独立2_其它语言学习_外语学习_教育专区

1、独立生活处处有依赖也有独立，当面对“问题”时，这两种选择会让你拥有不一样 的人生。随着时代的变迁，岁月的流逝，社会上的人有了过分呵护自己的孩子的现象， 许多家长把孩子当成“掌上明珠”，这让孩子们养成了“衣来伸手，饭来张口”的习 惯，让他们被独立远远地抛弃了。也许，家长们会认为这样是在对孩子们好，这 就是所谓的爱孩子。可是，他们错了，他们根本不懂孩子们的心应该让孩子 在某些方面摆脱依赖，让其独立。接下来，我就讲述一下这两种选择不同的人生 吧！我的弟弟是一个依赖性极强的孩子。记得有一次，我们回姥姥家。我的弟弟想 喝果汁，但打不开瓶盖。他就想让我帮他打开瓶盖，但我认为他有这个能力去打 开瓶盖，所以我

2、未帮他，而是让他自己尝试。最后，他还是让他的爸爸帮他打开 瓶盖。然而，我现在感到比原来的我更加独立。无论是处理我的“事情”，还是与学 校老师的沟通交流，还是在社交活动上，或者去解决我个人的学习得分，我都需 要用语言去表达，要更加努力学习，增强我语言的能力，更好的适应新的全英文 的语言环境。我想:“独立不仅是不要依赖他人，而且自己还要努力，争取做好每一件事”！20150601 independencemy nephew came to us and has been living with us for about 6 weeks he brought some joy, frustration

3、, and surprise to us. i decided to discuss with him on one topic per week. independence became the first topic i chose here is the record of my thoughts of this topic.independence in action.everyone should do things independently if his capacity allows him. sometimes, situation might not be easy, bu

4、t looking for ways to overcome difficulties or work around obstacle is always good experience in life. this exercise also can help to develop ones capacity and self-confidencenot everyone can take action on everything independently. to acting independently requires knowledge, experience, strength, e

5、ndurance, necessary tools, and sometimes patience.asking for help from others sometimes seems easier than dealing with the issue by yourself. but at the moment you ask, you give up the control of the situation or issue how the result will be is depend on the others. once you ask, you already admitte

6、d that your capacity is limited at that point, either saying it by word or in your heart. is it really easier?the opposite of independent action is rely on the others. if this become a habit, even when you can do it by yourself, it will be annoying however, independent action does not mean you isola

7、te yourself from others. you can still learn from other people, internet, books and other resources.independence in thought.to think about a situation or a problem or project or a person, and develop an opinion or idea or solution is critical for a mature person. this is also how new invention comes

8、 from, what leads our society develop.in 1928, alexander fleming was culturing some bacteria in the lab. unfortunately, his culture dish was contaminated with some greenish fungi. instead of just throwing them away as he was taught, he observed the dish carefully, found out the bacteria was not grow

9、ing around the fungi and asked why. he thought maybe the fungi can kill the bacteria and did some experiment to prove his thought. his discovery of penicillin became a milestone in medical history and saved millions of patientsthomas edison is famous of his numerous invention .in his early year, he

10、was claimed a slow student by the school teach. if his mother followed the thought of the teacher, there would not be so much genius invention in our life. what did his mother do? she believed thomas is a smart child and educated him at her homeschool. she taught him basic reading, writing and arith

11、metic herself, which made thomas interested in reading. thomas9 mother independent thought about her own son, decided what a person could becomeif everyone is thinking in the same way, what a world it will be? what can be interesting if everyone is repeating what the other said?in general, independe

12、nce is an asset of personality. an independent person can win respect from others.mentally strong people have healthy habits. they manage their emotions, thoughts, and behaviors in ways that set them up for success in life. check out these things that mentally strong people don't do so that you

13、too can become more mentally strong 内心强大之人拥有健康的习惯。他们能恰当地管理自己的 情绪、思想和行为，为成功打好基石。看看内心强大的人 都会避免什么事情，以此作鉴使自己也同样强大。they don't waste time feeling sorry for themselves 他们不会浪费时间自怨自艾mentally strong people don't sit around feeling sorry about their circumstances or how others have treated them. instea

14、d， they take responsibility for their role in life and understand that life isn't always easy or fair.内心强大人士不会干坐着抱怨环境或他人的不屑。相反， 他们会担负起人生职责，知道人生并非那么容易和公平。they don't give away their power他们不会受制于人they don't allow others to control them, and they don't give someone else power over them.

15、they don't say things like, "my boss makes me feel bad/1 because they understand that they are in control over their own emotions and they have a choice in how they respond.强大的人不容他人的控制，也不会给予别人控制a己的权 利。类似，我觉得老板好烦，之类的话不会从他们口中说 出，因为他们明白只有自己才能控制好自己的情绪，也只 有自己才有权利选择怎样应付周围。they don't shy away

16、from change 他们敢于改变mentally strong people don't try to avoid change. instead，they welcome positive change and are willing to be flexible. they understand that change is inevitable and believe in their abilities to adapt.内心强大z人不会费尽心思地逃避改变。相反，他们只会 欢迎积极的变化，并h能灵活地适应。他们知道改变不可 避免，同吋也相信自己有能力去适应。they don

17、't waste energy on things they canft control 掌控之外的事情，他们不会费力去做you won't hear a mentally strong person complaining over lost luggage or traffic jams instead，they focus on what they can control in their lives. they recognize that sometimes, the only thing they can control is their attitude.你不会听

18、到一个内心强人的人去抱怨丢失了的行李或堵塞 的交通。取而代之的是，他们专注于生活屮能力范围之内 的事。他们意识到，唯有态度才是力所能控的事情。they don't worry about pleasing everyone他们不会阿谀奉承mentally strong people recognize that they don't need to please everyone all the time. they're not afraid to say no or speak up when necessary. they strive to be kind an

19、d fair, but can handle other people being upset if they didn't make them happy.内心强人之人深知随时溜须拍马毫无必要。他们不畏惧拒 绝别人，需要时也会直言内心。他们努力做到仁慈公正， 倘若遇到不敬之人也会以牙还牙。they don't fear taking calculated risks他们敢于冒合理的风险they don't take reckless or foolish risks, but don't mind taking calculated risks. mental

20、ly strong people spend time weighing the risks and benefits before making a big decision, and they're fully informed of the potential downsides before they take actio n.他们不会鲁莽无知地冒险，但却不排除合理的风险。强大 的心在做重大决策前会衡量风险及利益，采取措施的前一 步就是充分地掌握潜在缺点。they don't dwell on the past他们不会沉湎于过去mentally strong peopl

21、e don't waste time dwelling on the past and wishing things could be different. they acknowledge their past and can say what they've learned from it. however, they don't constantly relive bad experiences or fantasize about the glory days instead，they live for the present and plan for the

22、future.内心强大的人不会用时间来执拗于过去，也不会希冀局面 有所改变。他们了解自己的过往，清楚从中学到了什么。 然而，他们不会重蹈覆辙或留恋过往的美好。相反，他们 会活在当下，计划将来。they don't make the same mistakes over and over 他们不会一而再地犯相同的错mentally strong people accept responsibility for their behavior and learn from their past mistakes. as a result, they don't keep repeat

23、ing those mistakes over and over instead，they move on and make better decisions in the future.内心强大的人能对其行为负责，能从过去的错误中汲取教 训。这样，他们就能避免重犯同样的错误。而且，他们还 能向前看，在未来的日子里做出更好的决定。they don't resent other people's success他们不会嫉妒别人的成功mentally strong people can appreciate and celebrate other people's succ

24、ess in life. they don't grow jealous or feel cheated when others surpass them. instead，they recognize that success comes with hard work, and they are willing to work hard for their own chance at success内心强大z人能够欣然祝贺他人的成就。当别人超越自己 时，他们没有嫉妒心，也不会有受骗感。相反，他们清楚 地知道成功是努力工作的结果，也愿意为个人成功的机遇 而努力工作。they don&#

25、39;t give up after the first failure他们不会轻易言败mentally strong people don't view failure as a reason to give up. instead, they use failure as an opportunity to grow and improve they are willing to keep trying until they get it right. 内心强大z人不会将失败当作放弃的借口。相反，失败会 是他们成长和提升的机会。为了得到满意的结果，他们甘 愿斗争到底。they do

26、n't fear alone time他们不害怕孤独的时光mentally strong people can tolerate being alone and they don't fear silence they aren't afraid to be alone with their thoughts and they can use downtime to be productive they enjoy their own company and aren't dependent on others for companionship and entertainment all the time but instead can be ha