UnitKnowingmeKnowingyou建议信（单元写作讲义）英语外研版09

必修第一册Unit1单元写作指导与演练WriteaLetterforAdvice单元写作早知道写作任务本单元的写作任务是写一封建议信。建议信是应用文的常用体裁。建议信是写信者向收信人就某事提出自己的建议或忠告。建议信可以写给个人，也可以写给某个组织或者机构，就某个问题提出自己的看法或建议。建议信的正文一般可以分为三部分：第一部分：说明目的；第二部分：提出建议；第三部分：表达祝愿。常用表达with...mentionedinyourletterthatyou’restuckinaconflictwith...2.Knowingyou’retroubledbythemisunderstandingwithyourfriend,I’mwritingtooffersuggestions.3.Youhaveaskedformyadviceonhowtoresolvetheconflictwithyourteammate.4.Isuggestthatyouwith...eopenlyandhonestlywith...5.Itwouldbewisetoputyourselfinothers’shoesbeforespeaking.6.Whynotapologisefirstandexplainyourtruefeelings?7.Trytoresolveconflictsthroughcalmdiscussioninsteadofblame.8.Mutualtrustandrespectarekeytorepairingyourrelationship.9.Ihopethesesuggestionswillhelpyougetalongwellwithothersagain.10.Remember:“Thinkfirst,speaklater”whenyou’reangry.单元话题真题展示高考链接建议信2023年全国新高考I卷建议信是高考应用文的热点话题。可以是对某个人的问题的建议，也可以对学校，政府及特定团体和组织的建议。Usewhatyouhavelearnttowritealetterofadvicetooneoftheteenagersbelow.假定你是李华，你的外国笔友Mike来信说，他因抱怨队友被好友泄密，既得罪了队友又失去信任，陷入尴尬。请你给他回一封邮件，内容包括：1.表达理解；2.提出具体建议；3.表达祝愿。本单元写作要求结合“理性沟通、换位思考”的核心素养，针对人际交往中的真实矛盾提出建议。首先要精准把握对方的问题本质（如信任破裂、沟通不畅、边界不清），再结合单元所学的“先思后言、主动道歉、公开沟通”等策略，提出具体、可操作的建议，避免空泛。nameProblemsSuggestionsReasonsMike,17,Americaplainedabouthisteammatetohisbestfriend,butthefriendleakedhiswords.Nowhe’sembarrassedandangrywithboth.1.Apologisetotheteammateopenly.2.Talktohisfriendcalmlyabouttrust.1.Honestapologycanresolvemisunderstandingsandrebuildteamtrust.2.Clearmunicationhelpshisfriendrealisetheharmofleakingsecrets.Lisa,16,CanadaHerfriendalwayscrossesherboundaries(e.g.,readsherdiary)andshedoesn’tknowhowtorefuse.1.Tellherfriendaboutherdisfortdirectly.2.Setclearpersonalboundariespolitely.1.Openexpressionhelpsthefriendunderstandyourneeds.2.Mutualrespectforboundariesisthefoundationoffriendship.Tom,17,AustraliaHadafightwithhisgroupmemberoveraproject—theyblameeachotherforthefailure.1.Listentoeachother’sopinionsfirst.2.Focusonsolvingproblemsinsteadofblaming.1.Activelisteningshowsrespectandhelpsfindtherootcause.2.Blamefreemunicationpromotesteamcooperation.段落内容句子设计第一段理解对方困境，点明写信目的Youmentionedinyourletterthatyou’retroubledby...Itotallyunderstandhowembarrassedandangryyoufeel.I’mwritingtosharesomepracticalsuggestionstohelpyouresolvetheproblem.第二段提出具体建议，说明理由First,you’dbetter...Thisisbecause...Besides,itwouldbewiseto...Astheunittellsus,effectivemunicationiskeyto...What’smore,tryto...Itcanhelpyou...第三段表达祝愿，强调核心Ihopethesesuggestionswillhelpyourebuildtrustandresolveconflicts.Rememberthatmutualunderstandingandsinceremunicationarethemostimportantinrelationships.【小试牛刀】参考范文1:DearMike,I’mtrulysorrytohearyou’restuckinanawkwardsituation—yourfriendleakedyourplaintsabouttheteammate,leavingyouangryandembarrassed.Itotallygethowhurtfulitistobeletdownbysomeoneclose.First,apologisetoyourteammateopenly—honestwordscanclearupmisunderstandingsandrebuildteamtrust.Then,haveacalmtalkwithyourfriendabouttrust,lettinghimknowtheleakhurtyoubutyoustillvaluethefriendship.Sinceremunicationisthekeytomendingrelationships.Ibelieveyou’llsortthingsoutsoonandregainmutualtrust!Yours,LiHua参考范文2:DearLisa,Knowingyourfriendalwayscrossesyourboundaries—likereadingyourdiary—andyoudon’tknowhowtorefuse,Ifeelforyourdisfort.It’stotallyunderstandabletowantrespectforyourpersonalspace.Trytellingheryourfeelingsdirectlyfirst—openexpressionhelpsherunderstandyourneeds.Also,setclearboundariespolitely,suchassaying“Ihopeyouaskbeforereadingmydiary.”Mutualrespectisthefoundationofahealthyfriendship.Ihopethesesuggestionshelpyoutwogetalongbetter.Wishyourfriendshipstayswarmandrespectful!Yours,LiHua参考范文3:DearTom,I’msorrytolearnyouhadabigfightwithyourgroupmemberovertheproject,withbothblamingeachotherforthefailure.Workingthroughconflictsinteamworkcanbereallystressful.First,listentoeachother’sopinionspatiently—activelisteningshowsrespectandhelpsfindtherootcause.Then,focusonsolvingproblemsinsteadofblaming,likedividingtasksbasedonyourstrengths.Ourunittellsus“blamefreemunication”boostscooperation.I’msurewiththeseefforts,you’llresolvetheconflictsoonandfinishtheprojectsuccessfully.Bestwishesforyourteamwork!Yours,LiHua【必备句式】第一部分：点明问题与理解1.I’msorrytohearyou’restuckinaconflictwithyourfriendafterthesecretwasleaked.Suchproblemsaremonininterpersonalrelationships.听说秘密泄露后你和朋友陷入了冲突，我很遗憾。这类问题在人际关系中很常见。2.Youwrotethatyoufeelembarrassedandangrybecauseyourbestfriendleakedyourplaintsabouttheteammate.Itotallygetyourfeelings—trustisthefoundationoffriendship.你在信中说，因为最好的朋友泄露了你对队友的抱怨，你感到尴尬又生气。我完全理解你的感受——信任是友谊的基石。3.Knowingyou’restrugglingwithhowtotalktobothyourteammateandyourfriend,I’mwritingtooffermysuggestions.知道你正纠结于如何与队友和朋友沟通，我写信来给你一些建议。4.It’sunderstandablethatyou’reupset—beingletdownbysomeonecloseisreallyhurtful.你感到难过是可以理解的——被亲近的人辜负真的很伤人。第二部分：提出建议（结合单元核心）1.Isuggestthatyouapologisetoyourteammatefirst.Tellhimhonestlythatyouwerelettingoffsteamwithoutthinking,andyoudidn’tmeantohurthim.我建议你先向队友道歉。诚实地告诉他，你当时是未经思考地发泄情绪，并非有意伤害他。2.Whynothaveacalmtalkwithyourfriend?Youcantellhimyou’reangryabouttheleakbutstillvaluethefriendship.为什么不和朋友平静地谈一谈呢？你可以告诉他，你对泄密的事很生气，但仍然珍惜这段友谊。3.Itwouldbewisetomunicateopenlyinsteadofkeepingsilent.Astheunitsays,resolvingconflictsrequiresclearandsinceremunication.坦诚沟通而不是保持沉默是明智的。正如本单元所说，解决冲突需要清晰且真诚的沟通。4.Trytoputyourselfintheirshoes—yourteammatemighthavehadhisowndifficulties,andyourfriendmightnothaverealisedtheharmofleakingwords.试着换位思考——你的队友可能有自己的难处，而你的朋友或许没意识到泄密的危害。5.Ifyoufeel5.someonecrossesyourboundaries,don’thesitatetosaysopolitely.Mutualrespectforpersonalspacehelpsmaintainfriendship.如果你觉得有人越了你的界，别犹豫，礼貌地指出来。对个人空间的相互尊重有助于维系友谊。第三部分：祝愿与总结1.Ihopethesesuggestionswillhelpyouresolvetheconflictsandrebuildmutualtrust.希望这些建议能帮助你解决冲突并重建互信。2.Remember:“Thinkfirst,speaklater”whenyou’reangry—thiswillavoidmanymisunderstandings.记住：生气时要“三思而后言”——这能避免很多误会。3.Sinceremunicationandmutualunderstandingarethekeystogoodrelationships.Ibelieveyou’llsortthingsoutsoon.真诚的沟通和相互理解是良好关系的关键。我相信你很快就能解决这些问题。4.Bestwishesforyourfriendshipandteamcooperation!Ifyouneedmorehelp,feelfreetowritetome. 祝你友谊长存、团队合作顺利！如果你需要更多帮助，随时可以给我写信。【必背模板】模板①Dear________,Youmentionedinyourletterthatyou’retroubledbytheconflictwith________(对方的人际问题).Itotallyunderstandhowyoufeel—beingstuckinsuchasituationisreallyfrustrating.Toresolvetheproblem,I’dliketoofferthreepracticalsuggestions.First,(建议1).Thisisbecause(理由1，结合单元“理性沟通”核心).Second,(建议2).Astheunittellsus,(单元核心观点，如“mutualtrustisvital”).Third,(建议3).Itcanhelpyou(具体效果).Ihopethesesuggestionswillbeuseful.Rememberthatsinceremunicationand换位思考arethemostimportantininterpersonalrelationships.Wishyouallthebest!Yourssincerely,LiHua模板②Dear_______,I’msorrytohearyou’restrugglingwith________(对方的问题，如“themisunderstandingwithyourfriend”).It’stotallynormaltofeelupsetwhentrustisbroken.Herearemysuggestionsforyou.Firstofall,(建议1，如“apologisetoyourteammateopenly”).Honestapologycanhelpresolvemisunderstandingsquickly.Besides,(建议2，如“talktoyourfriendabouttheimportanceoftrust”).Thiswillmakehimrealisehismistakewithouthurtingyourfriendship.What’smore,________(建议3，如“thinktwicebeforespeakingwhenyou’reangry”).Astheoldsayinggoes,“Looselipssinkships”—carelesswordscancauseunnecessarytrouble.Ibelievewiththeseefforts,you’llsoongetalongwellwiththemagain.Bestwishes!Yourssincerely,LiHua【升级策略】1.建议信注意事项：观点要贴合单元“理性沟通、换位思考”核心，避免脱离单元主题；建议要具体可操作，结合单元案例（如Ben的困境解决），不空洞；语气要真诚、礼貌，既要表达理解，又要给出明确方向，避免指责。2.写作方法：首段：先共情，再点题，让对方感受到被理解；主体：每条建议配1个理由，理由可结合单元词汇（如resolveconflicts,mutualtrust）或观点（如“thinkfirst,speaklater”）；尾段：回归单元核心，强调真诚沟通的重要性，避免画蛇添足。写作流程图理解对方人际问题表达共情结合单元核心提出具体建议强调单元核心观点表达祝愿假定你是李华，你的外国笔友Mike来信说，他因球队输球抱怨队友，向好友倾诉后被泄密，现在既尴尬又生气，不知道如何面对队友和好友，请求你给出建议。请你给他回一封邮件，内容包括：表达理解；提出具体建议；表达祝愿。注意：1.词80字左右；2.可适当增加细节，以使行文连贯。__________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________Yours，LiHua.审题1．文体：应用文。2．时态：一般现在时和一般将来时为主。3．人称：第一人称（表达你的建议），第二人称（陈述确认对方的问题）。谋篇第一段：明确问题和写信的目的。第二段：提出建议。第三段：祝愿和问候。遣词造句【核心词汇】1.forgive2.apologise3.resolve4.boundaries5.misunderstandingmunicateopenly7.mutualtrust8.Troubledby...（ed形式作状语结构）9.Encouragedby...（ed形式作状语结构）10.putoneselfinothers’shoes【连词成句】1.Troubledbythemisunderstandingwithyourfriend,I’mwritingtoexpressmyconcernandsharemyadviceonresolvingit.2.Inmyopinion,municatingopenlyandputtingyourselfinothers’shoesisofgreatbenefittorepairingyourrelationship.3.Youcanbuildmutualtrustbylearningtoforgiveandapologisesincerely.4.Inordertoresolveconflicts,youshouldbebravetotalkaboutboundarieswithpeoplearoundyou.5.Whenfacingaconflict,you’dbettercalmdownfirst.6.Youwillfinditeasiertoforgiveandmoveon.【句式升级】将2、3句合成一个句子：Inmyopinion,municatingopenlyandputtingyourselfinothers’shoesisofgreatbenefittorepairingyourrelationship,bywhichyoucanbuildmutualtrustthroughforgivenessandsincereapology.将5、6句合成一个句子：Whenfacingaconflict,you’dbettercalmdownfirst,sothatyouwillfinditeasiertoforgiveandmoveon.组句成篇用适当的过渡词语，把以上词汇和句式，再加上联想内容，组成一篇80词左右的英语短文。DearPeter,I’msorrytoknowthatyou’retroubledbythemisunderstandingwithyourfriend.Iamwritingtoexpressmyconcernandsharemyadviceonresolvingitefficiently.Inmyopinion,municatingopenlyandputtingyourselfinhisshoesisofgreatbenefittoyou,bywhichyoucanrebuildmutualtrust.Besides,inordertoresolvetheconflict,youshouldbebravetoapologiseandtalkaboutboundarieswithhim.Troubledbytheargument,you’dbettercalmdownfirst,sothatyouwillfinditeasiertoforgiveandmoveon.Idoexpecttheabovetipsarebeneficialtoyourrelationship.Wishyougoodluckinmendingit!Kindestregards,Yours,LiHua【第一部分基础题】​​一、词性转换训练​​将下列单元核心动词转换为名词或形容词，用于建议句式：apologise→(n.)______→(adj.)______forgive→(n.)______→(adj.)______resolve→(n.)______→(adj.)______municate→(n.)______→(adj.)______用括号内单词的正确形式填空：It’simportanttohave______(open)municationwhenresolvingconflicts.Mutual______(trust)isthefoundationofanygoodrelationship.Theteachersuggestedwe______(apologise)toeachotherforthemisunderstanding.【参考答案】1.apology;apologetic2.forgiveness;forgiving3.resolution;resolute4.munication;municative1.open2.trust3.apologise​​二、句子仿写改写​​原句：Youshouldtalktoyourteammate.Ithelpsrebuildtrust.→合并为复合句：______→用单元核心短语改写：______原句：Don’tspeakcarelesslywhenyou’reangry.→用单元习语改写：______提升层：高阶句型原句：Youneedtomunicateopenlywithyourfriend.→虚拟语气：______→倒装句：______原句：Sinceremunicationisimportantforresolvingconflicts.→强调重要性（结合单元核心）：______【参考答案】基础层Youshouldtalktoyourteammate,whichhelpsrebuildmutualtrust./Talkingtoyourteammateisagoodwaytoresolvetheconflict.Remember“Looselipssinkships”—don’tspeakcarelesslywhenyou’reangry.提升层IfIwereyou,Iwouldmunicateopenlywithyourfriend./Notonlyshouldyoumunicateopenlywithyourfriend,butalsoyoushouldexplainyourtruefeelings.There’snodenyingthatsinceremunicationplaysavitalroleinresolvinginterpersonalconflicts—thisiswhatourunitemphasizes.​​三、翻译句子​​要求：用建议信常用句式翻译，结合单元核心词汇。我建议你先向你的队友道歉。为什么不冷静地和你的朋友谈谈信任的重要性呢？换位思考是解决人际矛盾的关键。​​【参考答案】Isuggestthatyouapologisetoyourteammatefirst.Whynottalktoyourfriendcalmlyabouttheimportanceofmutualtrust?Puttingyourselfinothers’shoesisthekeytoresolvinginterpersonalconflicts.【第二部分提升题】假定你是李华，你的朋友Lisa来信说，她的好友总是随意翻看她的日记、打听她的隐私，让她很困扰，不知道如何拒绝。请你给她回一封建议信，内容包括：①表达理解；②提出具体建议；③表达祝愿。（词数80字左右）__________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________【佳作欣赏】DearLisa,I’msorrytohearyou’retroubledbyyourfriendcrossingyourboundaries.It’stotallyunderstandabletofeelunfortablewhenyourprivacyisn’trespected.Isuggestyoutellheryourfeelingsdirectly—sayyouvaluethefriendshipbutneedpersonalspace.Youcanalsosetclearrulespolitely,likenotlettingothersreadyourdiary.Asourunitsays,mutualrespectiskeytofriendship.Ihopethesesuggestionshelp.Wishyouandyourfriendgetalongbettersoon!Yours,LiHua2.你的同学Tom因小组项目和组员发生摩擦，双方互相指责，项目进展受阻。请你给他写一封建议信，结合单元“理性沟通”核心，提出解决建议。（词数80字左右）__________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________【佳作欣赏】DearTom,Knowingyou’restuckinafightwithyourgroupmemberovertheproject,I’mwritingtooffersuggestions.Blamingeachotherwon’thelp—ourunitteachesustoresolveconflictscalmly.First,listentoeachother’sopinionspatiently.Then,focusonsolvingproblemsinsteadofpointingfingers.Youcandividetasksbasedonstrengths.Sinceremunicationwillmaketheprojectgosmoothly.Hopeyousortitoutsoon.Bestwishesforyourproject!Yours,LiHua3.假定你是李华，你的外国笔友Peter来信说，他因拒绝好友的不合理请求（如抄作业）而被疏远，感到难过。请你给他回信，提出建议。（词数80字左右）__________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________【佳作欣赏】DearPeter,I’msorrytohearyou’resadaboutbeing疏远byyourfriendafterrefusinghisunreasonablerequest.It’sbraveofyoutosticktoprinciples.Isuggestyoutalktohimcalmly—explainrefusingtolethimcopyhomeworkistohelphimlearn.Youcanoffertohelpwithhisstudiesinstead.Remember,truefriendshiprespectseachother’sprinciples.Wishyoutworeconcilesoon!Yours,LiHua【链接高考—经典诵读】假定你是李华，你的外教Smith计划组织“人际沟通技巧分享会”，向学生征集建议。请你给外教写一封邮件，内容包括：①说明分享会的核心需求（如解决朋友矛盾、团队合作摩擦）；②提出具体建议（如案例分析、角色扮演）。__________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________【佳作欣赏1】DearMr.Smith,I’mgladtohearyou’llorganizeaworkshoponinterpersonalmunication.Asstudents,weoftenfaceconflictswithfriendsorteammates,sopracticalskillsarebad