本科毕业设计-源于真爱的结合-简爱的婚姻对当代人的启示

AbstractJaneEyreisamasterpieceinthenineteenthcentury,whichincludeslifeexperiencesofCharlotteandlovestoryaboutJaneandRochesterbywhichwewouldbedeeplymoved.Inthemeantime,wewouldlearnalotfromthisnovelsuchaskeepingtheattitudeofalwayslookingatthebrightsideofthingsandnoblequalitiesthearticlementions.Allinall,thisnovelsuccessfullybuildsanimageofanewfemale,theimageofstrivingforfreedomandequalityofwomen,pursuitofindependenceforfemaleinthatperiodandstrugglingforloyallove.Therecentworldhaswitnessedtherapidchangesofpeople’sviewpointsonmarriage.Theynolongerhankerforeverlastinglovebutfastfoodromanticduetothefastdevelopmentofthesociety.Therefore,theobjectofthisresearchistotellthemarriedandunmarriedhowtheJaneEyre’sviewofmarriageshouldbeperceived.Itteachesusthatalthoughsheisnotbeautiful,shestillgainsthefruitfulloveduetohercharmofpersonality,suchasstrivingforfreedomandequality,themostimprotant,themutualunderstandingandrespect.That’stosay,onlyrespectforothers,buildtrustwithothers,canyoufindthetruelove,letaloneforthepeopleinthecontemporarysociety.Keywords:JaneEyre；independence；equality；respect;trust

摘要简爱是19世纪的一部小说，它讲述了简爱的生活经历以及与罗切斯特的爱情故事，我们都为之动容。同时我们从小说中学到了好多，例如对生活的积极态度以及简爱的所表现的高尚的品质。总而言之，这部小说成功建立了新女性形象，一种追求自由和平等的形象，追求女性独立，为追求真爱为努力。在现代社会人们的婚姻观发生了巨大的变化，有人不再相信永久的爱，而追求短暂的快乐。所以本文的目的在于阐明简爱的婚姻对未婚者和已婚者的启示。简爱的故事教会了我尽管女主人公并不漂亮，她仍然得到自己的真爱。她的人格魅力，勇于追求自由和平等，相互理解和尊重。只有对别人尊重，信任别人，这样才能找到真爱，特别是对现代社会的人。关键词：简爱；独立；平等；尊重；信任ContentAbstract i摘要 ii1.ABriefIntroductionToJaneEyreAndItsAuthor 11.1IntroductiontoCharlotteBronte 11.2IntroductiontoJaneEyre 12.ConcentratedreflectionofJane’sFaithfullove 32.1Mutualrespectandunderstanding 32.2Faithfultoherownwill 32.3Jane’sdeeploveforRochester 42.4Cherishthetruelove 43.TherevelationofJaneEyre’swedlockformodernpeople 53.1.WhatJaneEyre’smarriagereflects 53.2Therevelationformodernpeople 53.2.1Loveisfaithful,everlastingandaresponsibility 53.2.2Lovewegetshouldbebasedonthemutualrespect 63.2.3Whatisweighedbyhappiness 63.2.4Marriageinthecontemporarysociety 73.2.5Buildingtrustinthemarriage 84.Conclusion 9References 10Acknowledgements 111.ABriefIntroductionToJaneEyreAndItsAuthor1.1IntroductiontoCharlotteBronteCharlotteBrontewasbornin1816atThornton,inYorkshire,England.Sheisrankedthirdamongsixchildren.In1824,shewassentwiththreesisterstotheClergyDaughters’SchoolatCowanBridgeinLancashire.Unfortunately,twoofhersistersdiedbecauseofpoorconditionsandtreatment,Charlottestillpersevered.Whenshewasalittlegirl,shewasveryinterestedinliteratureandshewrotemanyshortstoriesandpoemstoprepareforherliterarycareer.Attheageoffifteen,shefurtheredherstudyatRoeHeadSchoolinMidfield.Aftergivingupheroccupationasagoverness,inordertomakealiving,CharlotteandhersistersdecidedtomakeatriptoBrusselstolearnFrenchwiththedreamofteachingFrench.DuringthetimewhenshewasapupilandlaterateacherinthePensionatHerger,agirl’sschool,shehadasoftspotforMrHerger,theownerofthisschool,whowashandsomeandintelligent.However,sheneverlethimknowhowshedeeplylovedhimandheneverknew.HerfirstnovelProfessor,basedonherownexprienceinherschooldidnotbringherfameandwealthandsheevencouldn’tfindapublisherinherlifetime.Aftertoilingawayforatime,shewroteanovelentitledJaneEyre,whichwasanimmediatesuccess.Whatmostimpressesusisherattitudetowardslove,althoughshemethertruelover,amarriedman,sheputherlovedeeplyinherheartanddidn’tlethimknow.Herfinalunionwiththemanaftersomanyvicissitudeshasarousedourrespectforhersincerityandfidelity.1.2IntroductiontoJaneEyreJaneEyreisregardedasoneofthemostimportantmasterpiecesinthehistoryofBritishliterature,whichadvocatesstrongfeminismofindependenceandfreedom.JaneEyreasanorphanhadlivedinthehouseofheruncle’swidowbeforeshewaseight.Butunfortunately,Janedidn’tliveahappylife,filledwithanxietiesandapathyinherchildhood,becauseheraunt’sfamilytreatedherbadlyandshefeltrebellious.Attheageofeight,Janewaspackedofftothecharitableboardingschool,whichwasknownforharshdisciplineandtoughenvironment.Duringtheschooldays,inordertorealizeherdreamofbeingaqualifiedteacher,Janedidn’tslackenoffhereffortstostudywellandshewashappyindeedbecauseshemetHelenwhowasconsideredasherbestfriendsinceherchildhood.Duetothearduoussituationintheboardingschool,shedecidedtoleaveandsucceededinbecomingagovernessofaso-calleddaughterofRochesterinhiscountryThornfieldHallafteradvertisingforapost.Merrywerethesedaysthereandbusytoo,dramatically,bothJaneandhermasterRochesterhadasoftspotforeachotherandtheyfellinlove.Unexpectedly,whenJanegotthetruththatRochesterhadalegalwife,insteadofdeceivingherself,sheleftThornfieldandherbelovedonewithoutsayingaword.Shedidn’tknowwhereshewouldgobuthadnearlystarvedtodeathandsufferedalotfromexhaustion.Meanwhile,JanewasrescuedbyRiver’sfamilyontheedgeofdeath,inherlaterdaysshehappenedtoreceiveasumofheritagefromherrelatives.AfterrejectingtheproposeofhercousinJohn,JanecamebacktoThornfieldatthecallofRochesterinherheartandamazinglyfoundthatthehousehadburntdownandRochesterhadnothingleftwithhimselfbutapairofblindedeyesandmaimedbody.Withouthesitation,Janemadeuphermindtostaytotakecareofhimbecauseofhisbereavementandmoreoverherdeeploveforhim.Afterexperiecingthetwistsandturnsofherlifejourney,theygotmarriedintheendandlivedahappylifeforever.2.ConcentratedreflectionofJane’sFaithfullove2.1MutualrespectandunderstandingWithoutdoubt,weknowthatJaneisaparentlessorphan,sinceheruncledied,sheistreatedunfairlyinheraunt’shouse,whatisworse,shesuffersfromlotsofinsultsandhumiliations,nooneunderstandsandhelpsher.Despitetheenvironment,unfairandcruellifecouldn’tdepriveheroflife-longhappiness,forshehasfoundhertruelovewhichisdestinedtobethefinalresultduringherlonglifejourney.Rochester,anupperclassgentlemanwhopossessesahighsocialstatusandagreatfortunefallsinlovewithJanewhohasnothingsimplybecausehewasdeeplymovedbyhersincerity,bravenessandkind-heartednessandtenacity,withoutconsideringherappearanceorwealth,status.Insteadofcaringaboutwhatshewaseducated,hermiserablechildhood,heregardsherchasteness,simplicity,optimismassomethingrareandpreciousandeveniswillingtomarryherwithwhomheshouldbelivingforinterdependence.Ontheotherhand,althoughthere’sagreatdisparityinagebetween,theytwosowtheseedofloveintheirheartsandthelovewasdeeplyengravedintheirminds.Althoughmanybizzarethingshappenedinhiscountrymansion,andevenRochesterrefrainsfromrevealingtoherthemysterythathehasgotmarried,shedoesn’tseemtocare,andsheindulgesinpassionatelovepermeatedwithimmeasurablehopeandpleasure,sheisconfidentthathewillbeamanofhertrueloveirrespectiveofotherinfluentialelements.TheirmutualrespectandunderstandingshowJane’sartlessandinnocentfaithfulloveforRochesterandhowsheisfondlyofhim.KuriagamaHakusonsaysaptly“Anguishandtearsmakeloveworthwhile.”Beforetheygetmarried,shelearnsofthenewsthatherwould-behuabandhasalreadyalegalwife.Thenewsneverfailstoshockher,herheartsinks,wordsfailher.Bywayofguardingtheirfruitful,unsulliedloveandhappiness,infaceofthedilemma,shechoosestoleaveThornFieldwithouthesitation.Thetrialandtribulationofliving,thesufferingofmortallifeandtheacutesorrowofparting,shebearsthemall.Thoughshewassufferingthenamelessagony,shehopestoliveahappylifefreefromanxietiesandangersandseeksalovewhichwasnoneotherthantherealthing.Shewaitsandwaitsfortheunblemishedandunforgettablelove.Astoher,timeseemstobemeaninglessandshesuffersalotinherpursuitofthetrueandfaithfullove.2.2FaithfultoherownwillLifewillbeinsignificantwithoutpain.DuringthetimeJanewastrudgingallbyherselfonherwaythickwithdusttothepoorandremotevillage.Janenearlylosesherlifebecauseofhungerandcold.Fortunately,sheissavedbyapriestnamedJohnandhistwosistersontheedgeofherdeath.Inordertorewardthemfortheirhelp,shetakesaprofessionasanassistantofamissionaryandteachesintheprimaryschool.Meanwhile,John,whoislaterfoundtobehercounsin,proposestoherintheMoorHouse,butsherefusestheoffer,becausesheknowsthatshecannotforgetRochesterstilllovesher,butJohnisnotherbelovedonewhorefusestogiveherhappinessandconsolation.ShecherishesheraffectionforRochestersomuchthatsheloveshimmorethanherself.Forthesakeofthefaithfulloveshewouldrathergiveupallthatshehasandshethinksit’sworthwhiletodoso.Shenotonlyabandonedthepeaceandquietlifeandglory,whichshecouldeasilygetatthattime,justonlynottobetrayherownwill.2.3Jane’sdeeploveforRochesterItseemsthatJane’sfatehasbeentightlyboundupwithRochester.ShehearsasupernaturalcryfromRrochestersteadily.Beyondherownwillpower,shereturnedtoThornfieldandvisitedhimwhomshehadmissedsomuch.Tohergreatsurprise,ThornfieldlayintheruinsanditsmasterRochester,hasalreadylostsightofbotheyesandbecomedisabledinrescuinghismadwifeinabigfire.Theabominablesituationcan’tdisperseherdeeploveforRochester,insteadofleavinghimagain,shetakesgoodcareofhimfornothingbutlove.Sweatorbitter,sheneverregretsforitbecauseherheartispermeatedwithfaithfulloveforRochesterandsimple,chastebelief.2.4CherishthetrueloveNomatterwhatbitternesswillbeengravedintheirmindsorwhattheemotionaltraumatheywouldundergoandshowperseverenceintheirunionbasedontheirtrueloveregardlessofnumerousdifficultiesandsetbackstheymeet.Therefore,theirmarriageisbasedonthetruelove,whichtheycherishduringtheirlife-longjourney.3.TherevelationofJaneEyre’swedlockformodernpeople3.1.WhatJaneEyre’smarriagereflectsThere’sasayinglikethis:Allhappyfamiliesresembleoneanother,butunhappyfamiliesareunhappyintheirownways.It’stoooldtowarrantrequoting.AstoJane,themaincharacterofthenovel,shegainsafruitfulresultafterexperiencingthetwistsandturnsoflifejourney.Fromthisarticle,wecouldknowthatJane’smarriageisbasedonthetrueloveinsteadofthinkinghighlyofone’sfameandwealth,whichweregardassomethingraretoseeinmodernsociety.What’smore,theunionofJanewithRochesterisbuiltonmutualunderstandingandrespect.RochesterhasasoftspotforJane,heshowsgreatrespectforJaneandJanegiveshimfaithfulloveinreturn.Theytwofallinlovewitheachother.Jane”smarriagetellsusthatunionshouldbebasedontruelove.Onlybyunderstandingandknowingeachothercantheygaindeepaffectionforeachother.Jane’smarriagesetagoodexampleforthosewholiveinthiscontemporarysociety.3.2Therevelationformodernpeople3.2.1Loveisfaithful,everlastingandaresponsibilityLoveistoJanefaithfulness,everlastingandresponsibility.ItcertainlyputsforwardaproblemtopeoplewhoalsolivedintheageofJane.However,inthe19thcentury,enjoyingfreedomofloveandgoingaftertrueloveseemtoberareforpeople.Thetraditionandcustomsofcultureledpeopletopursuetheirmarriageswhichattachedgreatimportancetowealthandsocialstatus,theywouldratherchooseonewhoisrichbutnotlovedthanoneregardedastruelove.Onehastochoosehiswifewhosewealthandfameshouldbecompatiblewiththestatusofhimself,regardlessofotherfactors,suchasspiritualworldandintelligence,allgivewaytowealthandstatus.Itissocruelandunfairforthemtocutofftherelationjusttocatertotheestablishedconvention.AgirllikeJanewhoisbornofapoorfamilyandhassufferedfrustrationwasareflectionofcreatinganewbelief,thatweshouldgetridoftheoldviewonmarriageinwhichacoupleshouldbewell-matchedineconomicandsocialstatusandneverbeweigheddownbyunnecessarycares,justenjoyfreedomandequality,withoutcaringanythingbutrealaffection.WhatJaneEyresaidimpressedRochestermostbeforetheyfallinlove,“Doyouthink,becauseIampoor,obscure,plain,andlittle,Iamsoullessandheartless?”shecries,“Youthinkwrong.Ihaveasmuchsoulasyou,－andfullasmuchheart!Andifgodhadgiftedmewithsomebeauty,andmuchwealth,Ishouldhavemadeitashardforyoutoleaveme,asitisnowformetoleaveyou.Iamnottalkingtoyouthroughthemediumofcustom,conversation,norevenofmortalflesh:－itismyspiritthataddressesyourspirit;justasifbothhadpassedthroughthegrave,andwestoodatGod’sfeet－equal,－asweare！”TheabovewordsarefullyexpressiveofJane’spursuitoflibertyandequality.SowecanknowthatJanelovesRochesterbecausehethinksofherasahumanbeing,moreovertheequal.Atthemeantime,Janedoesn’tsethighstorebyRochester’sappearance,formerterribleexperienceandage,butshehasasoftspotforhimingenuineandwithouthesitation.Forherabsolutionandperseverance,shefinallyhasagoodresult.Shesetanexampleforallthosewhopursuegenuinenuptialhappinesswhichmayseemstrangetothosewhoarestillundertheinfluenceofsocialtradition.3.2.2LovewegetshouldbebasedonthemutualrespectWhat’smore,themarriageofJanetellsusthatthelovewegetshouldbebasedonthemutualrespect,notdecidedbyeconomicandsocialstatus.That’sanecessarypreconditionalthoughpeoplearestillunabletobreakawayfromoldhabitsandideasinsuchabsolutismofsociety.TakeJaneandRochesterforexampleagain,whatattractsRochesterisnotherdressingorwealthandstatus,buthersoul,hertenacity,toughandoptimistictowardslife,hernatureandsoultouchhimmost.Eventhoughshewasbornofapoorfamily,heconcentratesonherdecencyandhonestyratherthanotherthings.Hecherishestheloveandshowsrespectforherandfallsinadeeplovewithher.WhatJanedidbreakintopiecesisthecommonbeliefwhichhastakenrootwithpeopleandsheisthirstingforthefruitfullovewhichreallytouchedherheart.Onlybygraspingthis,canwefindarealonewithgenuineloveandendupinhappiness.Whenyoutastethelove,youwillknowthatloveisbitter,sweet,sourandpungent.Thesameistrueofthosewhofallinlovewithothers.AstoJane,whenherheartisoccupiedbyRochester,shethrowsasideallfearandanxieties,freelyindulgesinthelovewhichbelongstoherandRochester,nottobeinfluencedbyothers,butfeelswarmandpleasedwiththeirordinarybutperpetuallove.Inthe19thcentury,itisnoteasyforpeopletomarryonewhoisone’sbeloved,becausemanythingsshouldbetakenintoconsideration,suchasone’sfamilybackground,wealthandsocialstatus,heorshewouldbemetwithasnubandbeartheunprecedentedpressurefromothers.Soadaptingtothesocietyandconventionmaybethewayforthemtobeabsolutelyacceptedbysociety.Unlikeothers,Janeletthingstaketheirowncourse,shedisaprovesofgivingintotherule,sheencouragesustolivemorefreely,moreactive,believingfreedomandequalitycouldchangeintotruelove.Withoutmutualrespectandunderstanding,everythingwillbenothing.Loveshouldbeequal,solemnandingoodearnest.Neithershouldfretovertriflesnorshowacynicalindifferencetowardslove,that’sthewaytokeepintouchwithtruelove.However,duetothepressure,theybehavegingerlyonthelovetheyshouldhaveasiftreadingonthinice,manypeoplearen’tabletomarryfreelybuttofollowtheruleofthesociety,whichhaslefttheminregrettotheendoftheirlives.3.2.3WhatisweighedbyhappinessThingsdonotalwaysturnoutasonewishes,that’sasayingtoooldtowarrantre-quoting.Contemporarysocietyhaswitnessedthedramaticchangeinwedlockofpeople,especiallywiththeyoungpeople,theynolongerbelievetheeverlastingloveandinsistontruelove,theyoverlookthevalueoflovebutprefermaterializedworld,nottomentionguardinghonesty,decencyandconscientiousnessowingtothefastdevelopmentofeconomyandinformationtechnology,whatisworse,theexclusiveconcernwithmoneymakesusallthemoregoafterwealthinagoodearnest.Moreover,thehighpriceofthehousingandinflationaddfueltotheflamesinmakingallofusconvincedthatthere’snothingelsetobefoundbutmoneyandfamewithwhichwearefascinated.Webegintogrumbleovereverything,wecallformoneymoreeagerthanever,wearelikelytobeconfinedtothewealthandneglecteverythingelseeventhetrueloveweshouldcherishandprotect.Unfortunately,weareinclinedtomarrymoneyratherthanarealperson.Wewouldeasilylosesenseofsafetyonceweloveanindividualwithoutmoney,graduallywearealmostcertainthatmoneyequalstohappiness,whichgovernseverything.Itisironicthatthedivorceratekeepshighandmorepeoplewouldratherremainsinglethantrustothers,moneyseemsnottobetherealsourceofhappiness,buttheevilofone’ssoul.Therefore,Jane’sstoryisalsobeneficialtouseventoday,whichnotonlyoffersmessageaboutwhatloveis,andtellsusthatmoneyisn’teverything.Asweknow,Jane’smarriageisnotbasedonmoney,butrealloveandaffection.AlthoughRochesterlosthiseyesightandhismansionturnedintoruins,shedidn’tcarebecauseshelovedhimforevernomatterhowpoorheis,eitherinhealthorwealth.WhatweknowmostfromJane’smarriageisthatmoneyandfameisnottheonlythingtobeweighedbyhappiness.Agreatfortunedoesn’tmeanthatoneistrulyhappywithouttroubleandagony,theymaybehauntedbyseriesofquarrels,problemscausedbymistrustandmisunderstandinginthemodernsociety.Thereforehonestyisthebaseonwhichtrustisformed,communicationisthemostefficientwaytodevelopeinpersonalrelation,especiallyinlove,whentwofallinlove,theyshouldcommunicateeverythingandnotkeepsecret.Perhapsintoday’sworld,noonewouldliketomarrysuchapersonwholosthiseyesandallofhisfortune,becauseonewillmakeupone’smindtoleaveduetohisdisablenesstoavoiddisturbancefromunknowntroubles.ButJaneisdifferent,sheconsidersthatloveisakindoflife,ifyoulovesomeone,youwillaccepteverythingwithhim,thebaseandthepremiseofgenuinelovearerespectandindependencebetweentwopersons.ThereasonwhyJanegainsthehappinessisthatshewassostubbornwithtruelove,whostronglybelievesthatloveshouldbebasedonmutualrespectandunderstanding.Wecanseethepointfromthefamousdialogue.“Jane,willyoumarryme?”“Yes,sir.”“Apoorblindman,whomyouwillhavetoleadaboutbythehand?”“Yes,sir.”“Acrippledman,twentyyearsolderthanyou,whomyouwillhavetowaiton?”“Yes,sir.”“Truly,Jane?”“Mosttruly,sir.”Becauseofthis,intheendJanemarriedamanwhotruelylovedandcherishedher.3.2.4MarriageinthecontemporarysocietyMarriageistheunionofamanandawomanwhomakeapermanentandexclusivecommitmenttoeachother,whichisnaturallyfulfilledbybearingandrearingchildrentogether.However,incontemporarysociety,therelationofthemarriagebecomesevenmoremoney-orientedandfragile,weknowthatmarriageshouldbetastedbitbybit,likeacupofbitterwine,evenoneshouldlearnthesenseofresponsibility,forgivenessandthankfulnessandtrust,oneshouldnevercarehowpoorheisorhowhesufferedinthepast.Duringone’slifejourney,onemightmeetwithonesetbackafteranother,hearingsarcasticremarksandgoingthroughoneobstacleafteranother.Onlybyexperiencingallthesecanonehitthelastlapandbeawinner.Thesameistrueofmarriage,inwhichinevitablyacouplemeetsonedifficultyafteranotheroncetheygetmarried.Theybegintocomplaintoeachotherandquarrelovertriflesandevenworsebreakapartforever.Whatapityitwouldbeifthetwodivorcesimplybecausesomethingisn’tperfectorideal.Butasweknow,Janeandherhusbandhavegonethroughmuchofthehardshipsanddifficulties,yetstrangetosee,themarriagebetweenthembecomesevenmoresteadyandsolid.Betrayal,aggression,andjustplaininsensitivity:canhurtourmarriageinamillionways,andwilldampenthelong-termdevelopmentofourmarriageandmakeusangryandtortuous.Therefore,mutualtrustandforgivenessshouldbethebestwayforustokeepahealthymarriage.Trustisthebedrockofeverymarriage.Amarriagedevoidoftrustwilldefinitelydisintegrate.Bepreparedtoshareyoursecrets,time,experiences,etcwithyourspouse.Anytimeyourspousebetraystheconfidenceyouhaveinhimorher,remembernohumanbeingisperfectandyouarealsoliabletodothesamething.Therefore,choosetoforgiveandavoidnaggingorusingthepastagainstyourpartnersincethatgivesanimpressionthatyoudonottrusthimorher.3.2.5BuildingtrustinthemarriageWeallknowthatJaneispoorbutaspiring,ofsmallbodybutwithagreatheart,obscurebutrespectable.Wearedeeplymovedbyhertenacity,toughness,confidence,independenceandoptimism,whichfilluswithdeepveneration.Wealladmireherandlearnstrongpointsfromher,suchasfacingchallengesbravely,persistenceregardlessofotherinfluentialfactors.Afterexp