突然被外国友人表白咋整

M:oEnglishlearners!And etoEnglishPod!MynameisMalik.大家好，我是。A:M:LukeandIareheretodaywithaninterestinglessonaboutasituationabouthowtorejectaguywhenheapproachesyouandsayshemaylikeyou.一个对你有的男生。就是你突然被表白了，怎么办A:Well,thesituationislikesomeguysaidhelikesyouandmaybewannaaskyouout,butyouarenotparticularlyinterested.Soyouwannarejecthimwithouthurtinghim.M:Arejection,对你的男生。Whydon‟twelistentothedialoguewe‟llcomebackandexDIALOGUE,FIRSTHey,Jessie,Iwaswonderingmaybeifyou’dliketogooutwithmesometime,todinnerorsomething?Oh,I’msorry,I’mactuallydatingOh,Jim,JimYes,Jim,JimBhatt,Isn’thedatingOh,thatJim.ImeanJam?!HisnameisYeeeeah….Jam,jim,whatever.Sorry,Ijustdon’tseeyouthatway.Ihopewecanstillbefriends.Alright.IreallyappreciatethatyouactuallysayitLook,I’mhonoredthatyoulikeme.It’sreallynothing al.Ijustdon’tseeitthatway.Youareacool ,but….Yeah,cool.let’sjustbeOhnotaveryhappyendingthere.Beingrejectedsucks,likealways.勾搭妹子被Exactly,andsomanygirlshavetoconfessthatthey’vemademanymistakesinfriendzoingguys.Andthisiswherewearetoday,tolyouguys,especiallygirlsouttherehowtorejectaguyandwhatnottodo.是的，luke说很多因为friendzone一个男生，就是不对她有好感的今天在这里教给大家怎么去友好地、又不对方地去一个告白你的男Yeah,today’slessonisofverypracticaluse.Imean,wefeelhappytobelikedbysomeone.Butifyoudon’thavethesamefeelingtothatguy,youbettersayitout,otherwiseyoumightgivethemsomefalsetriedtomakeupastorybysayingsheisdatingJim.WhichtheguyeasilylitisnotThenthegirlisjustsayingitout.Shesaid“Sorry,Ijustdon’tseeyouthatway.Ihopewecanstillbefriends.”不好意思啊，我没有和你一样的这种感觉，我就是当朋友而已啊。Yeah,thathurtsaloooot,whenyouknowthatthegirlyoulikedoesn’treallylikeyouback.是的，你喜欢的不likeyouback，不喜欢你。ThatAndthenthegirltriestosmooththingsoverbysaying“Look,I’mhonoredthatyoulikeme.It’sreallynothing 她说，你喜欢我我很honored，非常荣幸，我你也是nothing 是针对你的.Sometimeswealsosaydon’ttakeit ally.意思就是，Thenthegirlsays“Ijustdon’tseeitthatway.Youareacool ,but….let’sjustbefriends.”butactually,thisiswherelukewantstosharesomethingmorewithus.Isstayingfriendsreallyagoodwaytorejectsomeone?Well,goodquestions,forsomegirls,youmaystopfriendzoningLukefriendzonehimfriend这个zone里面。如果你还是把他当做朋友，你会一直笑啊，对他微笑啊，这样他leadhimonsortof“引诱”她继续上钩。Ok,alsoNOTTODONo.2,linghim“Iwillnevereverwanttobeinarelationshipwithyou.Iamnotgoingtolikeyou”.Youdonotknowthat.YoucanNOTspeakforyourfutureself.对，你这么说的话，他会觉得自己的性格ality或者是人品有问题,虽然FALSEhope错误的信号。Andsincehelikesyou,youropinionwillbemega-valuedbyhim.mega-value超级重视你的看法。Sodon’tbeajerkbysayingthingslikethat.exactlythesamebeforeyoufindouthelikesyou.Yeah,你就正常表现就好。Youcanalsobetruetohimbysaying“Idonotlikeyouasmorethanafriendorjustsay“youknowyou’vebeenwantingtohangoutabunchandIjustwanttomakesurethatI‘mnotinterestedindatingyouandIseeyoujustasafriend”.“thereasonI’msayingthisisjustcuzlastyearthisguyslikedmeandIkindahurthimbynotbeingdirectaboutit.SoIwanttomakesurethatdoesn’thappenhere”.编造一个去年你因为没有直接说出来，了另的故事。Soifaguyreallycaresaboutyou,hewillrespectthatandchangehisactionsOk,that’sprettymuchit.Nowlet’slistentothedialogsecondtimetorefreshourmemoryaboutthatpoorguyswho’sbeenrejectedbythegirl.DIALOGUE,SECONDHey,Jessie,Iwaswonderingmaybeifyou’dliketogooutwithmesometime,todinnerorsomething?Oh,I’msorry,I’mactuallydatingOh,Jim,JimYes,Jim,JimBhatt,Isn’thedatingOh,thatJim.ImeanJam?!HisnameisYeeeeah….Jam,jim,whatever.Sorry,Ijustdon’tseeyouthatway.Ihopewecanstillbefriends.Alright.IreallyappreciatethatyouactuallysayitLook,I’mhonoredthatyoulikeme.It’sreallynothing al.Ijustdon’tseeitthatway.Youareacool ,but….Yeah,cool.let’sjustbeOk,it’salmostthetimewehavefortoday.Beforewrapuptoday’sepisode,Iwanttomakeitclearthatwesometimesdowanttoacceptsomeone’sliking