人性的弱点读后感英语.docx

人性的弱点读后感英语 欢迎大家来到网，以下是小编为大家用心搜集整理的 人性的弱点读后感英语，我们一起来看看吧! 在看这本书的过程中，感觉就是每读一章都会有新的 感受，开始有很多东西都了解得不深，只有不断重复地看 以及思考，结合自己的经历，才能体会出来。我觉得， 人 性的弱点整本书的根本在于培养勇气和自信。书看完后 收益不少，然而自信心的增加则是最主要的收获。卡耐基 说：征服畏惧以及培养仪态、勇气和自信是教师的责任， 帮助一个人在日常生活中获得勇气和自信的最确实、最快 速的方法，就是让他在一组人面前大胆讲话。我终于理解 老师为什么锻炼我们在同学们面前讲话的能力了。 自卑作为一种消极的心理状态，每个人或多或少都会 有一些，它与自信紧有一步之遥，如果我们超越了它，变 之为发奋的动力，我们就能走向成功和卓越。在生活中， 我们常常会碰到自卑的情形。自卑很明显对自己的成长和 发展是不利的，也有碍于我们与别人正常交往。我们之所 以害怕在人群面前讲话，是由于我们害怕自己犯错，也害 怕自己的发音，音调或姿态被别人嘲笑，这就是自卑的表 现。克服这种自卑的一个办法是，告诉自己，这种行动让 我们只会赚而不会赔，因为我们有可能成功，即使不成功， 我们也得到了宝贵的经验，我们可以向自己保证下次能继 续，并做得更好直到成功。恐惧和忧虑是一种消极，失败 的心态，是自卑心理的表现，它使人盲目担心，害怕，最 终在恐惧的逃避中碌碌无为。因此，我们必须克服这中消 极的心态，以积极成功的心态作为有用的武器，相信自己： 你能战胜它，并且毫无困难。一个人的内心的想法非常重 要，好的想法考虑到原因和结果，可以产生很合逻辑的， 很有建设性的计划，而坏想法通常会导致一个人的紧张和 精神崩溃。 心态决定命运，思想极其重要。只要知道你在想什么， 就可以知道你是怎样的一个人。如果在一天里，我们脑海 中都是快乐的念头，我们就能快乐;如果我们想的是悲伤的 事情，我们就会觉得悲伤;如果我们想到一些可怕的情况， 我们就会害怕 生命并不单纯，我们应该选择正面的态度，而不是采 取反面的态度，换句话说，我们必须关切我们的问题，但 不能忧虑。当我们被各种烦恼困扰着，整个人精神紧张不 堪时，我们可以凭借自己的意志力，改变自己的心境，我 们应当记住：思想运用和思想本身，就能把地狱造成天堂， 把天堂造成地狱。 要提升自己的欲望，把自己的心愿和梦想一一列举出 来，然后标明每个欲望的强度，标明目前最渴望得到的是 什么，并强化动力，告诉自己一定要实现某个目标，使这 种想法深入潜意识，并不断强化，成为自己思想中最强烈 的一部分，这样，目标其实已经很接近了。 真实自然的自己，才会有个性魅力。当你出现在别人 面前时，首先想到的是“我应该怎样表现，装出什么样子， 才能让别人认可和满意?”还是“我本来就是这个样子，我 就要真实自然地表现!”?这两种截然不同的意识将决定我 们在人际交往中是否自由平等，也反映出我们是否具有个 性魅力。 写到这里，我最大的感受就是：大学的学习生活真的 很重要，我们要早这几年里利用好这个安静的环境汲取知 识，建立勇气和自信并不断超越自我，让自己富有个性和 魅力。 As early as the middle of the 20th century, when the economic downturn, inequality, war is the devil indelible human pursuit of a better life of the soul, of Carnegie, with his insight into human nature, a large number of ordinary people constantly strive to achieve the success stories, through him, The speeches and writings arouse the morale of many a confused, encourage them to a brilliant success, as Mr. Carnegie said: “A persons success, only 15 percent attributed to his expertise, 85 percent attributed to him Expression of thought, leading others and the ability to arouse the enthusiasm of others. “ “The weakness of human nature,“ a book the author described as dealing, the rationale for doing things, so that impressed me most deeply in an article entitled “unfavorable factors will translate into success factor“, there has been a story to inspire Me. Happen in 1929, a youth to the mountains to cut down Hill walnut, he wood pile in the car, drove home. Suddenly a wooden sliding down, he is Jizhuan Wan, the wood in the axle of the card, he bounced to a tree, the spine was injured. Since then both legs paralyzed. At that time, young people aged 24, since then, he has not traversed step Road, was considered a lifetime spent in a wheelchair. Zuonong the fate of his resentment, but with age Jianchang, he found no resistance on their help, only to become their own Jiansuankebo. Others are courteous and good to me, I should at least have to respond to the courtesy and good people. More than 10 years have passed, some people asked him think that is an unfortunate incident? He said: “No! I was almost glad that it happened.“ Shock and resentment that experience of the stage, he began reading the literature and culture from the hobby. 14, he read over 1,400 books, these books expand his vision, his life than in the past could have imagined even rich He also began listening to music, he moved before the symphony will only let him nap However, really the most important changes, or thought he had the time. “The first time in my life, the real intentions of the world to see and appreciate its value, experience of previous efforts to pursue a lot of things have no real value.“ Since reading, he began the political interest in his study of public issues, in a wheelchair a speech. He began to understand people, and people have begun to know him, because such efforts, a local political figures from elevated to a national political figure. The legend is that Al Smith. He was re-elected governor of New York 4 session - then no one has such a record. In 1958, he was elected as the Democratic presidential candidate, and the results achieved so hard to make up for his deficiencies are inseparable. James once said: “Their success is the most excited because some of the shortcomings of their potential.“ Yes, a lot of successful people is successful, because they have a capability, will be a negative factor for the successful conversion factor The ability of such capacity in general the depths of adversity, when almost no transfer will be inspired by, if Zhang Lincoln in a rich family, perhaps it can not become now the Americans can not forget a great leader. People always will be faced with difficult, in the face of failure, but this is not your retreat of the reasons people are above the other on biological, because he is extremely subjective initiative, he can to change some things, but not forever Quietly waiting for extinction. Life is not the most important thing you have used to measure the real important issue is how you from the loss of profit. This requires wisdom, it also shows the Sophia Xia Yu, the fate of each person to a lemon acid, it into a cup of sweet lemonade, this is our need to do, Carnegie, said: “ True happiness is not pleasant, it is more than a victory. “Right, sometimes you win in possession of forged by the unfortunate, it is not in itself be good, but your training. Is you get rich inner world, can only become a victory. Also as the title “human weakness“, is full of human weaknesses, but because there are weaknesses, we may look forward to tomorrow will be better, be more perfect. 人性的弱点这一本书是二十世纪最著名的成功学 导师：戴尔。卡耐基的著作!这本书汇集了卡耐基的思想精 华和最激动人心的内容，是作者最成功的励志经典，无数 读者通过阅读和实践书中介绍的各种方法，不仅走出困境， 有的还成为世人仰慕的杰出人士!我阅读之后，对在社会上 该如何待人接事有了更多的了解，其中第二篇的：使人喜 欢你的六种方法，最让我受益良多，它的内容与现实社会 有着紧密的联系，如实地放映出生活的点点滴滴。 在第一章中，我明白到，并不是所有的人都对你产生 兴趣，都会关心你!如果我们只是想使人注意，使人对我们 发生兴趣，我们、水远不会有很多真诚的朋友朋友，真正 的朋友，不是那样造成的。例如老总统罗斯福的仆人爱默 士说了这样一个故事：有一次，我妻子问总统，美洲鹑鸟 是什么样子?因为她从没有见过鹑鸟，而罗斯福总统不厌其 详的告诉了她。过些时候，我家里的电话铃声响了一爱默 士和他妻子，住在罗斯福总统牡蛎湾住宅内一所小房子里 一，我妻子接了电话;原来是总统亲自打来的。罗斯福总统 在电话里告诉她，现在窗外正有一只鹑鸟，如果她向窗外 看去，就可以看到了。这样关心一桩小事情，正是罗斯福 总统的特点之一。像这样一位主人，怎么不使佣人们喜爱? 谁能不喜欢他呢?所以你要使别人喜欢你，必需遵守的第一 条规则是：真诚的对别人发生兴趣。看到这里，我又想到， 现在的人思想过于自私，总以自我为中心，个性太强了， 导致有点脱群!人制关系需要整理! 在第二章，如何给人好印象。我看了一比遗产的妇人 司华伯两个事例后，我懂得了微笑可以给人留下好印象!一 个人的行动，比他所说的话，更有具体的表现，而人们脸 上的微笑，就有这样的表示：我喜欢你，你使我快乐，我 非常高兴见到你，那么喜欢狗，相信也是同样的原因你看 们那么的喜欢跟我们接近，当们看到我们时，那股出于自 然的高兴，所以人们也就喜欢了们。一个微笑虽然是小事， 但坚持着并不容易。 在第三章中，你要避免发生麻烦，就请这样做!罗斯福 总统知道一种最简单、最明显、而又是最重要的如何获得 好感的方