社交礼仪-英文版

（一）操作方法SocialEtiquette

——madebyGroupSixPart1.EverydayMannersShakingHandsMakingIntroductionsWhataretherulesformakingintroductions?TherulesformakingintroductionsTheoverruleisthatpersonisalwaysintroducedtoanother,andtherearethreebasicrules:AmanisalwaysitroducedtoawomanAyoungpersonisalwaysintroducedtoanolderpersonAlessimportantpersonisalwaysintroducedtoamoreimportantpersonHowmuchdoyouknowaboutthemannersinshakinghands?

HandshakenetiquetteInfact,theguidelinesforshakinghandsfollowtheguidelinesforintroductions:Awomanoffersherhandfirst;AnolderpersioninitiatesahandshakewithayoungeroneThemoreimportantperson,ortheonetowhomsomoneisbeingintroduced,isthefirsttoofferhisorherhandTherighthandshakeposition1.Linetoshakehandswiththepersonaboutonemeterawayfromtheplace2.Standatattentionlegs,upperbodyslightlyforward3.Strechrightarm,palmtothelelf,fourfingersclosetogether,thumbgripopeningphasewitheachother.4.Eyecontact,facetohaveexpression,showingasinceresmile*Pleaseremember:don’thavetoreachtoolongexcessiveforcewhenmenshakehandswiththelady,andwomencannotonlyfiger-phasehandshakegripPart2.MannersofDeportmentSmilingSittingPosture

Getting

on/offCarsWatchtheperformanceanddecidetheyaretrueorfaulse.YESHaveyounoticedyoursittingpostureinpublic?SmilingCharmingsmilingcomesfromhardtraining.Toladies:Howtogetinto/offacar?Getintoacar:Backtothedoorandsitdown2.Feetclosetogetherandmoveintothecarslowly3.Turntothefront

极目水无波亭亭万柄荷Getoffthecar:1.Openthedoor,usingtheinsidearmtoholdtheseatchairforsupport,bereadyinasecondtime,andgivethewaitingcrowdaconfidentsmile.2.Thefootbesidesthedoormovetowardesthetheedgeofthecar,anddon’tforgettoshutyourknees.3.Feetmovetotheground,andusetheborderofaminortosupportthewholebody4.Turnyourbodytothedoor,thenmakeuseofthepowerofyourhandstosupportandleavetheseat6.Standelegantly,withthefeetinapose5.Ifskirthasbranches,youshouldbealittleforwardtoletthehemofcourse.1.Theoriginoftipping2.reasonsfortipping3.Priciplesoftipping4.AmountoftippingMeaningTippingisauniqueeconomicphenomenon,asitinvolvesvoluntarypaymentsforservicethathasalreadybeenprovidedbythetimethetipisgivenbeginning

Tippingisasocialritual（礼仪）startedbythewealthycausetheyweretheonlyoneswhocouldaffordtogoout.funnystoriesTherewasatimewhenacustomerwouldleave1pennyasatiptoindicateverypoorservice.Ihavewitnessedawaitresscomplainingtoacustomeraboutthelowtipamount.What‘sthegoingratetoday20%...ithasbecomearacket（勒索）!!TheoriginoftippingOnepossiblereasonisthattheythinkthattippingtodayaffectstheservicetheywillreceiveinthefuture(iftheyarerepeatedcustomers).Otherreasonsfortippingarethedesiretoconform（顺从）tothesocialnorm（规范）,embarrassmentandafeelingofunfairnessthatmayresultfromstiffing(nottipping),orempathyfortheworker.PrinciplesoftippingExcellentserviceshouldbegivengeneoustipsSeviceisbadorparticularlyrude,inattentive,careless,theamountshouldbereduced.Ifitisbadenough,notipsleftatall,andyoushouldbringthesituationtotheattentionofthemanagerAmountorpercentagetotip

Waitersandwaitresses15%ofthebill,slightlyhigerforgoodservice.20%inveryelegantrestaurants.Parkingservice$1inlargecitiesand50centsinsmallercitieseachtimecarisdelivered.Taxis25centsatleastforfareupto$1.5.Forhigherfares,tip15%ofthetotalbills.

Dairy

Ifthedairydeliversregularly,tipatleast$5eachtimeatchristmastimeHouseholdhelpers$5to$10whenextreworkisrequiredforlargepartyOneweek’spayatchristmastime

LettercarriersAccordingtotheUSPostalService,it’sillegaltotipyourlettercarrierTableManners

PreparationTheSoupCourseTheFishCourseTheMeatCourseUsingKnifeandForkHelpingYourselfandRefusingTheSaladCourseBreadandButterOtherThingsontheTableLeavingtheTablePart5.WeddingCeremonyPresentAGift

CeremonialAttire(礼服）Q:Howdoyoudressforaweddingceremony?

Womenguests:street-lengthafternoonorcocktaildresses（常礼服）withgloves，headcoveringsareoptional（随意的）.

Colorsarepreferable（更合适的）toblackorwhiteA.DaytimeWedding接天莲叶无穷碧映日荷花别样红b.MenGuest:

Darksuits

,andcocktailsuitsConservative(保守的）shirtsTiesThreePoints荷风送香气竹露滴清响

业绩概述B.EveningWeddinga.Women:dependingonlocalcustom,wearlongorshortdresses.b.WomenMenLongdressesTuxedos(无尾常礼服)ShortdressesTuxedosordarksuitsQ1:Areweddingpresentsaddressedtothebridealone,ortoboththebrideandgroom?AboutGiftsBeforethewedding,isaddressedtothebridealone.B.Afterthewedding,isaddressedtoboththebrideandthegroom.壮志凌云灼灼荷花瑞亭亭出水中

Q2:Whenandwhereareweddinggiftsdelivered?

Generally,giftsaredeliveredtothebride’shomebeforethedayofthewedding.登高超越一枝高叶一枝花冉冉香风遍水涯

Q3:Aregifts