(最新整理)Unit3WhateverHappenedtoManners课文翻译综合教程一

Unit3WhateverHappenedtoManners课文翻译综合教程一编辑整理：尊敬的读者朋友们：这里是精品文档编辑中心，本文档内容是由我和我的同事精心编辑整理后发布的，发布之前我们对文中内容进行仔细校对，但是难免会有疏漏的地方，但是任然希望（Unit3WhateverHappenedtoManners课文翻译综合教程一）的内容能够给您的工作和学习带来便利。同时也真诚的希望收到您的建议和反馈，这将是我们进步的源泉，前进的动力。本文可编辑可修改，如果觉得对您有帮助请收藏以便随时查阅，最后祝您生活愉快业绩进步，以下为Unit3WhateverHappenedtoManners课文翻译综合教程一的全部内容。Unit3WhateverHappenedtoManners?Doyourememberatimewhenpeoplewerealittlenicer,alittlesofter,alittlegentlerwitheachother？Icertainlydo,andIfeelthatmuchoftheworldhassomehowgottenawayfromthat。IseesuchadifferenceinNewYorkCity,forexample，fromwhenIfirstmovedheremorethan20yearsago:peoplerushingintoelevatorswithoutgivingthoseinsideachancetogetofffirst,neversaying”Thankyou。"whenothersholdadooropenforthem,or”Please."whentheywantacoworkertohandthemsomething，nevergivingawaveornodofappreciationwhenanothermotoristletsthempulloutintotraffic。Wegetlazy,andinourlazinesswethinkthatsomethinglikeasimple”Thankyou。”doesn'treallymatter。Butitcanmatterverymuch。Thefactisthatnomatterhownicelywedress，howbeautifullywedecorateourhomes，orhowlovelyourdinnerpartiesare,wecan’tbetrulystylishwithoutgoodmanners.Infact，Ithinkofgoodmannersasasortofhiddenbeautysecret。Haven’tyounoticedthatthekindest，mostgenerouspeopleseemtokeepgettingprettier？TheybecomeCaryGrantorLaurenBacallrightbeforeoureyes。It’sfunnyhowthathappens,butitdoes。Takethelong-lostartofsaying”Thankyou."Likewearingalittlelipstickormakingsureyourhairisneat，gettingintothehabitofsaying"Thankyou。”canmakeyoufeelbetteraboutyourself，andthenyoulookbettertoeveryonearoundyou.Agraciousmannernotonlysetsanexcellentexampleforyourchildrenandgrandchildrenbutitaddspricelesspanachetoyourimage。PositiveThankingOfcourse,saying”Thankyou。"doeswondersforthepersononthereceivingendtoo。Irecentlygotathank-younotefromaguestwhoattendeda40thbirthdaypartythatFrankandIhostedforFrank'sdaughter-in-law.Thenotewaslovelyenough，butevenlovelierwasthefactthattheguesthadalsoincludedarecipeforadishI'dcomplimentedheronatanearliergathering。Itwasasweetgesturethatmademefeelterrificandputmeinagreatmood.Whatagift！Manyofusknowweshouldwritethank-younotes,butwethinkwedon’thavethetimeorenergy。Now,Iknowweallhavebusylives,butIbetthenotemyguestsentmedidn'ttakelongtowrite。Ifyoufeellikeafeelbecauseyou'veputoffsendingacard,writeanotethatsays,"Ishouldhavedonethistwoweeksago,butIdidn'twanttoletanotherdaygobywithouttellingyouhowmuchIenjoyedyourparty.”It'smuchbetterthannotwritingatall.MagicWordsJustaspowerfulasathank—younoteisthesimplephrase”Excuseme。”Don’tyoujusthateitwhensomeoneknocksanenormouscarry-onbagintoyourheadwhenhe’sbarrelingdowntheaisletoboardanairplane—andthendoesn’tbothertosayhe'ssorry?Butwhensomeonedoesstopandturnaroundandgenuinelyapologizes,doesn’titmeltawaymost-ifnotall-oftheirritationyoufelt？Sameforholdingthedooropenforotherswhenyouseetheirhandsarefull.I’llevendothisforahotelbellmancarryingmyluggage.Justbecausehisjobistocarrymybagsdoesn’tmeanhedoesn'tappreciatealittlegesturethatmakeshislifeaweebiteasier。Andpunctualityisnotathingofthepast，either。Beingontimeforlunchdates，forexample,showsthepersonwe'remeetingthatwevaluehisorherprecioustimeasmuchaswedoourown.BringingMannersHomeAndforheaven’ssake,weshouldn'tforgettousegoodmannerswithourownfamilies.That’swhereitcountsthemostbecausethosearethepeoplewelovethemost.Howlovelyitwouldbetoputacardonyourspouse’spillowatnighttosay"Thankyou。”forsomedearthingheorshedidforyouorevenjusttosay"Iloveyou。"Similarly，bringinghomethemostinsignificantlittlepresentsforpeopleyoucherishwillgoalongway.Itshowsthey'reinyourthoughtsandyouwanttomakethemhappy。Ifyou’reahusband，howlonghasitbeensinceyouwalkedinthedoorwitharoseforyourwife？Ormaybeherfavoritecandy—evenifit’sjustaSnickersbar?You’dsuregetmyattentionifyoubroughtmeaSnickers！Ifirmlybelievespousesshouldbegraciousabouttheroutinethingstheyexpecteachothertodo。Showthatyoudon’ttaketheotherpersonforgranted.Heorsheismuchmorelikelytotreatyouthesameway.Goodmannersareinfectious。Now,ifwecouldjustgeteveryonetocatchthem！礼貌怎么了？你是否还记得有一个时期人们相互更友好、更温柔、更绅士呢？我确实记得，并且我感觉现在这个世界不知怎么在远离那个时代。比方说，自从二十年前我最初搬到这里,我在纽约见到了这样的差异：人们冲进电梯而没有给机会让里面的人先出来,当有人为他们拉着门时。他们从来不说“谢谢你"，或者当他们想让同事递给他们某样东西时从来不说“请”，当其他的开车者让他们先驶入车流时他们从来不挥手或点头表示感谢。我们越来越懒，在我们的懒惰中我们认为像简单地说句“谢谢你"这种事情真的不要紧。但是它真的很重要。事实是无论我们穿得多美，无论我们把房子装修得多漂亮，或者无论我们的晚宴办得多好，没有礼貌我们就不可能是真正的时尚。实际上我把礼貌当作一种被隐藏的美丽的秘密。你难道没有注意到最和蔼、最慷慨的人们似乎变得越来越漂亮吗？他们在我们的眼前变成了加里·格兰特和劳伦·巴卡尔.那种事情的发生过程很有趣,但确实是真的。来讨论一下失去已久的道谢艺术.像抹一点口红或确信一下你的头发是整洁的，养成习惯说“谢谢你”能使你自我感觉更好些，对周围的人来说你也会看着更好些。亲切的礼貌不仅为你的孩子和子孙们树立了优秀的榜样，而且为你的形象增添了无法用价值来衡量的光彩。积极的道谢说“谢谢你"当然也给听者带来未曾料想的好结果.最近我收到了一封来自一位客人的感谢信，她参加了我和弗兰克为他儿媳举办的四十岁生日聚会.这张便条就足以令人愉快了，但更为赏心悦目的是她还附带了一道菜的食谱,这是我在早前一次聚会上恳请她给我的.这种甜美的姿态使我感觉好极了，心旷神怡。多好的礼物啊！我们许多人都知道应该写感谢信，但都认为没有时间或精力去写。我知道现在大家生活都很忙，但是我打赌这位客人送给我的感谢信并没有花很长的时间去写。如果你感觉你迟发了明信片,就写一对感谢信。可以这样写“两周前我就应该做这件事了，但是我不想再让另一天溜走而没有告诉您，我对您的聚会有多喜欢”。这比什么都没