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1、“好夫妻范文 每场雅思考试之后，第一时间分享本场考试雅思A类大作文的范文权威解析。欢迎每周锁定。 2018年9月15日 雅思大作文题目 “In many countries today, women as well as men work full-time, so it is logical for women and men to share household tasks equally. To what extent do you agree or disagree? Give reasons for your answer and include any relevant examp

2、les from your own knowledge or experience.” 解析&审题 本次考题是xx年5月1日的原题重现。 本题问的是：现在女性和男性都一样全职工作，那么在家里，夫妻是不是应该共同分担家务呢？我们应该注意，原题里有一个词 “logical”，因此准确地说，本题问的是，你是否同意“从逻辑上讲，夫妻是否应该分担家务”这个观点？ 对于本题，我们的写作思路可以是这样的：我同意夫妻应该分担家务，首先由于妻子也有事业，如果所有家务都由妻子承担，那必然会影响她的事业发展；其次，如果夫妻共同承担家务，会促进家庭和谐，对于在这样家庭成长起来的孩子也有好处；最后，夫妻共同承担家务也是

3、两性平等的具体体现。这是多数同学选择的写作思路。 当然，我们可以选择另外一条道路（也许是很少同学会选择的道路）：首先回应题目的要求，承认“从逻辑上讲”夫妻应该分担家务，然后转折回来，论证共同分担家务并不一定是家庭幸福的保证，两性平等也不一定体现在分担家务方面。和多数同学选择的论证思路相比，这一思路可能更新颖，也更能体现批判性思维这一雅思高分作文特征。 以下范文就是按照这个思路来写的，供各位烤鸭参考。 老师笔记 01 With dual-ine families, it seems logic that thedomesticburdens should be equally shouldere

4、das an issue ofgender equality as well as happy relationships. These days, there is evidence that thegender gapin housework has been narrowed gradually. Men are increasingly getting involved in housework, particularly if both men and women are employed in full-time jobs. For example, some husbands a

5、re having their share of household duties, such as cleaning, cooking, washing, and looking after children.In appearance, the zero gender gap is being a reality, in the sense that, since both men and women are equally the familysbread-earnersworking from nine to five, both should share the housework

6、equally. 对于双收入家庭，家庭负担应该作为一个两性平等和幸福关系的问题而平等地承担，这似乎是合乎逻辑的。现在，有证据表明家务劳动的性别差距逐渐缩小。男性越来越多地参与家务劳动，尤其是当男性和女性都从事全职工作的时候。例如，一些丈夫分担家务，如打扫卫生、做饭、洗衣和照看孩子。男人和女人都在朝九晚五地供养家庭，因此家务应该分担，在这个意义上，零性别差异表面上正在成为现实。 解析 （1）本段直接进入正题，讨论在夫妻双方都在工作的前提下，分担家务是非常符合逻辑的，而且事实上好像也的确是按照这个逻辑在发生。本段回应的是题目中“夫妻分担家务是符合逻辑的”这个观点。 （2） domestic 家庭（

7、内）的 （3） as an issue of. 作为.问题 （4） gender gap 性别差异 （5） in appearance 表面上看 （6） bread-owner 挣钱养家的人 02 For happy relationships, however, men and women equally sharing the housework is often not as important as what it seems.Ironically, the main reason for thepersistenceof inequality at home may be women

8、 themselves. Even in relationships in which the dual-earner couple aims to share the domestic burdens, most women would like to keep their men away from traditional tasks and childcare-giving activities. So, despite the bestintentionsof men, their women might think that, although sharing household c

9、hores may do no harm, it may do little to contribute to a happy marriage. On this issue, there may be no need to seek 50/50 gender equality because men will always be men and women will always be women.Given thatboth males and females are created equal, the two genders are not meant to share housewo

10、rk equally.Believe it or not, most women at heart may not expect this to happen. 然而，对于幸福的关系，男女平等分担家务往往并不像看上去的那么重要。具有讽刺意味的是，家庭中不平等现象长期存在可能主要是女性自己的原因。即使在双收入夫妇愿意分担家庭负担的关系中，大多数女性也希望让她们的男人远离传统的家务和照看孩子的工作。所以，尽管男人的本意是好的，但她们的妻子可能会认为，虽然分担家务活不会有什么害处，但却基本无助于幸福婚姻。在这个问题上，也许没有必要追求50/50的两性平等，因为男人永远是男人，女人永远是女人。诚然，男

11、女生而平等，但这并不意味着他们必须平等地分担家务。不管你信不信，大多数女性内心或许也不这样期待。 解析 （1）本段表达对“分担家务”的看法：分担家务并不一定带来婚姻幸福，并认为多数女性并不真正期待与丈夫平分家务。这个观点不一定正确，但肯定与多数同学的观点不一样，因此从某种程度上会给阅卷人带来一定的新鲜感。当然，这种内容的新鲜感不一定能提升考生的分数，但至少可以让考官看出学生在思维上的独特性，在语言水平同等的情况下，可能会给考生带来一个令人意想不到的分数。 （2） ironically 讽刺的是. （3） persistence 坚持；持续 （4） intention 意图 （5） given

12、that. 尽管. （6） believe it or not 无论你信还是不信 03 It is proper to conclude that happy relationshipshave little to do withsharing the same amount of housework, even when women like men have full-time jobs.In this regard, gender equality and a happy marriage may have a logic different from equally sharing t

13、he housework. 这样总结是正确的：幸福的两性关系与分担同样数量的家务活没有什么关系，即使女人和男人一样有全职工作。在这方面，两性平等和幸福婚姻的逻辑可能不同于平等分担家务。 解析 （1）本段对前文的观点进行总结。 （2）to have little to do with. 与.没有什么关系 （3）in this regard 在这一方面 本范文中可背诵的句子 1.In appearance, the zero gender gap is being a reality, in the sense that, since both men and women are equally

14、the familysbread-earnersworking from nine to five, both should share the housework equally. 男人和女人都在朝九晚五地供养家庭，因此家务应该分担，在这个意义上，零性别差异表面上正在成为现实。 2. Even in relationships in which the dual-earner couple aims to share the domestic burdens, most women would like to keep their men away from traditional task

15、s and childcare-giving activities. 即使在双收入夫妇愿意分担家庭负担的关系中，大多数女性也希望让她们的男人远离传统的家务和照看孩子的工作。 3. Despite the bestintentionsof men, their women might think that, although sharing household chores may do no harm, it may do little to contribute to a happy marriage. 尽管男人的本意是好的，但她们的妻子可能会认为，虽然分担家务活不会有什么害处，但却基本无助

16、于幸福婚姻。 4.Given thatboth males and females are created equal, the two genders are not meant to share housework equally. 诚然，男女生而平等，但这并不意味着他们必须平等地分担家务。 5. It is proper to conclude that happy relationshipshave little to do withsharing the same amount of housework, even when women like men have full-time

17、 jobs. 这样总结是正确的：幸福的两性关系与分担同样数量的家务活没有什么关系，即使女人和男人一样有全职工作。 7分范文 With dual-ine families, it seems logic that the domestic burdens should be equally shouldered as an issue of gender equality as well as happy relationships. These days, there is evidence that the gender gap in housework has been narrowed

18、gradually. Men are increasingly getting involved in housework, particularly if both men and women are employed in full-time jobs. For example, some husbands are having their share of household duties, such as cleaning, cooking, washing, and looking after children. In appearance, the zero gender gap

19、is being a reality, in the sense that, since both men and women are equally the familys bread-earners working from nine to five, both should share the housework equally. For happy relationships, however, men and women equally sharing the housework is often not as important as what it seems. Ironical

20、ly, the main reason for the persistence of inequality at home may be women themselves. Even in relationships in which the dual-earner couple aims to share the domestic burdens, most women would like to keep their men away from traditional tasks and childcare-giving activities. So, despite the best i

21、ntentions of men, their women might think that, although sharing household chores may do no harm, it may do little to contribute to a happy marriage. On this issue, there may be no need to seek 50/50 gender equality because men will always be men and women will always be women. Given that both males

22、 and females are created equal, the two genders are not meant to share housework equally. Believe it or not, most women at heart may not expect this to happen. It is proper to conclude that happy relationships have little to do with sharing the same amount of housework, even when women like men have

23、 full-time jobs. In this regard, gender equality and a happy marriage may have a logic different from equally sharing the housework. (313 words) 好夫妻天长地久， 佳伉俪相濡以沫。 死生同行真兄弟， 诗酒结伴好夫妻。 在婚姻里男人的需求是被妻子欣赏、崇拜、理解和被依赖。而女人需要的是被丈夫宠爱、收获安全感和浪漫。夫妻相处中要学会去阅彼此彼此的情绪背后的内在需求，很多时候吵架的背后是在向彼此要求关注，向彼此寻求安全感与信任，所以，不要被出现问题时表面的情

24、绪所控制。要知道，夫妻两个人完全不同的家庭，不同的教育、不同的阅历、不同的习惯、不同的爱好，走进婚姻后所谓的矛盾就是这些不同在打架，那些幸福的婚姻其实就是两个人都接纳了这些不同，并能做到共同面对，共同调整，而问题夫妻并没有真正的接纳彼此，在婚姻里这些不同无关对错，只是两个人之间的差异，冲突只是没有处理好彼此的差异，所以不能轻易就去否定对方。婚姻的本质是一种合作关系，那些过的得好的一定是接纳合作得不错，不好的婚姻一定是接纳合作无法进行。 感觉演艺圈的结婚时都很相爱日子久了就不新鲜了。 相互崇拜，互相烘托，势均力敌 一个家庭，一桩婚姻，一对夫妻， _没有矛盾，没有争吵，有矛盾也是很正常的。有矛盾不

25、可怕，可怕的是矛盾不断升级恶化，最终导致家庭破裂，婚姻失败，夫妻散伙。那么，到底怎样处理好夫妻矛盾，来避免这些问题的发生？ 首先，夫妻要善于交流沟通。沟通也是有技巧的：一是沟通时必须寻找共同话题；二是沟通时要善于甜言蜜语；三是夫妻沟通不要算旧帐提往事；四是在沟通中不争孰是孰非；五是夫妻在沟通时要善于倾听；六是夫妻沟通要选在双方情绪好的时候；七是夫妻沟通要在温馨浪漫的气氛中沟通；八是夫妻沟通要展望美好的未来。 其次，夫妻要善于彼此赏识。夫妻矛盾很多都是“视觉疲劳”和“审美疲劳”，由于夫妻朝夕相处时间久了，或多或少会暴露出自己的缺点，如果双方不能正确面对，或者是拿着放大镜看对方的短处，就会把对方看得一无是处。