Honesty-PPT课件

-,1,Honesty-“DontlietoMe”“littleWhiteLies”,-,2,HaveYouEver1.Cheatedonatestinschool?2.Misstatedfactsonaresum/jobapplicationorsomepersonalstatements?3.Calledinsickinclasswhennotill?4.Takenofficesupplies(printingpaper,pens,glue,)fromyourinstructorsofficeforpersonaluse?5.Shiftedblametoaco-worker/teammemberforamistakeyoumade?6.Takenanythingvaluablefromyourclass,departmentofficemagazines,newspaper,softwareforpersonaluse?,-,3,7.Sneakedintoamovieorconcertwithoutpaying?8.Munchedonafooditemwhilegroceryshoppingandnotpaidforit?9.Beenunderchargedorreceivedtoomuchchangefromacashierandnottoldhimorher?10.Foundsomeunidentifiedthingofvalue(jewelleryorcash)andnotturneditintothepoliceortothelostandfound?11.Takenhometowelsfromahotelorcookwares,silverwarefromarestaurant?12.DownloadedmusicfromanInternetsiteandnotpaid?,-,4,13.Switchedpricetagstogetalowerpriceforsomethingyouwantedtobuy?14.Notdeclaredtothestudentsofficetherealincomeofyourfamilyinordertohavestudentsaidsorloan?15.Accidentallydamagedanunoccupiedcarorotherspersonalbelongings(computers,MP3,orradio,walkman)(scrapedordentedit)andnotleftanotewithyourcontactinformation?16.Cheatedonyourcoursepaperwritingwhichrequiresyouroriginalideaandoriginalityinwriting?17.Liedtoafamilymemberorfriendabouttheirappearancetoavoidhurtingtheirfeelings?,-,5,18.scrapesomepagesfromthelibrarybooksandknowyouwouldtakelittlechanceofbeingcaught?19.Liedtoyourgirlfriendorboyfriendaboutthecostofarecentpurchase,thewhereaboutsofyesterday,anotherappointmentwithanoppositesex?20.crosstheroadwitharedlightknowingyouhadlittlechanceofgettingcaught?21.Liedtoyourteachersaboutyourlabworkorcollaborativeworkwhichrequiresyourindependenteffortinthework?,-,6,Howdoyoustackupagainstoursurveyrespondents?(Duetorounding,numbersdontaddupto100%.)HighHonesty(1to8yess):ModerateHonesty(9to16yess):LowHonesty(17+yess):,-,7,Haveyouevertriedtobecompletelyhonest,thenfeltthatyourhonestyiswhatscrewedeverythingup?Iwenttothebankandthetellergaveme$50toomuchincash.Inoticeditandtookitback.Whatwouldyouhavedoneinthatsamesituation?Doyoureallywanttohearthetruth?Areyoucompletelyhonestwithyourfriend/boyorgirlfriendaboutEVERYTHING?Isitsuchabadthingtospeakyourmind?Areyourfriendstrulyfriendsorjustniceacquaintances?WhoistheMostHonestpersoninyourlife-doyouappreciatetheirHonesty.?Areyouasgoodasyousayyouare?(19answers)Areyouoneofthosepeoplethatliketohearthetruth,orsomeonethatcannothandlethetruth?Ifaskedhowoldyouarebyastranger,wouldyouanswerhonestly?,-,8,Inyouranswers:doyoualwaystellthetruthordoyousometimescookthingsupjustforfun?Canyougivemeoneexamplewherebeinghonestcausedaproblem?DoyouthinkitstruethateveryoneusessomeoneforsomethingIsthereanythingthatyouareholdingback,butthatyoucurrentlywanttosay,orwishyousaidtoyourparents?Whatisthemostrecentthingyoulearnedaboutyourself?Doweliveinaworldthatdoesntrespectorpursuethetruth?Yourequest$20fromtheATManditgivesyou$60.Didyouwin$40ordoyoureturnthemoney?Wouldyoukillformoney,ifyourfamilywasdesperatelyrelyingonyouforfinancialsupporttosurvive?Ifactionsspeaklouderthanwords,whenpeopleignoreourbenevolentactionstowardthemcanweconcludetheysimplywillnotlisten?Doyouthinkacheatingmancaneverchangeandbecomealoyalhusbandfortherestofhislife?Whatsthedifferencebetweensomeonewhoisbrutallyhonestvs.beingajerk?,-,9,Wedontwanttobeoffensive/orloseorsaveface.Beinghonestmightbeadouble-bladedsword,itmayhurtothersfeelingandours,too.Weexpectsthinreturnforbeinghonest,ifitturnsouttobeamistakeforbeinghonest,welearntocoverourselvesforourownbenefits.Ifbeingdishonestforawhilecouldbringussomegoodprofits,itistemptingtotellalie.Itseasiersaidthandone.Butmostofusdevelopoursocialrelationsonthebasisofutilitarianinsteadofcommongoodness.Whenaminorerrorcantbejudgedbylaworregulations,wecanhearourmindsfromourconsciencebecausewewillbetestedbythesocialmorality.Itsnotjustifiabletojudgeonesbehavioursbyhowmanywrongdoingshedoes,weshouldclearlyunderstandtheessenceofthewrongdoings,sometimes,onceisevenworsethanseveraltimes.,-,10,ifagirlwithtoomuchmakeupasksyouifhermakeuplooksgood,doyoulieortellhershehastoomuchmakeupon?Areyou100%honesttoyoursignificantother?Canyoureallyhandleabsolutehonestyevenwhenitmayhurtyourfeelings?Haveyoupaidyourparentsbackforthemoneyyouborrowed,ordoyouthinkyouneeditmorethantheydo?WhensomebodysaysBehonestattheendoftheirquestion,doesthatreallymakeyoumorehonest?Whenaquestionisaskedwithabehonestrequestdoyoufeelinsulted?AmInothonestifnotasked?WillIbehonestifrequested?IfyoureataBBQandthesteakisnothingbuttough,whenthecookasksyouhowthemeatis,areyouhonestwiththem?,-,11,Oneofyourfriendsishangingoutwithsomeoneyoudontlikewhatdoyoudo?LastTimeYouCalledInSick,WereYouFakingIt?Behonest,amIpretty/handsome?Ishonesty-dishonestyblackandwhite?Orcantherebeshadesofgrey?Itsmoreimportanttobehonest,thanto_(fillinblank)Howloudlydoesyourconsciousspeaktoyouwhenyouknowforcertainthatyouhavedonesomethingwrong?Doyoulistentothevoiceofyourconscienceandactuponitordoyousmotherthevoice?Howmanyofustakeresponsibilityforthesituationweareinordoweblameothersforthesituationwearein?Whywouldyousayyouwillwhenyouknowyouwont,andwhywouldyousayyoudowhenyouknowyoudont.Whywouldyoulietome?Doesnttruthmeananythinganymore?,-,12,Ifyouwereacrossroadwhereoneroadleadtoagoodjob,buttheotherwouldkeepyouclosertoyourlover,whichroadwouldyouchoose?Ineverlie,isbothwrittenhereandspokenoftenandIfIwashonestandImaynotbe,itmakesmewince.Besideyourselfhowmanypeopledoyouknowtheis100%honest,100%ofthetime?Yes,Iknow-whyshouldIbelieveyounow?Whatsacreativewayoftellingsomeonetogoaway?Whatarethebenefitsthatpeopleexpectfrompresentingthemselvestotheworldasbeingeitherconservativeorliberal?Wouldpeopleratherhearthetruthorsomethingthatwouldmakethemhappy?IfyouwheretobeofferedtheopportunitytocheatinaExam,wouldyou?Forhappycoupleswhohavebeenmarriedforover50years;Isunfaithfulnessatsomepoint,aninevitablepartoftheequation?IbelieveAllliesarebornfromfearofsomesort.Doyouagree?Haveyoueverbrokensomethingofsomeonesandnottoldthemthatyoubrokeit?Whydopeopletendtojumptoconclusionsinsteadoflookingatthefactsoflife?Haveyoueverheadedtowork,thendecidedtoplayhookyinsteadandcalledoutinthemiddleoftraffic,-,13,Ishonestyimportant?ExplainIsiteverokayorgoodtotellalie?Why?,ifyes,inwhatsituationswouldyoulie,andwhy?Dofriendssometimeslie?Whatisitokaytolieeachotherabout?Wouldyoubeclosefriendswithsomeonewhooccasionallylies?Whyorwhynot?Aretheretimesaparentshouldnotbehonestwiththeirson/daughter?Childtoparent?When?Wouldyouratherhavesomeonegiveyoutheirhonestopinionorjusttellyouwhattheythinkyouwanttohear?Howmuchandtowhatextent,doyouthinkthereasonswhypeopledonastythingstoothers,havetodowiththefactthattheyareinsomewayjealousofthem?,-,14,Whichofthefollowingdoyouthinkaredishonest?Why?,Gettingthetestorexamaheadoftime.Copyingoffofsomeoneelsespaperduringanexam.Bringinginformationintoanexamwithouttheteacherspermission.CopyingsbshomeworkCopyingwordsorsentencesfromasourceandputtingthemintoyourpaperwithoutchangingthewords.Askingsbtosubstitutehimintheexam.Whichofthesituationsshouldbeseverelypunished?Whatpunishment?,-,15,Casestudydefinitelywrong/right,neitherclearlyrightorwrong/allright,AWaiter:Youareawaiterinahigh-classrestaurant.Youmakegoodmoneyontips.Whenyoureportyourincometothegovernmentforincometaxpurposes,youunderestimatetheamountofincomefromtipsbyabout20percent.,-,16,Casestudy,ATeenagedStudent:Youareastudentinneedofasummerjob.Yourparentscannotfullypayforyoureducationandyouareexpectedtohelp.Oneproblem,however,isthattheminimumlegalworkingageistwenty-one.Yourejustnineteen,butyoulookseveralyearsolder,sowhenthewomanhiringworkersasksyourage,yousaytwenty-one.,-,17,Casestudy,AFriendofNewParents:Yourfriendsjusthadababy.Yougototheirhousetocongratulatethemandtakeagift.Whenyoulookatthebaby,youthinkitissimplyugly.Youlookattheparentsexpectantfaces,howeverandsay,Whatacutebaby!,-,18,Casestudy,AWorkerinaStore:Youworkinasportinggoodsstore.Youknowthattheotherclerkisstealingmerchandisebecauseyousawhimdoit.Themanagertellsyouonedaythattherehasbeenanincreaseinshoplifting.Heasksyouifyouveseenanything,andyousayno.,-,19,Casestudy,SellingYourCar:Youaresellingyourusedcar.Itssixyearsold,buttheengineisinprettygoodshapeandthebodyisnttoorusty.Theproblemisthattheclutchisbeginningtowearout.Becausethatsanexpensiverepair,youdecidedtosellthecar.Whenpeoplecometolookatthecar,youpointoutallitsgoodpointsandtellthemthecarisinexcellentcondition,consideringitsage.,-,20,Waitinlineconsiderthatweallsometimesfeeluncomfortableorannoyedbytheactionsofstrangers,butwemayhesitatetocomplain,.Youareinapublicplace,suchasabus,elevator,ormovietheater,wheresmokingisprohibited,andsomeoneissmoking.Doyousayanything?Why?W