教孩子说话的错误方法.doc

教孩子说话的错误方法父母教孩子说话的错误方法 错误方法一、教宝宝说话越早越好 现在，受一些早教观念的影响，很多的爸爸妈妈都生怕自己的宝宝输在起跑线上，早早地就对宝宝进行各种能力开发。就好像学说话，每个宝宝在这方面的发育并不都是一样的，有的宝宝说话早一些，有的则晚一些，这并不代表什么，只是说明宝宝的发育、发展情况有早有晚，能力也各有差异。 可是，爸爸妈妈往往想不到这一点，只是看到别人家的宝宝比自己家的宝宝强的那一面，于是就得让宝宝奋起直追，超越别人才是好的。于是，不管不顾宝宝的年龄大小，早早地就开始对他们进行语言方面的教育开发，每天用各种方式教宝宝说话，只有看到成效才是爸爸妈妈最高兴的时候，殊不知，这样做对宝宝的伤害很大。就好像在宝宝才三、四个月的时候，爸妈就用尽各种各样的方法，想让宝宝说出话来，这只能是天方夜谭。 因为语言是一种高级思维的过程，小婴儿由于年龄的特性，并不具备学语言的能力。按照人类学习语言的正常进程，宝宝大约在十个月以后会吐出不清楚的单字。说话能力较早的宝宝在十一个月叶会说简单的叠字，比如“妈妈”“爸爸”或是能较清晰地说：“拿”、“要”等。根据宝宝的发展规律来说，一般女宝宝说话要普遍早于男宝宝，所以爸爸妈妈尤其是男宝宝的爸爸妈妈们千万不要操之过急，应该按照婴儿生长发育的标准来进行启发教育，这才是最科学的。错误方法二、教宝宝一起说叠音字 宝宝学习语言有其自身的阶段性，一般都是先经历单个的词句，然后到多个的词句，最后再到完整的句子，这是宝宝学说话的规律，不会因为什么而改变。 1岁左右的宝宝，他们在语言方面正是处于单个词句的阶段，所以经常会发出一些重叠的音，比如“抱抱”、“饭饭”等。用儿语说重叠的字音，或者用象声词代替事物的名称，这是宝宝语言发育过程中的一个必然阶段，而并不是宝宝喜欢这样的表达方式。如果爸爸妈妈不明白这里面的缘故，觉得宝宝这样说话很可爱，于是也天天和宝宝用儿语、叠词对话，这样就会无形中延长宝宝从单字到句子的过渡期，干扰他们语言能力的发展。 而且，如果爸爸妈妈总是和宝宝说儿化语，他是能够听懂，但是当他发现成年人之间的对话和他平时所说的语言并不一样时，就会产生疑惑。以至于当宝宝真正要开口说话的时候却不知道要说哪一种，给宝宝造成心理上的负担，甚至会使宝宝不愿意再开口说话。 可能有些爸爸妈妈会产生疑问了：既然儿化语不能用，成人型的标准语言宝宝又难以理解，那么，我们和宝宝的交流应该使用什么样的语言呢? 没错，儿化语和成人语对宝宝来说是各有弊端，最合适的应该是儿向语。就是指专门根据宝宝的年龄特性说给宝宝听的语言。爸爸妈妈了解了宝宝当前的语言水平是什么基础，然后在和他们的交谈中用稍微高于其水平的语言内容去进行，并且要根据宝宝年龄的增长而不断地进行调整和改变，这种方式才是真正适合宝宝的。 为了让宝宝的语言能力尽快地成长、丰富起来，各位爸爸妈妈在和宝宝说话时，最好不要模仿宝宝说话，要用适合的语言来教导宝宝，尽量少用或不用儿语，更不能用儿语来教宝宝认识事物，要逐步引导宝宝摆脱儿语。Teach children to speak the wrong wayParents teach their children to speak the wrong wayWrong method one, teach baby talk soonerNow, some early education concept, many parents are afraid their children lose at the starting line, early on to the baby ability development. Just like learning to talk, every child in this development are not the same, some baby talk sooner or later, some, it doesnt mean anything, only that the babys development, development has have evening early, ability is also different.But, mom and dad often think of it, only to see others home baby than their home baby strong side, then let the baby do all one can to catch up, beyond the others is good. So baby, be careless with the age, began early in their language education development, every day in a variety of ways to teach your baby talk, only to see the effects that mom and dad are the happiest time, little imagine, do great harm to the baby. If the baby only three or four months time, the parents tried various methods, want the baby to speak, this is the only Arabian nights.Because language is a kind of advanced thinking process, the baby is due to age characteristics, does not have the ability to learn languages. According to the human language learning process, the baby is about ten months later will spit out the unclear words. Speaking earlier baby within eleven months of leaves will say simple reduplication, such as mother or father is clearly said: take , to be . According to the babys development rule, the general female baby talk should be earlier than boys, so mom and dad especially male babys father and mother must not act with undue haste, should be in accordance with the infant growth and development of standards for enlightening education, it is the most popular science.Error method two, teach your baby say together reduplicated wordsBaby learning language has its own stage, are generally first experience of individual words, and then to a plurality of words, and finally to complete sentences, this baby is learning to speak of, not because of what the change.1 years old baby, their language is the single words and phases, so often sent some overlapping tone, such as hug , happy and so on. The child said overlap with the pronunciation, or the use of onomatopoeia instead of something, this is baby language during the development of a certain stage, and is not a baby like this way of expression. If Mom and Dad dont understand this reason, think the baby talk so lovely, so every day and the baby babbling, reduplicated words dialogue, which would virtually extended the baby from the word to the sentence transition period, interference with their language ability development.But, if Mom and dad always said some baby language, he is able to understand, but when he found that adults between the dialogue and he said by ordinary language is not the same, will have doubts. So that when the baby really talk when they dont know what to say which kind of, give the baby to cause psychological burden, even so that the baby would not speak again.There may be some mom and dad will doubt : since its language can not use standard language, adult baby and difficult to understand, so, we and baby exchange should use what kind of language?Yes, its language and adult language for the baby is the malpractice, the most appropriate should be child directed speech. Is a specialized according to the babys age characteristics of said to the baby language. Mom and dad know baby current language level is what basis, then in and they talk with slightly higher than its level of language content to undertake, and according to the babys age and constantly adjust and change, in this way is really suitable for baby.In order to let the baby s language ability grows as soon as possible, the rich, you dad and mom and baby talk, it is best not to imitate the baby talk, to use appropriate language to tea