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Unit1Persontoperson
Experiencetheworld
Listening1
Phil: Well,howdoyouthinkthepartywent?
Gloria: Ithinkitwentfine!Myfriendslikeyou!Youdidseemabitnervous,though.
Phil: Yeah,Iknow...yourArgentinianfriendsalwaysstandsoclose!Ikeptfeelinguncomfortableandwantingtomoveaway.ButIdidn’t,becauseIdidn’twanttoseemrude…
Gloria: Oh,youshouldn’tworrytoomuchaboutthat.TheyknowyouareBritish;theywouldn’thavebeenoffended!
Phil: Ihopenot!So,…doyoufeeluneasywhenwespendtimewithmyclosefriends?
Gloria: Well,Iactuallydofeelabitstrange…youBritskeepsomuchdistanceevenfromyourbestfriends!
Phil: Isupposeitmustseemabit…er,Idon’tknow…“cold”toyou?
Gloria: Well,alittlemaybe.Youknowhow,uh…whatdoyoucallit,hm…“touchy-feely”weArgentiniansare!
Phil: IthinkBritishpeopleandArgentiniansjusthaveverydifferentideasaboutpersonalspace.
Gloria: Definitely!Butwhydowehavesuchadifference?
Phil: Maybeithassomethingtodowiththeweather?Peoplefromhottercountriesdoseemtoexpresstheiremotionsmoreopenlyandbemorephysical,whilepeoplefromcoldercountriesaregenerallymoreprivateanddistant…
Gloria: Itmakessensetome!IwouldprobablyactlikethattooifIhadtoliveincoldplacesallthetime!
Listening2
Helloandwelcometo“Andy’sAdvice”.Asaprofessionalproblem-solver,oneofthemostcommonrequeststhatIreceivefromlistenersisaskingforhelpinrepairingrelationshipswithclosefriendsorfamilyaftermajorarguments.Sotoday,I’dliketosharesomekeystrategiestohelppeopleavoidgettingintothissituationinthefirstplace.
Myfirstpieceofadviceis“keepitcivilized”.Whenyoufindthetemperaturerisinginaconversation,remembernottoraiseyourvoiceorberude.Youwanttheargumenttoseemlikeafriendlyconversationfromtheoutside.
Secondly,“thinkbeforeyouspeak”.Youshouldrememberthatwordsarepowerful,andnoteasilyforgotten.So,don’tsaythingsyoumightregret.Also,alwaysavoidsayingthingslike“Youneverlisten!”or“Youalwaysdothis!”Thesekindsofthingsarerarelytrue,andjustmakepeopleevenangrier!
Thelastpieceofadvicecouldactuallyreplacealloftheothers‒“Listen!”Toresolveaconflict,youneedtoknowhowtheotherpersonfeels.Alwaysgiveotherpeoplerespectandshowthatyoucareaboutwhattheyhavetosay.Andit’snotenoughtojustpretendtolisten.Reallytakeinwhattheotherpersonsays.Youneverknow,youmightevenrealizethatyouwereinthewrong.
Understandtheworld
Listening1
Intoday’spodcast,IwillsharewithyouanunforgettableexperiencethatIhadduringmytriptoItaly.Itwasmorning,andIwashavingcoffeeinabarinNaples.Awell-dressedmanofabout80walkedinandordered“acoffeeandasuspendedcoffee”.Afewminuteslater,acouplecameinandordered“Fourcoffees,please.Twoforusandtwosuspended.”Icouldn’tunderstandwhatwashappening.Butamomentlater,amandressedindirtyoldclothescameinandasked,“Doyouhaveanysuspendedcoffees?”
Isuddenlyunderstood.Peoplewerepayingforanextracoffeesothatthosewhocouldn’taffordacupofcoffeecouldhaveoneforfree.
IlearnedlaterthatthistraditionhadbeguninNaples,butithasnowspreadallovertheworld.Insomeplacesyoucanordernotonlyasuspendedcoffee,butalsosuspendedsnacks,sandwichesandevenwholemeals!
Intoday’sfast-pacedsociety,peopleseemtohavelessandlesstimetocareforeachother.Socialbehaviorslikesuspendedcoffeehelpsolvethisproblem,aswellasmakingiteasierforpeopletoexpresstheirnaturalgenerosityandkindnesstoothers.
Bytheway,beforeIleftthebar,Ipaidforacoupleofsuspendedcoffeesmyself!
Viewing
Aliceworksatalocaldepartmentstore.
Shespendsmostofherdayinteractingwithcustomersandco-workers.
There’salotoftalkinginvolvedbutthere’salsoanotherformofnon-verbalcommunicationthat’sbeingusedjustasoften:bodylanguage.
Bodylanguageistheprocessofcommunicatingthroughnon-verbalsignals.Itincludesthingslikeourposture,facialexpressions,gesturesandmore.
Themeaningsoftheseallvaryfromculturetoculture,butweinstinctivelyreadbodylanguageandinterpretitassomeexpressionofmoods,feelingsorintentions.
So,inAlice’scase,evenbeforeshespeaks,shemaybecommunicatingallkindsofthingstocustomers.Forexample,ifherarmsarecrossedandshe’savoidingeyecontact,customersmaynotfindhertobeveryapproachable.
However,Alicecouldbeinafriendlymoodeventhoughherbodylanguagesuggestsotherwise,andthisisn’tnecessarilyaconsciouschoicethatshe’smade.Thiscouldjustbehowshehabituallypresentsherself.ButifAliceisawareofthesehabits,shecanworkonimprovingherbodylanguage.
Changingyourhabitscanbedifficult,butifyoutaketimetopauseandcheckinwithyourself,youcanstarttonoticethemandadjustthingstobecomeabetternon-verbalcommunicator.Thisawarenesscanalsobeappliedtoreadingothers’bodylanguage.
Let’ssayAlicenoticesthatherco-workerisunusuallyquiet,hashisbodyturnedawayfromherandisslouchedover.Shemaypickupthathe’supsetorthatthere’sanunspokenissueathand.DependingonAlice’srelationshipwithhim,shemaywanttogivehimsomespace,oraskifanything’swrong.
Beingawareofthevariousaspectsofbodylanguagecanmakeallthedifferenceinhowpeopleperceiveyou,andhowyouperceivethem.Beawareofhowyoupresentyourselfandyoucansayalotwithoutspeaking.
Listening2
Theage-oldsceneofChinesepeoplefightingtopaythebillinrestaurantsmaysoonbecomeathingofthepast,accordingtoarecentsurvey.Inasurveyaboutdininghabits,65percentofChinesepeopleunder30saidthattheyalmostalwayssplitthebillwhentheyeatoutwithfriends.Withpeopleover40,thatnumberdropstoonly25percent!
Thischangehassomethingtodowiththeincreasingpopularityofmobilephonepaymentapps.Theseappsallowcustomersto“goDutch”bysimplyscanningaQRcodeorsendingahongbaoontheirphones.Thisway,evenlargepartiescaneasilysplitthebill,andwon’tfeelawkwardtryingtoworkoutwhooweswhat.
TheideaofsplittingthebillisnewtomanyolderChinesepeople.Manyofthembelievethatpayingthebillisasignofhonorandrespect.Manyalsosaytheyfindituncomfortabletosplitthebill,andworryaboutlosingface.
However,withyoungpeoplethetrendisgettingmoreandmorepopular.Bysplittingthebill,theydon’thavetoworryaboutspendingbigmoneyeverytimetheyeatoutwithfriends.
Furtherlistening
Conversation
Tarika: Hey,Han.CanIaskyousomething?
Han: Sure.Whatisit?
Tarika: It’smyboss’birthdayonSundayandIdon’tknowwhattogether.Sinceyou’reSouthKorean,likeher,Ithoughtyoucouldhelp.
Han: I’mhappytohelp.ButifIwereyou,Iwouldprobablyconsiderherpersonalpreferencesfirst.
Tarika: Oh,Iagreewiththat.However,Istillwanttoavoidbreakinganytraditionalgift-givingrules…
Han: Well,youshouldtrytoavoidunluckynumbers.Forexample,inKorean,thenumber“four”soundslike“death”!
Tarika: Oh,right.InIndia,thenumber13isunlucky…So,doyouthinkchocolatesorflowersareagoodidea?
Han: Absolutely.Giftslikethataresimplebutclassy.However,Ithinkit’sevenbetterifitcanbeconnectedtoyourowncultureinsomeway.
Tarika: That’sagoodidea.IcouldbuyhersometraditionalIndiansweets.
Han: I’msureshe’dlovethat!Remember,colorscanbequiteimportant,too.InSouthKorea,weneverwrappresentsinwhiteorblack.
Tarika: OK,arethereanycolorstheyprefer?
Han: Yes,blueisapopularcolorinSouthKorea.
Tarika: Indiansweetswrappedinblue,then!
Passage1
Thisweekend,ZhangWei,aChineseAmericanlivinginSanFrancisco,ismeetinghistwobestfriendsforthefirsttime:Leila,aSouthAfricangeographyteacher,andColin,aChileanofficeworker.Thethreefriends“met”inanonlinegroupabouttheirfavoriteactor:BruceLee.TheyareinSanFranciscothisweekendforaBruceLeeConvention.
LeilabecameafanaftercatchingaBruceLeemovieonlate-nightTV.Withinweeks,shehadseenallofhismovies,butnoonearoundhersharedherpassion.
Colinwasaweakchild,whoseparentssignedhimupforakungfutrainingschool.There,histeachersintroducedhimtoBruceLee.ColinsaysthatBruceLeechangedhislife,inspiringhimtobecomefitterandhealthier.However,justlikeLeilainthecitywherehelivesnow,hehasn’tfoundanyoneelsewhoshareshispassion.
Althoughtheonlinefangrouphasmanymembers,Colin,LeilaandZhangWeiweredefinitelythemostdedicated.Almosteveryday,theygoonlinetochat,postBruceLeemovieclips,ortesteachotheronthesmallestofdetailsfromhismovies.Aftertwoyearsofbeingclosefriendsonline,theydecidedtomeetattheBruceLeeConvention.
Passage2
Goodafternoon,Ms.Watson.Goodafternoon,classmates.
Formytalktoday,Iampresentingtheresultsofmyrecentsurveyaboutthesocialrulesofinstantmessagingapps.
Iasked100studentswhatannoyedthemthemostwhenusingtheseapps.Herearemyfindings.
Seventy-eightofthe100respondentsreportedthatthethingthatannoysthemmostaboutusinginstantmessagingappsisreceivingvoicemessageswhileworking,intheclassroomoronpublictransport.Manypeoplecommentedthattheythinkvoicemessagessentinthemiddleofatextconversationareinconsiderate.
Accordingtoourresults,anotherthingtoavoiddoingiscallingpeopleforavideooraudiochatwithoutgivingthemnotice:Morethantwo-thirdsofrespondentsmentionedthatthesewerealmostalwaysunwelcome.Onerespondentcommented,“Iusuallyassumesomethingbadhashappenedwhensomeonecalls,sowhenIfindoutthatit’sjustforachat,Iusuallyfeelannoyed.”
Amongtheotherthingsthatamajorityofrespondentsfoundannoyingare:beingaddedintogroupswithoutbeingaskedfirst;andbeingsenttoomanylinks.
So,doyourbesttoavoiddoingthesethingsthatIhavementionedwhen
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