论《傲慢与偏见》中的爱情观和婚姻观

1、论?傲慢与偏见?中的爱情观和婚姻观abstratprideandprejudieisaustinsgreatrk.thrughthedisussinfthedifferentarriagesandlve,theriterdenstratesherneptabutlveandarriage:lveandarriageislselyassiatedithprpertyandsiety,hever,lveandarriageanntnlybedeidedbytheprpertyandsialstatus.anidealarriageshuldbebasednutualaffetinandrespet

2、.sherejetsthearriagebasednealthandstressestheeleentfetininaarriage.keyrdslve;arriage;prperty;sialstatus摘要?傲慢与偏见?是奥斯汀的伟大著作，小说中的四段婚姻根本完全概括了当时社会中爱情和婚姻的状况.小说通过对四种不同婚姻和爱情的描写，解析和讨论，充分表达了作者的爱情和婚姻观。这篇论文就是通过对这四段婚姻的详细的分析，来讨论?傲慢与偏见?中的爱情观和婚姻观。那就是：恋爱婚姻与财产和社会地位互相关联，但恋爱婚姻不能仅取决于财产和社会地位,正确的婚姻应当建立在互相爱慕、互相尊重的根底上。她既反对为

3、钱而结婚，也反对轻率结婚，强调婚姻中感情因素的重要性。关键词爱情;婚姻;金钱;社会地位intrdutinprideandprejudiethebkabutnplaethingsandrdinarypeple,isnefjaneaustensfausbk,beingtherepresentativefrealistiliterature.itprtrays,ithspeialsensitiveharateristiffealeriters,thelifeandideasfiddlelasshliveinuntryside.thisnvelakesananalysisfhuannatureandt

4、henstikupreaderstthinkversialrelatins.thisnveltakesyungpeplesarriageasthethreadanditverstheinheritaneffrtune,enssialstatus,ethisandusts.beingtheasterpieefjaneausten,itesttheextensivefavrfliterarylversandexpertsatthesaetie.thispaperakesananalysisffurarriagesinprideandprejudieanddisussesthedeeputlkfrt

5、heirlveandarriageinthelightfsialbakgrundatthetie.i.thebakgrundfaustinandherprideandprejudiea.thebakgrundfaustin“janeausten(1775-1817)asbrninhapshire,auntrypriestfailylatedinhants,thevillagefkingstn,sideeninnrthengland.sheasabeautiful,talentediddlelassanithextrardinaryteperaentandgdultivatin.hersixnv

6、elssenseandsensibility,prideandprejudie,nrthangerabbey,anshifeierdeanr,ea,persuasinalldesriberethanarriage.(angshuren,p64,2022)hever,herarriageislikeablankpaperinher42yearsreallifetie.gingthrughthefinesttie,buteventuallyithuteetingafrtablepartner,shegivesupherlve.gingthrughtheseetandbitterfeelinghih

7、helpshertritethegreatrkprideandprejudie.b.thebakgrundfprideandprejudieinthisgreatbk,theauthraplydenstratesherpintabutlveandarriage.therefre,inrdertanalyzethesepintsfvies,eshuldfirstlystartfrhergreatrk.“atthattie,ardingtthesialnditinsinbritain,agdarriagefrayunganasritial.thisphenennaslselyassiatedith

8、he19thentury,enerentellrespetedparediththenesinthepresentsiety.thereasnequalitybeteenanandan.enerensideredtbeinferirtenintersfintelligeneandapaity.theentrallifefenasfredtbestayingathe,theirrleseretdealiththefailyaffairs,suhastakingarefthehildrenandservingf

9、rthehusband.(zhuhng,p34,1995)peplenaturallythughtthatenshuldbesubissivettheirhusbands.thevirtuesfenerepatientanddeferent.theyustregnizetheirinherentinferirityten,stheyustrestrittheirabilitiesithutnditins.althughthestatusfenassl,feftheexpresseddissatisfatinabuttheirndestiny.atthattie,anyiddle-lassyun

10、genhadthreeslutins:gettingarried;stayingatheasldaidsrrkingasthefailyfealeteahers.theineffailyfealeteaherasveryl,andthestatusaslasell.itasverydiffiultfrthethangersaputfthisstatus,nneuldliketbeaaidfrever,therefre,intersfyungen,espeiallythsehdnthaveenughprperties,tgetarriedasthenlyayfrthetgainrespet,st

11、abilityandsialstatus.austinfullyritiquedsebadphenenninherrkprideandprejudie,takingseperfetpintsabutarriageandlvetdenstratehernvienlveandarriage.ii.thefurarriagesandtherevealedneptflveandarriageinprideandprejudiea.theneptabutlveandarriageinthesietythestriesshtherdinarylives,feelingsftherdinarypeple.t

12、heyerelinkedupinaharniusrderundertheauthrsetiulusnepts.therkainlydesribesfurarriages.taretheainandassistedbythethertassistantarriages.“daryandelizabethslveandarriageistheaintheefthisrk.afterunderginganysetbaks,darysarrganeandelizabethsprejudieeventuallyeliinates,thelversfinallygetarried.thearriagefe

13、lizabethssisterjaneanddarysfriendbingleyisantherlue.theydeeplylveeahther,buttheyareultiblked,aftertheirdeparture,janeissesbingleyveryuh.thetarriagesrefletstheantherpintfvieinpsitiveaythatarriageshuldbebasedntruelve,hihistheidealarryintheauthrspinin.thestriesseetbetherdinarylives,feelingsandpersnslin

14、kedupinaharniusrderunderthethersetiulusnepts.hever,thearriagebeteenharltteandllinsisanegativeexapleiththearriagebeteenlydiaandikha,hihhelptakethepltsretrtuusandriher.(zhuhng,p12,1985)b.furarriagesinprideandprejudie1.llinsandharlttesarriageinprideandprejudie,thefirstpartisthearriagefharltteandllins,t

15、heirarriageislukyandnatural.theygetarriedithutanyexpetatin.harltteisillialuassdaughter,histheneighbrflizzybennett.sheasbrnfhubleparentageandveryedireineveryaspet.sshehasntgtarriedevenuntilsheis26yearsld.sheaybeatypialquestinablegirl.hever,thereare5daughtersinthebennetts,thefivedaughtersaregraduallyg

16、ringupttheagefrarriage.sbthfthetfailiesrivalutually,espeiallyintheeyesfthevulgaren,suhrivalryaspartiularlytedius.bennettsifeasespeiallytypial;shedesntgivebirthtabybutfivegirls.thefailysprpertyuldntbegiventadaughterardingttheustatthattie,andthefailyithutasnangranttheealthtthenephe.thus,nefbennettneph

17、ellinsaninheritthefailyealth.therefre,rs.bennetthasgreatexpetatinsnhernephe.thughthefailyisntveryrih,heisthefinalnerfbnnetfailysealth.iththis,rs.bennettfeltatease,andthenshehasgreathpenllinsandlikeshi.atherinellins,iththehelpfnefhisrelatives,beesapriest.andthenhegestthehefhisunle,antingtbehepleentfb

18、ennett.beausehehasheardaltabutthearrangeentfthefivegldenflersfhisunlesfaily,heisingttryhislukhere.inhisind,ifheuldbenesn-in-lfhisunles,thenheuldgettheprpertyfthefaily.hestaysathefralngtietrepayhisunlesheritageandgetssypathybythefaily.infredthattheeldestdaughterjanehasabyfriend,heaisatthesenddaughter

19、elizabethbennettinspitefrhisauntsinterestingsake,elizabethhasbeentiredfhi.eventually,sherefuseshiithsharptngue.butllinsquiklyfindsfrtfrharlttehdesirestgetlvefraaleandbelievesarriageistheelegantayfragirlithseeduatin,andthentheygetarriedasquiklyasthelightning.aedirelve,adullarriagehasbeenestablishedef

20、frtlessly.suharriageithutlveistpratial,sitisakindfsuperfiialarriageithuthappiness.2.lydiaandikhasarriagethesendarriageisbeteenbennettsthirddaughterlydiaandikha,thesnfthehusekeeper.riginallyheisell-treatedbythefailyandthefriends.hever,heesdnintherldbeausefhisisbehavir.hegetsintdebt.s,heantstgetneyand

21、beerihandhangehissialstatusthrugharriage,arriageisalsaaytapprahthetalents,heisaanithutanyrespnsibility.hedesnthingexeptassailingaanithbsenities.inhispinin,lveisnlyrereatin.frhispurpse,heentieslydiaandgetsherlveeasily,beausesheisyung,innentandvainglrius,andlvestgeaseandhatestrkhard,andisspiltbyherthe

22、r.gettinglveandpraisefabyisherdrea.shenikhaantstreahhisaigettingealthbylveandexaltsherbeautyhypritially,shefrgetshsheisandfeelssheisthestbeautifulandhappiestgirlintherld.theirlvedesntgettheperissinfrtheparents,andthentheyelpe.henelizabethhearsthenes,shebelievesthattheirlveisfalse,ikhauldntarrylydia,

23、beausesheisnharingandhasnthingtattrathi,hedesntlveherbuttheealthfherfaily.thearriageisadittednthenditinfdaryshelp.theirarriageisnsideredtbeasandalinbennettrsqu;sfaily.butrs.bennetisntdisgraefultthisarriage.henllinsgetsthenes,furse,heisveryangryandreatstthearriagetrevengehisearlyfailurefprpsalther.th

24、isarriageisneithutlve.theydnttherealeaningfarriage,theynlyanttsatisfytheiraspiratin.seansaythisisakindfiprptulveandarriageithuttruelveandrespnsibility.suhuplenlyseekhavinghadtheexperienebutnteverlastingandunhanging.furse,suhkindfarriageisdedtbeatragedy.3.janeandr.bingleysarriagethethirdarriageisfthe

25、eldestdaughterjaneandr.bingley.bingleyisafriendfdary.bingleyssisterlvesdaryveryuh.sheantsbingleytgetarriedithdaryssistergergiana,beausesheantstgetlvefrdarybythisay,hihalsrefletstheselfishnessthesister.thearriageftheablean-bingleyandthebeautifulgirl-janeisidealinstpepleseyes.furse,theupleeetsanysetba

26、ks,suhastheisunderstandingfdaryandbingleysselfishsister.atlast,thelversgetarriedastheisunderstandingbeteenelizabethanddaryhasbeenslved.4.daryandelizabethsarriage.thefurtharriageistheaintheeftherks.thatisdaryandelizabethsarriage.atthebeginning,elizabethrejetsthepursuer-dary,beauseshedesntlikehi,evenl

27、ksdnupnhithughdarylvesherveryuh.inelizabethseyes,heisarrgantandunreasnablebeauseheisrihandhashighsialstatus.realizingthat,darybeginstgetridfthsebadhabitsquietlytratehertasteandgetgdipressinandlvefher.beausefdarysperfetbehavirandgdeduatin,elizabethgraduallyeliinatesthebiasndary.thentheyspntaneuslyfal

28、linlve.shendaryssendsuitrissenttelizabeth,elizabethreadilyagreeith,andtheygetarriedandhavehappyfailylives.iii.thedifferentunderstandingabutlveandarriageinprideandprejudiea.thearriagebasednsaeinterestsblbbyist,aplitiian,attheendfthe18thentury,saidthatupbringingasreiprtantthanla,beauseituldprteral,hel

29、ptrealizeralrruinral.thusituldbenludedthatupbringingplayedveryiprtantrleinlifeatthattie.nthefirstballrganizedbyr.bingleyinthenigerpark,jane-theeldestdaughterfthebnnetsisfavredbythehst.butthereservedpersnalityandthestandardizedqualitiesakeherfeelingsshnthing,sshealstlsesbingley,hihisalsausedbyhernest

30、-f-kinslapsadnduts.frexaple,rs.bennetftengivesentsnthearriageinpubli,espeiallythebenefitsfthearriage,hihalstfrightensbingleyaay.thisgdarriagebasednafavritefutualgdipressinandtruelvenearlyevaprates.frtunately,thelvesgetarriedbyexperieningtists.b.thearriagebasednvanityandarelessnesslydiaisipulsive,red

31、ulusandblindlyflling.sheispursuinglveandthinkingabuthtgetlvefraale.sheisstiffenediththestylefanffieralledikha.sheelpesithhibeausefanipulse.theyspendneyithutrestraint,andtheyareunabletakeendseet.frsakefelizabeth,darygavetheasufneytletthegetutfdiffiulties.atthesaetie,thissindlerpreparestlibantheranfra

32、sufney.bennetupleisantherexaplefrthiskindfarriage.r.bennetvetstheyuthandbeautyandisattratedandgetsarriedithanarr-indedyungandbeautifulanlakingintelligene.ntlngafterthearriage,heputsanendthislveandaffetin,theutualrespetandtrustbeteentheuplehasgne.theexpetatinthaveaharniusandell-beingfailyhasevaprated

33、.learly,thisuplesarriageisunfrtunateausedbyrashnessandvanity.thearriagebasednneyrbenefitalthughrs.bennethasbeendesribedasaedyharaterintherkgainingaltfsarasandderisin,heruniversallyaknledgedtruthalltheealthybahelrsanttarryalady,hasbeenprvedtbetruthhihprvesantherfatthatitstheealthandthenuberftheealtht

34、hatdeidesthefateflifeandarriage.harltteknsthatthearriageithutprpertyuldeventuallyvetarddisappintentandsuffering.eveniftheuplelveseahtherdeeplyatfirst,henllins,knnasasialliber,isrejetedbyelizabeth,heiediatelyturnstfallinlveithissharltte.althughllinsisaninbrnfl,hislveuldntvetheheartfaan,harltteaeptshi

35、,beauseherpurpseistgetarried.alstallthegirlsbrninaprfailyithutgdeduatinalaysregardarriageasthenlydeentay,althugharriageightntneessarilybringhappinesstthe.sheanagestarrangenefthestreliableaybyarriage,thussheuldntbeexpsedttheldteperaturesandsufferhungerinthefuture.shengetsastrager.harltteislikeardanat

36、hingafairlyplupfishllins.butifhedesnteetasetbakfrelizabeth,andtheenurageentfharltte,iaafraidthatheuldntbesillingtprpsearriagetharltte.theanlikebentleyhhasfairlynuerableneyneedabeautifulife,thepranneedsaifeithahugeealth,likeikha;itaslukyfrharlttethatsheuldgainthearriageithllinsalthughtheirarriageisnt

37、hesearriages,itasquiteinterestingthattheenithutprpertyreallygetarriediththserihbahelrs.hever,thehappinessbrughtbyarriagetthehasntapaniedthehusband.inarriage,neyisveryiprtant.austinbjetssuharriagesiplybasednney.llinsistheheirfbnnetfaily;hedesntknhatlveis.heuldstateseftheinapprpriaterear

38、ksatanytie.harlttegetsarriedfrney.eventuallyshegetsnthingrethanarihan,thughshehaseniseurity.shedesntareabutherhusbandsapanyingandlve.sheenurageshitleanupthegardenre.shesetshisliving-rinthesallhuseabsentfevenasallnuberfsunshine.henherhusbandakesgaffeinfrntftheirfriends,sheignresandturnsadeafear.suhar

39、rangeentfrthestryisaperfetirnyfrthetruthuniversallyaknledgedatthebeginningfthenvel.theauthrexpressesgreatsypathytthetragifateftheenatthattieandthsehhadtarrybeausefenirestraintsbythedesriptinfthearriagefharltte.austinunderstandspletelythatthesialenvirnentakesanbeyntnlyinaterialbutinpsyhlgy,hihiprvedt

40、hataustinisaratinalauthrthatshepreferstruelvetsurvival.issbingleyalsextreelybjetsthearriagebeteenherbrtherandbennetseldestdaughterjane.shehpesherbrthertarrydaryssisterissgevgianainrdertakeherselfthavethesaestatus.d.thearriagebasedntruelveelizabethistheidealiagefrenasellasthestharisatipersninthenvel.

41、sheisbnnetssenddaughter,anative,intelligentandsartgirl.shehasaiddle-lassfailybakgrundandhasntbeenaffetedbythefraleduatinbelngingtthsearistratiyunggirls,ssheisntgdatusiandpainting,butshehasreadanybkshihakeherknledgeableandpereptive.thestiprtantaspetisthatsheisaladyithdignityandupbringing.daryisaanith

42、tallfigureandgdanner.heishandse,rihandperful.sheistheidealhusbandfstgirls.buthehasgrnupinthesurrundingsithstrngsensefper,shealaysisselfishandarrgant,andhehasaritiallkateahindividual,exeptthefailyebers.,heisntnernedabutanyneelse,andlksdnupnanyneelse.therefre,henhefirstarrivesinthevillage,hefindsallth

43、epersnsarefaraayfrthseiagined.althugheverygirlthereisyungandlvely,hehasninteresttanyneexeptelizabeth.atfirsthedesntputaneyenelizabeth.gradually,hehastaditthatelizabethisbeautiful,distintandppular,althughheinsiststhatelizabethhasntthesaesialstatusashi.daryisratinalbeausehehasastrngsensefper,hihagrees

44、ntherealityatthattie.althughheexpresseshislvetelizabeth,heuldnthelpshinghisarrgane,hihakeselizabethhaveisneptinandprejudiendary.darylveselizabeth,butlksdnupnhersialstatus.hensidersthathehasbeenlinghiselfanddingsethingagainsthisill,persnalitiesandevenralstandard.hethinksthathisarriageuldertainlysueed

45、andelizabethisaitingfrhitprpsearriage.therefre,evenheisirresistibletthefldingfeelings,andndesendstelizabeth,hestillreebersthegapbeteenthe.learly,theratinalaspetfdaryspersnalityperfrsntherealitiesfsiety.henhetalksabuthisfeelingsflve,healsexpressesthearrganefthesefeelingsindetails,hihresultsinthearusi

46、ngresententfelizabeth;sherejetshisarriageprpsal,andangrilyauseshisinslene.theratinalaspetftheherineelizabethshsherlear,alandatuallystressfulpersnality.paredithherstupidther,thesthandlazyfather,theshall-inded,self-illedsisterithfeatherhead,elizabethisneithidealind.sheiselegantlikehersisterjane,butrei

47、ntelletuallysuperirunlikehersisterbeingeasytbefavrable.shealsadviseshersistertseethrughthestupidityandnnsensefthseauflagehnestpersns.elizabethisunique,beauseshehasadeepunderstandingfallthethingsarundher.infatbthsheanddaryareextreelysensitivetthesialstatus.differentfrdary,elizabethdesnthavesuperirity

48、abutherfailybakgrundandstatus.instead,shefeelsdeeplyashaedfrhersistersbeinglakffairlyeduatinandherthersrudenessandstupidity.paredithherderateandgenerussisterjane,sheissarterandevenreprfund.shehasaleanunderstandingabuthernsialstatus,hihisduetthepsyhtiallysedientarydepsitsbeausesheisinainferirpsitinfr

49、lngtie.beausefthis,sheresistsextreelyagainstthearrganefdary,andshetriesherbesttprtetherselffrbeinghurtledbydarysandingattitude.shebelievesthatsheustakehiunderstandthatsheisntzy,hihrefletsherbelieftdealiththeetinalentangleentsithdary,asellashernstantpatterithdaryandtheprejudiendary.itsuperfiiallysees

50、tbesharedbythetraditinalpsyhlgialrequireentthateveryneneedstberespetedutually.utuallyspeaking,thisisantherfrfexpressinabuttheaarenessfstatus.perhaps,tseextent,daryhasrerantiteperaentthanelizabeth,itisbeauseheisbetterpsitinedthanher.elizabethrefusesthestupidpriestllinsandhallengesealthydary,allfthisi

51、satuallytheresistaneftheprevailingarriageatthattie.theultiatefailureakesdaryakeup.heisaarefhisnshrt-ings.heaeptselizabethsritiis,andfaithfullyrretstheshrtingsandistakes.heisnlngerarrgantandhasareallveithelizabeth.iththerevealingfthetruth,elizabethsprejudiendarybeesdeeper.untilhenelizabethrefusesdary

52、slnglveletter,sheexperienesthefiereshk.afterundergingaperidfpainfulandprfundthught,sheuldnthelpbuttshuthdespiablesheis,shebelievessheistheexellentneinthefaily,sheisskillfulandalaysdespiseshersistersdress.inrdertsatisfyhernvanity,shealaystreatspepleithanirrelevantsuspiinandnfusin.hshaefulitis!butthis

53、shaeservesherright.evenifshereallyfallsinlveithsene,sheshuldntbesblindteetthisflunkingstage.sheisstupidntnlyinlve,butinthevanity.henshefirstknsthet,nelvesherandakesherfeelhappy,andthethertreatsherinaldanner,hihakesherangry.alltheseauseherprejudieandignrane,hensheenunterstheiraffairs.sheuldntbeabletd

54、istinguishtherightandtherng.sheuldbensideredtbeknledgeableatlast.heneseetheblaefrheart,efindhershrtingsandtheuragethatsheuldfaeherselfdiretly.itisherbringingthatplaysarle;shestartstgiveupthebiasausedbyself-estee,trulyandseriuslyunderstanddary.elizabethuldntbelievetheshaelessliesabutdarysaidbyhanandeliinatetheisunderstandingandprejudie.shefinallyfallsinlveithdary.henthesisteraskshsheuldlver.dary,elizabethrepliesthatsheshulddatefrthedaysheseethebeautifullaneanrpark.thestateentseestreferttheprpertyfdary.ther