feeling of resenting sth.愤恨愤恨;憎恶憎恶 词词译译 单词详解单词详解图释图释N H C EN H C EBackvarisble a.likely to change 易变的易变的 词词译译 单词详解单词详解图释图释N H C EN H C EBackvariabilityn. the quality

15、 of being variable 可变性可变性 词词译译 单词详解单词详解图释图释N H C EN H C EBackloosenv.become or make loose or looser (使使)放松放松 词词译译 单词详解单词详解图释图释N H C EN H C EBacksourv.make or become unfriendly or unfavorable(使使)变坏变坏 返回返回Para7-para8Influence of spoiling childrenBut spoiling children with material things does little t

16、o reduce parental guilt (since parents never feel theyve give enough） nor does it make children feel more loved (for what children really desire is parents time and attention). qInstead, the effects of providing too much can be harmful. Children may, to some degree, become greedy, selfish, ungratefu

17、l and insensitive to the needs and feelings of others, beginning with their parents. When children are given too much, it undermines their respect for their parents.In fact, the children begin to sense that a parents unlimited generosity is not right. The contradiction as a result may be that these

18、children, conversely will force their parents into setting limitations. Also, spoiled children are not as challenged to be more creative in their play as children with fewer toys. They have fewer opportunities to learn the value of money, and have less experience in learning to deal with delay in sa

19、tisfaction, when every requested object is given on demand. 词词译译 单词详解单词详解图释图释N H C EN H C EBackparentala.relating to being a parent 父母的父母的;家长的家长的 词词译译 单词详解单词详解图释图释N H C EN H C EBackgreedy a.filled with desire for sth. 贪婪的贪婪的 词词译译 单词详解单词详解图释图释N H C EN H C EBackselfisha.caring only about onrself and m

20、ost about other people 自私的自私的 词词译译 单词详解单词详解图释图释N H C EN H C EBacksensitivea.able to understand other peoples feelings and problems理解别人的理解别人的 词词译译 单词详解单词详解图释图释N H C EN H C EBackinsensitivea.bot aware of not shouing sympathy for other proples feelings 麻木不仁的麻木不仁的 词词译译 单词详解单词详解图释图释N H C EN H C EBackunde

21、rminevt.gradually make sb.or sth.less stromg or effective 逐渐削弱逐渐削弱 词词译译 单词详解单词详解图释图释N H C EN H C EBacklimitedvt.not very great in amount,number,ability,etc有限的有限的 词词译译 单词详解单词详解图释图释N H C EN H C EBackunlimiteda.not very great in amount,number,ability,etc无限的无限的 词词译译 单词详解单词详解图释图释N H C EN H C EBackcontrad

22、iction n.a statement,actionmor fact that is opposite in nature or in character one 矛盾矛盾 词词译译 单词详解单词详解图释图释N H C EN H C EBackconverselyad.taking the opposite point of view 相反相反(地地) 词词译译 单词详解单词详解图释图释N H C EN H C EBacklimitationn.a rule or situation that puts a limit on sth.限制限制返回返回Para9-para11the key s

23、entences:to help parents who have already sensed that themight be spoiling their children butDont know how to stop 帮助已经意识他们可能在溺爱他们的孩子但是不知道如何纠正的父母qYou should try to determine what make you submit or feel guilty. Then ,even if you havent uncovered the reason , qYou should begin to make firm decisions

24、qAnd practice responding to your childrends requests in a prompt,definite manner. 你应该设法弄清楚是什么东西使你让步或者让你感到内疚，即使你没有找到原因，你应该开始做出果断的决定和试着用迅速，果断的方式对孩子的要求做出反应q the key is to be satisfied with gradual improvement ,expecting and accepting the occasional silps that come with any change.q关键是对逐步的进步感到满足，要预知到并接受

25、可能伴随这种改变而来的偶然失误 词词译译 单词详解单词详解图释图释N H C EN H C EBacksubmitv.obeysb.esp.when one has no choice 屈从屈从 词词译译 单词详解单词详解图释图释N H C EN H C EBackuncovervt.find out about sth. that has been kept secret揭露揭露;揭开揭开 词词译译 单词详解单词详解图释图释N H C EN H C EBackrespondvi.react to sth. 反应反应;回应回应 词词译译 单词详解单词详解图释图释N H C EN H C EBa

26、ckprompt a.done or acting without delay 迅速的迅速的 词词译译 单词详解单词详解图释图释N H C EN H C EBackdefinitea.clear 明确的明确的sure,certain 一定的一定的 词词译译 单词详解单词详解图释图释N H C EN H C EBackmannern.the way in which sth.is done or happens方式方式;方法方法 词词译译 单词详解单词详解图释图释N H C EN H C EBackbounda.likely;almost certainly 一定的一定的 ;几乎肯定的几乎肯定的

27、 词词译译 单词详解单词详解图释图释N H C EN H C EBacksatidfieda.pleased;contented 感到满意的感到满意的 词词译译 单词详解单词详解图释图释N H C EN H C EBackgraduala.happening slowly over a long period of time逐步的逐步的 词词译译 单词详解单词详解图释图释N H C EN H C EBackimprovementn. the state of being better than before改进改进;改善改善;提高提高 词词译译 单词详解单词详解图释图释N H C EN H C

28、 EBackslipn.a small mistake 过失过失;小错小错vi.lose ones balance and fall 滑倒滑倒 词词译译 单词详解单词详解图释图释N H C EN H C EBacknagv. keep complaining 唠叨唠叨;不停抱怨不停抱怨返回返回1.Traveling a lot of various speaking appointments, the writer_.A.often has to stay in other peoples homesB.is always complaining that there is no space

29、for her clothesC.has the opportunity to give so many talks on the issue of spoiled childrenD.often complains that she has no place to put in her jacketA2.Which of the following statements is NOT true according to Paragregh 2?A.Lts quite common in American families that parents tend to buy their parents generosity for granted.B.Ln many American families children come to take their parents generosity for grantedl.C.Giving children too many toys and colths will not be harmful to them.D.Often parents buy their children too many clothes as too many toys.C3.Some parents who work f