网络使人疏远_英语辩论__防守稿.doc

communicating over long distances(1min 5s)_ However,theories about human relations told us,communications among people can be divided into two groups:informational and emotional.We can exchange different information in the Internet,but as to being closer or more estranged,it is the exchanges of thoughts and feelings,or we can call that,emotional communication.Internet reduce the time and space distance,but it isnt equal to shorten psychological distance between people.Internet cant shoulder the responsibility of emotional communications. For example,a couple get along well with each other.One day the husband was away for official business,so they can only communicate in the Internet.Two weeks later the husband came back home.In which situation are the couple more closer,in reality or Internet?An email,compared to a written letter,which one does make people closer?No matter how convenient the Internet is,compared to the reality,it can only make people more estranged.global communication,meeting new friends(45s)_ However,in order to be closer,there is a precondition,or basic factor,that we have to loyally and trustfully communicate face to face.As we have mentioned above,the trust among people is the single standard to judge whether people are getting closer.So how can we build trust relationships?Eye contacts,body language,or written letters.But all these methods cannot be found in the Internet communications. As to meet new friends from the Internet,in America three-quarters of people dont know their neighbours.Modern people are addicted to the virtual world and ignore the importance of their real lives.People cant even be closer with those living nearest to them,so how can they build trust relation with stranger in the Internet?The strong function of the Internet can also promote emotional relationship(1 min)_I have to say,interactions over the Internet are not very deep.On the contrary,the communication in the Internet,such as QQ,MSN,are relatively shallow,lacking in the depth,and too limited in the contents.Besides,Internet is just a media for communication. The really things that make people closer is affection between friends.People cannot get online all day long,and they have to go back to real life.Using the tools makes us convenient and easy to contact others,but relying the Internet will estrange the people. For example,I study abroad and chat with my parents on QQ,but compared to a warm embrace,or helping my parents do housework,which method,direct or indirect,do you think is closer?Besides the Internet,we can send a written letter,give a present or keep our parents company.Virtual and indirect network will only make people more estranged.Free dissemination of information,some search engine.(52s)_But what about the essence of network?In the virtual world,people can talk whatever they like,either lies or boasting,without limits on everyone.You may say,we have government ministry and the whole public to supervise the network,but no one can deny the essence of Internet.In a virtual and open world,information are too diversed and overloaded for people to distinguish between truth and false.When we are cheated by strange men from the Internet,how could you say we are closer than before?Besides,many crimes have occurred through the Internet.Everyday we can see such kind of news,a girl met with her Internet friend and at last she was killed.Can you say it closes the relationship?The crimes belong to the minority indeed,but the influence is great.Internet leads to the loss of trust day by day,how could the loss of trust close our distance?Conditions when people cannot meet each other(47s)_Attention please,here we are talking about being closer or more estranged.It needs compare.Internet as a convenient media,when compared to the reality,makes people more estranged.During the period of SARS,people can only contact each other or the Internet.However,when compared to a sincere embrace or shaking hands with those patients,do you still think Internet makes people closer?We agree that in a special situation Internet is necessary,but it cannot replace the real world.No matter how wonderful people chat with each other on the Internet,they have to go back to reality,sooner or later.Because compared to reality,Internet does make people more estranged. SNS(27s)_SNS,which is also called social networking services,provide a virtual sociality platform for netizens.Here I have to state our standard for another time:The trust between human bejings and the needs for human relations reality.When people enjoy the virtual friendship from SNS,their needs for communication in reality will be reduced,and as such,estrange their friends in reality.Evoking Emotion:(1min 10s) Over the past years,the developments of the Internet has brought great welfare for humanity.So the opinion that Internet makes people closer seems to be deeply rooted among the people.Today our group is right in such an inferior position.Whatever we said,our warnings are treated as blames for general trend,and our advises are seen as resisting to Internet.Actually,today we are not saying NO Internet,just less surfing the Internet,and more living in reality. Internet does make people more estranged.But thats OK.Besides Internet,There are still lots of methods to make people closer.The cold computer screen cannot give you singing of birds,smiling expressions from your friends,and you can not give your parents a passionate embrace through the Internet. Why not just stop tying words in front of the computer,open the window,enjoy the blue sky,the fresh air and bright sunshine?Less surfing the Internet,the colorful world is waiting for you.Argument (2 min) I want to deepen my standard.When people lose the trust in a certain friend through surfing the Internet,they will have the feeling that,they dont need this friend,even they dont need such kind of human relations.So here is our deeper standard:in order to judge whether people are closer or more estranged,is to say,whether their needs for human communication in reality are increased or reduced. In my first statement I mentioned the two characteristics of the Internet,and now lets talk about the three functions of Internet.Here are my three arguments: The first argument,the great convenience Internet provides reduce the peoples dependence to reality.People can get various information around the world just sitting at home.The developments of blog,SNS make young people enjoy virtual friendship,and reduce the needs for communication with friends in reality.People gain independence,but estrange their friends. The second argument,the entertainment Internet brings us reduce people