Meeting for the first time

1、Meet for the first time!Taboos 初次见面 禁忌No.1 No religion !No.2 No politics!No.3 No marriage!No.4 Dont talk about money. How much?No.5 Dont talk about health.No.6 No soccer(英式足球)They like football (橄榄球) instead of soccer.No.7All about privacy!Where are you going?Have you had your lunch?How old are you?

2、No race,either.Ice breaker 破冰 Way 1 WhetherIts a nice day, isnt it!So cold today!Ice breaker Way 2 JokesPlease call me David,but you can call me TONIGHT.Ice breaker Way 3 PraiseNice car!Nice earings!Ice breaker Way 4 Food and drinkWhat kind of food/drink is that?Ice breaker Way 5 NamesThats a lovely

3、 name!Are you named after someone?Meet for the first time:IntroductionHello! Good morning/afternoon!(正式)ImPlease call me Whats your name?(Im /Its)Nice/Pleased/Glad to meet you!Its a pleasure to meet you!Please call me 见面直接称呼first name, 暗示想要接下来的谈话轻松，自在些。How do you do?Nice to meet you!Its a pleasure t

4、o meet you !Hi!比较随意的场合或者正式场合下彼此非常熟识的人之间 Check information:不确定对方名字Sorry,whats your last name again?How do people call you?How do you spell it/that?Say:ByebyeSee you (later/next time/tomorrow)!Have a nice day!（日常）Hope to see you again(正式)机场送别：Take care.Have a nice trip! Have a pleasant journey!询问/介绍第三

5、方Whos that/Whore they?（远距离询问）Thats/Theyre.This isMr./Mrs./Ms./Miss.Presedent /Manager/Director/Sectery/Assistant/clerk/Doc. of (正式场合)Know each other :greetingsHi!How are you doing?Hows everthing?Whats up?Pretty good/So so/Not bad/very well/Same as ever!社交礼仪 Social Manners介绍顺序：1.将男士介绍给女士；2.将年轻人介绍给年长者

6、；3.将次重要者介绍给重要者。Social Manners被介绍后，握手时，顺序1.女士先伸手；2.年长者先伸手；3. 地位较高者先伸手。4.拜访时，主人先伸手。5.再见时，客人先伸手。Social MannersExchange cards:1.Both hands to receive the card.2.Look at the card to appreciate it.3.Give yours until the receiving is completed.4.Never leave home without 10 cards.Social Manners初次见面一般不询问对方电话号码但可以询问e-mail等Could I have your email address or QQ number?Social Manners 打喷嚏，咳嗽，打嗝，打哈欠等时（不说会给对方不懂礼节的印象）：Excuse me!Social Manners想确认对方是否听懂时（强调自己的责任）：Do I make any sense?理解对方的处境时：I understand.Social Manners表示自己听懂了时：I see.我早就知道了用（误用易引起对方不快）：I know.Social Manners别人请求帮助时；向别人介绍情况时；有这种逻辑关系时用Of course！